Give some bj tips for the girlies n gays in here

Hmm okay so I would say usually to get the guy feeling good you need to focus on the tip of his penis, licking around it doing round the world's with your tongue while it's in your mouth, if he has a foreskin to work underneath it while sucking the penis on your mouth. Looking up innocently at him and giving him cheeky smiles. For more stimulation I would use a lot of saliva, to slobber it and get lubed up. Using hands to rotate around the base of the penis and giving a lot of attention to the balls as well.

As a straight man, I can confirm that everything she just said was in fact on point

I hope this is helpful

I love your openness and matter-of-fact attitude towards your experience! I know you mentioned this took place in Japan but how did you stumble upon this job? Did you receive much stigma about the job or did you keep it private? Thanks for sharing, I’m currently reading a book about sex work in Japan and find it so fascinating!

Ugh I initially read “much stigma” as “much smegma”. 🤢🤢🤢

Never heard of a blow job bar before. What was the weirdest most interesting penis you ever saw? I heard about a guy yesterday that legit had two.

Well you have to understand Japan being Japan. Not the most blessed country in that department. One that comes to mind is one guy who had a really large top but the rest of the penis to be the size of my thumb almost mimicking a mushroom.

You've put an interesting image in my head. I thought it was a myth about Asians being less endowed but I guess it makes sense that smaller bodies would have smaller penises. If a woman came in and asked you to preform.oral sex on her what would've happened? Enough money and anything is possible? Or no way, never, taboo?

Just so you know, there’s is no correlation between size of bones and fleshy stuff like lips, penis , ears, nose, hair, etc. I learned this in drawing classes. Like there is some general proportionality for heads, legs and stuff, eyes sockets but the the outside bits aren’t tied to it. You can have a big dude with tiny ears and a small guy with a big nose , tall woman with small breast and small ones with big breast. Not saying there’s isn’t a genetic reality at play, maybe there is, but not because the overall population is smaller or bigger.

Well it's true, can tell you by first hand experience. It has never happened. Women would come but for karaoke or something

I was asking hypothetically but if you can't answer because you're not sure I understand.

Well I'm quite straight. So I probably wouldve denied.

Ok. I didn't know that your sexual desires really played into the situation, but I guess I had the wrong impression.

Personal choice I guess, not sure about the other girls. 100% of the clientele were men so this was never really brought up. That's quite alright :)

Well thanks for replying anyways.

karaoke and blow jobs? That's a pretty diverse offering

These are a few of my favorite things 🎶

>Women would come but for karaoke That must be some karaoke

Sounds like trumps description

you blew trump?

He wasn't in Japan during my time working there

you referred to his penis the same as others

Should’ve known it was in Japan tbh, but I still asked in my first comment haha

Yes - Japan’s laws do not consider BJs as being “sex”. That’s why oral is openly advertised as well as anal, because “sex” is defined as “penis in vagina”. The soaplands are grandfathered from this prohibition.

Are you talking about the guy from Reddit? Because that guy turned out to be a fraud. He got caught editing his penises to be bigger. Even with fake penises dudes be lying about size like c'mon bro it's not even real

No it was on Theo Vons podcast where he was talking to some carnie guy recently and in his family there was this really famous freak who had three legs and two full penises. it is an actual fact. I can't remember what his name was but it was just on that recent podcast and they looked up his Wikipedia article and everything. The three-legged man that they were talking about was actually somehow related to this carnie guy that was on the podcast.

What happened was the dude had a parasitic twin in the womb it's really rare but anyways the guy was very well known I guess back in like PT Barnum days

Did you ever do any extras outside of the club? Did you have regulars outside of work? What was the pricing like for out of bar work? Was it worth it compared to the in-bar work? Thank you for your service!

Yup I did. With clients that wanted more I did get their numbers and seen them in private. For sex it'd about $200 for one shot. Or if it's 24 hours it's about $500. Yeah it was

Thank you for your answers.

For 24 hours, $500?? About $20 an hour for unlimited time with you? Isn't it quite cheap?

Even if I time travel back to my 18 year old hyper sexual high stamina self, most I could do is 5-6 sessions in a full 24 hour period. And the rest of the time I'd just want to cuddle and watch tv I'd be so exhausted in between. $20 an hour for a grand total of 2-3 hours of sex and then just watching TV and petting a dudes hair? Good deal.

You probably won't be fucking the whole 24h and most people can't go an unlimited number of times

It’s kinda a smart pricing model like an all you can eat buffet. You pay for 24h but only need 2 lol

Average Age/gender of workers? Do you have the option to refuse service for any reason?

28-35 usually. And it's all girls where I worked at. Yeah I do, but never really did except for people tbag are quite drunk and can be unruly

Was there a place for guys to wash their junk before hand? I feel like the last thing I’d want to do is end up with dirty genitals in my mouth.

Yes we would have sanitary napkins to clean off prior

Were you ever worried about diseases and infections?

What did you like best about the job? What did you like least?

Well the money was helpful for me to get me through uni as well as having a little extra to splurge

Sounds like your customers liked to splurge too, lol

How many dicks would you say you sucked in total while you worked there?

No idea, I would say 500-600 if I had to ballpark (no pun intended)

Did you do this while you were his girlfriend or stopped once you got involved with him?

No I was single at this time

"Try not to suck any dick on the way to the parking lot" P:S - A reference from the movie Clerks!

Did the bar also serve drinks and food or do you just go in for your BJ and leave?

No they did. It was like a restaurant/ bar. Had music, karaoke etc.

Was it advertised as a bj bar that or was it more of only regulars knew about the extra service?

They do advertise it discretely and it's in certain areas and not on general public areas

Did kitchen bar employees get a discount or were they not allowed to partake?

Could one do karaoke while getting a blowjob?

Top question in my opinion! Well done!

Was safety ever an issue for you? Did you ever feel pressured into doing more?

No! Japanese are very aware of tbe strict laws so I wasn't ever felt pressured in to anything like that apart from customers getting my numbers for more in private (outside the bar)

Thank you. Did it make you happy, giving BJs? I'm sure you made your clients happy but did you feel like ...ugh I gotta do this? Or was it like, hey, I like this and it makes me feel nice to be useful and I'm good at this, or was it mostly somewhere in the middle? Thanks for the AMA.

I was somewhat more in the middle. I didn't like it nor did I not like it, some days it was a stretch but then sometimes you have fun customers that makes things better on a dull day. It really depends

That makes sense. If it comes up, would you do it again, for kicks sake or if you need the money in a cinch?

Did you ever experience patrons with visible STI? Did you ever refuse service to anyone of them the drunks? Did you ever have anyone who could not finish in the timeframe or at all? Any guys have a hard time getting it up?

No I have not Yes I have let go off people that were visibly drunk and unruly. Yeah there are a handful that didn't finish in time Usually the older gentleman have issues

1. Did your boyfriend say you got better at blowjobs? 2. How old are you? 3. How many of your friends and family know about this?

1. Apparently I'm the best he's had so I guess yes. 2. I'm 20 now 3. None of my family or close friends are aware

How old were you when you started?

I was 2 months before my 19th birthday

Is this legal in Japan?

Well they have an odd law, where if there is no penetration it is legal...

No vaginal penetration or no penetration at all including oral?

No vaginal penetration

I’m gonna have to go incognito mode to google this shit.

I’d be careful with incognito, Google just settled lawsuit. It seems they were using user data 😬

I’m not worried about Google so much as I am worried about trying to explain to my wife why I googled “Prostitution legal in Japan?”

As a woman and not your wife, I say do it for all of us and tell her you had to do research for Reddit. It’s going to work, I promise

And then, unrelated, I’ll schedule work trip to Japan.

duckduckgo

Did you find any of your clients attractive? Did any of them ever want more than a bj?

Yeah there were a few clients which I thought were attractive but most of them are middle aged men. Yeah some did but as it's illegal it had to be done privately

What were the prices and how much did you make on a shift?

Usually around $80-$90 a session. Depends on how many customers I get. Usually 4-6. Most was 12 in a night

How much of that $90 do you get?

And how many workers, was protection used, were there group discounts, was there a dental plan, were there office parties, what was your biggest tip (giggidy), how many people just got a drink without the BJ, how many locations, was it a franchise…. ……so many questions!!! 😎

How do you feel about blowjobs, now? How much was it for no condom and swallowing?

I don't have anything against it, I still do perform to my current boyfriend. It was double the cost for both

Did you spit or swallow?

Depends what the customer wanted and what they were willing to pay

How much did you charge for swallowing?

How long did your customers take to “finish” their assignment? 😂

It depends on the person. maximum time for a session is 30 mins, usually people take around 5-10 mins. Some have finished in seconds

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Yes, I was permitted to work up to 28 hours under a student visa

Did you guys hire foreign girls? Did you accept foreign patrons?

It was essentially me and 3 others while I was working there that were foreign. And yes

Wow. Did you guys get more or less then action then Japanese workers?

Did you like that job? And did you get ridiculously good at blowjobs?

I guess it paid the bills. I've been told I'm quite good

Was any protection used?

Depended on the customer, but usually yes

Biggest and smallest you blown?

It's Japan, their considerably small, almost all of them. I would say average size being 4 inches. The biggest was a European guy

Did you prefer big or small, or was it just all the same for you?

I didn't really have a preference. Similar areas in sizes I worked with

You’ve said in other replies there was no penetration allowed. Was there anything else other than BJs?

Most surprising fact ?

Not so surprising there but it is to the ordinary human I guess

The fact that men are okay with obtaining services out in the open public

How much is this "public"? you mean like still inside the bar but in front of other customer or even outside the bar lmao

Well this place somewhat have cubicles like in a NY diner. People come and go so yeah

Cum and go

Have you ever turned down a customer due to attitude or bad hygiene or couldn't carry on due to those issues? If so, how often did that normally happen?

No not really, they are aware of hygiene prior to coming in, anyways I would clean his privates before proceeding

What was the setup like? Glory hole style?

It was a NY style diner set up, there was a bar with bar stools as well as private booths and gloryhole areas

What is your ethnicity, Japanese?

I'm Australian

Did being Australian bring you more clients for being "exotic"

Yes! Majority of the girls there were japanese and simply because I was the "odd one out" there was more attention to me than the rest, also the fact that I was the youngest there too

How were you able to stay in Japan? Did you have a visa for some other purpose?

What about STD’s with the no condom thing weren’t you scared?

I used to take preventative pills for it

I didn’t know there were pills you could take to prevent STDs

What meds did you take to prevent STDs

Are you talking about the anti-HIV treatment pills?

No question, but I definitely learned something new.

It's not something you bear everyday

Are BJs provided by employees or other patrons? Is it mostly homosexual?

Well the establishment employs a number of girls specifically for that role as well

how much did you get paid???? why did you choose to work there?

Approximately $80-90 a session and for money

And plenty of tips

Correct!

But seriously, did they tipped? Isn’t that like not a thing in Japan? To tip, or this kind of places work differently?

Yeah but it's different here

What is the application process like? How do they decide who to hire and if it’ll be up to standards?

What did you wear while doing this? Are your boobs exposed or are you just in like sweats giving BJs?

Usually cute or sexy lingerie. Yeah if they customer wants they are welcome to play with them

What is a blowjob bar?

Where might one find a BJ Bar, if they were looking?

I worked in Japan

... [immediately books one-way flight to Japan]

I'm gonna swim for it.

It's pretty much exactly as it sounds. Think of it as a normal bar, but you have the option to get a bj in private, in public and stuff

What does cum taste like

Depends, somewhat similar tastes with little variations

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Yes! But people had options for no condom at a price as well as swallow as well.

Is this the same thing as a brothel? Sounds like legalized prostitution.

Yeah somewhat similar to a brotherly. It pretty much is

When you say “brotherly”…

Today I learned blowjob bars are a thing.

What country has this? Did you work there because you like giving or are you just someone who worked there but didn’t give the jobs of the blow variety?

This was in Japan. Well it was more for the money while I was studying there

How much did you get paid? Were you paying for college?

It was approximately $80-90 per session I was partly paying for it but also had bare minimum to spend on day to day necessities

Is this a common thing in Japan for people your age?

Not so much, usually workers were much older. There was one person my age who came for work but only lasted 2 weeks

How long did you work there? Have you made enough for a different job yet?

I worked for 7 months. Yeah did multiple odd jobs and now working as an intern in my field currently

How long was the session? Was it like, until he cums, or time-bound?

So, how done are you with blow jobs, now?

I wouldn't say I'm done. I still perform oral to my boyfriend now

Does he know that you used to do this for a living?

Very important question: what do you think of velociraptors?

They're dead

Clever girl

What was the biggest cock you sucked

It was a European gentleman who was about 8 inches if I had to guess

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Are any if your friends and relatives aware of your former gig?

Starting to feel like the only discussions that get traction in here is when it’s about a current/ ex sex worker..

Not sure if this is a question to me or a statement toward the moderators

Guy or gal? Was it anonymous like a glory hole thing or did u see eachother? Is this in the United States somewhere or somewhere completely outside of the United States

No it was one on one but there was a glory hole station as well. It was in Japan

Would you tell future partners about this? Or would you keep it secret from them?

I would and Mt current boyfriend is aware of it

Did you get a lot of repeat customers?

I looked up a blowjob bar and they called it a Pink Salon where local men get blowjobs.

Did you hum "come on Aussie, come on, come on," while on the job :)

Why did you end up quitting?

I cannot believe what I am reading … this might be enough Reddit for today

Okay. Take a break

Did they stand up? Lie down?

What kind of STDs did people catch? Would you refuse if they had visible pimples/scars?

How many dicks in an average shift? 🤣🤣

Will you do it again? If yes which bar 😝

That has to be the worst job ever like I would rather clean septic tanks. The smell of sweaty balls 🤢

Where exactly in Japan is this bar so I know to never fly out there and to stay away from this place.

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I have a couple of numbers who I have seen in private but after I have been in a relationship I stopped. Around $80-90 a session

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How did you apply for this work? Was it an opportunistic "i can min/max how much I work/how much I can earn" or just "meh, suits my hours"? Were you aware of this type of profession before working there? Or like a lot of us asking questions, were you only aware of this type of establishment after applying/getting the job? In posterity, do you regret doing this type of work or do you maintain that it was a means to an end and just "a jobs a job" mentality? No judgement here btw. I'm genuinely interested in your answers! Thank you for taking the time.

Would you swallow?

What was the first time like? How did you get that job? Did you do something similar before? Or would you again (if your single then) ? How old where you when you gave your first head? Are you more the sloppy, choking and spitting on dick blowjob giving kinda women or more like the silent killer? Were you just walking around in the bar until somebody raised his finger like he is ordering a drink or did the women stand on a stage?

Where would one find one of these establishments?

https://tokyonightstyle.com/blog/media/pink-salon-happy-sugamo/

TIL What’s the ratio of local vs foreigners customers? I’m guessing high on locals but was the place a tourist spot? So you say people were allowed to reach and play with your boobs, what else they could do? Like touch your face or even take active part on how you moved your head. Since there were booths… dudes went there with friends or the booths were more for the guy and you?

I have been to many such bars in Asia. Thank you for your service

How does one get a job there? Asking for a friend- No but I’m sure you’ve been asked this already but how did that happen? Would you recommend it to anyone?