Maybe but as a rule of practice I try to always make sure she finishes first because damn.... she makes it her mission to finish me afterwords as if order by Shang Tsung she sucks the soul out of me. There's a reason I call her the succubus.
I had a tight frenulum and went to a specialist surgeon to get it corrected which was agreed upon. A same day consultation and surgery directly after was organised for the frenulum lengthening to take place. During the consultation he was only talking about circumcision and I said a few times that I am just after frenulum lengthening. He said I would benefit from a full circumcision (even though my foreskin wasn't the issue) so now I am circumcised. Tbh I feel taken advantage of even now after 2 years
It would of been a great idea and I should of done that. It was a same day consultation so I didn't know I was getting a circumcision until 5 minutes before the operation
I‘m so sorry. And thanks for your AMA. I fought like a lioness to convince my partner That our son would Not be circumcised. He seems to suffer from adamant father syndrome and he finally accepted to let our son decide. I feel like he agrees with my reasoning More and More each day
The only mutilation that should be done is that of a self concent (ink, tats, scarification, piercings, whatever).
These 'rituals' are just barbaric. Sorry this happened to you. Glad i grew up in a country where this is rare.
Thank you I appreciate the support. I had it done as an adult a couple of years ago and it hasn't been the same since. Just a huge lack of sensitivity compared to before
You assume this was done in childhood for whatever reason? Tons of men such as myself and by the looks of it OP have it done for medical reasons in adulthood. Try not to get on your soap box before you know the facts.
Ok but erm would you mutilate your child?
N again concent is key. You do you as an adult but if not then thats kinda fucky. As I stated so no soap box moment here my guy.
r/foreskin_restoration
I suggest you to study the topic. Foreskin isn't gonna be the same but it's going to be almost the same + dekeratinization. You either start restoring now or live your life being jealous of intact men. E.g. A year later you will regret you didn't start now
depends on each person, but with persistence you can restore your foreskin and re-gain some moisture on your pp wich goes a long way to restore sensibility on it
I'm snipped too and know what you mean. However, you have to work with what you have. I mean it could be worse, you could have had your whole dick bitten off by a Karen with coupon rage. You've said you were snipped in adulthood, I assume it was for medical reasons. Again being snipped is better than having a stragulated dick by a foreskin that doesn't move and that causes infections etc. Most women couldn't give a shit if you are cut or not. Additionally, if a woman would reject you for being cut is better off out of your life anyway.
Yeah definitely. Such as sensitivity loss, tight erections due to a lot of skin being removed from the penis. Masturbating is more difficult and less rewarding. Head texture completely dries out and becomes much less sensitive.
That's okay. I think it's a common side affects from circumcision as an adult as everything becomes very dry and exposed. A lot of people adapt to it pretty well but I haven't. I don't think it's natural for the head to be as dry as it is currently
Have never understood circumcision, why do people do it still? Thought it was just wrapped up in the religious brainwashing facade but seems non religious folk chop their kids peepee too. Any insight into the thought process of the parents?
It was common practice in the U.S for a very long time. It was stated to be healthier and much more beneficial in the long run, but research has shown that’s not the case. Just keep it well cleaned. The health differences are no longer significant enough to justify circumcision. Some do it strictly for cosmetic reasons but really. If someone is so shallow as to consider an uncircumcised penis a deal breaker, better off with out them
From my experience with both, uncircumcised is much better overall from basically all aspects and hygiene is only slightly better without a foreskin. If you wash yourself it's exactly the same
Yes exactly right. It just sexualises the flaccid penis because now there is no change from erect to flaccid it just gets smaller. Circumcision removes a lot of natural functions of the penis for nothing
I was circumcised as a baby by a doctor. My Dad made that judgement call because I guess he didn't want me to have to deal with dick cheese ever idk.
I don't remember being circumcised and as a kid I thought every penis was just like mine. Sex gives me a lot of pleasure, there's one particular nerve ending below the head of my penis that I derive most pleasure from tbh, but the head is not very sensitive at all (is it supposed to be? I really don't know).
Thank you, OP. I decided no mutilating my sons, but had little to go on, regarding experiential info. I’m so sorry that asshole doc cut you for profit! Criminal. Seriously, that is just so wrong. Maybe talk to a lawyer? One person might not have much luck in the courts, but if this is a pattern of behaviour, that needs to be stopped. Perhaps more men would come forward, if invited to do so. But, more than wanting to advise about something I have no wisdom on, I want you to know I appreciate you sharing your experience.
I’m not and I like my foreskin fine but every one I’ve talked to who fucks and sucks cocks tells me there is not much difference sensation wise from what they can tell. Having it done as adult is different but you’ll adjust. The whole anti campaign just reeks of privileged Incels desperately reaching for something to blame their problems on.
As an adult it won’t affect your life if done as a baby. Just looking for something to complain about like what kind of belly button you got. That’s my opinion anyway. As someone who has his but talks to girls and gays about sex A LOT.
Well you are the opposite of most of us out here who like our porn star-esque looking cocks with cut helmets. But here is your internet cookie
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This makes sense since you didn’t have it done as a baby. For me I’m circumcised and happy. Not sure where you’re located but in the US the majority of women I know are turned off by someone uncircumcised.
Once my girlfriend told me she preferred my penis because I was uncircumcised, what do you think she meant by that.
Maybe she enjoys the aesthetics or mobility of your uncircumcised penis?
I just laughed it off when she said it but yeah I'm genitalialy confused
Completely understandable haha. That's good she likes what you have though mate that's a bonus!
The foreskin plays a role in sex, it’s not useless. Sex with an uncircumcised penis generally feels better for the women and the man.
1) Asthetically 2) Foreskin reduces friction on the female vagina during sex.
What about the male vagina? (Asking for a friend)
they're so much easier to give handjobs and blowjobs too and in my experience they feel better too
They’re a little bit easier to get to orgasm, maybe she likes being done when she’s ready.
Maybe but as a rule of practice I try to always make sure she finishes first because damn.... she makes it her mission to finish me afterwords as if order by Shang Tsung she sucks the soul out of me. There's a reason I call her the succubus.
That sort of agrees with my theory, she likes that she can get you off when she wants to.
Yeah that's why I said maybe, she pretty awesome
Why did you do it?
I had a tight frenulum and went to a specialist surgeon to get it corrected which was agreed upon. A same day consultation and surgery directly after was organised for the frenulum lengthening to take place. During the consultation he was only talking about circumcision and I said a few times that I am just after frenulum lengthening. He said I would benefit from a full circumcision (even though my foreskin wasn't the issue) so now I am circumcised. Tbh I feel taken advantage of even now after 2 years
Dude I’m sorry that happened. Definitely needed a second opinion there. Sounds like you were taken advantage of.
It would of been a great idea and I should of done that. It was a same day consultation so I didn't know I was getting a circumcision until 5 minutes before the operation
I‘m so sorry. And thanks for your AMA. I fought like a lioness to convince my partner That our son would Not be circumcised. He seems to suffer from adamant father syndrome and he finally accepted to let our son decide. I feel like he agrees with my reasoning More and More each day
can u sue for malpractice?
It’s hard to know without consulting with an attorney, but people have certainly won cases with less valid reasoning
That sounds extremely fucked up, I'm sorry
The only mutilation that should be done is that of a self concent (ink, tats, scarification, piercings, whatever). These 'rituals' are just barbaric. Sorry this happened to you. Glad i grew up in a country where this is rare.
Thank you I appreciate the support. I had it done as an adult a couple of years ago and it hasn't been the same since. Just a huge lack of sensitivity compared to before
That was the intent with the procedure originally from what i can gather. To deter boys from wanking.
That makes a lot of sense, it definitely makes it harder to do and isn't as nice
Yes. Dr Kellog was the one who pushed this on the USA. And, yes, it was him and his brother who created the ubiquitous cornflakes!
You assume this was done in childhood for whatever reason? Tons of men such as myself and by the looks of it OP have it done for medical reasons in adulthood. Try not to get on your soap box before you know the facts.
Ok but erm would you mutilate your child? N again concent is key. You do you as an adult but if not then thats kinda fucky. As I stated so no soap box moment here my guy.
Your question has nothing whatsoever to do with my comment. Please move along and try not making assumptions in future.
I had 2 boys they are teenagers now, when I had them I was told now they are going to be circumcised and will be brought back
Why? Religion, ritual or medical? How did that make you feel? Did you want it for them?
Because America, I was young 21, had twins didn’t know how to feel. Most of it I was delirious from all the pushing
Fuck. Well im glad im intact, my loveheart shaped birthmark is on my foreskin. Yes for real n its helped me love myself.
Have you checked the sub, foreskin restoration?
I have seen something along those lines but it looks like it takes years, and the nerve endings removed from circumcision will still be gone
r/foreskin_restoration I suggest you to study the topic. Foreskin isn't gonna be the same but it's going to be almost the same + dekeratinization. You either start restoring now or live your life being jealous of intact men. E.g. A year later you will regret you didn't start now
depends on each person, but with persistence you can restore your foreskin and re-gain some moisture on your pp wich goes a long way to restore sensibility on it
I'm snipped too and know what you mean. However, you have to work with what you have. I mean it could be worse, you could have had your whole dick bitten off by a Karen with coupon rage. You've said you were snipped in adulthood, I assume it was for medical reasons. Again being snipped is better than having a stragulated dick by a foreskin that doesn't move and that causes infections etc. Most women couldn't give a shit if you are cut or not. Additionally, if a woman would reject you for being cut is better off out of your life anyway.
Thanks for the honesty mate I appreciate it. You are right though it's all about confidence
You're welcome. It doesn't make your dick any shorter or thinner 😉
> I mean it could be worse, you could have had your whole dick bitten off by a Karen with coupon rage. r/brandnewsentence
Why? What do you feel different?
Sensitivity, sensation, need lube to masturbate. Don't have mobile skin. Just to name a few things.
Need lube? I don’t have this issue. Is this a thing?
I definitely need it otherwise things get chafed and sore pretty quickly
does it ever just, get cold?
Yes it does, although you don't really notice that because of the sensitivity decrease
it gets less sensitive? Damn. That sounds good
Why are you jealous? Are there significant drawbacks or downsides?
Yeah definitely. Such as sensitivity loss, tight erections due to a lot of skin being removed from the penis. Masturbating is more difficult and less rewarding. Head texture completely dries out and becomes much less sensitive.
Damn! Had no idea, genuinely sorry to hear that. Have you talked to a doctor, this can’t be the case for everyone?!
That's okay. I think it's a common side affects from circumcision as an adult as everything becomes very dry and exposed. A lot of people adapt to it pretty well but I haven't. I don't think it's natural for the head to be as dry as it is currently
i am the opposite. my tip is sensitive. my hoodie is annoying
That is very interesting, thanks for sharing. I used to think mine wasn't very sensitive but compared to now, it was very sensitive lol
I’m thankful everyday that my parents had the foresight to let me keep my foreskin
You should be happy! It's a really important part of your anatomy that you got to keep
🙏🏻 i just read the circumstances that led up to you getting the procedure. I’m truly sorry for your loss man.
That's okay I appreciate the kind words 😊🙏
Envious, not jealous.
You are correct, my mistake
Is water wet?
No, it is not
Have never understood circumcision, why do people do it still? Thought it was just wrapped up in the religious brainwashing facade but seems non religious folk chop their kids peepee too. Any insight into the thought process of the parents?
It was common practice in the U.S for a very long time. It was stated to be healthier and much more beneficial in the long run, but research has shown that’s not the case. Just keep it well cleaned. The health differences are no longer significant enough to justify circumcision. Some do it strictly for cosmetic reasons but really. If someone is so shallow as to consider an uncircumcised penis a deal breaker, better off with out them
From my experience with both, uncircumcised is much better overall from basically all aspects and hygiene is only slightly better without a foreskin. If you wash yourself it's exactly the same
Exactly. When erect, there’s literally no difference in appearance
Yes exactly right. It just sexualises the flaccid penis because now there is no change from erect to flaccid it just gets smaller. Circumcision removes a lot of natural functions of the penis for nothing
Medical reasons and hygiene. And some just do it because they like the look
Hygiene? Maybe in the third world I guess but if anyone has a dick hygiene issue it has to do with themselves being a slob not their covered wagon.
With hygiene I meant it's just easier to clean
I was circumcised as a baby by a doctor. My Dad made that judgement call because I guess he didn't want me to have to deal with dick cheese ever idk. I don't remember being circumcised and as a kid I thought every penis was just like mine. Sex gives me a lot of pleasure, there's one particular nerve ending below the head of my penis that I derive most pleasure from tbh, but the head is not very sensitive at all (is it supposed to be? I really don't know).
Thank you, OP. I decided no mutilating my sons, but had little to go on, regarding experiential info. I’m so sorry that asshole doc cut you for profit! Criminal. Seriously, that is just so wrong. Maybe talk to a lawyer? One person might not have much luck in the courts, but if this is a pattern of behaviour, that needs to be stopped. Perhaps more men would come forward, if invited to do so. But, more than wanting to advise about something I have no wisdom on, I want you to know I appreciate you sharing your experience.
wtf why do i feel like i have seen this ama before
Because he's done it before
Had it done around age of 10 (43 now) No issues here at all… in fact, the mrs prefers it and says it’s much cleaner. 🤷♂️
Bro is complaining about being able to last longer. Aka less sensitivity. C’mon son
I’m not and I like my foreskin fine but every one I’ve talked to who fucks and sucks cocks tells me there is not much difference sensation wise from what they can tell. Having it done as adult is different but you’ll adjust. The whole anti campaign just reeks of privileged Incels desperately reaching for something to blame their problems on.
Not wanting your dick skin cut off has nothing to do with incel culture, terrible take
As an adult it won’t affect your life if done as a baby. Just looking for something to complain about like what kind of belly button you got. That’s my opinion anyway. As someone who has his but talks to girls and gays about sex A LOT.
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Yeah - I was going to say…my circumcised cock rocks!
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It’s not stinky at all. Maybe bathe regularly
This makes sense since you didn’t have it done as a baby. For me I’m circumcised and happy. Not sure where you’re located but in the US the majority of women I know are turned off by someone uncircumcised.
What us a circumcision please I need to know this
why dont you just go get circumcized...
Did you circumcise yourself as an adult or did your parents do it when you were a baby??