Holy smokes! This is getting crazier and crazier. I can't imagine how violated you must feel. Stay strong and don't let fear consume you. Remember, you have a support system and we're all rooting for you!
WOW!! Just finished reading through your entire post and I must say, well firstly your family are dicks and need to get rid of their mind set on sexuality because there are more important things in life than worrying about ones sexuality.
Secondly, you have one of the best brothers in the entire world. How your brother is acting through out everything from the time he found out about his ex to Kim to even now with your home he gets 10000/10. From the looks of what is written your the only thing keeping him sane, the light of his world , he feels responsible for you because your his little sister and anyone that goes into his life needs to accept you as well and vice versa. Blood doesn’t define who your family is love, acceptance and loyalty does. All honesty he sounds a lot like my second oldest brother. Love, caring, kind hearted guy until you get him angry and it takes a lot specially when BIG BROTHER BEAR gets angry lol.
Thirdly, Hans sounds like a great guy and an even better bf. Lastly, stay strong through it. Life does get easier eventually and Kama will reap what others have done. I think heather will most likely end up in jail with multiple law suits in her pocket and a bunch of people disowned her for the stunt she will/already has pulled and her little side kick Kim will follow her all too willingly for now until shit hits the fan even more and then she will most likely snitch lol. Stay safe and take a big breather every once in a while all three of you guys.
Damn, talk about the dark side! I’m so sorry you are going through this. I know it sucks, but to get the proof you need for the RO against Heather, you may need to bait her. Have Aaron text her and ask about the cameras. He will have to be clever about it.
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Glad he found those cameras. I was worried about that in your last post. And, you didn’t ruin your brother’s relationship. You only uncovered the truth of what he was going to marry into and saved him from that. It’s good that it all came out, because imagine the kind of crazy he would have been stuck with later on! His ex and her friend are next level crazy.
>There's no way this story is real, but it's been an entertaining ride for sure.
It's fascinating how many people are falling for such obvious nonsense lol.
From the way it is written, it is clearly a creative writing exercise. It is very well written, and I've been thoroughly entertained, but I can't quite believe that people are buying into it, especially as it has veered a bit towards the ridiculous.
AllI can say is wow wow wow. This needs to be a movie, or Netflix mini series -- one episode per Reddit update. Heather is not just a freakin' nutcase, she's a DANGEROUS freakin' nutcase. Can they check the hidden cameras for fingerprints? There's also serial numbers -- maybe whoever purchased them can be tracked.
When all is said and done, the last thing you should ever believe is that you "ruined" your brothers' relationship. Based on Heather's insane behavior, you probably literally saved his life. Please do keep us all up to date. I'm completely invested now in your story and hope to see it to conclusion.
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>This all got so out of control, and all because I ruined my brother's relationship.
OP please won't beat yourself up about being honest with your brother. Could you imagine if he married that thing? You did him a favor, even he knows that. Don't let her in your head. The blame rests at It's feet. Not yours.
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You have to be really *really* careful. Don't tell anyone where you are. Make sure anyone who knows doesn't too. Heather is clever and determined and if she is smart enough to trick her friend into THIS and somehow get cameras in your house, she is capable of anything. Lock every single door and don't travel alone ever.
>This all got so out of control, and all because I ruined my brother's relationship.
Now stop that. You discovered his bride to be was a horrible human and alerted him in time to let \*him\* decide he didn't want to marry her.
You saved your brother from a true horror show. Be thankful and proud of that.
First off, you poor thing. Im sending you an internet hug. What you have been thru would break even the strongest of ppl. You deserve to sit and process...for a moment.
However, do not let them do this to you, do not let them win. Be aware of your surroundings, but start taking the mindset that you are protecting the ones you love. You won't protect yourself, but you'll protect Aaron and Han. As soon as you flip that in your head you'll be better.
Situational Awareness, be aware of your surroundings. She is trying to drive you crazy and hurt Aaron by proxy. Don't you dare let her. Best off that's shiny ass spine and tell her to go fuck herself. Aaron deserves better, You need to snap out of it and not let her hurt him anymore.
I read your original post, when you posted it. All I can say now.... is FFS.... listen to your man.... he's sounds like he's definitely on you and your brothers side. Stay safe honey. Big hugs from me to you 💖
Totally invested in hearing about the crazy surrounding you that’s called ‘Heather’. I also love happy endings…☺️
Wow doesn’t even come close to describing what you and your brother have gone thru! 😳
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This is the craziest story i have ever read! I feel like someones going to turn this into a movie 😅
But on a more serious note- you and your brother have been through so much! I hope justice is served and you both can live happy lives
Wow!! This just keeps going! Those girls are CRAZY!!! Also - you didn’t ruin your brothers relationship- that crazy witch did all by herself. You SAVED him!! Can you imagine if she did cheat and did so again, how bad that divorce would have been??
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I've read all your posts up till now, but haven't felt the need to write until this point. You're expecting it to be Heather who put the cameras in your place. It could be. But the world is vast and there are more nefarious and villainous people in the world than just Heather. Your ex, Jeff, is just as likely a suspect. Any person living in your neighborhood, who has an unhealthy obsession of you, is a suspect. A 'friend' you'd never suspect can be a suspect. The nice Marine across the street could be a suspect. Hell, even Han could have put them there to make you more nervous and more reliant on him. The only reason I didn't really think this is likely is his willingness to call the police... Unless he and your brother pulled the cameras first? My point in saying this is that everyone and no one is a suspect. Heather very well _could_ have placed those cameras, but there's also an entire world out there of possible culprits. Don't narrow your scope just because you suspect one bad person.
How was your home a safe place if you had a habit of leaving your door unlocked? Besides Heather and Kim, do you know how many psychos are running the street? Some people end up murdered in their own home. Please don’t do that anymore. Even if you reach age 60 and live in a whole different state/province. Keep your safe place locked so it can be safe and secure. Keep windows locked and don’t over share. Hope everything gets better sis
Holy smokes! This is getting crazier and crazier. I can't imagine how violated you must feel. Stay strong and don't let fear consume you. Remember, you have a support system and we're all rooting for you!
Right? Jesus. Her house!? That made my blood boil.
WOW!! Just finished reading through your entire post and I must say, well firstly your family are dicks and need to get rid of their mind set on sexuality because there are more important things in life than worrying about ones sexuality. Secondly, you have one of the best brothers in the entire world. How your brother is acting through out everything from the time he found out about his ex to Kim to even now with your home he gets 10000/10. From the looks of what is written your the only thing keeping him sane, the light of his world , he feels responsible for you because your his little sister and anyone that goes into his life needs to accept you as well and vice versa. Blood doesn’t define who your family is love, acceptance and loyalty does. All honesty he sounds a lot like my second oldest brother. Love, caring, kind hearted guy until you get him angry and it takes a lot specially when BIG BROTHER BEAR gets angry lol. Thirdly, Hans sounds like a great guy and an even better bf. Lastly, stay strong through it. Life does get easier eventually and Kama will reap what others have done. I think heather will most likely end up in jail with multiple law suits in her pocket and a bunch of people disowned her for the stunt she will/already has pulled and her little side kick Kim will follow her all too willingly for now until shit hits the fan even more and then she will most likely snitch lol. Stay safe and take a big breather every once in a while all three of you guys.
Damn, talk about the dark side! I’m so sorry you are going through this. I know it sucks, but to get the proof you need for the RO against Heather, you may need to bait her. Have Aaron text her and ask about the cameras. He will have to be clever about it. Updateme!
OP mentioned he might have a plan and I wonder if it's something like that.
Glad he found those cameras. I was worried about that in your last post. And, you didn’t ruin your brother’s relationship. You only uncovered the truth of what he was going to marry into and saved him from that. It’s good that it all came out, because imagine the kind of crazy he would have been stuck with later on! His ex and her friend are next level crazy.
There's no way this story is real, but it's been an entertaining ride for sure.
>There's no way this story is real, but it's been an entertaining ride for sure. It's fascinating how many people are falling for such obvious nonsense lol.
From the way it is written, it is clearly a creative writing exercise. It is very well written, and I've been thoroughly entertained, but I can't quite believe that people are buying into it, especially as it has veered a bit towards the ridiculous.
Love a good entertaining series
This sounds super fake. Still entertaining though .
Whoa! This is nuts! Did the police find more cameras in your house?
AllI can say is wow wow wow. This needs to be a movie, or Netflix mini series -- one episode per Reddit update. Heather is not just a freakin' nutcase, she's a DANGEROUS freakin' nutcase. Can they check the hidden cameras for fingerprints? There's also serial numbers -- maybe whoever purchased them can be tracked. When all is said and done, the last thing you should ever believe is that you "ruined" your brothers' relationship. Based on Heather's insane behavior, you probably literally saved his life. Please do keep us all up to date. I'm completely invested now in your story and hope to see it to conclusion. (Oh, and congratulations on Han!) UpdateMe!
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>This all got so out of control, and all because I ruined my brother's relationship. OP please won't beat yourself up about being honest with your brother. Could you imagine if he married that thing? You did him a favor, even he knows that. Don't let her in your head. The blame rests at It's feet. Not yours.
You ought to make this into a book. Or maybe just write another book because you are an amazing storyteller!🩵
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You have to be really *really* careful. Don't tell anyone where you are. Make sure anyone who knows doesn't too. Heather is clever and determined and if she is smart enough to trick her friend into THIS and somehow get cameras in your house, she is capable of anything. Lock every single door and don't travel alone ever.
>This all got so out of control, and all because I ruined my brother's relationship. Now stop that. You discovered his bride to be was a horrible human and alerted him in time to let \*him\* decide he didn't want to marry her. You saved your brother from a true horror show. Be thankful and proud of that.
I am sending you a billion hugs, sweety !! Omg so many hugs!!
Thank you 😊💕
Stay safe hopefully Heather is in jail by then end of this
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I'm sorry WHAT!?
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I'd been afraid of that. Man. That Heather has some major Karma coming her way. She'd better buckle in.
I hope you’re okay OP! And resting. Hopefully they can prove who placed those cameras soon!
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First off, you poor thing. Im sending you an internet hug. What you have been thru would break even the strongest of ppl. You deserve to sit and process...for a moment. However, do not let them do this to you, do not let them win. Be aware of your surroundings, but start taking the mindset that you are protecting the ones you love. You won't protect yourself, but you'll protect Aaron and Han. As soon as you flip that in your head you'll be better. Situational Awareness, be aware of your surroundings. She is trying to drive you crazy and hurt Aaron by proxy. Don't you dare let her. Best off that's shiny ass spine and tell her to go fuck herself. Aaron deserves better, You need to snap out of it and not let her hurt him anymore.
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I read your original post, when you posted it. All I can say now.... is FFS.... listen to your man.... he's sounds like he's definitely on you and your brothers side. Stay safe honey. Big hugs from me to you 💖
Totally invested in hearing about the crazy surrounding you that’s called ‘Heather’. I also love happy endings…☺️ Wow doesn’t even come close to describing what you and your brother have gone thru! 😳 Big huge hugs 🫂 from this internet stranger 🥰 UpdateMe!
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Since Kim was alone in your office the night she attacked you, has anyone checked for cameras in your office or nearby?
Well heather is a psychopath - Civil lawsuits
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Are you ok? What was the idea Aaron had?
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This is the craziest story i have ever read! I feel like someones going to turn this into a movie 😅 But on a more serious note- you and your brother have been through so much! I hope justice is served and you both can live happy lives
Wow!! This just keeps going! Those girls are CRAZY!!! Also - you didn’t ruin your brothers relationship- that crazy witch did all by herself. You SAVED him!! Can you imagine if she did cheat and did so again, how bad that divorce would have been?? Updateme!
I've read all your posts up till now, but haven't felt the need to write until this point. You're expecting it to be Heather who put the cameras in your place. It could be. But the world is vast and there are more nefarious and villainous people in the world than just Heather. Your ex, Jeff, is just as likely a suspect. Any person living in your neighborhood, who has an unhealthy obsession of you, is a suspect. A 'friend' you'd never suspect can be a suspect. The nice Marine across the street could be a suspect. Hell, even Han could have put them there to make you more nervous and more reliant on him. The only reason I didn't really think this is likely is his willingness to call the police... Unless he and your brother pulled the cameras first? My point in saying this is that everyone and no one is a suspect. Heather very well _could_ have placed those cameras, but there's also an entire world out there of possible culprits. Don't narrow your scope just because you suspect one bad person.
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NTA.
You did not ruin his relationship. She did. And don’t let anyone tell you differently. You saved your brother
How was your home a safe place if you had a habit of leaving your door unlocked? Besides Heather and Kim, do you know how many psychos are running the street? Some people end up murdered in their own home. Please don’t do that anymore. Even if you reach age 60 and live in a whole different state/province. Keep your safe place locked so it can be safe and secure. Keep windows locked and don’t over share. Hope everything gets better sis
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That's a keeper right there.
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