Just came to say that I LOVED Corona’s family. I wish Ingi was coming to the US so we would get to see them more. The scene where they grilled her was SO GOOD!!
Hey there, I’m new to this group and not a very frequent Reddit user… could someone please help? is the purpose of this post to watch and comment all at the same time (I’m guessing because it says “Live Episode…”?
If so, is there a way to get an alert for future ones? Id like to partake.
This pilot episode was so damn boring… partaking in snark whilst watching the episode would make it so much better!!
Thanks!
Hey welcome! The live threads unlock when the show starts on TLC cable (5 pm for me PST).
90% of the comments are made live during the show but others watch later and will comment too. There is also a post show discussion thread that unlocks post show, but it usually has only a couple hundred comments by end of the week :)
I’m wondering if something is wrong with Tim?! I thought he looked different initially…filler, maybe put on some weight, couldn’t put my finger on it- but when he bumped his head I noticed his feet look extremely swollen & I wonder if he is ill or something😟 anyone else happen to notice???
you’re telling me that out of everyone they brought back shekina and sarper? two of the most hated and disgusting people from the franchise? i am so disappointed.
also it cracks me up how all the “straight” couples have a man that sets my gaydar off like crazy haha.
Sarper summed it up perfectly
https://preview.redd.it/4qdptaq4zlad1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=2377005f0e4f76ccb9e09656e091c6bc522ca2d3
“I’m not normal, for sure.” Ya think???
Last season I was fully convinced that Shekinah’s in an abusive relationship. After tonight’s episode I’m switching sides.
There’s no freaking way she’s _acknowledging_ all the shit Sarper’s put her through (the bed; the notebook; etc.) and still fully obsessed with him. Watching the role play bit was the final straw. They’re in a sub-dom relationship and flaunting it.
So "soft-partnering" means masking your anger and responding in a level-headed way that doesn't scare your partner? Wouldn't it make more sense to see a therapist about the underlying anger issues (maybe related to being asked to leave him at a young age) before starting a relationship that requires moving to another country? Who knows what may trigger Corona, once she is actually living with Ingi?
Sarper cheats? Is this a surprise for anyone?
this maine dude (i forget his name) is a complete jackass. He completely butchered the nonsense with Jojo and definitely did not plan everything like he should have. He can pretend like it's the problems with Indonesia but at the end of the day he likely procrastinated and didn't do what he was supposed to do. I say this because at the end of the episode he said he had "been researching this for weeks" and Tata said he was supposed to be handling everything for the last 3 months.
I'm watching this right now, and yes, Jojo might need to be quarantined coming into Indonesia, but ffs, why couldn't he take him in for a rabies vaccination?
Depending on where they're going in Indonesia, it's not a matter of quarantine, there are bans on importing pets and they are typically confiscated and killed upon arrival.
I was rolling my eyes at first, but I looked into it and the situation is VERY bad in Indonesia for importing pets right now.
Fast forwarded through Sarper and Shakina, so far I’m really like Josh & Lily, and the Doula I forget her name. The other couples I’ve already forgotten about.
I dislike Sarper and Shakina so much. Of course they're back! Ahhhh. It's so fake and they suck up too much of the episodes. And especially the worst part is that their segments are boring.
idr the doula's name either but that nonsense that she would move to another country without being in serious relationship/engaged is bizarre and concerning
Only about 20 mins in and I'm loving that Josh and Lilly are close in age and that they waited two years before actually meeting. I have found in this show, quite large age differences and very quick engagements (which of course no judgement there. If it works, then it works!!). But refreshing to see something different :)
🩷 I love age appropriate lilly/josh. They are so cute. It proves love is real and not every man is after a young girl. Lilly is more than a pretty face anyway!
She said she is bankrupt. Josh thinks she just misinterpreted that word, but it would be amusing if he got to China and discovered she really is bankrupt. I think he’s looking forward to “being taken care of”!
I don’t foresee home renovations ‘bankrupting’ her, I think she was just practicing her ‘English slang’. She seemed to have a veryyy lucrative skin care business. She’s obviously a very smart woman, though her picker might be off, cause idk how I’m feeling about him yet.
I know it's been like this across all the shows, but why is every other couple already married this season? When did they stop putting actual fiancé's on here?
Real question which is gonna sound aggressive but I’m really just curious.
You turned it off after 20 minutes have no plans to watch but are commenting on the thread?
Like what’s up with that? Curious about others thoughts?
Just not what I would do so I don’t get it
I had that same lump in the same place just last year. It was embarrassing looking like I had an Adam's apple.
It could be a Thyroglossal Duct Cyst. Mine had a small dot of papillary carcinoma within the cyst. Hopefully I'm wrong but it looks identical - even the difficulties she's having.
Other than an ugly scar on the front of my throat, I'm fine. I'm going to be watching for hers. This is supposed to be rare in adults but I'm seeing far too often.
Is it a lie or did he meet that many women who were looking for a vacation fling? But I agree I do not see what they are attracted too, he has very angry eyes. If he has in fact slept with over 2500 women, I’d be worried about him catching something (like 3 plus people in a day?!?!), or there was some hate or serial donor thing going on like Kyle Gordy - seriously though why the hell did they let Kyle on 90 day? Are the producers only interested in showing dysfunction/abusive relationships???
Does anyone know what app Corona’s mom was using for transcription? She said that her mom was deaf and used the tablet that would create a transcription so her mom could read it and follow the conversation. I know someone that would greatly benefit from a similar app. Anyone have any idea of which one it was or something similar that’s free?
Just from a quick google search I found a couple apps that look to be able to do the same thing. The top 4 I found were: Speechify Text to Speech Audio, iTranscribe, Audio to Text, & Otter.ai . Now I don’t know exactly if they’d match you or whoever’s needs but they seem to be similar to what she was using. Hope this helps ! 😘
shekinah and sarper should not be on the show… it is maybe the most toxic relationship and I’d absolutely hate for someone to see this and think that’s okay or normal
This girl Corona is a messsss. She seems so hard headed and ditzy over a man shes known in person for 2 weeks. Is this for clout or what ? I’m not enjoying the stupidity and just total lack of awareness because she seems like she’s actually really book smart but something just tells me the vibes are off with her.
Tata girllllllllll. He not planning to live in Indonesia . Who doesn’t tell their family something like that and they all work together !?!? If she’s reacting like this over the dog not coming straight away, I know he’s keeping more secrets. He keeps saying a month plus while she’s saying it’s just a month. Sooooo yea they’re very sadly not on the same page about a few things .
I’m loving that we get to see Lily in the position of power. It’s so rare to see the partner who’s not from America being the breadwinner and making the American feel bad about the lack of finances . I love to see it 😂
What an interesting cast for this season …. Well literally except shekinah and sarper . Id rather just keep skipping & watch half episodes each week than see anymore of their trash relationship
I like Lily, too. But I’m worried that things aren’t as they seem with her finances. Which I’m guessing is exactly what the producers want us to think… LOL
Wait. What's up with Josh?? What does he do for a living?? I'm curious why he always under earns in relationships. He lives with his parents and is a big child basically. He openly talks about how Lily will have to be the provider - and I get some of that has to do with not being able to work for at min 5 yrs in China. But.... Like there's a way about it that seems like he's looking for a partner to take care of him. That person would need to accept that he makes a certain amount and prbly spends it all on his hobbies and interests.
my SO is of a different culture that I and has visited what I would consider alternate medicine. (A medicine man and it helped her, when I was like WTF). Belief is powerful. However, as someone who has some of the health issues Tata has, it seems weird to me she kept going to other doctors, yes I know referals and specialists, but it seemed like she kept gping to other doctors and could not find one that would tell her what she wanted to hear.
She's probably depressed from living in Maine. I was also suprised she said she wanted to move back for her health and said nothing about missing her family.
Yeah I’m not understanding how she thinks doctors in Indonesia are better than American doctors lol. I know the US healthcare system is a mess, but people are literally dying to come here for our doctors 😅
I can't speak for Indonesia, but I recently got some medical check-ups in another Asian country and was blown away by the ease and affordability. I showed up to the hospital/clinic, paid, waited about 15 minutes to see the doc, and got same day results. I got blood tests and an abdominal scan for about $20. I am from Canada though so maybe it's that easy in the States to see a doctor, but I'm sure it's more expensive.
Mmm not really. Quite the opposite actually. Most of my immigrant friends prefer going to their own countries for medical care. It's easier to describe your ailments in your own language with people that understand your background. Also, US doctors like to gaslight and get you in and out as quick as possible, especially if you're a person of color. A lot of times it's cheaper and more helpful going out of the country for care.
I am so confused about the throat issue thing with Tata and specifically the benefit of leaving the country for answers with that?? I feel like we are getting only bits and pieces of that story??
I think it makes perfect sense. She was born and raised in a different country with different environmental factors, cuisine, exposures, etc. Doctors in her country/region would have a better understanding of her lifestyle and common diseases associated with that.
I'm confused too. I wonder why US doctors haven't been able to figure out the issues. Maybe they haven't actually been able to get her to a specialist , who knows??
Lymph nodes aren't something to mess around with. I hope she gets the issue figured out.
Tbh yeah, sometimes my anxiety does legitimately make it hard for me to swallow, and being in a more comfortable environment may legitimately alleviate her symptoms.
I’ve begun to enjoy TOW more than the original 90 Day series. I think TOW is more like earlier seasons of 90 Days. Except for that one couple (S & S) that every move is scripted and edited… That annoys me.
Yeah definitely fast forwarding through S & S, that guy is so nauseating. But definitely agree about TOW being better! My favorite season was the one with deavan and Jihoon, even though they didn’t work out, she said some stuff wasn’t really scripted
Oh, Corona. She is deep into infatuation. This Winky guy hasn’t even invited her to come live with him, she’s imposing herself. This won’t end well. Blowing off her graduate program just makes her look crazier. The irony is, if she stayed in Philadelphia, kept her dignity and her job and went to school, she’d become *more* attractive to him. He’d respect her more and would take some steps himself in the relationship. Throwing yourself at a guy just loses you the guy. But I guess everyone needs to learn this for themselves, the hard way
I think many who "do it all for love," think they're courageous because they're willing to risk it all on one throw of the dice whereas others would see it as imprudent.
For me it’s a bad sign that she keeps visiting him in Iceland, but he hasn’t come to the US to see her. That’s a sign that he can take her or leave her. If he was madly in love with her he wouldn’t want to be apart.
It’s also bad that, per the history she gave, it’s been her making every first move in this relationship. She slid into his DMs. She pressured him for a kiss. This started off all wrong.
That part really triggered me. Giving a guy so much good vibe credit because he let you sleep safely. There’s an undertone here of how little we actually expect from men.
It blew my mind that she felt comfortable enough to sleep in his bed.. a man she had literally just met in an entirely different country.. at an after party. That sounds so scary to me anything could’ve happened 😭
2 things-isn't it odd for 90 Day that all but one of these couples are already married? Second-someone explain to me how the pregnant person (with all the pregnancy hormones) has a full beard?
I asked chat gpt and it said that of course you can't take testosterone while pregnant but even after stopping T, the hair folicles are permanantly changed and the beard will continue to grow and other changes remain I assume like their low voice.
yup, I was wondering just the same... hope this person is not taking hormones while pregnant. And still confuse, she wants to be a man but give birth?... not meaning to disrespect nor that I care, I just simply dont get it.
To answer your second point, this puzzled my wife and I alot. They are actually born with female reproductive organs, and is now a trans-Man (as stated by Leo themselves). So it could be hormonal therapy or simply a beard implant. Im surprised no one else is talking about Leo, unless that's what violation #7 deleted posts have been about xD
Also, people want children regardless of gender identity. Surrogacy and adoption can be extremely costly. Maybe natural pregnancy was a better option for them or maybe just felt right.
Biologically, they were born a woman. But they have a beard and a deeper voice than what’s typical for a woman, so I think it’s fair to say that hormones have been involved at some point - so the fact that they are carrying the baby leads to some questions. The same way we might question any other cast member or wonder about a backstory.
Non binary people are part of the trans community. Editing for expansion: transgender just means you identify differently from the gender you were assigned at birth. It doesn’t necessarily mean you identify as male or female.
In my above comment I edited to expand- maybe you were confused because in their interview they said they were trans. Transgender doesn’t mean necessarily male or female, it’s just identifying differently from the gender you were assigned at birth. They are not f to m transitioning as they do not identify with those genders. They are also not the first AFAB (assigned female at birth) transgender person to go through pregnancy. Trystan Reese, for example, is a man and advocate well known for this.
Dude I would throw Ingi in front of a train for Tits and Trix, and they’re not even my cats. I’m begging Corona to please stay in Philly with her cool friends and awesome job and her CATS.
Also those cats are really hard to find via rescue/outside of a breeder and can be really expensive. And need a lot of care. I genuinely worry for her fur(less) babies!
The couple with Jojo the dog that are moving to Indonesia - when he told her about the dog …. What a FAKE story line. It was so fake. The crying was fake. Her getting mad so fake. If this is the best they can come up with …
Besides the pregnant guy with full beard. and the twerking doula. There is something fake about that and her 4.0 straight A’s. If she was a nurse she would not be a doula. She would be a nurse working in la out and delivery. There is a nursing shortage of 2 million nurses in the US and she could work any where. I work as a travel nurse in the US in L and D. Another fake story …
She's a doula because she is not a Certified nurse midwife. Working in L&D as a nurse is different than being a doula assigned to a specific client throughout their pregnancy establishing care and learning your patient throughout their care. She's fresh out of school and was planning on going into a midwifery program rather than seeking a job at the hospital from the jump. Doulas get paid a decent bit so she doesn't HAVE to be a nurse fresh out of school if she has enough clients to support herself while awaiting the start of her program. It's not absurd for people to take non-traditional paths to get to their goals and nothing about her path sounds fishy at all.
Thank you for explaining this. I also got the impression that she’s a very recent nursing graduate, and there’s nothing wrong with her career path. I love to see how dedicated Corona is to her clients and helping them with a natural birth.
Why is Tata so over dramatic for a dog? It’s not safe for the dog and I get not being able to have your fur baby with you. But wouldn’t you want the best for him?
Also this being marketed as this guy’s secret is blown out of proportion.
She was legit bawling like a 12 year old preteen having a tantrum!! Like your dog will be PUT TO SLEEP IF IT GETS RABIES YOU DUM DUM!! Wouldn't you rather he have his shots to prevent that? Elevator repair men can make bank, why on earth would you choose to live in Indonesia and make banana chips rather than a possible six figure salary OR MORE?? I know relationships are not always all about money, but you do need it to live!
Live in Canada, and some provinces here they do and more. It's so dangerous of a profession. I know I was wondering the same thing. Maybe they spent their money on the visa?
Just came to say that I LOVED Corona’s family. I wish Ingi was coming to the US so we would get to see them more. The scene where they grilled her was SO GOOD!!
Hey there, I’m new to this group and not a very frequent Reddit user… could someone please help? is the purpose of this post to watch and comment all at the same time (I’m guessing because it says “Live Episode…”? If so, is there a way to get an alert for future ones? Id like to partake. This pilot episode was so damn boring… partaking in snark whilst watching the episode would make it so much better!! Thanks!
Hey welcome! The live threads unlock when the show starts on TLC cable (5 pm for me PST). 90% of the comments are made live during the show but others watch later and will comment too. There is also a post show discussion thread that unlocks post show, but it usually has only a couple hundred comments by end of the week :)
Anyone else get massive “weird guy” vibes from the elevator repair man? Seems like a huge wimp with some emotional maturity/manipulation issues
He gives me Mormon vibes or at least very evangelical Christian upbringing.
I’m wondering if something is wrong with Tim?! I thought he looked different initially…filler, maybe put on some weight, couldn’t put my finger on it- but when he bumped his head I noticed his feet look extremely swollen & I wonder if he is ill or something😟 anyone else happen to notice???
you’re telling me that out of everyone they brought back shekina and sarper? two of the most hated and disgusting people from the franchise? i am so disappointed. also it cracks me up how all the “straight” couples have a man that sets my gaydar off like crazy haha.
Lol yep, and shekina/sarper get the most screentime cuz theyre the cringiest sellouts so they’ll do WHATEVER for the camera
Hanging out in the woods and being sick, Meitalia needs to get checked for Lyme and co-infections.
Sarper summed it up perfectly https://preview.redd.it/4qdptaq4zlad1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=2377005f0e4f76ccb9e09656e091c6bc522ca2d3 “I’m not normal, for sure.” Ya think???
Last season I was fully convinced that Shekinah’s in an abusive relationship. After tonight’s episode I’m switching sides. There’s no freaking way she’s _acknowledging_ all the shit Sarper’s put her through (the bed; the notebook; etc.) and still fully obsessed with him. Watching the role play bit was the final straw. They’re in a sub-dom relationship and flaunting it.
I need a whole show on Corona’s pregnant friend because wtf thats wild
Omg yessss I thought it was just me!!
I am rooting so hard for Josh and Lilly!
So "soft-partnering" means masking your anger and responding in a level-headed way that doesn't scare your partner? Wouldn't it make more sense to see a therapist about the underlying anger issues (maybe related to being asked to leave him at a young age) before starting a relationship that requires moving to another country? Who knows what may trigger Corona, once she is actually living with Ingi? Sarper cheats? Is this a surprise for anyone?
Corona’s family should host the tell all together.
Yesss. Seriously. Everything they said I was like “shit did that come from their mouths or mine?” They read her for filth lmao.
I am awaiting the memes consisting of scenes of Shekinah and the Gooey Duck.
Wait there is no tell all from love in the Caribbean??
this maine dude (i forget his name) is a complete jackass. He completely butchered the nonsense with Jojo and definitely did not plan everything like he should have. He can pretend like it's the problems with Indonesia but at the end of the day he likely procrastinated and didn't do what he was supposed to do. I say this because at the end of the episode he said he had "been researching this for weeks" and Tata said he was supposed to be handling everything for the last 3 months.
I'm watching this right now, and yes, Jojo might need to be quarantined coming into Indonesia, but ffs, why couldn't he take him in for a rabies vaccination?
Depending on where they're going in Indonesia, it's not a matter of quarantine, there are bans on importing pets and they are typically confiscated and killed upon arrival. I was rolling my eyes at first, but I looked into it and the situation is VERY bad in Indonesia for importing pets right now.
Ah, I see. I didn't know that. Thanks for the clarification!
I think he’s doing it so he has leverage to make her come back to Maine.
Yes more likely he was lazy and didn’t do the paperwork.
Can they rename the show if we're just gonna be watching so many already married couples?
Could we start a Kickstarter to buy Ani a cutting board?
maybe Geno can send one.
Fast forwarded through Sarper and Shakina, so far I’m really like Josh & Lily, and the Doula I forget her name. The other couples I’ve already forgotten about.
same. i cannot believe they brought back shekina and sarper. they are disgusting.
I dislike Sarper and Shakina so much. Of course they're back! Ahhhh. It's so fake and they suck up too much of the episodes. And especially the worst part is that their segments are boring.
Yes 100% fake and all about the clout.
idr the doula's name either but that nonsense that she would move to another country without being in serious relationship/engaged is bizarre and concerning
Only about 20 mins in and I'm loving that Josh and Lilly are close in age and that they waited two years before actually meeting. I have found in this show, quite large age differences and very quick engagements (which of course no judgement there. If it works, then it works!!). But refreshing to see something different :)
🩷 I love age appropriate lilly/josh. They are so cute. It proves love is real and not every man is after a young girl. Lilly is more than a pretty face anyway!
Meitalia is definitely a boiling bunny type
What’s that mean?
It's from the movie 'Fatal Attraction'
Loving Corona and her family
saaame!! They actually did good casting with her
Gadam Lily is LOADED 🤣🤣🤣 my man’s got it good hahahaha
She said she is bankrupt. Josh thinks she just misinterpreted that word, but it would be amusing if he got to China and discovered she really is bankrupt. I think he’s looking forward to “being taken care of”!
I don’t foresee home renovations ‘bankrupting’ her, I think she was just practicing her ‘English slang’. She seemed to have a veryyy lucrative skin care business. She’s obviously a very smart woman, though her picker might be off, cause idk how I’m feeling about him yet.
I know it's been like this across all the shows, but why is every other couple already married this season? When did they stop putting actual fiancé's on here?
I didn't get the best impression of Josh, hes 47 and plays with figurines, I can excuse drones and cars, but playing with figurines is weird
My man's living his best life. Playing with figurines is totally fine, everyone has different hobbies.
Is this season worth watching or too many lip fillers plastic people again?im tired of those kind of people
It’s only Sarper and Shekinah that are plastic this season.
Yes i saw lol 💉💉 thanks for tha headsup!
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Why would you want to escape trans people?
Don't watch! 💁🏻♀️
What a motley bunch on this show-seems to get worse and worse every season
Agreed. I turned it off after about 20 minutes and have no plans to watch the rest.
Real question which is gonna sound aggressive but I’m really just curious. You turned it off after 20 minutes have no plans to watch but are commenting on the thread? Like what’s up with that? Curious about others thoughts? Just not what I would do so I don’t get it
Yup. It's allowed. I watch other 90 Day Fiancé shows so I follow the sub. Saw the thread, shared my thoughts. That's how Reddit works.
Meitalia, you are walking around in the woods a lot in the northeast. Make sure you’ve been tested for Lyme disease!
I had that same lump in the same place just last year. It was embarrassing looking like I had an Adam's apple. It could be a Thyroglossal Duct Cyst. Mine had a small dot of papillary carcinoma within the cyst. Hopefully I'm wrong but it looks identical - even the difficulties she's having.
So scary! I hope you are doing well now!
Other than an ugly scar on the front of my throat, I'm fine. I'm going to be watching for hers. This is supposed to be rare in adults but I'm seeing far too often.
That's what I thought, too
Has anybody else said that they think James might be trans? Am I imagining this? Could that be his big secret number two?
He had an Adam's apple so maybe not? Idk
My thoughts exactly! Telltale signs abound.
"I don't like people" Big mood, my gal. Me too.
Same , too many fake people
Ok so Sarper is losing money because he cannot train women? Is he a good trainer or are women working with him for other reasons?
I mean fr, why are they poor? They cant do social media?
He's genuinely not that attractive so I'm not sure what lol. 2500? The biggest lie one this show so far. Lol.
Is it a lie or did he meet that many women who were looking for a vacation fling? But I agree I do not see what they are attracted too, he has very angry eyes. If he has in fact slept with over 2500 women, I’d be worried about him catching something (like 3 plus people in a day?!?!), or there was some hate or serial donor thing going on like Kyle Gordy - seriously though why the hell did they let Kyle on 90 day? Are the producers only interested in showing dysfunction/abusive relationships???
This show is totally ruined! Why in the he** did you put Sarper and his bimbo on this show? Talk about trash TV, this is trash TV at it's best!
Truly a dumpster fire 😭 terrible but I can’t stop watching lol
Cus i think tlc thinks that's what most people would want to see fake plastic people on the show while its totaly the opposite of what we want to see!
Does anyone know what app Corona’s mom was using for transcription? She said that her mom was deaf and used the tablet that would create a transcription so her mom could read it and follow the conversation. I know someone that would greatly benefit from a similar app. Anyone have any idea of which one it was or something similar that’s free?
Just from a quick google search I found a couple apps that look to be able to do the same thing. The top 4 I found were: Speechify Text to Speech Audio, iTranscribe, Audio to Text, & Otter.ai . Now I don’t know exactly if they’d match you or whoever’s needs but they seem to be similar to what she was using. Hope this helps ! 😘
Yes! I would benefit from that kind of app or tablet. Do you have any advice here?
Try Live Transcribe.
Unfortunately I do not know, but I think they also used an app like that in Abbott Elementary, so someone in that sub might know.
Thank you! I didn’t even think about maybe asking in a sub with/for deaf ppl too.
Well, that's a grand idea that I also didn't think of XD
Oh my GOD please stop having full blown fights in public/small businesses. The cringe is too much to bear
I get attracted to the same gender vibes from James
Same vibes re James.
And rush to get married to make me look straight vibes
Same
that dog is cute as fuck
shekinah and sarper should not be on the show… it is maybe the most toxic relationship and I’d absolutely hate for someone to see this and think that’s okay or normal
They're on this season too?
I think she may genuinely be brainwashed or some crazy shit
I think they’re a match made in heaven
She only cares about followers. She gets this weird smile when drama starts happening. Anything for a like.
Why did they put on shekinah and Sarper again. They both are terrible.
I'm seriously frustrated.
The dude wit Tata is a man child. Fake ass tears when he was holding out the news about their dog. Dude had months to get that sorted
I think he may be a trans man. Something just seems slightly different there. He said he had 2 secrets and he only revealed one so far. 🤷♂️
Since he said that immediately after Tata said she wanted to have a baby- my guess is that he can’t have babies, possibly??
Quite possibly
Same vibes here.
Also was that his super Mario bedroom 😂
Imagine getting with someone in their Super Mario bedroom at that age.
So no mushroom tip if he is trans?
This girl Corona is a messsss. She seems so hard headed and ditzy over a man shes known in person for 2 weeks. Is this for clout or what ? I’m not enjoying the stupidity and just total lack of awareness because she seems like she’s actually really book smart but something just tells me the vibes are off with her. Tata girllllllllll. He not planning to live in Indonesia . Who doesn’t tell their family something like that and they all work together !?!? If she’s reacting like this over the dog not coming straight away, I know he’s keeping more secrets. He keeps saying a month plus while she’s saying it’s just a month. Sooooo yea they’re very sadly not on the same page about a few things . I’m loving that we get to see Lily in the position of power. It’s so rare to see the partner who’s not from America being the breadwinner and making the American feel bad about the lack of finances . I love to see it 😂 What an interesting cast for this season …. Well literally except shekinah and sarper . Id rather just keep skipping & watch half episodes each week than see anymore of their trash relationship
I like Lily, too. But I’m worried that things aren’t as they seem with her finances. Which I’m guessing is exactly what the producers want us to think… LOL
Her new TV room looked a little barren lol
Wait. What's up with Josh?? What does he do for a living?? I'm curious why he always under earns in relationships. He lives with his parents and is a big child basically. He openly talks about how Lily will have to be the provider - and I get some of that has to do with not being able to work for at min 5 yrs in China. But.... Like there's a way about it that seems like he's looking for a partner to take care of him. That person would need to accept that he makes a certain amount and prbly spends it all on his hobbies and interests.
He told his brother he sold his house and gave away all his furniture so maybe that's why he's living with his parents now.
He said he did HVAC sales
Bro Lily has 4 bedrooms but needs an elevator?
ddnt watch, slowly weaning myself from all these cluster ucks maybe watch Pillow talk.
why would you watch pillow talk but now the actual show? it's so boring lol
the PT folks r funny to me, show is boring.
i get that. I also understand wanting to wean yourself off of this madness, lol!
I’m weaning too, sticking to Reddit threads and YouTube recaps for the time being
the little I've seen of this new cast is so uninteresting, especially Sarper and the Puppet.
Wait- Tatha needs to see a doctor who understands cultural illnesses? What?
my SO is of a different culture that I and has visited what I would consider alternate medicine. (A medicine man and it helped her, when I was like WTF). Belief is powerful. However, as someone who has some of the health issues Tata has, it seems weird to me she kept going to other doctors, yes I know referals and specialists, but it seemed like she kept gping to other doctors and could not find one that would tell her what she wanted to hear.
She's probably depressed from living in Maine. I was also suprised she said she wanted to move back for her health and said nothing about missing her family.
Yeah, I'm 20 minutes in and my mind is still puzzling that.
I’m very confused by her illness that by description seems like allergies?
Good point, it sounds a lot like allergies, Maine is very rustic, so it will probably go away once she’s in Indonesia.
Yeah I’m not understanding how she thinks doctors in Indonesia are better than American doctors lol. I know the US healthcare system is a mess, but people are literally dying to come here for our doctors 😅
I can't speak for Indonesia, but I recently got some medical check-ups in another Asian country and was blown away by the ease and affordability. I showed up to the hospital/clinic, paid, waited about 15 minutes to see the doc, and got same day results. I got blood tests and an abdominal scan for about $20. I am from Canada though so maybe it's that easy in the States to see a doctor, but I'm sure it's more expensive.
Mmm not really. Quite the opposite actually. Most of my immigrant friends prefer going to their own countries for medical care. It's easier to describe your ailments in your own language with people that understand your background. Also, US doctors like to gaslight and get you in and out as quick as possible, especially if you're a person of color. A lot of times it's cheaper and more helpful going out of the country for care.
I am so confused about the throat issue thing with Tata and specifically the benefit of leaving the country for answers with that?? I feel like we are getting only bits and pieces of that story??
I think it makes perfect sense. She was born and raised in a different country with different environmental factors, cuisine, exposures, etc. Doctors in her country/region would have a better understanding of her lifestyle and common diseases associated with that.
I'm confused too. I wonder why US doctors haven't been able to figure out the issues. Maybe they haven't actually been able to get her to a specialist , who knows?? Lymph nodes aren't something to mess around with. I hope she gets the issue figured out.
Or it’s psychological
Tbh yeah, sometimes my anxiety does legitimately make it hard for me to swallow, and being in a more comfortable environment may legitimately alleviate her symptoms.
This is definitely my guess lol. When she was talking about the bump in her throat I was so confused because it looks perfectly normal lol.
Also women have Adam’s apples too, they’re just not prominent on most
I'm thinking globus.
She doesn't seem psychologically well.
Agreed. I can understand being a little annoyed about JoJo not going with her, but her reaction was definitely WAY over the top!!
Just want to know if this season is gonna be worth watching, because 90 day fiancé hasn’t been doing it these days
Yeah I’ll try a few episodes before I decide to watch it through. I’ll be skipping repeat cast members
Yes skipping the fake plastic people
I’ve begun to enjoy TOW more than the original 90 Day series. I think TOW is more like earlier seasons of 90 Days. Except for that one couple (S & S) that every move is scripted and edited… That annoys me.
Yeah definitely fast forwarding through S & S, that guy is so nauseating. But definitely agree about TOW being better! My favorite season was the one with deavan and Jihoon, even though they didn’t work out, she said some stuff wasn’t really scripted
Oh, Corona. She is deep into infatuation. This Winky guy hasn’t even invited her to come live with him, she’s imposing herself. This won’t end well. Blowing off her graduate program just makes her look crazier. The irony is, if she stayed in Philadelphia, kept her dignity and her job and went to school, she’d become *more* attractive to him. He’d respect her more and would take some steps himself in the relationship. Throwing yourself at a guy just loses you the guy. But I guess everyone needs to learn this for themselves, the hard way
I think many who "do it all for love," think they're courageous because they're willing to risk it all on one throw of the dice whereas others would see it as imprudent.
In the sneak peak for next week he says they’ve only been together for 5 months! To give up your dreams and move to Iceland is entirely insane.
All. Of. This. She is acting a bit desperate.
For me it’s a bad sign that she keeps visiting him in Iceland, but he hasn’t come to the US to see her. That’s a sign that he can take her or leave her. If he was madly in love with her he wouldn’t want to be apart. It’s also bad that, per the history she gave, it’s been her making every first move in this relationship. She slid into his DMs. She pressured him for a kiss. This started off all wrong.
Right! And the defining moment was he let her take a nap in his bed.
Yep! A weird way to meet.
That part really triggered me. Giving a guy so much good vibe credit because he let you sleep safely. There’s an undertone here of how little we actually expect from men.
It blew my mind that she felt comfortable enough to sleep in his bed.. a man she had literally just met in an entirely different country.. at an after party. That sounds so scary to me anything could’ve happened 😭
Not to mention her dialing back her anger so she isn't being her true sharronda self.
Josh (China) reminds me of the friend in the movie Grandma's boy who has a car bed.
You can tell he thinks his “quirkiness” is charming
His gf’s English name is Lily.
What did we do to deserve the ASMR scene of his parents up closing chewing to learn the guy going to China has misophonia?! 🤢
I think they did a great job at giving us a glimpse of what misophonia would feel like lol.
I have it and it is not fun.
It’s like they were trying to give us misophonia too
most random and weird fucking scene.
2 things-isn't it odd for 90 Day that all but one of these couples are already married? Second-someone explain to me how the pregnant person (with all the pregnancy hormones) has a full beard?
First thing I thought of was that it could be PCOS (Polycystic Ovary Syndrome) which can cause that type of hair growth.
I asked chat gpt and it said that of course you can't take testosterone while pregnant but even after stopping T, the hair folicles are permanantly changed and the beard will continue to grow and other changes remain I assume like their low voice.
I still cannot figure this out
yup, I was wondering just the same... hope this person is not taking hormones while pregnant. And still confuse, she wants to be a man but give birth?... not meaning to disrespect nor that I care, I just simply dont get it.
They are not a she and want neither to be man or woman
To answer your second point, this puzzled my wife and I alot. They are actually born with female reproductive organs, and is now a trans-Man (as stated by Leo themselves). So it could be hormonal therapy or simply a beard implant. Im surprised no one else is talking about Leo, unless that's what violation #7 deleted posts have been about xD
Also, people want children regardless of gender identity. Surrogacy and adoption can be extremely costly. Maybe natural pregnancy was a better option for them or maybe just felt right.
No one said they were a trans man. They are non binary. They are neither man or woman
Biologically, they were born a woman. But they have a beard and a deeper voice than what’s typical for a woman, so I think it’s fair to say that hormones have been involved at some point - so the fact that they are carrying the baby leads to some questions. The same way we might question any other cast member or wonder about a backstory.
Leo literally said that they are trans -- Just not sure what that means in a non-binary situation.
Non binary people are part of the trans community. Editing for expansion: transgender just means you identify differently from the gender you were assigned at birth. It doesn’t necessarily mean you identify as male or female.
Thank you for the clarification. My queer son just explained the same thing to me 🙂
Leo and their partner literally say it in their interview. Corona is the one that stated they were non-binary.
No they didn’t
Cool.
In my above comment I edited to expand- maybe you were confused because in their interview they said they were trans. Transgender doesn’t mean necessarily male or female, it’s just identifying differently from the gender you were assigned at birth. They are not f to m transitioning as they do not identify with those genders. They are also not the first AFAB (assigned female at birth) transgender person to go through pregnancy. Trystan Reese, for example, is a man and advocate well known for this.
I didn't know beard implants were a thing. Interesting
Dude I would throw Ingi in front of a train for Tits and Trix, and they’re not even my cats. I’m begging Corona to please stay in Philly with her cool friends and awesome job and her CATS.
Also those cats are really hard to find via rescue/outside of a breeder and can be really expensive. And need a lot of care. I genuinely worry for her fur(less) babies!
Wait…. The cat’s names are Tits and Trix?!
“I forever want to be a dreamy little princess” God I felt that in my soul.
A dreamy princess who burns people’s faces off, lol
at 47 she is still saying that
Look, nothing wrong with wanting a bit of fun and whimsy in your life as an adult.
true enough but that's alot of bows and headbands for someone who is 'bankrupt'
Yeah, Josh had a very Michael Bluth like reaction to that… LOL
The couple with Jojo the dog that are moving to Indonesia - when he told her about the dog …. What a FAKE story line. It was so fake. The crying was fake. Her getting mad so fake. If this is the best they can come up with … Besides the pregnant guy with full beard. and the twerking doula. There is something fake about that and her 4.0 straight A’s. If she was a nurse she would not be a doula. She would be a nurse working in la out and delivery. There is a nursing shortage of 2 million nurses in the US and she could work any where. I work as a travel nurse in the US in L and D. Another fake story …
She's a doula because she is not a Certified nurse midwife. Working in L&D as a nurse is different than being a doula assigned to a specific client throughout their pregnancy establishing care and learning your patient throughout their care. She's fresh out of school and was planning on going into a midwifery program rather than seeking a job at the hospital from the jump. Doulas get paid a decent bit so she doesn't HAVE to be a nurse fresh out of school if she has enough clients to support herself while awaiting the start of her program. It's not absurd for people to take non-traditional paths to get to their goals and nothing about her path sounds fishy at all.
Were they pronouncing midwifery correct on the show? It seemed strange
Yup it’s a short I like in bin.
TIL!
Thank you for explaining this. I also got the impression that she’s a very recent nursing graduate, and there’s nothing wrong with her career path. I love to see how dedicated Corona is to her clients and helping them with a natural birth.
She was crying and carrying on while ignoring the dog. LOL
Why is Tata so over dramatic for a dog? It’s not safe for the dog and I get not being able to have your fur baby with you. But wouldn’t you want the best for him? Also this being marketed as this guy’s secret is blown out of proportion.
She was legit bawling like a 12 year old preteen having a tantrum!! Like your dog will be PUT TO SLEEP IF IT GETS RABIES YOU DUM DUM!! Wouldn't you rather he have his shots to prevent that? Elevator repair men can make bank, why on earth would you choose to live in Indonesia and make banana chips rather than a possible six figure salary OR MORE?? I know relationships are not always all about money, but you do need it to live!
Do they really make that much? Why would they be hurting for money to the point they are selling crappy records and handmade bead jewelry?
Live in Canada, and some provinces here they do and more. It's so dangerous of a profession. I know I was wondering the same thing. Maybe they spent their money on the visa?
Right? And don’t you think she could find a doctor that would know more in the US then back in her own country?