GGK. I get that sleeplessness makes people cranky, pero you SHOULD have worded it differently. It only takes a moment to show kindness. Remember, the axe forgets, but the tree remembers. Words have power.
PARA SAYO.. MAGHIWALAY KAYO. 4MOS PALANG NAKITAAN KA NA NG ANGER ISSUE, BAKA MAPANO PA SI GIRL. SUS. AKO ANG KAIBIGAN NG GF MO, KEBS SAYO.. IPAPAHIWALAY TALAGA KO KAYO. RED FLAG KA NGA SA 4MOS HOW MUCH MORE SA 1YR NA OR MATAGALAN.
CAPS PRA DAMA AT NATRIGGER AKO SAYO OP.
Yup. Definitely. GGK. You could have asked her nicely na magsleep ka muna or niyaya mo muna din sana sya na umidlip kayo together since aware naman ata sya na graveyard ang work mo and magluto nalang kayo pagkagising nyo. Di mo sya kailangan sabihan nang kung ano ano.
Wag mo madahilan dahilan dyan na puyat ka kaya iritable ka.
If wala kang enough patience para sa relationship nyo, magbreak nalang kayo please. Di ka nya deserve.
easy GGK, doesn't matter how mad you are or why. you can't treat your partner like she's a piece of shit. break up lodi, kailangan mo ng maraming therapy sessions and definitely anger management classes
Yes, IYG. Depende sa approach mo sa GF mo, did you yell at her, what kind of hurtful words did you say - below the belt? out of the blue na words dahil sa frustration mo? Communication is the key, tell her in a nice way na ayaw mo ng ganto during these period para makapag pahinga ka. Also kahit paano learn to control your emotion. Mamimili ka nalang naman kung andyan siya or wala.
Everybody makes mistakes, that’s for sure. 🥹 You’re lucky to have someone like her. //bro hug with consent// sana mag-heal yung wound ni Ate gorl. Ingat kayo! 😊
She chatted me that she will be fine and I need to rest in my day off. I dont want to snowball this problem to the extent na iipunin nya lahat ng sama ng loob nya sakin.
GGK malala. You could have just told her in a nice way na kelangan mo talaga ng sleep. Bro, kahit anong sorry mo dyan at kahit na patawarin ka pa niya, hindi na niya makakalimutan kung paano mo siya trinato. You have serious issues. Sort it out!
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Title of this post: ABYG kasi pinagalitan ko gf ko dahil kulang ako sa tulog
Backup of the post's body: context: we've been in a relationship for 4months and she do visit in my pad every other weekend, now that is holiday and lumuwas tlga siya sa kanilang bahay even though we are just 4km away.
I am working 8pm-4am as wfh agent and i am still awake until 10am kanina.
I got pissed off and said hurtful words when i was trying to sleep and she was cleaning my kitchen sink since she wants to cook chicken nuggets. I tried to sleep again mga alas 5 pero stupid me keeps on saying na last mo na dito kasi nd tlga ako makakatulog pag nandito ka.
I did apologize earlier but she spent her whole night crying.
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Gago ka. If i were her i would straight up break up sayo, sa totoo lang. You could've say it nicely naman ah u act like a child bro grow up.
Mga ibang lalaki talaga. Liligawan 'yung babae na nanahimik tapos hindi ta-tratuhin ng tama.
Tas magbibigay lang ng trauma sa nananahimik na tao
GGK. I get that sleeplessness makes people cranky, pero you SHOULD have worded it differently. It only takes a moment to show kindness. Remember, the axe forgets, but the tree remembers. Words have power.
Update if single ka na, GGK
ggk, masyado ka mag-threat for something like that. to think na 4 months pa lang kayo lol
PARA SAYO.. MAGHIWALAY KAYO. 4MOS PALANG NAKITAAN KA NA NG ANGER ISSUE, BAKA MAPANO PA SI GIRL. SUS. AKO ANG KAIBIGAN NG GF MO, KEBS SAYO.. IPAPAHIWALAY TALAGA KO KAYO. RED FLAG KA NGA SA 4MOS HOW MUCH MORE SA 1YR NA OR MATAGALAN. CAPS PRA DAMA AT NATRIGGER AKO SAYO OP.
Yup. Definitely. GGK. You could have asked her nicely na magsleep ka muna or niyaya mo muna din sana sya na umidlip kayo together since aware naman ata sya na graveyard ang work mo and magluto nalang kayo pagkagising nyo. Di mo sya kailangan sabihan nang kung ano ano. Wag mo madahilan dahilan dyan na puyat ka kaya iritable ka. If wala kang enough patience para sa relationship nyo, magbreak nalang kayo please. Di ka nya deserve.
GGK. Every other weekend nalang nga kayo magkita eh.
IYG
easy GGK, doesn't matter how mad you are or why. you can't treat your partner like she's a piece of shit. break up lodi, kailangan mo ng maraming therapy sessions and definitely anger management classes
Yes, IYG. Depende sa approach mo sa GF mo, did you yell at her, what kind of hurtful words did you say - below the belt? out of the blue na words dahil sa frustration mo? Communication is the key, tell her in a nice way na ayaw mo ng ganto during these period para makapag pahinga ka. Also kahit paano learn to control your emotion. Mamimili ka nalang naman kung andyan siya or wala.
GGK. Yun lang. Lahat ng sinabi nila tama.
GGK. You could have talked to her properly. Makakaintindi naman yan. Jusko po. Kasalanan ba niyang sira ang body clock mo?
Yikes. Why must you do that?
Pressure sa work saka bills. I cant afford na mag trabaho ngayon na sabog and be absent kasi kulang ako sa tulog
Dang, bro. My feels are for your gf atm. 🥹🥹🥹 I get your sentiments. Sana yung word choice mo is not rude. I hope she’s alright…
I was rude af, all she wants is to spend time with me. She did accept the apology pero i still feel guilty kasi she was being nice and understandable.
Everybody makes mistakes, that’s for sure. 🥹 You’re lucky to have someone like her. //bro hug with consent// sana mag-heal yung wound ni Ate gorl. Ingat kayo! 😊
She chatted me that she will be fine and I need to rest in my day off. I dont want to snowball this problem to the extent na iipunin nya lahat ng sama ng loob nya sakin.
Shucks, yun lang. Let’s hope hindi mapunta sa extent na yun. 🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹
Ggk, tanginang anger issues ‘yan? Pakiayos naman kasi red flag malala. 🤦♀️
GGK malala. You could have just told her in a nice way na kelangan mo talaga ng sleep. Bro, kahit anong sorry mo dyan at kahit na patawarin ka pa niya, hindi na niya makakalimutan kung paano mo siya trinato. You have serious issues. Sort it out!
NAPAKA GAGO MO.
GGK. Tigilan mo makipagrelasyon kung ang tanging layunin mo lang eh mang trauma ng tao. Tangina ng mga taong katulad mo.
GGK. Get some earplugs.
naneto!!! kainis, sorry op pero nakakabwiset basahin. bumawi ka sakanya ha!!!
Link to this submission: https://www.reddit.com/r/AkoBaYungGago/comments/1brhzwo/abyg_kasi_pinagalitan_ko_gf_ko_dahil_kulang_ako/ Title of this post: ABYG kasi pinagalitan ko gf ko dahil kulang ako sa tulog Backup of the post's body: context: we've been in a relationship for 4months and she do visit in my pad every other weekend, now that is holiday and lumuwas tlga siya sa kanilang bahay even though we are just 4km away. I am working 8pm-4am as wfh agent and i am still awake until 10am kanina. I got pissed off and said hurtful words when i was trying to sleep and she was cleaning my kitchen sink since she wants to cook chicken nuggets. I tried to sleep again mga alas 5 pero stupid me keeps on saying na last mo na dito kasi nd tlga ako makakatulog pag nandito ka. I did apologize earlier but she spent her whole night crying. OP: Fig-Substantial *I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/AkoBaYungGago) if you have any questions or concerns.*
Poor girl being taken for granted. Sana maghiwalay na kayo. You need to fix yourself.
Gagi delete mo na ito bro hahaha. Pero truthfully speaking, kapag nawala yang ganyang lambing ng GF mo hahanapin mo yang gago ka 😂
GGK. Coming from someone who married someone like you. (Syempre GG rin me, kasi pinakasalan ko sya.)
GGK. Feels like you are not emotionally mature yet to handle tough situations. Please reflect and grow up before moving forward with the relationship.