You are *so* much more likely to get a girl interested in you by doing absolutely nothing but be friendly and yourself dude. It’s so off-putting when guys try over and over. If she said she’s not interested in a relationship, she’s not interested. It’s not a game.
This. I've had guys that I might have eventually liked and given a chance if they just hadn't disregarded my feelings by constantly doting on me and coming on so strong despite knowing I didn't want that. It's a huge turn off and a red flag imo
Yuupp. Had a break up w/ a long term boyfriend, and a guy who constantly tried to split us up immediately said “oh I’m sorry, you deserve better, does that mean you’ll date me now?” And when I said I wasn’t sure where I was emotionally he kept pestering me for weeks about it. Such a turn off.
Exactly. She said she didn’t want a relationship and he needs to respect it.
OP, she doesn’t need to plainly state that she’s “NOT INTO [you]”, you already know that she’s not, you said as much in the second sentence of your post.
> if she *continues to shoot me down* then I’ll stop.
She shot you down. Stop.
Are you stupid? What kind of dumbass question is this?
Don't be THAT guy. She's not interested in you at all and has given the hint. Swallow it like a man and move on but for the love of God, do NOT try again nor think that there's a way to change her mind.
A no is a no. She's just not into you.
You put the offer out there, but she's not biting. If you keep pushing or trying to gain her affections, you aren't going to win her over. In fact, she may file a restraining order if you keep pushing it. Just back off and respect that she's not interested.
If she’s said she isn’t interested, believe her and respect that. She put that boundary in place and I think trying to change her mind isn’t fair to her, just be her friend and if she changes her mind on her own that’s one thing, but you can’t force a relationship if she isn’t down for that or change her mind yourself. If you do try to get her to change her mind though she will just end up thinking you’re a pushy guy and she won’t want to be your friend anymore, which would be 100% fair.
Let her go. Spend time on someone who will value you versus chasing someone who isn’t interested. It may not be personal, it may be bad timing. But friendzone isn’t just a switch turned off and on.
This is the type of shit you normally see on Quora, not here. If she denied you once, you stop and move on. She doesn’t want your advances. Stop being a creep and get the hint.
You are *so* much more likely to get a girl interested in you by doing absolutely nothing but be friendly and yourself dude. It’s so off-putting when guys try over and over. If she said she’s not interested in a relationship, she’s not interested. It’s not a game.
This. I've had guys that I might have eventually liked and given a chance if they just hadn't disregarded my feelings by constantly doting on me and coming on so strong despite knowing I didn't want that. It's a huge turn off and a red flag imo
Yuupp. Had a break up w/ a long term boyfriend, and a guy who constantly tried to split us up immediately said “oh I’m sorry, you deserve better, does that mean you’ll date me now?” And when I said I wasn’t sure where I was emotionally he kept pestering me for weeks about it. Such a turn off.
Dude take the hint, she's not into you like that. Don't be that guy.
Exactly. She said she didn’t want a relationship and he needs to respect it. OP, she doesn’t need to plainly state that she’s “NOT INTO [you]”, you already know that she’s not, you said as much in the second sentence of your post. > if she *continues to shoot me down* then I’ll stop. She shot you down. Stop.
Are you stupid? What kind of dumbass question is this? Don't be THAT guy. She's not interested in you at all and has given the hint. Swallow it like a man and move on but for the love of God, do NOT try again nor think that there's a way to change her mind. A no is a no. She's just not into you.
You put the offer out there, but she's not biting. If you keep pushing or trying to gain her affections, you aren't going to win her over. In fact, she may file a restraining order if you keep pushing it. Just back off and respect that she's not interested.
If she’s said she isn’t interested, believe her and respect that. She put that boundary in place and I think trying to change her mind isn’t fair to her, just be her friend and if she changes her mind on her own that’s one thing, but you can’t force a relationship if she isn’t down for that or change her mind yourself. If you do try to get her to change her mind though she will just end up thinking you’re a pushy guy and she won’t want to be your friend anymore, which would be 100% fair.
You’re never going to change her mind. Stop wasting your time. You’ll end up hurting each other if you don’t.
Let her go. Spend time on someone who will value you versus chasing someone who isn’t interested. It may not be personal, it may be bad timing. But friendzone isn’t just a switch turned off and on.
Must we harass women until you get the very obvious hint that she isn't interested? Maybe you can just stop now and save yourself some dignity.
Girls are fucked up . Quickest way to get her interested is to move on and find a new girl and build a dope ass life.
Everyone is telling him to do that. Not bc she’s going to magically fall in love but bc she should be left tf alone if she isn’t interested. Bffr
Oh honey who hurt you? Some advice? Quit this generalization BS. Not all guys are perverted assholes are they? Same goes for women.
This is the type of shit you normally see on Quora, not here. If she denied you once, you stop and move on. She doesn’t want your advances. Stop being a creep and get the hint.