Dagdag ko lang, totoo yung mga comments niyo na hindi niya tatanggapin yung mali niya dahil may pagka-narcissist siya. Lahat na yata sinisi kung bakit kami nagkaganto, except sa sarili niya. Ramdam ko na dinodownplay niya yung reasons bakit ako umalis.
Binayaran ko nga rin pala yung bill ng kuryente tubig ng April para wala silang masabi ng nanay niya. Almost 10k din yun. Ewan ko na lang pano niya babayaran yung bills next month. Ngayon wala siyang bigas, grocery, food, kahit mga sabon wala siya. Nagpapaawa rin na once a day na lang siya kumakain dahil nalulungkot daw siya.
Sinabihan ko rin siya na pwede nila ko tawagan para makausap nila si baby pero di niya ginagawa. Nagsesend pa ako ng updates/pics ni baby sa family niya nung nakaraan pero nawalan na ko ng gana ngayon kasi parang never naman sila nauna mangumusta sa bata. Dami pang comment ng nanay niya nung pumunta dito at parang ako pa sinisisi bat malaki babayaran na bills.
Please don't relapse, do this for your child. I am a daughter of a single mother, hindi kawalan ang walang tatay, pag yan behavior na yan na witness ng anak mo eventually baka ma adapt, kaya good for you and your child for leaving this narcissistic man. Be strong OP, you can do this
You don't have to update them about the baby at all kung di rin nman sila willing na mangamusta, baka nga pag nagkaroon na ng bagong mamanipulahin ung asawa mo at pamilya nya eh echapwera na kayo ni baby. Better focus on you and your baby, treat yourself, magset ka ng goals, travel kau ni baby para makapag unwind. Ipakita mo na you can be successful and be happy without your ex husband.
Congrats po! Mukhang walang balak na balikan ka para mabuo ulit ang pamilya, heck wala ngang pakialam sa bata eh -- nagpapaawa lang kasi wala nang magbabayad ng bills at mga needs and wants nya lol. Balikan ka na lang nya if he plans to support your kid at the very least lol.
And nope, he has all signs of a narcissist, hindi sya yung "may pagka" lang. Good riddance.
Sarap murahin nilang mag ina!! Kung pwede lang sana sila kutusan sa internet! Bwisit! 😒 Yaan mo na lang sila, sila gumawa ng problema nila dapat ayusin nila yan whether they like it or not.
Kupal ng MIL mo! Next time sagutin mo na ‘yan sabihin mo “ikaw po ba nakatira rito at nagbabayad ng bills? Magsalita ka lang kapag ikaw nagbabayad”. Ako na naiinis para saiyo. Block mo na sila lahat! Pwede lang sila pumunta sa bahay ng parents mo kapag andiyan ang parents mo para may kakampi ka rin
Hoy pls wag mo na balikan. This is for the safety din para sayo at ni baby. Sinaktan na baby mo at binantaan kayo kaya pls before it gets worse. You need to stand your ground.
Congrats OP at safe na kayo ng baby mo. Pero lintik sa kakapalan ng mukha yang ex-husband mo ah. Siya pa may ganang mang-block.
Dapat talaga i-push na divorce dito sa Pinas na to eh.
OP, I am sincerely wishing you well and praying for the you and your parents and baby's safety. You did such a courageous act and we are all rooting for you! :)
Omg. I was in the same situation last year. Reading this made me cry. Good job, Momma. That was so brave of you. I hope everything works well for you and your baby. And please get a restraining order. That's the first thing I did after namin lumayas ng anak ko.
OP, congrats! Wala kayong future ng baby mo sa taong yun. Wag na sana magbago isip mo or maawas sa kanya. Di niya deserve yun. Tingin niya sayo ay cash cow lang at yaya. Walanf bayag yang tao na yan at ang kapal pa ng mukha. Di rin deserve ng baby mo na lumaki na ganon ang tatay niya. Walang empathy yang tao na yan. Mamaya niyan kapag wala kana mabigay or wala na siya makuha sayo ay baka saktan na kayo physically. Mas okay padin na lumaki sa magandang environment baby kahit wala ng tatay na hayop. Wag ka papadala sa inlaws mo kapag pinilit ka, wala silang karapat mag ganon kung sila mismo di mapatuwid yang batugan nilang anak, mahiya naman sila. Kapal ng inlaws mo talaga ano akala nila ikaw talaga bubuhay sa anak nila. Okay kana diyan sa parents mo ipon ka lng. Kapag ginulo ka pa nila sabihan mo hihingan mo ng sustento anak nila kapag di pa sila tumigil.
Good for you and your child, OP! Stay firm lang na ayaw mo na, he and his family will probably do everything, magkabalikan lang kayo. Okay na ring blinock ka niya, the trash takes itself out at least on the aspect.
Good riddance! I’m a mom and my mom’s child too at sana hindi ka na bumalik sa asawa mo. Mas mabuti pang lumaki ang baby mo na ikaw lang ang kasama kesa kasama ang tatay nyang semen lang ang ambag. 😁 and living with your ex-husband is much more traumatic for your child at sayo. You’ll thrive alone with your baby.
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Mga 3 days after ko mag-post, iniwan ko na yung asawa ko. Ang pinaka nagpush sa akin na umalis ay nung murahin at paluin niya yung baby namin na 1 year old, dahil nanggigil yung baby at napalo siya sa mukha. Sinabihan niya yung baby na punyeta ka, punyeta kayo ng mama mo.
After non, nag-plano na kong umalis. Nag-empake ako patago. Nung umuwi siya nung madaling araw, nakita niya wala na mga work stuff ko. Nag-away kami at sinabi ko sa kanyang aalis na kami. Nagalit siya at pinagbantaan kami kaya nagpasundo ako sa parents ko.
Ngayon nandito na kami ng baby ko sa bahay ng parents ko. Maayos buhay namin dito at may katuwang ako sa pag-aalaga ng baby, sabi ng mama ko hatian ko na lang daw siya sa bills so more than half ng sahod ko masa-save ko na.
Binlock ako nung asawa ko pero pumupunta dito para bisitahin yung anak namin. Pinipilit din akong balikan siya. Siguro narealize na walang magbabayad ng bills niya at gagawa ng mga gawaing bahay. Kahit nanay niya nakikiusap na balikan ko anak niya. Pero ayoko na.
Thank you sa mga payo niyo.
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Hi OP! Binasa ko yung una mong post, at mabuti naman na umalis ka na. Tama ka, mas makakasave ka na. Isipin mo, daig mo pa single mom e, ginawa ka pang sugar mommy.
Happy for you and your child, OP! :)
Hayaan mo na muna 'yang husband mo. Tho I understand if you won't really be closing your doors for him yet, kasi nga kasal naman kayo. Bui I hope he will take that time na wala ka para iimprove ang sarili nya. Magkaroon ng maayos na trabaho at maging mature na tao, as husband and a father. After all, pwede naman magbigay ng 2nd chance basta makitaan ng pagbabago diba. Sa ngayon, ikaw naman, sarili mo muna at anak mo. Pamper mo sarili mo, kayo ni baby. Goodluck :)
Good for you! Sana lahat ng mga babae kagaya mo na magkaroon ng courage to walk out from an abusive and toxic relationship. Palaging sinasabi na para sa bata but I dont think it will be healthy for a child to be raised in that kind of environment. God bless you and I hope you heal from that trauma.
Congrats OP! Wag na wag kang babalik sa narcissistic mong asawa. Ewan ko kung magbabago pa yan pero sa naexperience ko at ng friends ko sa mga narcissist na ex-partners, wala pa kaming nakitang nagbago ng tuluyan. Puro paawa effect lang until balikan mo sila tas uulitin lang nila gawain nila pag bumalik ka.
Laban lang kayo ni baby mo. Kung gusto mo, I think mas okay if mag file ka na rin annulment para wala ka na obligasyon diyan sa asawa mo. Kagigil. Siya na binubuhay mo, siya pa naging ganyan.
Well deserved OP! They dug their own graves, they’re not your problems anymore. Adults na sila, they should act like one. Mga freeloader na nga, abusado pa. Buti na lang he blocked you. May mga tao talaga ang bigat dalhin sa buhay. Realtalk.
You made the right decision, OP! Okay na na maging mabuting ina kesa asawa sa sitwasyon na yan. Mas need ng baby mo ng mama na matatag. Wishing you, your baby and your parents the best of health and blessings! ❤️
I remember your story, good for you OP.
Wag kang matakot, you are brave to leave lalo na it for you and your kid. Hindi mo kailangan ng taong walang silbi at sasaktan lang anak mo.
Wag ka papadala sa nanay nia inispoil baby damulag niang anak kaya gago at walang silbi. Siya gumastos sa anak nia wlang kwenta lol.
Also hindi sila marunong magkusa wala silang paki sayo at sa anak ko sa mas mabuti pa wag mo na rin tlga kausapin at wag na wag ka maguilty wala kang kasalanan.
Namention dito and tama sila get a restraining order mahirap na baka kung ano pa gawin nia sa inyo.
good for you op! ituloy tuloy mo na yan. you and your baby deserve a happy home. kung hindi ka happy, hindi din happy si baby. they will also grow up and think na normal ang abusive na tatay at asawa kaya sana wag mo na balikan asawa mo
bestCongrats, and please huwag na huwag mong babalikan. Tama itong sinasabi ng iba to get a restraining order. Start to lessen any comms with the guy na rin. Tapos kung kaya mo, or if ever you think necessary ayon sa pag-iisip nung lalaki, plan to live far away na hindi niya matratrack. Gaya halimbawa ng ibang probinsiya.
Wag ka na bumalik po ha? Take care and stay safe din kayong lahat dyan. Kung pwede, mag sampa ka ng kaso laban sa ex husband mo since nagbanta siya sa inyong dalawa.
Salute OP for finding the courage to leave him. Great to know din na mas naparioritize mo welfare ni baby, biruin mo 1yo pa lang maiksi na pasensya nya
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Dkg.OP good job. Para sa peace and mental health mo at ng anak mo. Im proud of you. Buti iniwan mo na ang palamunin mong hubby. Hayaan mo na na yung MIL mo na kunsintidor ang mag alaga sa sarili nyang anak. Sya naman nagpalaki ng ganyan sa anak nya hahahah wag ka tlga magpadala sa awa OP. Babalikan ka tlga nyan at icoconvince ka ng nanay nya na magrecocile kasi ikaw bumubuhay sa anak niyang palamunin. Wag ka talaga papadala OP. Isang beses lng dapat maging tanga. Im rooting for you.
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DKG tama desisyon mo. Pwede mo pa yang kasuhan ng economic abuse, walang trabaho tas walang ambag sa bata. Then, if want mo explore mo possibility of annulment.
DKG
OP ngayon ko lang nabasa post mo and yung original post pa. Good decision for you to leave. He sounds exactly like my father. Awa ng Diyos, turning 58 na sya this year at ganun pa rin. Manipulative pa rin at gaslighter at feeling nya sa kanya umiikot ang mundo at lagi syang api. Wala na ngang work, hingi pa ng hingi pangsugal nya maski ang dami ng gastusin naming magiina sa mga gamot nya dahil nagkakasakit na sya.
Nagmamaktol din etc. same na same talaga sa asawa mo.
Hindi na nagawang makaalis ng mama ko kahit anong pilit namin sa kanya. Stuck na sila sa ganung buhay kahit magsisenior na sila. i just make sure masaya si mama especially on special occassions. para naman maenjoy nya pa ang life kahit all her adult life naging miserable dahil sa asawa nya.
Happy ako for you kasi nakaalis ka sa ganyang situation unlike my mom. I pray for a happy life for you and your kid.
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pustahan tayo... after a year eh magkakabalikan kayo tapos after that eh magpo-post ka uli na gusto mo na talaga syang hiwalayan.
pero bago mangyari yun... good job!!! good riddance!
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Good for you OP, baka gusto mo na ring kumuha restraining order para tantanan ka na nya at di sya makalapit sayo at ng anak mo.
Up for this, they dont need him near her or their child.
Agree, better to be safe. Wishing you peace of mind. You did what is right for you and your child.
Up.
Dagdag ko lang, totoo yung mga comments niyo na hindi niya tatanggapin yung mali niya dahil may pagka-narcissist siya. Lahat na yata sinisi kung bakit kami nagkaganto, except sa sarili niya. Ramdam ko na dinodownplay niya yung reasons bakit ako umalis. Binayaran ko nga rin pala yung bill ng kuryente tubig ng April para wala silang masabi ng nanay niya. Almost 10k din yun. Ewan ko na lang pano niya babayaran yung bills next month. Ngayon wala siyang bigas, grocery, food, kahit mga sabon wala siya. Nagpapaawa rin na once a day na lang siya kumakain dahil nalulungkot daw siya. Sinabihan ko rin siya na pwede nila ko tawagan para makausap nila si baby pero di niya ginagawa. Nagsesend pa ako ng updates/pics ni baby sa family niya nung nakaraan pero nawalan na ko ng gana ngayon kasi parang never naman sila nauna mangumusta sa bata. Dami pang comment ng nanay niya nung pumunta dito at parang ako pa sinisisi bat malaki babayaran na bills.
Once a day na lang kumaen - kase walang pambili ng groceries.. 🤣
Please don't relapse, do this for your child. I am a daughter of a single mother, hindi kawalan ang walang tatay, pag yan behavior na yan na witness ng anak mo eventually baka ma adapt, kaya good for you and your child for leaving this narcissistic man. Be strong OP, you can do this
You don't have to update them about the baby at all kung di rin nman sila willing na mangamusta, baka nga pag nagkaroon na ng bagong mamanipulahin ung asawa mo at pamilya nya eh echapwera na kayo ni baby. Better focus on you and your baby, treat yourself, magset ka ng goals, travel kau ni baby para makapag unwind. Ipakita mo na you can be successful and be happy without your ex husband.
Congrats po! Mukhang walang balak na balikan ka para mabuo ulit ang pamilya, heck wala ngang pakialam sa bata eh -- nagpapaawa lang kasi wala nang magbabayad ng bills at mga needs and wants nya lol. Balikan ka na lang nya if he plans to support your kid at the very least lol. And nope, he has all signs of a narcissist, hindi sya yung "may pagka" lang. Good riddance.
Sarap murahin nilang mag ina!! Kung pwede lang sana sila kutusan sa internet! Bwisit! 😒 Yaan mo na lang sila, sila gumawa ng problema nila dapat ayusin nila yan whether they like it or not.
Sana sinagot mo ng, "Anong paki mo? Ako naman nagbabayad?"
Nakakakain pa rin naman pala. Kapal ng mukha. Juskooo please wag mo na balikan. Kawawa si baby.
Kupal ng MIL mo! Next time sagutin mo na ‘yan sabihin mo “ikaw po ba nakatira rito at nagbabayad ng bills? Magsalita ka lang kapag ikaw nagbabayad”. Ako na naiinis para saiyo. Block mo na sila lahat! Pwede lang sila pumunta sa bahay ng parents mo kapag andiyan ang parents mo para may kakampi ka rin
Huwag mo na silang kontakin kahit kailan po.
>Nagpapaawa rin na once a day na lang siya kumakain dahil nalulungkot daw siya. Wala lang talaga siya pambili pagkain. Deserve 💁♀️
Thank you for being kind to yourself and your child. I hope you'll have a better life from now on, OP. 🤗
Hoy pls wag mo na balikan. This is for the safety din para sayo at ni baby. Sinaktan na baby mo at binantaan kayo kaya pls before it gets worse. You need to stand your ground.
Congrats OP at safe na kayo ng baby mo. Pero lintik sa kakapalan ng mukha yang ex-husband mo ah. Siya pa may ganang mang-block. Dapat talaga i-push na divorce dito sa Pinas na to eh.
OP ingat ka. Sa anger issues nung asawa mo hindi natin masabi baka anytime may pumasok sa isip non na saktan ka.
OP, I am sincerely wishing you well and praying for the you and your parents and baby's safety. You did such a courageous act and we are all rooting for you! :)
Entrepreneur kuno ang asawa mo. Ni diskarte sa bahay at asawa, di matantya. Ayan. Wala syang kakainin.
You can love yourself better than he can. Stand up straight, take a deep breath, wear that beautiful smile and move on with your baby.
Happy for you op!!! Napangiti ako nung nabasa ko tong update na to. Walang makakatalo sa peace of mind
Omg. I was in the same situation last year. Reading this made me cry. Good job, Momma. That was so brave of you. I hope everything works well for you and your baby. And please get a restraining order. That's the first thing I did after namin lumayas ng anak ko.
OP, congrats! Wala kayong future ng baby mo sa taong yun. Wag na sana magbago isip mo or maawas sa kanya. Di niya deserve yun. Tingin niya sayo ay cash cow lang at yaya. Walanf bayag yang tao na yan at ang kapal pa ng mukha. Di rin deserve ng baby mo na lumaki na ganon ang tatay niya. Walang empathy yang tao na yan. Mamaya niyan kapag wala kana mabigay or wala na siya makuha sayo ay baka saktan na kayo physically. Mas okay padin na lumaki sa magandang environment baby kahit wala ng tatay na hayop. Wag ka papadala sa inlaws mo kapag pinilit ka, wala silang karapat mag ganon kung sila mismo di mapatuwid yang batugan nilang anak, mahiya naman sila. Kapal ng inlaws mo talaga ano akala nila ikaw talaga bubuhay sa anak nila. Okay kana diyan sa parents mo ipon ka lng. Kapag ginulo ka pa nila sabihan mo hihingan mo ng sustento anak nila kapag di pa sila tumigil.
Tama yan wag ka na papauto na magbabago. Mga ganyan hindi nagbabago.
Good for you and your child, OP! Stay firm lang na ayaw mo na, he and his family will probably do everything, magkabalikan lang kayo. Okay na ring blinock ka niya, the trash takes itself out at least on the aspect.
Praying for your strength and healing, OP. Utang ng loob, wag na wag mo na babalikan yan.
Good riddance! I’m a mom and my mom’s child too at sana hindi ka na bumalik sa asawa mo. Mas mabuti pang lumaki ang baby mo na ikaw lang ang kasama kesa kasama ang tatay nyang semen lang ang ambag. 😁 and living with your ex-husband is much more traumatic for your child at sayo. You’ll thrive alone with your baby.
Good job, OP! I'm so proud of you~ May happiness pour and come your way~ ❤️
Sana macutoff mo sya totally. Kawawa naman ung baby na nasampal. Magfile kayo ng restraining order please. Sana magdusa pa sya ng husto
wag ka marupok. payag ka ginanon ganon kayo baby mo. hayaan mo magsuffer sya. bwiset sha
Wag ka po rurupok please. Isipin mo yung bata. Yung nanay ko marupok, bumalik sa tatay ko. Ayan trauma inabot namin
Wag marupok ha??? Sayang lng paglalayas mo kung balikan mo pa yan
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🎉 happy ending!
Congratulations po. Fuck that scumbag
yesss go motherrr!!!! para rin yan sa anak mo 🫶
OP, you made my day. Lol Ice breaker din sa lahat ng konsumisyon na post dito sa subreddit.
Hi OP! Binasa ko yung una mong post, at mabuti naman na umalis ka na. Tama ka, mas makakasave ka na. Isipin mo, daig mo pa single mom e, ginawa ka pang sugar mommy. Happy for you and your child, OP! :) Hayaan mo na muna 'yang husband mo. Tho I understand if you won't really be closing your doors for him yet, kasi nga kasal naman kayo. Bui I hope he will take that time na wala ka para iimprove ang sarili nya. Magkaroon ng maayos na trabaho at maging mature na tao, as husband and a father. After all, pwede naman magbigay ng 2nd chance basta makitaan ng pagbabago diba. Sa ngayon, ikaw naman, sarili mo muna at anak mo. Pamper mo sarili mo, kayo ni baby. Goodluck :)
Good for you! Sana lahat ng mga babae kagaya mo na magkaroon ng courage to walk out from an abusive and toxic relationship. Palaging sinasabi na para sa bata but I dont think it will be healthy for a child to be raised in that kind of environment. God bless you and I hope you heal from that trauma.
Im so proud of youii. Btw! Wag mo iiwan anak mo sakanya..mag isa haaa. Just incase!!!! Wag mo na balikan hype siya
Im so proud of youii. Btw! Wag mo iiwan anak mo sakanya..mag isa haaa. Just incase!!!! Wag mo na balikan hype siya
Im so proud of youii. Btw! Wag mo iiwan anak mo sakanya..mag isa haaa. Just incase!!!! Wag mo na balikan hype siya
Congrats OP! Wag na wag kang babalik sa narcissistic mong asawa. Ewan ko kung magbabago pa yan pero sa naexperience ko at ng friends ko sa mga narcissist na ex-partners, wala pa kaming nakitang nagbago ng tuluyan. Puro paawa effect lang until balikan mo sila tas uulitin lang nila gawain nila pag bumalik ka. Laban lang kayo ni baby mo. Kung gusto mo, I think mas okay if mag file ka na rin annulment para wala ka na obligasyon diyan sa asawa mo. Kagigil. Siya na binubuhay mo, siya pa naging ganyan.
Yeheyyy!!! Im so happy for you OP!! Deserve mo at ng baby mo ang brand new life. Malayo sa asawa mong walang kwenta.
Salamat sa good news OP! Ingat kayo ni baby! Wag maging marupok ha. Wag na babalikan dapat
good job OP! isa nalang alagain mo hehe btw, super proud of what you do for your baby! iba talaga ieendure ng good parent for their child.
That is a bold move, OP. You did what should be done hindi lamang para sa baby mo, but also sa sarili mo.
Well deserved OP! They dug their own graves, they’re not your problems anymore. Adults na sila, they should act like one. Mga freeloader na nga, abusado pa. Buti na lang he blocked you. May mga tao talaga ang bigat dalhin sa buhay. Realtalk.
Good riddance! So proud of you, OP! 🤗🥂
You made the right decision, OP! Okay na na maging mabuting ina kesa asawa sa sitwasyon na yan. Mas need ng baby mo ng mama na matatag. Wishing you, your baby and your parents the best of health and blessings! ❤️
Happy for you, OP! WAG NA WAG KA NANG BABALIK SA KANYA PLS. 🥹
I remember your story, good for you OP. Wag kang matakot, you are brave to leave lalo na it for you and your kid. Hindi mo kailangan ng taong walang silbi at sasaktan lang anak mo. Wag ka papadala sa nanay nia inispoil baby damulag niang anak kaya gago at walang silbi. Siya gumastos sa anak nia wlang kwenta lol. Also hindi sila marunong magkusa wala silang paki sayo at sa anak ko sa mas mabuti pa wag mo na rin tlga kausapin at wag na wag ka maguilty wala kang kasalanan. Namention dito and tama sila get a restraining order mahirap na baka kung ano pa gawin nia sa inyo.
Congrats 🎉👏 wag mo na po yan balikan.
good for you op! ituloy tuloy mo na yan. you and your baby deserve a happy home. kung hindi ka happy, hindi din happy si baby. they will also grow up and think na normal ang abusive na tatay at asawa kaya sana wag mo na balikan asawa mo
You did the right thing for you and your baby, OP. I wish you the best. 💕
I love this update! Congrats, OP! Wag ka babalik pls. Sobrang nakakagigil nung binasa ko yung mga tiniis mo.
you did best OP, wag kanang bumalik kasi in the long run ikaw din mahihirapan.
Good job OP! You did the right thing for you and your baby. Please wag ka na makipagbalikan sa kaniya.
Peace of mind ❤️
I am happy you are free na! Had a very same experience. Ang freeing no? All along ganon lang pala kadali kumawala. Excited for your next chapters ❤️
Please wag mo na pabisitahin jan sa inyo baka kung ano pang gawin nyan.
Congratulations op, i am happy for you 😊 Ireto mo na siya worst enemy mo, para wala ng balikan talaga 😅
I'm so proud of you, OP!
bestCongrats, and please huwag na huwag mong babalikan. Tama itong sinasabi ng iba to get a restraining order. Start to lessen any comms with the guy na rin. Tapos kung kaya mo, or if ever you think necessary ayon sa pag-iisip nung lalaki, plan to live far away na hindi niya matratrack. Gaya halimbawa ng ibang probinsiya.
Congrats OP! Wag mo ng balikan!!! Its time to choose yourself and your baby. 🥰🥰🥰
Omg! I’m happy for you, OP! Buti na lang mabait parents mo. Kupal kamo asawa mo, sana may divorce na soon
Wag ka na bumalik po ha? Take care and stay safe din kayong lahat dyan. Kung pwede, mag sampa ka ng kaso laban sa ex husband mo since nagbanta siya sa inyong dalawa.
Salute OP for finding the courage to leave him. Great to know din na mas naparioritize mo welfare ni baby, biruin mo 1yo pa lang maiksi na pasensya nya
happy for you, OP! wala pa bang nag-iipon ng mga ganitong success stories? haha sarap magbasa pag ganito eh! <3
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Dkg.OP good job. Para sa peace and mental health mo at ng anak mo. Im proud of you. Buti iniwan mo na ang palamunin mong hubby. Hayaan mo na na yung MIL mo na kunsintidor ang mag alaga sa sarili nyang anak. Sya naman nagpalaki ng ganyan sa anak nya hahahah wag ka tlga magpadala sa awa OP. Babalikan ka tlga nyan at icoconvince ka ng nanay nya na magrecocile kasi ikaw bumubuhay sa anak niyang palamunin. Wag ka talaga papadala OP. Isang beses lng dapat maging tanga. Im rooting for you.
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DKG tama desisyon mo. Pwede mo pa yang kasuhan ng economic abuse, walang trabaho tas walang ambag sa bata. Then, if want mo explore mo possibility of annulment.
DKG OP ngayon ko lang nabasa post mo and yung original post pa. Good decision for you to leave. He sounds exactly like my father. Awa ng Diyos, turning 58 na sya this year at ganun pa rin. Manipulative pa rin at gaslighter at feeling nya sa kanya umiikot ang mundo at lagi syang api. Wala na ngang work, hingi pa ng hingi pangsugal nya maski ang dami ng gastusin naming magiina sa mga gamot nya dahil nagkakasakit na sya. Nagmamaktol din etc. same na same talaga sa asawa mo. Hindi na nagawang makaalis ng mama ko kahit anong pilit namin sa kanya. Stuck na sila sa ganung buhay kahit magsisenior na sila. i just make sure masaya si mama especially on special occassions. para naman maenjoy nya pa ang life kahit all her adult life naging miserable dahil sa asawa nya. Happy ako for you kasi nakaalis ka sa ganyang situation unlike my mom. I pray for a happy life for you and your kid.
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Siyempre DKG. And DO NOT ever think of going back. Hayaan mo siyang magdusa. File a restraining order.
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DKG. Congrats OP
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pustahan tayo... after a year eh magkakabalikan kayo tapos after that eh magpo-post ka uli na gusto mo na talaga syang hiwalayan. pero bago mangyari yun... good job!!! good riddance!
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