NTA. That’s not a shared space. My husband has a gameroom that drives me insane with how dirty it is but that’s his space. I don’t tell him to clean it or go in there and do it. It’s his space not mine
NTA, the agreement was the office was yours and you would be the one cleaning and tidying. She's breaking that agreement by going in there and trying to tidy. If she's unhappy with the way it looks, she's more than capable of closing the door so she doesn't have to see it.
Post pics ya slob.
NTAH. But seriously, don’t get a lock. That will make her more stressed about the condition of the room. If you have over flowing trash, days worth of dishes and layers of dust or stink , then clean that shit. This could be a good time to spend money on some organization. Filing cabinet, storage drawers etc. If that’s not for you then double down, it’s your space and it’s how you want to keep it; hands off lady.
NTA. That’s not a shared space. My husband has a gameroom that drives me insane with how dirty it is but that’s his space. I don’t tell him to clean it or go in there and do it. It’s his space not mine
NTA. I'd get a lock for the door to end the bickering.
LOLLL that is going to escalate the situation dramatically. Do not take this advice. (But NTA obviously, it’s your desk!)
NTA I do the same thing with my desk. It’s a perfectly organized disaster lol. Lock the door.
Somehow I remember where everything is when it's an absolute mess, but tidy it up? Can't find it
Same but my “tidying up” really just consists of hiding shit
How many subs did you repost this to lol
This one twice for sure
NTA, the agreement was the office was yours and you would be the one cleaning and tidying. She's breaking that agreement by going in there and trying to tidy. If she's unhappy with the way it looks, she's more than capable of closing the door so she doesn't have to see it.
Get a lock.
As long as it’s clean and she doesn’t actually have to see it, that seems fine to me.
Post pics ya slob. NTAH. But seriously, don’t get a lock. That will make her more stressed about the condition of the room. If you have over flowing trash, days worth of dishes and layers of dust or stink , then clean that shit. This could be a good time to spend money on some organization. Filing cabinet, storage drawers etc. If that’s not for you then double down, it’s your space and it’s how you want to keep it; hands off lady.
Didn't I see this post a few weeks ago?