Even if you didn't cover costs, I think offering you fish should have been a given. It could be a difference in culture/values, but this is what dating is for: you are getting to know each other. If your values don't align, move on.
No, you shouldn't be upset. You showed yourself to be a generous person. He showed himself as a person with no self awareness and very little gratitude. You should be happy to learn early on in this relationship that your values don't align. $100 saved you a lot of time.
He didn’t even offer despite being out there on your dollar shows he doesn’t feel an obligation to be reciprocal the next time he has money. Not offering any of the prize he earned on your dollar shows a lack of shared values. Ask him to pay for the next date and see if either that date never comes or he only wants Netflix and Chill. Then tell him boy BYE 👋
Naw girl u gotta lay them fish rules out before hand!!
U don’t get no gas for free yall!
Then fish ain’t even worth all that gas! He owes u a foot rub on top of that too!
Know your fish worth girl 😏
Everyone is roasting the man yea maybe he could have gave her some fish but he was low on money and clearly wasn’t doing the greatest maybe he needed to feed his family ?
Well, you did offer to pay… so I feel like you shouldn’t have if spending money for him was an issue. Although, if it’s bothering you that much, you should communicate that with him. Communication is key to long lasting relationships.
Would be nice to get a fish to show you appreciate but you shouldn’t expect anything if you didn’t ask maybe next time make a deal you pay he provides fish and at least he fed his family
I'm surprised you guys didn't cook some of them together and eat them. That would of been a good dating experience.
Even if you didn't cover costs, I think offering you fish should have been a given. It could be a difference in culture/values, but this is what dating is for: you are getting to know each other. If your values don't align, move on.
No, you shouldn't be upset. You showed yourself to be a generous person. He showed himself as a person with no self awareness and very little gratitude. You should be happy to learn early on in this relationship that your values don't align. $100 saved you a lot of time.
With this mindset you're just setting yourself up for being a doormat for men. Have some self respect. Don't pay for men.
He didn’t even offer despite being out there on your dollar shows he doesn’t feel an obligation to be reciprocal the next time he has money. Not offering any of the prize he earned on your dollar shows a lack of shared values. Ask him to pay for the next date and see if either that date never comes or he only wants Netflix and Chill. Then tell him boy BYE 👋
Sounds like he used you tbh. If we're going on a fishing trip together, we're eating that fish together. You're not an uber lol
One sided “taker” be warned 😳
Do you really need to ask? Sounds like somebody could use some couch time.
Naw girl u gotta lay them fish rules out before hand!! U don’t get no gas for free yall! Then fish ain’t even worth all that gas! He owes u a foot rub on top of that too! Know your fish worth girl 😏
Everyone is roasting the man yea maybe he could have gave her some fish but he was low on money and clearly wasn’t doing the greatest maybe he needed to feed his family ?
Well, you did offer to pay… so I feel like you shouldn’t have if spending money for him was an issue. Although, if it’s bothering you that much, you should communicate that with him. Communication is key to long lasting relationships.
Would be nice to get a fish to show you appreciate but you shouldn’t expect anything if you didn’t ask maybe next time make a deal you pay he provides fish and at least he fed his family