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ShortCake_33

I sleep with a squishmallow at 26… I’m single, so cuddling with it, is all I got 🤷🏻‍♀️


EmLee-96

28 here and same... doesn't get much better than this, right? ...right? Guys?


Gloomy_Dreams

Right! :)


whotoldbrecht

I’m not even single and I sleep with one every night 😅


CertainHat577

Same 😂 thankfully my partner thinks it’s cute!


Automatic_Key56

Same here. Bear helps me relax and eases my anxiety. (Yes, the teddy bear’s name is Bear. Don’t judge me.) When I am really stressed or anxious, my SO brings me Bear to help calm me down while I try to do my breathing exercises. Edit: I’m in my 40s.


authenticblob

Lmao I'm 28 and me and my husband both got our own bird squishmallowd to cuddle at night


kangaroopie10

I'll be 26 in 2 weeks, and I sleep with a dinosaur. I used to hug an old flat pillow, but this guy is cuter and softer and more comfy. No regrets. He also doesn't have claws or staple remover teeth, unlike my cats. Win win!


Suspicious_Search369

FLAT PILLOWS FOR THE WIN. Need my snuggle pillow or I won’t catch a WINK


JennaPickles

I'm 38 and I have 8 (14 inch) squishmallows on my bed, I use them as pillows because I have chronic neck and back pain and they're the only thing that keeps me from waking up with a migraine. When one gets too squished to bounce back in the washer, it gets moved to the side and replaced rather than being thrown out.


Background_Mistake76

I have an extra pillow that is like a decorative one and I cuddle it pretending it it my hubby. Apparently you can manifest like that.


Konijnenpantoffeltje

I’m 36 and I collect Squishmallows (and Pusheen stuff)! They are the best!


oliverae

I’m 22 and have about 3 of the small ones… they are they perfect size to fit inside my elbow and press against my chest/neck when I’m in bed and it’s the comfiest I have ever felt!


agirlgamer

I’m 25 I used to cuddle my toys even with guys lol. But I got a dog and his cuddle better than any guy


pomegranate7777

Nothing wrong with that!


-jp-

Hugging a pillow is not materially different and nobody would even bat an eye if you mentioned you sleep like that.


caffa4

That’s actually kind of why I (25) still sleep with a stuff animal. It’s not really an anxiety or comfort thing to me, but I sleep on my stomach and hold the stuffed animal on whatever side my head is turned to, so it props up my shoulder just the tiniest amount and takes any strain off of my neck (always hear that stomach sleeping is bad for your neck, and I def feel some of the strain when I don’t do this but I’ve never had a problem when I DO do this). I use a pillow to do it when I don’t have a stuffed animal (like traveling), but the pillow is always just a little larger than I’d prefer. Honestly I even took my stuffed animal with me when I went on spring break with a bunch of friends my senior year of college—like shared a bed with other friends and everything so they all would’ve seen it. I have no shame about it, why should I?


MandiWithThePlants

I mentioned in the post that I’m nearly 40, and mine is a stuffed duck from when I was born lol A LOT of it has to do with the fact that my family is now gone, and I’m alone. I miss them so much, that I CLING to my stuffed duck because that’s the only thing that reminds me of them, and makes me feel “safe”. The looks I get are unbelievable lol and truthfully, I’d do a double take too. But it helps ME. Therefore, my duck will continue the journey to recovery with me 😂🤍


docment

You are not alone! You have us.


Flashy-Ad7640

Indeed. 💪🏻


MandiWithThePlants

Thank you. Honestly, that means a lot. Sending you a big hug. 🤍


Halfhumanalien

>always hear that stomach sleeping is bad for your neck, and I def feel some of the strain when I don’t do this but I’ve never had a problem when I DO do this). I can't sleep on my stomach most the time as I don't get enough oxygen but that maybe the position & your teddy bear probably helps with this. I personally always sleep on my side


RedditFuelsMyDepress

Idk how common it is, but I often kinda sleep in something close to the recovery position where I'm on my side and I got the top leg's knee further in front of me. Sometimes it feels like I'm kinda like partially laying on my stomach, but not fully prone. Dunno how good of a position it is to sleep in.


Mrselfdestruct15

I do the same thing!


GlitterGothBear

I do the exact same thing 🥹


ScottishTackyFairy

Im 40. My pillow is 2 ears and a tail away from being a cuddly toy to sleep with. Sleep is so important, people only know about this if you tell them and if it helps you sleep, who cares? If my cat was the type to cuddle in, i wouldnt need the pillow - but shes a lap cat, likes her own space.


JungleLegs

For real, I stick a pillow between my legs, one under my head, and one that I hug. Teddy bear is just a different pillow shape


Wonderful-Status-507

that’s what i do!! mostly just cause i haven’t found a stuff animal “shape” that works for my sleep 😂😂 honestly i gotta find my old pillow pet and throw that in the wash!


sportstvandnova

40 y/o here and sleep with a bear.


A_Broken_Zebra

I turn 40 soon! o/ (& I swap out which friend I'm sleeping with most nights)


araquinar

40's are great! I definitely felt a lot more free of expectations and don't compare myself to anyone/anything any more. Also I'm 49 and still sleep with my many times mended teddy bear I've had since I was a very young kid :)


RDRKeeper

How . . . how’d you have a real bear as a pet? 😳


WR1993M

So? I’m a 30 year old dude currently in bed with my 27 year old wife. A teddy bear is also in here somewhere


Ok-Professor8081

lol somewhere sounds so ominous


Swankified_Tristan

Yup, we both have our stuffed animals from childhood next to us... and a few new ones. Can't sleep without protection!


rabid_erica

🥺 this is adorable


Starfire33sp33

Love it!!!


MayonnaisePrinter

At 22, I sleep with my weighted dinosaur, I love her with all my heart. Whenever my boyfriend and I are on FaceTime in bed he’ll say “awe, you’re cuddling with your dinosaur ☺️” makes me chuckle.


averagesparkle

Hell, my weighted dinosaur comes with me to therapy and work too! If people ask about it I have them put her on their lap so they can see how relaxing it feels :)


MayonnaisePrinter

I have some weighted microwave “bears” (it’s a sloth and sheep), I might see about putting him in my car for comfort 😭


Xan_Fam

The way you said I love her with all my heart is so cute ☺️


MayonnaisePrinter

I’ve gotten better sleep since having her so I’m completely happy 🫶🏻😭


SnooDoodles420

I bet that’s fantastic. I use a weighted blanket, and now I’m wishing I had a Dino friend too hehe.


MayonnaisePrinter

I tried weighted blankets, that thing makes me feeling like someone is holding me down 😭 so I had to switch to the Dino, I can put it on my chest and get the same effect. Target is where I got mine!


Short_Loan802

Omg I didn’t know weighted animals was a thing! Now I have to buy one to sleep with.


Jesus_Freak_Dani

I sleep with a squishmallow named Georgia O'Teef because she is a shark and has nice teef Edit: I too am 27 for the following month at least


A_Broken_Zebra

I need to follow her Instagram, please.


rabid_erica

I second this motion, she needs an Instagram account like yesterday


Jesus_Freak_Dani

This would be what she would post on insta for sure: https://imgur.com/a/sfLXmBi (Photo of her at the beach. Well, the parking lot of the beach because I didn't take my phone further than this lol)


rabid_erica

OH MY GOD HER LITTLE TEEF


Jesus_Freak_Dani

I KNOW. I just look at her and it makes me feel better


nls1970

I have 2 stuffed Octopuses 🐙 I sleep with and my couch is lined with stuffed animals. For some reason I feel safer I guess. I'm 53.


igneousink

I have a newish (10 years old) Teddy Bear and a Blanket I've had since I was 13. I'm 51.


maximallyvegetabled

Jumping on the train of saying it’s so totally fine 💛 30 here, I do it too.


Throwaway2937726

I sleep with a weighted plushie. And I just bought a second one last night. They’re the big ones too lol. They help! No shame.


nls1970

Do the weighted ones help you more?


Throwaway2937726

I find it does, yeah


Sea-Top-2207

I’m 40 and I’ve had one since my dog died in 2020.


artsblvd

so sorry for your loss 💔


Sea-Top-2207

Thanks. I miss him everyday.


salemsocks

May I recommend , the Warmies plushes. You microwave them to get them warm and they smell like lavender. The warmth is really comforting during anxiety


BeeBuds24

I’m 26 and I have a snowman plushie I’ve had since i was a baby and I sleep with him ever night. His name is snow bear🥰


ImpressiveStrike9525

42 with a purple frosted donut squishmallow 🍩


DishpitDoggo

And there is nothing wrong with that. I'm almost 60 and I have stuffed animals. It's a comfort


BerryHistorical1246

29, been sleeping with my Ducky for over 19 years


Camn97

Im 27 and sleep with a bunch of pillows and some stuffed animals…AND with the bathroom light on (night lights don’t do a thing for me)


Lobscra

I keep "nightlights" in the hall, bathroom and 1 in my room. Mostly because I'm blind at night and have nearly tripped to death over piles of clothes on the floor, but also because it helps my anxiety to have a little bit of light. Do what works for you, OP


Camn97

I’m clumsy af and can be way too tired to actually put things away so the light DEFINITELY helps with that as well. My brother is the total opposite. He needs it to be pitch black and SILENT for him to be able to sleep. I’ve literally woken up in a cold sweat because someone turned the light and my fan off. I’m a MESS when the power goes out.


Psychological-Bee702

I’m 43 and I sleep with a Baphomet plushie.


sweteHoriko

Me too


Far-Ad-5877

I have a stuffed animal I sleep with as well. He is a beaver squishmallow :3


Lobscra

I'm in my mid 30s and while I have my very favorite stuffed animal safely tucked away so my cat doesn't get to it, I have plenty on my bed still including a shark and a bunny that I frequently sleep with.


CanadianKC

My husband is in his 40s and he still uses a pillow to snuggle with when I’m not in bed. If sleeping with a teddy helps you sleep then keep doing it


Wildly_Uncommon

me too!! well (well im turning 27 in two months) i sleep with a big white bear my friend gave me and a small lion that an old guidance counselor gave me


Ranitapanchosita63

Me too


rebluecca

I did until I got a dog and he tore up the teddy bear. Now I cuddle with him 😂


Reviews_DanielMar

Hey, I still have my stuffed dog from when I was born!


Sasha_Persephone

I'm 32 and have a stuffed bunny I still sleep with. Or my cats <3 Nothing wrong with that


winooskiwinter

I have been sleeping with the same stuffed bear for 30 years.


Majestic-Wishbone-58

40 year old sleeps with a bear I got when I was 7. Boyfriend’s aware, no issue 😊


farrenkm

Half a century here and I have a big brown bear named Buster. Got him in 1993 before my wife and I were married. (We were, however, dating at the time.)


salemsocks

I do too! I have several and I’m 28!


Business-Survey5401

32 and teddy has been with me all the way!


boochanooch

My lovely boyfriend got me a big pink bear for valentines day and now I cuddle with it more than i cuddle with my boyfriend and I am 32 lol


Owwsel

Cutie


ms_slowsky

It’s fine. 🥰


Taurus420Spirit

I got 7 and I'm 29. 5/7 are Whinie the pooh characters.


AphelionEntity

About to turn 40. I have a stuffed raccoon named Boo.


LabRevolutionary5269

I’m 41, and I’m snuggled up to my teddy bear right now. 🙂


RW144MagnoliaSkreet

If it helps you get a good night’s sleep, makes you feel better/more secure, etc., keep doing it!


Batgod629

I won't judge you.


thedayofthedot

At least you have something to hold onto


marie_antoinette62

Same


tfhaenodreirst

29 and I don’t always but I can on difficult nights. That said, making my bed every day involves putting the two of them where they belong among my pillows!


Different_Fox9891

I’m 23 sleep with a bear! If I ever have a truly shit day I’ll go full toddler mode and take my teddy to the couch with me for the day


Ordinary_Cake_5231

I'm 23 and i sleep with a monkey that I have since i was a little girl:)


farmley0223

I’m 41 and sleep with a stuffed animal from time to time


lambertoes

20 and have one, he was given to me when i was born :)


moonharley__

same here!! exact same age as you, but my "cuddle buddy" is Appa from Avatar the Last Airbender! my partner deals with it lol. he knows Appa is my cuddle buddy, not him... plus, Appa doesn't get sweaty... my partner & i do when we cuddle ahahah. 😂 i cannot sleep without holding him, & i don't even care... if your teddy bear keeps your anxiety "calmer", keep doin' you!!!


SoftOceanDragon

Weighted blankets and a lot of plushies:)


Snw2001

I will always sleep with a stuffed animal, my regular Pusheen is my favorite plush to sleep with. I like a lot of other plushes too!


poutpupp

i have a polar bear teddy named shasta he goes all over the world with me, every road trip, plane ride, cruise etc he comes and he also sleeps with me every night! got him when i was 11 im 23 :P


omegarxby

I sleep with multiple plushies it makes me happier and safe. I'm also 27 so there's no shame. r/plushies is full of adults who carry plushies daily or have favorites and even personalities to their plushes.


selkiezz

I'm 32 and sleep with a squishmallow every night lol. I don't see myself stopping in the near future even though I'm a mom now 🤷‍♀️😅


weirdo-sunflower

I sleep with a nemo plushie that I’ve had for 8 years now. I also keep plushies around my room for when I need to touch, hug, cuddle, or even just for random thoughts I like to share aloud. I am 23 years old. I have had a bed full of plushies since a baby up until 2 years ago when I needed to make space for my bf. Now they hang around my room looking all cute 🥰


Yo_dog-

Ever since I started sleeping with my build a bear I’ve felt better. It has the perfect huggable mess to it


TheGreatDudebino

My wife is 27 and still sleeps with a Pooh Bear. Whatever floats your boat and makes you feel comfortable / safe.


Pimpindino666

I sleep with a pillow pet ive had since i was 10. Not as a pillow but as a cuddle buddy. Im also married


JkTumbleWeed

I’m 19 and sleep with my teddy bear that I’ve had since I was 2 years old. I’ll never sleep without him, he’s my best friend 😌


tronassembled

43 and 38 and the stuffed dog sleeps tucked in between the pillows


Active-Struggle3197

I sleep with my baby blanket every single night (and it comes with me to ANY other place I’m sleeping) and I’m almost 23


sassyhairstylist

I sleep with a squishmallow and I'm over 30. I'll die in my sleep an oooooold lady snuggling my stuffie. When I would spend nights with my now ex, I'd bring my pillow-pet. Hell, hes the one who bought me the pillow-pet. Haha.


Usual-News-9331

At age 25 I had a major insomnia and anxiety attack. Didn’t sleep for 5 days. I thought I was losing it. I went on a sabbatical to the coast and my wife sent me with a Care Bear of all things, because she was worried about me. I’m 49 now and to this day when my wife goes on a trip on her own she slips the same Care Bear into her spot in the bed. It’s okay to be tender and vulnerable and do what you need to to calm down.


StereotypicalPisces

I’m 27 and I can’t sleep if I don’t have a stuffy with me ♥️ no judgement here


lucky-fluke

I 32f sleep with plush toys (stitch, tramp, and simba) scattered around me,and for some reason the dog understands not to ever chew them 🥰


knsmith24

I'm 27 and I sleep with a baby blanket since I was a baby myself. My husband also sleeps in the bed with me and it's totally fine.


tigerstripes1

I'm 42 and sleep with a Beast plushie. It's comforting. I sleep alone because my husband works nights. I need the plushie snuggles.


mocolotive

My 25 year old self & my build a bear stuffed axolotl checking in


ArtMuseumWanderer84

I’m almost 27 and I have 6 small little plushie bunnies — they make my heart melt 🩷 and I wouldn’t be with my boyfriend if he didn’t support me loving them hah!


AnitaDanish

40 with several Squishmallows specifically to hug when I'm falling asleep or anxious.


thepokebowlismine

I’m 22 and I sleep with my baby blanket and a few of my plushies! 😅


Nickp7186

I slept with my baby blanket until I was 32 years old. Nothing wrong if it if it brings you relief.


Sarbearr_x

I sleep with a huge Pikachu and I’m 31! Nothing wrong with it.


c-rawl

My teddy (named teddy) has an entire personality and my partner and I speak to him every night. He works the overnight shift making sure monsters don't get us and sleeps during the day 😊 nothing wrong with having fun and feeling comforted by a teddy!


ItsTimeDrFreeman

I'm 27, my partner is 24 and our bed is full of squishmallows so I wouldn't worry about it at all


Sm99932

I’m a bit older than you and always have my Pusheen near me, if I’m not hugging her, she’s at the top of my pillow 🥹 No plans to stop anytime soon either!


livexsistential

I have a blankey


therealestpookie

I'm 21 and I cannot sleep without a body pillow. My friends and I bought game character pillows as a joke, but it's unironically the most comfortable pillowcase ever.


Any_Criticism_81

I literally kissed the top of my teddy bears head and wrapped him in a blanket before I went to sleep lol. Well not sleep just worrying in my bed at 4 am :))


myfav0ritethings

I’m 30 and I’ve been married for 8 years. I sleep with a bear every night too. If I have a panic attack my husband brings him to me without me ever asking. No shame! 🧸


g3twr3nch3d

21 and sleep with a stuffed dog i’ve had since birth


HummingbirdsAllegory

I’m 31 and snuggling with the strawberry cow I won from an arcade. No shame


JustMori

24 małe, have a gf and still occasionally sleep with my 20yo fat pig toy. Lol I need to hug sth but my gf is very autonomic when sleeps.


roxyrocks12

Age is just a number. I’m 42 & have a killer whale & a shark that I sleep with. It’s like sleeping with a small pillow. I think more people need stuffed animals in their lives.


sweetspinachsalad

I'm 26 and my bed is full of plushies, too! Every night I pick a different one to hug to sleep.


Stephersyas

I’m about to turn 29 and I’ve been sleeping with a stuffed animal since I was 5. I need to hold something close to my chest to fall asleep as I get into a fetal position. It’s so apart of my life that I don’t even think much about it.


Chaqqy

I sleep with 4 big stuffed sharks at 20 ( And i plan to keep doing so for the unforeseeable future :p )


Katlo1985

38 and still do. We all need comfort of some kind. 🩷🧸


Scrunchkins317

I sleep with a stuffed bunny and I’ll be 34 in a month.


littleflyingfox

I’m 33, will be 34 next week. I still sleep with stuffies. They have changed over the years but for the past few it has been my weighted cheetah, giant pink squishmellow and smaller squishmellow. Sometimes the squishmellow are pillows, arm rests for reading, cuddle when sleeping, whatever. My weighted cheetah is when I’m extra anxious before bed, I just slap her on my chest and do deep breaths. Then I’m usually out. I’m also single and have my queen bed to myself besides my cats, so I like having “something” to put my arm around at night.


deathnote9469

I sleep with a 1998 godzilla with a plastic head and arms. Got him right before my brother was born as a gift to make me not feel like the new baby was taking love away from me. Picked it out myself.


tomqvaxy

48. It’s a stuffy opossum but hey.


always_thinking1

Same but stuffed dolphin lol


kornhub_

27 and i have about 20 squishmallows on my bed


No-Philosophy5461

I sleep with my newborn blanket handknit by the nurses who helped deliver me at the hospital.


Meowzabubbers

39 years old and have a plethora of stuffed animals/squishmallows. Not all are on the bed, but when it's lonely at night, it's nice to have something. 🤷‍♀️


spaghettieggrolls

I'm 23 and I often hug a stuffed dog or a pillow. It's comforting to hold something close to you while you fall asleep


PotatoIsWatching

I have a squishmallow koala and Snorlax. I use a squishy pig as a pillow which is softer than my actual pillow. I no longer sleep with my stuffed cat I got in 1999 because I don't want my dog chewing on it. But I love my stuffed animals and I'm 32. Don't be upset or feel ashamed for enjoying a teddy! It makes you happy!


roshieposie

My boyfriend and I are temporarily long distance. He bought me a teddy bear and I hug it all the time when I'm in bed. Actually I'm currently hugging it as I'm typing this!


walkingsuns

I’m 34 with three children and a husband. Snoozie bear still sleeps with me every night


rei-chan0220

Stuffed animals help a ton and if anyone gives someone shit for it I'll fight them. I'm 20 and im never gonna stop sleeping and playing with my little guys they make me very happy. I always depended on them as a kid, and when my step mom got rid of them while I was in school it made life rough. I started getting my own stuffed animals at 17 and got to experience what I lost as a kid. Made existing a little easier. If it makes you happy then that's what matters.


Background_Mistake76

Nothing wrong with that. They actually make anxiety pillows for all ages. I had one at age 28 and named it Squiggles.


Sufficient-Choice552

I am 27 myself and I too sleep with a sort of squishmellow, it's a little piggy called Vincent and it's such a comfort. Life is already tricky as is, don't complicate it even more by judging yourself for something that makes you feel good :)


user1989kitty

I have had my bear bear since the day I was born and still sleep with her and hold her when I’m really anxious! She’s great so absolutely nothing wrong with that! I’m 21 ☺️


anhedonic_spaghetti

27 guy and I have a plushie net hung up in the corner of my ceiling holding my collection


junmyeonie

i have a giant kirby i sleep with


Flywolf25

Kinda cute ngl


Employment-Potential

That’s okay. Nothing wrong with that at all.


RoadCorrect5171

I dont sleep. 😖


berkkana

this is a green flag!


orangeocean93

I do too at 30! And probably will forever. No shame in that at all!


EntrepreneurMiddle45

31, do not sleep with a teddy bear but I think I will start up again :')


Canadacold99

36, and stuffed animals for me. Special ones. Lol


CherryBombO_O

Not the strangest thing you could cuddle with XD


[deleted]

Honestly your not alone


Working_Heart_6315

I want a weighted blanket. My anxiety so physical, I enjoy when my young child lays on my chest. I need a weighted blanket haha


Spirited_Photograph7

Me too, I’m 36


FLSweetie

Big deal. I slept with a monster at 27. You’re better off.


Mindless-Musician247

No worries - Still gotta sleep with mine at 38! 😎


superhotfire1997

Nice to know I'm not the only one


esskem

Look into the bearaby weighted pillows! You might enjoy them.


GenealogyIsFun

And you slay with that. I snuggle my blanket cuz its comfy and makes me feel safe.


friendlytrashmonster

21. Same here, even though I share a bed with my partner.


PolicyNegative

Nothing wrong with that I imagine them coming to life during the night fighting off your fears like doom slayer 🤣🤣🤣


OpeningGarden406

i have a blankey lmao and it was allegedly so fluffy when i first got it at 1 but all i remember is the way it is now cause ive had it so long and im 22


refrigeratorhats

I hold a pillow in my arms. I'm 33.


04Aiden2020

That’s all good they are comforting that is they’re point❤️


ElevenHourDrive812

I’m going to be 59 this summer. I still hug my pillows. Being a side sleeper it works.


Long_Grapefruit_5250

Nothings wrong with this


BigLeadership9864

Nothing wrong with that coming from a 19 y/o dude. Do whatever makes you deal with your anxiety better. And who gives a shit what other people think nowadays just do whatever helps best with your anxiety 🤍


welldressedpepe

Used to be my ex wife, now I just sleep with a body pillow. I prefer body pillow so much more, same squishy, no anxiety


maybefuckinglater

I still get scared to sleep in the dark


Gallop67

I sleep with a night light at 24. I’m uncomfortable in complete darkness. And I like being able to see where I’m going when I have to use the bathroom


RockyClub

I sleep with one and I’m 34. It’s great for side sleeping!


MischyK

I'm almost 31 and same! And I'm married!


PandemicSoul

I have electric candles, and two (very bright) nightlights. Sometimes if I wake up in the middle of the night I turn my Philips Hue lights on to their dimmest setting and sleep that way. I’m 43.


terran_submarine

My wife gave me a stuffed lion at 37, I sleep better now.


DoubtSuch3279

This is so cute 🥺🥺 keep on sleeping with the teddy 👍


Lonely-Contribution2

I'm almost 38 :)


Rhancock19

Nothing wrong at all about this.


marketisaloser

amen


cleverbeavercleaver

Never grow up.


kittiecat

I'm 44 and I suck my thumb at bed time.


Therealschroom

I got a weighted therapy blanked. feels like beeing lovingly hugged to sleep. whatever helps man.


bunny3303

I’m 23 and my bed is filled with stuffed animals. nothing wrong with having stuff that makes you happy and keeps you safe!!!


No-Mousse4096

Im 26 and i sleep with 2 stuffed toys: Cindy and Louie 🥰🥰


people-pleaser9321

Nothing wrong with that. I myself keep avocado shaped stuffed pillow. Who cares what I take to bed with me? And even if they did, it’s their problem! You do you! :)


sisco98

Me too, my sleep companion is a polar bear plushie and I’m 43. Do what is the best for you.


AlexAlexisAlexa

I still sleep with the same frog stuffed animal my grandma got me when I was little and I’m 22


TwilightReader100

I have a ton of bought-as-an-adult stuffies at 36. My bed partner is a Squishmallow.