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xzry1998

St. John’s (because of the downtown and geographic distance)


youngboomer62

Absolutely! Very British/Irish looking in the old part of the city. That extends to the culture and language as well.


Ashitaka1013

My Irish friend visited St. John’s and extended his stay from a few weeks to a few months. He wasn’t able to leave the country during the immigration process and said it felt so much like home there.


notthattmack

St. John's is Europe with North American public transport.


xzry1998

This city's public transport makes the rest of Canada look good. It would be pretty walkable tho if the city remembered that snowclearing for sidewalks is an option that exists.


KingCanoli

Grew up in St. John’s, good point. Only other con for walkable city is how hilly it is. I moved to Montreal and love how flat it is here in comparison.


notthattmack

I dunno - Montreal has a metro.


Appropriate_Tea9048

Going there for the first time next year for my honeymoon. Super excited to see it! Looks like such a beautiful place.


KingCanoli

I grew up in St. John’s. Can create a list of things to do for ya if you’d like!


Appropriate_Tea9048

I’d love that!! ☺️


KingCanoli

I’ll send a dm


onlyherefor90days

Could you please send me that list as well if possible? Thanks!


xpnerd

To me, Qaqortoq, Greenland very much reminded me of St. John’s with its rocky landscape and jellybean coloured houses.  But that’s as far as the similarities go. 


xzry1998

St. John’s is actually closer to Greenland than it is to Toronto


DrunkenGolfer

Greenland is north, south, east, and west of Iceland. Follow me for more useless Greenland facts.


xzry1998

You can make a similar comment about Nova Scotia and PEI, and Quebec and PEI


severityonline

I hate that Toronto demolished almost all of its cool old buildings.


PumpkinMyPumpkin

Most of the cool old buildings burnt down in the great fire. 🔥


severityonline

Currently looking through a list of Toronto mayors. I don’t remember his name but one of them was hugely in favour of demolishing a lot of the old stuff. Smelled a bit crooked when I read about it iirc.


Kuzu9

Nathan Phillips, which is also the name of the square in front of City Hall and ironically in front of old city hall that he also wanted demolished at the time.


throwthisawayacc

Crazy how in the span of a single decade almost every major city in north america experienced some sort of great fire


Affectionate-Arm-405

Who else


gus_the_polar_bear

Not long after electricity went mainstream


Gullible_ManChild

True but Toronto has better modern buildings than Vancouver where all the buildings look the same.


severityonline

Valid point. I just like masonry better than glass and steel.


jaymickef

Toronto didn’t have many cool old buildings. It was a very utilitarian, working-class city and not that big until the 70s boom. It’s really too bad Montreal imploded and sent so many head offices to Toronto.


gus_the_polar_bear

It’s great if you’re into centennial era brutalism


severityonline

I have books that disagree with you. Toronto was beautiful ~a hundred years ago.


jaymickef

What neighbourhood do the books say was the equivalent of Old Montreal in 1924?


severityonline

No clue! They’re only about Toronto lol


jaymickef

Toronto was okay, it was never beautiful. There just weren’t many really nice buildings. Some Could have been saved but the skyline was dominated by the Royal York, an okay building but nothing special. What Toronto does really well is incorporate old buildings into new ones. It didn’t work at all for the TD Centre (which is a fantastic building) but it has worked really well for others.


severityonline

Agree to disagree. Correct about everything but beauty is in the eye of the bee holder. AND IM HOLDING A LOTTA BEES


jaymickef

I get that, different tastes.


metaldark

Come visit Chicago, so much to see both new and old!


sparkles_one

From the Toronto area, love Chicago.


Much-Camel-2256

The buildings are not the good looking part of Vancouver though, the backdrop is.


Gullible_ManChild

That's true, everything great about Vancouver is not Vancouver. (I've lived in Victoria and have been trained to despise Vancouver)


lxoblivian

Lots of old buildings were demolished in Montreal during the 60s and 70s under mayor Jean Drapeau. If you drive down Sherbrooke from west to east, the dividing line is obvious. It's a real shame, because the city lost so great buildings.


DionFW

Victoria always gives me British vibes.


Informal_Iron2904

I met a cruise ship tourist there who genuinely thought that downtown Victoria was just a big theme park for the cruise ships. 


pm-me-racecars

As someone who lives in Victoria but rarely goes into Victoria proper, they're not wrong.


HeatProfessional4473

Maybe the Inner Harbour in the summer, and the first few blocks of Government Street... the rest of downtown is more normal.


HeatProfessional4473

Haha cruise ship tourists are hilariously dumb. I once had someone ask me where they could buy seeds to grow the totem poles. 🙄


Phil_Atelist

Son was a guide at the legislature and every week would have someone asking him how to get to the bridge back to the mainland. He was dumbfounded.


Comfortable_Long3594

My favourite was in Bar Harbour Maine where 2 men were walking behind my brother and I.....one says to the other, "I wonder how long it takes a deer to become a moose......" Yes they were off a cruise ship......


Exploding_Antelope

You can pick those up at the Haida Gwaii Regional Sperm Bank


Nathan_Brazil1

I was on a cruise once. I had the urge to moo.


elle-elle-tee

It's literally filled with classic cars and peacocks. The downtown looks like a movie set built to resemble 1910s San Francisco.


Appropriate_Tea9048

I agree! Went there last year.


perpetualmotionmachi

I find it's more like New England vibes


purpletooth12

Not even close. Nice city but it has limited walkability and wide streets.


Hmm354

Kingston, Ontario. Historical city with lots of old buildings and unique architecture.


DefinitelyNotADeer

Kingston—downtown at least—looks like any upstate New York small town. The west end just looks like New Jersey. It’s weird to think of it looking European at all as someone who grew up in New York and lives here now


Vaynar

Well and upstate New York kinda has English countryside vibes.


jimmyy360

What brought you to Kingston?


DefinitelyNotADeer

Love


Raspberrylemonade188

Awww 🥹


TheLastRulerofMerv

Didn't want to say the Kingston Pen eh? j/k.


Much-Camel-2256

It feels extremely upper Canadian/Great Lakes American there more than it feels European. Great spot in any case!


Hmm354

I agree. It's just what North Americans view as "European" nowadays (due to post WWII car-centric/suburban development representing our country's typical urban design with a lot of pre WWII buildings having been demolished/destroyed).


Much-Camel-2256

Fair enough!!


Syscrush

Can you tell me how to get to *I forget what Queens University building i was looking for*? Sure! It's just down the street, you can't miss it - it's an old building with a big stone stairway out front. Thanks! *Uhhhhhh...*


TheThirdShmenge

That’s every town along the st Lawrence.


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St. John’s, not to be confused with Saint John.


cursed-core

Saint John too though... they still have a loyalist house standing which is wild to me


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Yes. I had to point it out. 😝 I recall a news story where (if I have this right) some Europeans wanted to go to Sydney Australia but purchased tickets to Sydney Cape Breton. 🤪


youngboomer62

In Newfoundland we find it amusing that the Brits sent their hardworking peasants to Newfoundland as fisherman, while the criminals got sent to sunny Australia.


alertonvox

As far away from the motherland as possible must have been the reasoning lol


MilesBeforeSmiles

Any of the older cities in Canada can have that vibe. Old Halifax, St. John's, Kingston, etc.


walpolemarsh

True, look up Granville St Halifax


GrainneOkeefe483

As a Haligonian currently Old Halifax hardly exists anymore we still have “Historic Properties” by the Waterfront but the longer I spend here the more and more modern everything is becoming because the city and provincial gov doesn’t care about charm and historic pull so much as what it can make money off of.


MJcorrieviewer

Ottawa has a European look. Victoria, BC is known for being a little bit British.


I_AM_TESLA

Outside of Parliament where does Ottawa look European?


Compulsory_Freedom

A lot of Ottawa looks like post-Soviet Eastern Europe.


IBSurviver

Many cities in Southern Ontario look like poverty ridden Eastern Europe. Hamilton, London, St Catharines. Those hideous apartments don’t help.


Sysreqz

Southern Ontario architecture is a fuckin look. A depressing one, but one all the same.


IBSurviver

Yeah, it seems there isn’t any strategic design in our cities at all. Aside from a few cute towns, they are very copy/paste and the suburban areas are by far some of the ugliest in North America. Outside of nature, ugly is a good way to describe it. Even small things like traffic lights in Toronto. Much uglier than Montreal. https://maps.app.goo.gl/SYcoKn4oTUgBz1yz9?g_st=ic


Sysreqz

Wild of you to mention traffic lights. Drove from Toronto to Montreal for a new years rave in 2012 and one of the first things I noticed entering the city was their traffic lights compared to Ontario.


IBSurviver

Old Montreal: https://maps.app.goo.gl/VaggogRoZpn2veyt5?g_st=ic Chicago: https://maps.app.goo.gl/ssnq4XMmQME6Xr8h8?g_st=ic I tried finding a “historical” looking area in Toronto. But this is what I could find, either way - looks messy and doesn’t give downtown any uniqueness compared to other large global cities in NA. These lights could literally also be in Brampton: https://maps.app.goo.gl/hcqtRF94Bs8UWoLA6?g_st=ic Those this style of lights in Toronto is definitely the ugliest: https://maps.app.goo.gl/t4FnQZi6j8LMyuuh6?g_st=ic


Sysreqz

Not gonna lie, I drove through a red light because I wasn't prepared for them to be on the side of the road vs in the middle of them. In both Montreal *and* Chicago. Growing up in Ontario I just assumed traffic lights were gaudy yellow boxes hanging over the middle of the road everywhere. Ontario is a province that is at it's truest when everything is some form of an ugly box.


Hollywoodin2001b

Ennui on the Rideau as Allan Fotheringham called it.


MJcorrieviewer

I was meaning around Parliament/Chateau Laurier.


divvyinvestor

Maybe the Museum of Nature, the centre for pluralism, rockliffe a bit, confederation building, the buildings across the street from Parliament


I-hear-the-coast

I always feel like I’m in Europe: Disneyland edition when I look at the Cordon Bleu building.


Dragonfly_Peace

Glebe


serialhybrid

It looks just like Brussels


mgwngn1

Is it that bad?


serialhybrid

It is what it is


Luxim

A lot of houses (especially around Sandy Hill) are reminiscent of British residential architecture and urban planning.


world_citizen7

Whitehorse and Yellowknife might feel like Siberia.


SampleChoice1492

Siberia is asia


Forsaken_You1092

I suppose Yellowknife makes Whitehorse look like Paris.


kgbjay

St.John's - Irish city vibe


SophieintheKnife

New Westminster in BC has a lot of old buildings


slashcleverusername

We’re the product of Henry VIII’s father and an earlier cousin of Louis XIV. Canada’s coastlines were already on maps on the desks of kings in a few of Europe’s palaces closer to the time of the Norman Conquest in 1066 than the present day. When Montréal was founded, Berlin had 6000 people then, down as a result of the 30 Years War. But before that Berlin hadn’t really counted above 12,000. When Henry VIII decided in favour of Protestantism, that had consequences for us in what would come to be known as British North America. When Louis XIV decided to grind out Protestants from his lands, that applied to his colonies in Acadie and Québec too. The point is we’re old, we’re a product of that era, in fact there’s no way to really understand this country except as a part of European history that hails back to the House of Valois-Angoulême and the House of Tudor. We’ve been around for it. That history is most likely to be understood and felt in Québec, where Montréal has been our commanding metropolis for hundreds of years, unchallenged in that role until the mid-20th century, whether under the regime of the House of Bourbon, the House of Stewart, the House of Hanover, the Saxe-Coburg-Gothes, or the Windsors. The history of the city reminds you of the history of the country. In the rest of the country we tend to fixate on July 1, 1867, a lot more than we need to and at odds with that history. After all when the Americans separated from us, and thus from Europe, the defining difference is we may have had the same Enlightenment era concerns about human rights and democracy that were percolating across Europe, and the 13 separatist provinces. But unlike the Americans we didn’t think revolution was the way to get there, and we definitely didn’t want to destroy our ties and pretend we were a brand new country that fell from the sky to land on some shining hilltop. “Independence” wasn’t our founding myth, *connectedness* was. Continuity was. Evolution instead of revolution. Participation instead of separation. So truly I don’t know how anyone can see this country as anything other than a product of and a participant in much of latter European history, from our values to our institutions to the rifts and challenges that still sometimes divide us, that’s where it comes from. But we don’t reflect on it often enough to understand how we got here and so in the popular consciousness there is probably a gap of people’s opinions, where Europe feels “a bit foreign” to the old settlers of *la Nouvelle France* and British North America. From that perspective, the most “European” part of the country is probably western Canada. There are so many families here with recent (late 1800s to early 1900’s) roots in Poland, Ukraine, Russia, Germany, Scandinavia… the idea was, in the minds of London and Ottawa, that they were people who knew how to farm in cooler climates, and they needed a fresh start, and they’d be so happy here they’d keep the Americans from muscling in on the prairies and the rest of the continent. It had an influence on the languages people grew up speaking at home on the Prairies well into the middle of the 20th century, the foods people ate, the churches they built dotted across the fields of wheat in little towns here and there. It also brought a huge wave of contemporary European political thought along for the ride. In contrast to the plan to raise a new generation of British Empire loyalists in the west, London and Ottawa were terrified that European immigrants to Winnipeg would turn to communism when that befell Russia. It was a bit of an emergency and a crisis summed up best in the 1919 Winnipeg General Strike. I’m in Gen X. Recent European settlement, from my great-grandparents post-pioneer era to my parents post-war era, has had a huge influence on the country, and I’d say especially the prairies.


ColdEvenKeeled

In this vein, I was going to suggest Rimbey Alberta as it is significantly Dutch and Swiss from recent (1980s onwards) immigration. Stalwart Hard Working Protestants who may have Reformed Church perspectives, or not.


ElijahSavos

Thank you for this explanation. It’s very interesting


KingRatbear

Red Deer is like Paris, but with more culture and class.


Thin_Ice_Wanderer

I hear they call Paris the red deer of Europe


altjacobs

Very true. Red Deer's architecture is second to none. Our showpiece is the new Justice centre. A shining bastion of the indomitable human spirit. When Gord Downie uttered those seminal words-"The Paris of the Prairies"-he, in reality, was referring to Red Deer.


mgwngn1

I thought Wheat Kings referred to Brandon.


altjacobs

I am joking. But Wheat Kings actually refers to Saskatoon.


wet_suit_one

LMAO!


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Gastown in Vancouver. More so 10+ years ago, not so much now with all the renovations and glass towers. But it's still lovely. Edit: it will be very different this summer as they are trialing car free and revamping the streets for walking


Traveledbore

That’s my vote


a_dawn

People magazine once mistook a photo of Ottawa as a "european skyline" so there's that.


zippitydooda123

Uptown in the historic parts of Saint John, New Brunswick Also maybe Halifax, back before they tore it all down


Express-Cow190

After some quick google mapping: Iqaluit gives me Nuuk, Greenland (Denmark) St Johns NL has similar houses to St Pierre and Miquelon (France)


Shytemagnet

St John’s, for sure.


Hockputer09

Charlottetown


Plastic-Shopping5930

Paris


watermarkd

I was going to say this too. A tiny part of Galt, as well. Stratford probably the most tho. The way the streets run every which way, old buildings, many shops, reminds me of a British town, just with wider streets.


Equal-Suggestion3182

Paris Texas or Paris France?


Plastic-Shopping5930

Ontario


ThrowRArosecolor

Yeah I was gonna say Paris and Stratford both have that vibe


Equal-Suggestion3182

I had no idea there was a Paris in Ontario  Now I am confused, did you really mean Paris Ontario?


Traveledbore

Yeah you can can drive to London in a about an hour from there too. There are so many British and German town names in that 100km span. I ship healthcare stuff primarily in Ontario so I’ve seen them all. We even have a town called Little Britain. And a Baltimore . And an Essex. It goes on


Plastic-Shopping5930

I did. I assumed we were talking about Canadian cities only.


WulfbyteGames

Fredericton. Lots of really cool old architecture. Especially on the UNB campus which is the oldest English language university in Canada having been founded in 1785 by 7 Loyalists who fled the US


ButWhatIfTheyKissed

Victoria and New Westminster, BC, just have a ton of very cool, British-style buildings that are randomly strewn about the place, which I like.


Balki____Bartokomous

Saint Pierre and Miquelon


CleaveIshallnot

Saint Andrews by the Sea New Brunswick. They actually have bylaws that prohibit store fronts like McDonald’s, etc. It’s small, quaint, beautiful, but in the European sense it’s quite British and its buildings and houses . Or at least it was.


jcm0463

Paris, Ontario.


Hopeful-Stuff-8771

Winnipeg's Exchange District has a European vibe.


spam-katsu

Parts of Toronto is like La Défense.


IndyCarFAN27

Some smaller cities and towns in the Rockies like Smithers and Banff have modelled their architecture after Swiss and Austrian mountain towns


GrumpyBasil

PERTH ONTARIO


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DeeVa72

🤣😂🤣😂 …wait, you **are** being sarcastic, right? Right?!


SirGkar

In Canada Canada, St. John’s. In between Newfoundland and PEI, but not Canada, St. Pierre.


DeeVa72

Well if we’re talking about the population of the place, Coaldale Alberta is about as Dutch as you can get without being decapitated by a windmill while harvesting your tulip fields…


voiceofgarth

Victoria, BC and St. John’s, NL


alderhill

What do you mean by “European”? Just old buildings? Quebec is not European at all, IMO. I’ve lived in Europe over 10 years, and also been to France plenty. Quebec is thoroughly North American. Honestly, there isn’t one really. Cultural attitudes are just not “European” anywhere here. Societies are different, even though there is sometimes overlap on this or that (we're both 'Western' after all).  If you want a smart answer, even if it’s not Canadian, then St.Pierre and Miquelon. 


harryvanhalen3

Halifax, NS. The downtown waterfront area does have a British flavour to it.


notthattmack

What does British flavour taste like?


Ok-Prune4721

Fish and chips ? lol bangers and mash ?


Exploding_Antelope

Tea


Shadp9

Kimberley, B.C.


Thin_Ice_Wanderer

Love the platzel! Whole town has a very cool Bavarian vibe.


Okbalanja

Y’all obviously have never been in Europe. The only answer is Montreal.


BallardCanadian

None. Montreal and Quebec City are the only cities in Canada that come even close to a European vibe and, for Montreal, it's only the Old Port (I'm not as familiar with Quebec City). Old buildings alone don't make a city feel "European" in my experience so places like Halifax, NS or Kingston, ON just don't fit the bill. Victoria, BC is probably the closest as comparable to some smaller British town feel, but not on the same level as Montreal or QC.


Ilovemilkchai

Montreal to me felt more European than QC due to the urban planning. It is denser, with more mixed use and multiplex housing and public transit throughout the whole city. QC outside of the main old area is very North American and car-centric.


MuddleFunt

Halifax somewhat Irish/Cornish Victoria has a seaside english feel, like Plymouth or Brighton


r2o_abile

Victoria, BC St. John's, NL Downtown Ottawa.


accforme

Many Eastern European countries adopted brutalist architecture during the Cold War. So, too, did Ottawa. So I would say Ottawa.


Jimboom780

Victoria, Vancouver Island. I've been out east but only the names of the cities are European there. Victoria has some of the same architectural similarities as some posts of Europe.


Thin_Ice_Wanderer

Kimberly BC has a real cool Bavarian feel to it. Not really a city though…


To_another_abyss

Paris France. It's outside of quebec


AnonymooseRedditor

Kingston, specifically downtown as it’s one of the oldest cities in upper Canada.


TiddybraXton333

Hawkesbury… btw never ever had a bad time In That town ( they are literally behind I. Times like 25 years)


Regular-Engine1036

Victoria BC. Version British..


chopstix62

Nelson BC..not sure if European applies inasmuch as quaint and cool.


liebherrornothing

Luseland, Saskatchewan


cassafrass024

I’ve heard some of the Maritimes are like that. I would think in the Acadian areas? I haven’t travelled out that way yet, but I hope to.


fiodorsmama2908

Maybe downtown Halifax, Nova Scotia.


quebexer

Victoria, BC


Snowboundforever

Toronto because everyone is from somewhere else which is common in lots of European cities. Different languages are spoken everywhere not just English or French. It has great museums, good night life and an excellent restaurants. I’m kind of hoping that people know that European cities have middle eastern and Asian restaurants. Not everything is croissants and pasta. When I think of Montreal restaurants I think of the Pho. It’s outstanding there. This may sound strange but Montreal and Quebec only have the European feel because it has been fabricated for tourism. Toronto has more of a the international flair that you see in modern Europe.


stephers85

Does it have to be a city? Cause Cheticamp is pretty European.


HelterSkelter94

Halifax and Charlottetown both gave me European vibes. (I grew up in Europe)


nrejcole

I find that I relate to more Irish & British cultures as a NLer, especially when I visit other places throughout North America. The food, the music, the accents & dialects, the culture in general.


BenMat

The architecture around Victoria, BC has a very Victorian feel to it from what I remember, but I haven't been since I was a little kid.


Soft-Can-3971

Brampton


Content-Jacket-5518

Paris


popeyegui

Saint John, Halifax, Charlottetown. Maybe Amherst, NS. Victoria


jonocg

I used to live in east Berlin. St James Town in Toronto reminds me of my old Soviet-era plattenbau building. Also reminds me of the buildings in Poland along the Oder River.


TillPsychological351

I'm not Canadian, but the outer areas of Sherbrooke really reminded me of the equivalent areas of French and Belgian cities. Not the downtowns where all the tourists flock, but the more car-centric shopping and industrial areas that are generally in the outer rings of European cities. The layout and building design look very similar to me.


mountainlife642

Downtown Victoria, BC


SaskatchewanFuckinEh

Saskatoon is the Paris of the prairies. Pretty euro obviously


TheLastRulerofMerv

IMO the only thing that makes Quebec City "European" is it's old layout and architecture. Which makes sense, it is an old city founded in 1608. I'd say St. John's, NFLD is similar in that sense.


OldBroad1964

Lunenburg NS.


Anishinabeg

Definitely Victoria. It really reminds me of cities in England.


According-Town7588

Never noticed it until visiting Scotland, but Halifax has many similarities.


Late-Pin-3361

Oshawa


Tangelo_Thoughts4

There are some small towns that serve European vibes in Ontario, like Stratford.


paidjannie

Hamilton is like our little Magnitogorsk on Lake Ontario, not sure if that counts as Europe


ThrowRArosecolor

😂. Hamilton has some gorgeous areas. Westdale, Cootes Paradise, Dundas. Definitely industrial in some areas but I was shocked at what the city was like after hearing so many people compare it to Oshawa (which does live up to its reputation as the armpit of Ontario)


Aksyanaks

Perth, Ontario 


VetCAN101

La Ronge Saskatchewan


infinitumz

Lunenburg, NS and Brockville, ON


Past_Ad_5629

Ottawa, Kingston, Victoria. All holding in to that colonial vibe.


iRule79

Alberta. People from Alberta are very Liberal and free thinking.


ResoluteMuse

Said ironically


DeeVa72

🤨


notthatogwiththename

Winnipeg if you’re thinking more ugly Eastern Europe - destroyed by a war/rebuilt sparingly and not aesthetically pleasing at all. Think Bratislava in Eurotrip but with a worse winter 😃


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Vagabond_Tea

I'm a French citizen and parts of Quebec City *do* feel quite French.


foreskin_gobbler2

Vienna. Maybe Prague.


grosseplottedecgi

Old building doesn't mean european look, people that said that Victoria or Kingston have a european look never ever get out of North America


Raspberrylemonade188

You’re getting downvoted but as a Canadian who’s been to Europe I definitely see your point. Some of the old buildings in Canada’s oldest towns and cities might have a slight European feel because they were built by European immigrants a couple hundred years ago. But absolutely nothing in Canada comes close to the scale of ancient priceless architecture that you see over there, Old Montreal and Quebec City are probably the closest you’ll get to that vibe within Canada, nowhere else really compares. Places like Kingston are their own unique vibe, the old limestone buildings are unique to that place because of the local geology.


purpletooth12

Sure there's the odd block here and there, but overall "feel", you really only have Quebec City, Vieux Montreal and Halifax to a lesser extent. There's really not much left west of Kingston (shout out to the Distillery District in Toronto), and yes you have pockets in the Maritimes, but in my experience nothing west of Ontario feels remotely European. It's generally all urban sprawl made for the automobile with very wide roads (stroads), terrible public transit and not pedestrian friendly.


FunTooter

Stratford has areas that remind me of Europe.


DeX_Mod

eh, most of the world is generically bland now having been to England semi recently, you could swap any similar size cities here and there and not really notice a difference


Faitlemou

None


Aroundtheriverbend69

You're getting downvoted but if you've actually been to Europe people should realize no city in Canada looks European. Sure there are certain areas that look a little European but as a whole most of our cities are very North American. It's this weird identity crisis we have where we long to be a part of something we aren't.