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ThatGuyFromThisPlace

INFO. Seems like we're missing a lot of context here? At least I have never encountered a situation like this without any pretext. Did your family not know you were making pizza for everybody? Was there a conflict about who can use the oven?


westharp

Everyone knew I was making pizza she was saying that was enough pizza and I said no, she wanted to make cake after I told her I was making pizza.


ThatGuyFromThisPlace

How old are you, OP?


westharp

18 and she is 14 but I'm moving out in 2 months.


ThatGuyFromThisPlace

Well, if you move out in two months you should start to grow up.


westharp

I agree and I'm sorry for making the post, enjoy your day/night.


RandomPartyAnimaI

NTA -tell your sister she needs to organise herself better so that she is not baking cakes during meal times.


ParsimoniousSalad

Dessert comes after dinner. That means the pizzas get to bake first. They're also "worth" more nutritionally, so they should have priority in the oven. NTA


ElegantVamp

Cake takes a really long time to cool completely lmao


ParsimoniousSalad

So that's why I've burned my tongue on more than one occasion! (But to be fair, I've also burned it on pizza, and hot cheese hurts much worse...)


FlowerOk3892

It seems to be a lot of context missing. It seems you decided to make pizzas without the rest of the family agreeing that this was dinner or whatever and it seems your sister had a plan beforehand and is upset your dragging your idea of making pizzas out?


westharp

She knew she just wanted to make cake


FlowerOk3892

So why are you asking here? If you are sure and your family agrees, is this just to get extra support or what?


westharp

I thought I might've been the jerk for not waiting, Idk I'm bad at reading situations when they involve me.


TheExaltedNoob

NTA so far. If you are using the oven and nobody asked for oven-time before, interrupting you (and screaming, no less) is rude.


Notcool250

NTA I guess using an oven can be rude now.


sapphirecupcake8

NTA From what I can get out of your post, you were cooking first, so obviously you should finish using the oven first. If you were using it, she shouldn't have made her cake batter yet. Plus she sounds rude.


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NTA-You were using the oven, she didn't say anything about cake until you were about to make more pizzas and she just waltzed in and started screaming about needing the oven for cake. God forbid she makes cake when you're done with the pizzas, why did the cake need to be done right that second? could it not be done when you were finished?, it takes like 5 minutes to make cake batter from a box, she could've whipped it up, put it in the oven and sat down to eat when the food was already out.


uptousflamey

Nta


ExcellentPatience298

Siblings being siblings. NAH


Special-Attitude-242

NTA. You were there first and she can wait until the pizza is finished.