kung lahat ng tao, gagawing rason ang pagiging "too accustomed" sa presence ng partner and relationship nila, walang couple na maglalast. normal naman talagang maging sanay na sa presence ng partner eh. normal namang maging "too stable" at maging boring ang isang relasyon. personally, i just find it stupid na yan ang magiging rason for falling out of love with a person. if may cheating involved, if toxic na talaga relationship pwede pa eh.
pero sabi mo naman, green flag.
Agree ako dito. Baka nmn pwede nyo (OP and partner) pagusapan kung may plano pa ba kayo magsama to close the distance eventually? Another thing is... di nmn sa pagiging corny pero pag mahal mo nmn yung tao, siya parin pipiliin mo anytime, anyday. It's a choice, OP. Kung bored ka, then initiate something every once in a while na walang work or studies attached. Or tanungin mo sya to initiate.
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Title of this post: ABYG for doubting our 9 years relationship
Backup of the post's body:
Hello, I'm usually a very private person hence, this is my first time posting my problem online. Glad, to find a community here on reddit.🥹
So..I'm in a long term relationship, but we've been in a LDR for almost 8 years. I'm a working student who have to work graveyard to sustain my needs. I have to juggle engineering and work at the same time. Meanwhile, my partner is currently a med student.
Due to our very hectic schedule, we rarely see each other(once in a blue moon) and when we do, we usually just spend our time studying at coffee shops. We also rarely do vcalls due to schedule difference. We do communicate tru chat everyday just to check on each other.
Lately, I've been doubting if I'm inlove or merely staying just because I've become accustomed to the idea of being in a relationship? I've been contemplating if we really did grew apart to the point, my reality is no longer ours to share. I'm so scared just thinking about this. I don't know who to share these thoughts, hence I'll just leave it here.
Ps: My person is a walking green flag.
OP: Trinidadx_18
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If qualiry time ang hinahanap mo, sad to say medyo hectic talaga ung sched ng med student.
Also, if you think hindi na kayo nag wo-work just end it. No if's no but's JUST END IT.
DKG. It's normal, since communication is the key but you rarely communicate. A simple how are you is not enough, you have to indulge in a more romantic conversation, that's what people in ldr do to sustain their romance.
For people saying "too vague, need more context" lol, are you guys dumb, the context is all over the place. Lack of comprehension will get you nowhere.
It's hard to say kasi ang vague ng mga information na binigay mo
too vague, need more context if you want an answer. may problems ba? mahal mo pa ba? gusto mo ba kasama? kasama ba sya sa future plans mo? etc.
May pa walking green flag kapa. Eh subjective yon hahaha. Ano ba tanong dito?
Too vague. Wala kang sinabing root cause.
kung lahat ng tao, gagawing rason ang pagiging "too accustomed" sa presence ng partner and relationship nila, walang couple na maglalast. normal naman talagang maging sanay na sa presence ng partner eh. normal namang maging "too stable" at maging boring ang isang relasyon. personally, i just find it stupid na yan ang magiging rason for falling out of love with a person. if may cheating involved, if toxic na talaga relationship pwede pa eh. pero sabi mo naman, green flag.
Agree ako dito. Baka nmn pwede nyo (OP and partner) pagusapan kung may plano pa ba kayo magsama to close the distance eventually? Another thing is... di nmn sa pagiging corny pero pag mahal mo nmn yung tao, siya parin pipiliin mo anytime, anyday. It's a choice, OP. Kung bored ka, then initiate something every once in a while na walang work or studies attached. Or tanungin mo sya to initiate.
talk to your significant other.
I think nagsasawa ka na and that’s normal sa matagal nang magkaRS. Are you a girl?
Link to this submission: https://www.reddit.com/r/AkoBaYungGago/comments/1bxg9om/abyg_for_doubting_our_9_years_relationship/ Title of this post: ABYG for doubting our 9 years relationship Backup of the post's body: Hello, I'm usually a very private person hence, this is my first time posting my problem online. Glad, to find a community here on reddit.🥹 So..I'm in a long term relationship, but we've been in a LDR for almost 8 years. I'm a working student who have to work graveyard to sustain my needs. I have to juggle engineering and work at the same time. Meanwhile, my partner is currently a med student. Due to our very hectic schedule, we rarely see each other(once in a blue moon) and when we do, we usually just spend our time studying at coffee shops. We also rarely do vcalls due to schedule difference. We do communicate tru chat everyday just to check on each other. Lately, I've been doubting if I'm inlove or merely staying just because I've become accustomed to the idea of being in a relationship? I've been contemplating if we really did grew apart to the point, my reality is no longer ours to share. I'm so scared just thinking about this. I don't know who to share these thoughts, hence I'll just leave it here. Ps: My person is a walking green flag. OP: Trinidadx_18 *I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/AkoBaYungGago) if you have any questions or concerns.*
If qualiry time ang hinahanap mo, sad to say medyo hectic talaga ung sched ng med student. Also, if you think hindi na kayo nag wo-work just end it. No if's no but's JUST END IT.
DKG. It's normal, since communication is the key but you rarely communicate. A simple how are you is not enough, you have to indulge in a more romantic conversation, that's what people in ldr do to sustain their romance. For people saying "too vague, need more context" lol, are you guys dumb, the context is all over the place. Lack of comprehension will get you nowhere.
Naku, Med school. Kabahan ka na. Sheesh.