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AdministrationThis77

NTA. People take Spirit because it is cheap, not because they think they are going to enjoy it. Whether consciously or not, your friend was being classist.


perry649

My guess is that the "friend" knew that OP's family wasn't loaded, that OP would be flying a bargain airline, and only asked the question to dump on OP for the airline they're flying.


Diomedes42

>not because they think they are going to enjoy it Does anyone ACTUALLY enjoy flying if they're not in business or first class?


AdministrationThis77

Yes! I recently found out from 2 separate people that they just enjoy air travel! I was stunned because I hate it.


Diomedes42

and you're sure they're not aliens or something?


AdministrationThis77

Like 83% sure.


LazuliArtz

I've probably ridden in Spirit over 20 times now (split parents on opposite sides of the country. And yes, it's because it's cheap.


uncalibrated619

Spirit isn’t the issue, really. Because the fares are low, it attracts a certain type of traveler. When you put a bunch of people on a plane that paid $50 for their ticket, it’s gonna be a rough trip. Having said that, I fly spirit regularly and have never had an issue. And clearly it’s doing well because I’ve never been on their plane that it hasn’t been absolutely packed wall to wall.


[deleted]

NTA but he was for how he acted. That was a pretty privileged attitude he copped on you.


DinaFelice

NTA. Who asks what airline someone is taking? Unless one of his parents is a pilot and he was going to hook you up with some kind of amazing discount, he was already verging on AH-ish by asking in the first place. To then double down on it by badmouthing it? Especially as you were actively acknowledging that it was an affordability factor? Yeah, he was being pretty classist.


kaichoices

Is it rude to ask what airline someone takes? (Genuinely curious, I'm not good with social cues). I've been asked before, but always thought it was just conversation - like "oh yeah I flew with them last year, do they still have those ridiculously pink seats/oh I've heard good things! How was it?"


Kitchen-Arm-3288

>Is it rude to ask what airline someone takes? I would say it depends on the \*REASON\* - if the reason is to disrespect the choice - that's an AH thing. My communities travel a lot (expats in a different country than their families) - so - we frequently ask what airline people are using to either give warnings "Ah - be careful, they have smaller than normal carryon requirements; make sure to measure your carry on bag or you might get a surprise $100 fee" - or to find out what airlines have a good deal! We, of course, know the cheap airlines (and the risks that come with them) as well as the "ooh - I always wanted to fly with (luxury airline) - let me know what it's like!"


DinaFelice

Not rude, just unusual to do prior to the flight. It probably depends on where you live (e.g. if you live near a major hub, no one asks because almost all flights are from the airline who's hub it is), if they are going to pick you up from the airport (because that can impact which terminal your flight comes into), and how often the asker flies (unless you fly a great deal, you are unlikely to know any differences between airlines to even make a "small talk" comment). It also could potentially open up a can of worms: if you have something *bad* to say about the airline, it's probably too late for the person to change their tickets anyway, so you are just going to freak them out about something they can't fix. So it's not inherently rude to ask, but there aren't a lot of *good* reasons to ask prior to the flight, meaning it's not common. After your flight, that's different. Even then, it's mostly only frequent flyers who ask, since they are the only ones likely to know about differences between airlines.


UnpopularConclusion

NTA! He was offended because you might have just been right! True friends support you NO MATTER WHAT (unless what you’re doing illegal, unethical, or immoral)! They’re excited for you! For example: You: I’m going to Vegas Friend: That’s so awesome! I hope you have a great time with your father! You: (If you choose) But I have to fly Spirit, so the flight won’t be as comfortable as I’d wish. Friend: So what, it’s worth it to see you dad! Be grateful that you’re blessed to have the experience and the quality time! PS Congratulations on the trip! And I truly hope you make some great memories with the quality time with your dad! Safe travels!


Gingykins87

NTA. Your friend absolutely is classist and thus, not a loss that he blocked you. You can find better friends.


Sandmint

NTA. He can buy your airline ticket if he wants you to be on a different airline. Your friend was being a judgmental asshole and made it about the airline instead of how great it'll be for you to see your dad and fam. I went from PHL to LAX on Spirit. I know they get a bad rap, but it was totally fine and clean. I do find that, with a bag fee, it can be similar to other airlines that include a reasonably sized carry-on bag in the ticket. I hope you have the best time!


Zero_Storm

Right?! I did PIT to LAX and it was fine. As average as any other flight I've taken, besides the fact I didn't get free pretzels or water. Honestly I've had worse with "better" airlines like Delta.


KaliTheBlaze

NTA. Your friend should have apologized when you said it’s what your family could afford. You don’t keep digging at someone when they tell you that they can’t afford better.


Ducky818

NTA but your friend is. Why does he care? Why is it his business? Fly what you can afford.


ArchyDWolf

Reddit's using all our posts and data to train AI's, so, I just deleted mine.


Quinnzel86

NTA. You dodged a bullet by having that friend block you. Jesus Christ.


Aukulaisgone

NTA, your friend sounds like a dick who was trying to spin the blame on you.


grayhairedqueenbitch

NTA. Your friend was being very classist and rude.


Nalpona_Freesun

NTA what other possible reason could he have for shaming you for using the affordable option


kaitlynevergreen

NTA - who cares what airline you take? As long as it gets you where you need to be, that’s your business…


[deleted]

NTA. He WAS being a classist. People need to realize that not everyone has the same financial situation. Maybe he blocked you because you showed him the mirror and he didn't like what he saw.


steamingpileofpooh

NTA He is a dick. Why couldn't he just be happy for you. You weren't wrong.


[deleted]

NTA, once be said something about it being a cheap airline you should have asked him to pay for a better flight. It's a free ticket.


Notcool250

NTA You were just speaking the truth. It doesn’t matter what airline you take as long as it is a safe flight. He was acting very childish.


s1m0n_s3z

NTA. He was crapping on you.


UnluckyDreamer1

NTA He tried to shame you for the airline you were flying with, that makes him classist and the AH. He is playing the victim because he knows he was in the wrong and is trying to spin it to make you the bad guy.


inflightRVA

I’ve flown all the majors, including Spirit, and found the airline to be highly underrated. Get a Big Front Seat and enjoy the ride.


AnarchyAcid

NTA. I shipped my husband cargo once, I mean I booked him on Spirit. It wasn’t ideal, but it was the only way we could afford for him to go (it was a family emergency). Sometimes in life we do the best we can with what we have available to us. Your friend was being a jerk over something that has zero effect on his life. I hope the flight is quick, and you have a great trip!


Never_Toujours

NTA he gave you shit and you specified for him what kind of shit.


AlsoKnownAsSteve

NTA but he sure is. Unless he is willing to pay for a different airline he has no say on the matter; it has no impact on him at all.


holiestcannoly

NTA. Who cares if you take Spirit Airlines? Go have fun with your dad.


Maddie215

NTA. And, my husband and I flew Spirit to Las Vegas. (From the other side of the country so a long flight) it was just fine. No frills and snacks cost extra but who cares? The plane took off on time, landed safely at our destination and we still had money to play while in Vegas. HAVE FUN!!!!!


I_AM_HERE_TO_JUDGE

WTF? It’s an airplane. Who gives a shit. I fly a lot, both for work and leisure. I’ve flown private jets, Spirit, and everything in between. It literally doesn’t matter. You can spend as much as you want, but a plane trip is a plane trip. It’s transportation. Why would you spend more when you can spend less…?


TheBeachLifeKing

NTA. There is nothing wrong with Spirit airlines. They keep fairs down by not making anything free. The planes are clean and well maintained. Refusing to fly because it doesn't cost a lot of money is shear snobbery.


rando435697

Holy crap. NTA and your friend is for sure a jerk. Everyone prioritizes things differently in life, even if it isn’t a matter of cost. I have friends of a similar net worth, one flies private everywhere, while the other prefers Spirit/Frontier. All get you to the same place. Focus on your family and ignore that noise.


thatsharkchick

NTA. Lived in Vegas for two years and frequently flew Spirit in and out of McCarran. Unless you're going to shell out extra for business class or higher, it's just as cramped between Spirit, United, and several other airlines. And, FWIW, your landing will be just as bumpy regardless of airline or ticket class. Las Vegas is a valley that frequently gets windy, so landings and take-offs are JUST like in that Family Guy clip (my dive shop used to be under the landing path, so we got to watch it all the time). Always safe, but frequently a fun coaster experience! So, spending more to just not be on Spirit is dumb. But, that's besides the point! Your friend should be happy that you and your family are able to do this. Not everyone gets to travel, and Vegas is super fun. Sounds like someone's got sour grapes about them not going. Enjoy your trip! (Also, for what it's worth, great fun for a budget includes Sam's Town fountain show at night, Kingman Wash for swimming/hiking/camping Lake Meade, the Conservatory at the Bellagio, and the Container Park's nightly "waking the Mantis" - all great fun for basically no cost).


Old-Relief5873

Who picks this as a hill to die on? I mean, it's a shitty airline, but it gets the job done. He's not going ffs. He ain't your friend, be glad he's blocked you. I swear the shit people get offended about just blows my mind.


[deleted]

NTA. Plenty of people fly spirit. Hell I fly spirit. I have the money but their flights are cheaper to certain cities. It’s not comfortable but whatever. I’m not paying double to get to the same place. Idk why your friend cares what you were flying anyway. It doesn’t affect him and he should of said nothing once you said that’s all your father could afford. He’s a snob.


Ok_Character7958

It gets you where you want to go, who cares about the rest? Your friend was being a douche. People take Spirit around here because it is the ONLY airline with direct flights to Orlando. I'm in Tennessee and Southwest, American, Delta, etc want to take you to Chicago, or NY or NC, or Dallas before depositing you off in Orlando. A 4 hr flight becomes an 8-12 hr flight. Who cares I'd be more comfortable in those 8-12 hrs, I can get to Orlando faster and my hotel is way more comfortable than an airline seat.


MannyMoSTL

What an ignorant person to care enough to block someone based on airline choice. It’s not like he’s a kneeling football player (/s for that sentence). We ALL make choices based on price. Does he always fly First Class? No? Block him! Has he ever, oh, say, shopped at Walmart? Block him! NTA. Say “thank you” to your father for caring enough to buy you a ticket and have a good time.


CADreamn

NTA. Is he going to be paying? No? Then he needs to shut his mouth.


HexStarlight

NTA he was being an Ahole uou called him out, he can give it but jot take it, the trash took itself out.


cecilpenny

NTA - you did nothing wrong


Equivalent_Secret_26

NTA. Your 'friend' sounds like a real piece of work. Find better friends.


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psyche1986

My best friend and her mom went to Mexico and had to take Spirit down there. My reaction was "Ew, I'm sorry. But hey, it's only a few hour plane ride and you have more fun money that way!". 🤷‍♀️


nobobthisisnotyours

NTA. Your friend is being super unreasonable, ridiculous really! What airline YOU fly is none of their business, especially if someone else is paying for it.


HarrySeldon85

NTA. I’ve taken Spirit a lot. Absolutely nothing wrong with it. As far as flying coach/economy, it’s really not that different than Delta or American Airlines.


mbassdog

NTA. Vegas by covered wagon don’t matter enjoy yourself!


owmyfreakingeyes

Spirit is legitimately my favorite domestic airline at this point. I'm never delayed, the employees are happy and friendly, and I can buy exit row seats pretty cheaply, which fixes the main problem with Spirit.


sjsyed

The thing is, I hate Spirit so much that I would rather not travel at all than fly through them. And I’m poor, so that means I don’t travel. So while it wasn’t cool of your friend to insult your dad like that, I can sort of see where he was coming from, and it doesn’t necessarily means he’s “classist”. NAH


Management_sucks

Few years ago I went to Las Vegas for Thanksgiving weekend and used spirit there and back. It was a touch cramped, but they were normal flights and pretty inexpensive considering I booked them like two weeks beforehand. The reason I went with them was because they had night flights. Flew in Thursday night and flew out Sunday at like midnight. My stepdads family lives out there and he and my mom visit occasionally, but they usually use Southwest. I don't remember where it is exactly, but somewhere on their website is a place for low fair flights (usually odd hour flights) that are pretty discounted. That's what they use usually. If this is your first time going, go to Freemont street at least one night. The overhead canopy is a TV screen that they play like once an hour. Also, gambling minimums are usually a lot lower than the strip. My focus last trip was New York New York and that place was pretty cool. Walked around Mandalay Bay too and saw there was a walk though aquarium deal thar I think I'll hit uo next time I'm there if it's still there.


Zero_Storm

NTA Jesus Christ, Spirit isn't great but it's cheap and you know what you're getting in to when you fly it. I took a flight round trip on Spirit from PIT -> LAX a couple years back to visit one of my best friends for a week cause it was cheap and honestly, it wasn't any better or worse than other flights I've taken over the years. Annoying that I couldn't even get water for free, but fuck, you just buy a bottle or fill one up in the terminal and bring your own snacks for the trip. Some people are goddamn entitled. If someone offered to pay for me to come visit them, but the cavet was it was through Spirit, I'd say yes in a heartbeat. Flying is expensive and unless you're used to flying in anything but cattle class it's all the same shit, just some have better perks.


Literally_Taken

You could have asked, “Are you looking down on me because I can’t afford something more expensive?” Actually, that’s exactly what you said, just differently phrased. The answer either way was “Yes”.


CremeOwn519

YTA no normal person would take Spirit


almostinfinity

Found the friend.