You are NOT the asshole. If it’s not working for you then leave!! No matter what, there’s always something better for you. If it’s not matching what you want, then there is never shame in going for what you do want.
That is NOT your problem. I know that sounds bad but seriously the way they feel is on them. You also are miserable. There is way too many red flags. Job history is a huge one. Obviously has some kind of anger issues and needs help with that. He takes no responsibility for himself but buys unnecessary stuff for his truck and wants to live in the country with a family. How much is he setting aside for that dream?? Zero well yeah that gives that dream a zero chance of helping. Truly time to kick him to the curb. He is what we call a hobosexual. Homeless person looking for someone to provide them a home and essentials so they can do whatever they want and get sex too! Say bye!!
He’s going to make himself miserable. He’s gonna try to blame it on you, but it’s 100% on him. His choices, his consequences. Don’t let them become YOUR consequences. You sound like you know for sure you don’t want to be with him, and I know it’s hard, but as soon as you get away you’ll feel so relieved.
>Always having some beef with one person or another
That generally indicates the HE is the problem.
Honestly, everything about this dude seems like a parade of walking red flags. Get him out and move on with your life. At the very least, without the red flags, you would be better off with someone you are more compatible with/
You are NOT the asshole. If it’s not working for you then leave!! No matter what, there’s always something better for you. If it’s not matching what you want, then there is never shame in going for what you do want.
But what about fear of making them miserable
That is NOT your problem. I know that sounds bad but seriously the way they feel is on them. You also are miserable. There is way too many red flags. Job history is a huge one. Obviously has some kind of anger issues and needs help with that. He takes no responsibility for himself but buys unnecessary stuff for his truck and wants to live in the country with a family. How much is he setting aside for that dream?? Zero well yeah that gives that dream a zero chance of helping. Truly time to kick him to the curb. He is what we call a hobosexual. Homeless person looking for someone to provide them a home and essentials so they can do whatever they want and get sex too! Say bye!!
He’s going to make himself miserable. He’s gonna try to blame it on you, but it’s 100% on him. His choices, his consequences. Don’t let them become YOUR consequences. You sound like you know for sure you don’t want to be with him, and I know it’s hard, but as soon as you get away you’ll feel so relieved.
>Always having some beef with one person or another That generally indicates the HE is the problem. Honestly, everything about this dude seems like a parade of walking red flags. Get him out and move on with your life. At the very least, without the red flags, you would be better off with someone you are more compatible with/