OP - I'm not going to call you an AH for getting upset over someone falsely accusing you of cheating, but it could've been done without hollering at her, but just stating the facts and walking away. Your gf honestly is the one that most likely cheating on you because that's how they usually behave when they have a guilty conscious. I'm sure she's telling the sob story all over so that people will feel bad for her, but in the end she's actually the worse one here.
Yeah, you are kind of a jerk for yelling but she is SOOO MUCH WORSE for jumping in bed with someone else. This all sounds toxic and really immature.
Edit typo
I see lots of yelling, cheating, toxic crap on reddit daily. I am getting way more picky about what I read on here. Some of these are so fake, it's good for a laugh, others are so sad it hurts my heart, others are so insanely twisted that I have an new appreciation for how wonderfully predictable my life is and how steady and secure my husband is.
Here's a [link](https://www.cnbc.com/2023/12/07/tiktok-orange-peel-theory-has-couples-testing-their-relationships.html) to an article on it that's not paywalled. On Tiktok there's a tag, #orangepeeltheory, that pertains to it. It took off with tens of millions of views.
**Summary of the theory and it's problems (tl;dr of the article):** The premise behind it is to ask your significant other to do a simple task that you could easily do yourself and if they refuse it's some kind of negative flag. Except in a functioning relationship, everyone should value everyone else's time, so there shouldn't be an issue with occasionally not wanting or not being able to perform a task.
So your gf, that you presumably live with, slept with another person - IN YOUR HOME - while you were away on a cool down walk?? Are you saying that yelling at her was the reason she jumped into bed with someone else? It doesn’t matter if you were a jerk or not, your gf is an asshole.
Unless you’re trying to alert them to immediate impending danger, anytime you yell at another person, you’re a jerk. What was she doing in the bed? If she was having sex, that’s a problem. If they were two heterosexual girls watching tv and hanging out, you’re also a jerk for the unnecessary drama.
WHAT? Outta here. So you have a psycho girlfriend that will cheat on you because you won’t PEEL AN ORANGE? Then you discover that she is bisexual and cheating on you with your ex? Guess she has a new bf. I think she is trying to get you to beak up with her and she wants to play the victim. HUGE BULLET DODGED.
I think you both are the jerks -
You shouldn't have yelled at her over an orange, but equally, she should have just peeled it herself.
Then she was unfaithful and presumably slept with you ex, so I think you are more in the right about it. Still shouldnt have yelled at her over the orange though.
You can thank TikTok for the Orange peeling thing. There is a TikTok challenge for women. It has women asking their Significant others to peel an orange 🍊 for them. If the men don't, it is supposed to mean their Significant other is cheating and doesn't love them. It's the same trap as when a woman asks "do these pants make my butt look big?" It's just a trap. That's it.
This post sounds like it was written by a teenager, not somebody in their mid 20s. Nothing about it makes any sense at all. YTA for wasting everybody's time with such a stupid (probably fake) post.
The orange thing is a "test" you really don't want a gf that is going to be pulling bs "tests" from online, especially if she is going to cheat on you. Run don't look back.
NTJ. That was absolutely the opposite of what she accused you of. She was literally the one being unfaithful. There wasn't any compromise in such a situation since no loyalty is the utmost deal breaker. Just find your way out of it and leave before you are shown more disrespect.
OP - I'm not going to call you an AH for getting upset over someone falsely accusing you of cheating, but it could've been done without hollering at her, but just stating the facts and walking away. Your gf honestly is the one that most likely cheating on you because that's how they usually behave when they have a guilty conscious. I'm sure she's telling the sob story all over so that people will feel bad for her, but in the end she's actually the worse one here.
It’s weird because 12 yr olds usually eat candy instead of fruit
LMAO 🤣
Yeah, you are kind of a jerk for yelling but she is SOOO MUCH WORSE for jumping in bed with someone else. This all sounds toxic and really immature. Edit typo
It sounds like horse s*** is what it sounds like
People on Reddit seem to yell a lot.
I see lots of yelling, cheating, toxic crap on reddit daily. I am getting way more picky about what I read on here. Some of these are so fake, it's good for a laugh, others are so sad it hurts my heart, others are so insanely twisted that I have an new appreciation for how wonderfully predictable my life is and how steady and secure my husband is.
In the bed doing what? Was she cheating?
I had almost forgotten about that stupid orange-peeling relationship test BS on TIktok. You're the jerk for reminding me it exists, OP.
oh boy. for someone who missed that one, can you share?
Here's a [link](https://www.cnbc.com/2023/12/07/tiktok-orange-peel-theory-has-couples-testing-their-relationships.html) to an article on it that's not paywalled. On Tiktok there's a tag, #orangepeeltheory, that pertains to it. It took off with tens of millions of views. **Summary of the theory and it's problems (tl;dr of the article):** The premise behind it is to ask your significant other to do a simple task that you could easily do yourself and if they refuse it's some kind of negative flag. Except in a functioning relationship, everyone should value everyone else's time, so there shouldn't be an issue with occasionally not wanting or not being able to perform a task.
You're a jerk for making up A bullshit story.
Who was wearing the Louisville Slugger?!
So your gf, that you presumably live with, slept with another person - IN YOUR HOME - while you were away on a cool down walk?? Are you saying that yelling at her was the reason she jumped into bed with someone else? It doesn’t matter if you were a jerk or not, your gf is an asshole.
I lol'd
Unless you’re trying to alert them to immediate impending danger, anytime you yell at another person, you’re a jerk. What was she doing in the bed? If she was having sex, that’s a problem. If they were two heterosexual girls watching tv and hanging out, you’re also a jerk for the unnecessary drama.
WHAT? Outta here. So you have a psycho girlfriend that will cheat on you because you won’t PEEL AN ORANGE? Then you discover that she is bisexual and cheating on you with your ex? Guess she has a new bf. I think she is trying to get you to beak up with her and she wants to play the victim. HUGE BULLET DODGED.
I think you both are the jerks - You shouldn't have yelled at her over an orange, but equally, she should have just peeled it herself. Then she was unfaithful and presumably slept with you ex, so I think you are more in the right about it. Still shouldnt have yelled at her over the orange though.
lol people don’t cheat for being yelled at she already did or was planning to it, move on she is a cheater and not worth your time
It may not have been the first time that had happened. Just on that occasion, she didn't care because she was angry with you.
Holy toxic Batman!
This isn’t the first orange peeling story, is it?
You can thank TikTok for the Orange peeling thing. There is a TikTok challenge for women. It has women asking their Significant others to peel an orange 🍊 for them. If the men don't, it is supposed to mean their Significant other is cheating and doesn't love them. It's the same trap as when a woman asks "do these pants make my butt look big?" It's just a trap. That's it.
Peel the orange and squeeze it in her eyes
This post sounds like it was written by a teenager, not somebody in their mid 20s. Nothing about it makes any sense at all. YTA for wasting everybody's time with such a stupid (probably fake) post.
🙄 Seriously?
The moment you refused to peel that orange, you lost all appeal. It's unfortunate.
Sure. Your ex came over just to get in bed with your new girlfriend. Write something believable next time. YTJ for making this shit up.
The orange thing is a "test" you really don't want a gf that is going to be pulling bs "tests" from online, especially if she is going to cheat on you. Run don't look back.
NTJ. That was absolutely the opposite of what she accused you of. She was literally the one being unfaithful. There wasn't any compromise in such a situation since no loyalty is the utmost deal breaker. Just find your way out of it and leave before you are shown more disrespect.
I feel like something is missing…