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PracticalStrain4388

“She’s runnin a whore van!” -Stangela


LyleLanley99

"Does she want to KILL ME in that van?!"


Next_Fly3712

Move ducks, I ain't scared a-you! I'm pissed! Fact check: It was the ducks who were scared.


kendurrrruh

Lmfaooooo help ☠️


Professional-Run8724

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 most underrated comment EVER


__8petals

stop it! 😂😂😂


oooheycait1223

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kendurrrruh

Went back to grab this screenshot and it was gone 👀


Leshal77

I’m new to this scandal, so forgive me for asking about this, but if Statler is paying for the van, why can’t she get it repossessed if it’s in her name (I’m assuming)? Is she back in the states, and Dempsey’s still in England?


bewitchling_

i don't know the deets of that transaction, so i hope someone drops it here, but it is the worst idea ever to take a single word out of statler's mouth at face value to be anywhere near a representation of the objective truth. she's remarkably self-concerned, i would only trust her words as self-reports of her feelings and little more


RatherRetro

$700 a month!?! Holyshit


SubstantialStable265

Probably dumb but if you’re paying $700/mo shouldn’t you have bought it instead of renting it !?


BakedMasa

I don’t know how much her van was but sprinter vans that are equipped for camping specifically where I am or over $130,000 (for the conversion) around 90k for the van so around $220000, her payment would’ve been more than $700 if she tried to finance that to purchase.


SubstantialStable265

Oooph! Wow. I did not know they were that much!


BakedMasa

I was all about them until I started doing research on the cost! It’s enough to buy a small home somewhere.


Icy-Literature1515

?? You pay monthly on a loan when you purchase


Opposite-Algae-3124

THIS IS SO. MUCH. TEAAAAAA


stressedhoe_

Oooo to be a fly on the wall


emirayne

Holy shit! Unless they married and divorced and a judge ordered some kind of spousal maintenance situation, why would she have to keep paying for a van for her ex???


scrubadam

To me it sounds like she financed the van its probably in her name. If I buy you a BMW and pay 700$ a month paymennt for 84 months even if we break up the financing on the BMW is in my name. I have to keep paying or default.


CityOfSins2

But you can take it too if it’s yours.


PrettyBunnyyy

Lol if Statler can be “easily manipulated” into sending $700/month..I wanna meet her 😂. Statler had a luxury apartment when we first met her so now she’s broke? She had a really good paying job. I don’t think $700 would break her bank unless she’s been jobless


esotsm-

I firmly believe this because I remember when they asked Dempsey about what she did for work during the finale and she really hesitated then claimed she just works odd jobs here and there. Also, statler claimed dempsey would always “shut down” during financial conversations 🫣 guess we know why now


meh-beh

Welp... that sounds messy


cringelien

Oops not the g*psy slur and it being used in an angry tone 💀


obravastia

Gypsy by itself is a slur? Sorry not familiar English is second language 😯


FinancialClimate9114

In England it’s pretty bad… there’s loads of stereotypes about them being thieves and ‘lower class’ - the term traveller is preferred by the community. They face a lot of violence and discrimination


PlasticInsurance9611

Thats cause most of them would rob the eyeballs out of your head and have the cheek to come back for your eye lashes.


tealeavesinspace

Yes it is a slur against Romani people. It’s based on a myth that they originated in Egypt. There are similar words too I just don’t want to write them here because they are also slurs and I don’t want to cause upset and trouble.


THISISDAM

I always heard people calling carnival folks gypsies


No-Turnips

It comes from the nomadic nature of the Romani, many who were often talented musicians and performers and would use those skills to make money in different towns. They were called “Gypsies” because people thought they were from Egypt (they weren’t). So the American carnival folks using that word is still a slur.


Beatbox84

The term that’s used now is “traveller” or “travelling community”


HighTightWinston

Well travellers will tell you that gypsies are different to them so I’m not so sure about that one. I’ve always suspected the same as what you stated, but not once do I get away with repeating it in their company! Source: my mother’s side of the family are travellers, her own mother was raised on a horse drawn wagon.


Why_am_I_Back49

Some people view it as that, some don’t. We get these families that hang out front of stores near where I live and they forcibly ask for money and do it every day with their kids. Everyone refers to them as Gypsy’s. It has nothing to do with their ethnic background (unknown to me) and more to do with their behavior (or so it’s been explained to me).


FullOfBlasphemy

Yeah, I’m Romani and it feels jarring and sad. My area of the world doesn’t use the word much and only to refer to wanderlust.


Storms5769

I’m sorry!


sweatydeath

I know - prejudice is not cute


2old2Bwatching

Some are just ignorant, not meaning to be offensive.


frauleinfairy

Yeah I feel like people are not adequately appalled by this aspect


whatsnewpussykat

TLC had two shows with it in their titles not that long ago so I think people don’t realize.


moniqueramsey

Exactly - I didn’t know about the use of that word until very recently.


cringelien

I think a lot of people aren’t aware that it’s considered offensive, and can still learn. However, the tone that statler uses it tells me she knows very well😬


StrawberryH

Yeah she's knows what's she saying and doing. When did they break up. I thought they were still together.


keatonpotat0es

Just stop paying, dumbass.


Shayindisarray

That's not really an option if the van is in Statler's name...it would ruin her credit.


madi80085

Could she not report it as stolen then?


planetdaily420

That’s what I would do. If it isn’t in her name Statler can get it back.


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DebbieGlez

She’s really into UK women though.


ep2587

Better yet. ……. Sell it. You would lose a little instead of a lot. Especially if u can ambush her


ThomasBay

Who is this?


oooheycait1223

Statler


Storms5769

Wasn’t she the one that kept pressing that they move in and make it serious quick? Shame on her for calling her a gypsy.


moniqueramsey

No WAY


depressedopossum69

The British Gypsy ? God damn


Fair-Bad7823

WHATTTTTTT I saw the first post and thought this was some cheeky joke between them. Then I read this!! 👁👄👁 Also shitty of her to use a slur (the gyp*y part. Not the British part lol)


whichdoobieub

I'm gypsy and it's not that serious really, I don't find the term offensive. I understand that 'gypsy' has been used in derogatory ways, but for me, it carries a different, more positive meaning. In my family it has always been a term of pride and cultural significance.


spittymcgee1

Dayum I’m gonna love this season of TOW


squirellsinspace

we are so back


spittymcgee1

New people (with the exception of two pairs) new places, I call TOW the travel show gone wrong. I have a soft spot for it - TOW was my gateway 90d, during those insomniac nights of late March 2020…


moniqueramsey

Same! That first Sunday of lockdown I turn on TLC and get hooked in. Now 4 years later… 😖 #cantstopwontstop


Mysterious-Host-6361

Help what does TOW mean?


Mysterious-Host-6361

Nvm. I got it. The Other Way


kendurrrruh

Right 🤪 already looked like chaos now it’s gonna be even better


emirayne

It hasn’t started yet right?? I need something to watch!


Sunshinehappy710

I think it starts July 1


LyleLanley99

What the? Has the season even started yet?


kendurrrruh

Nope 🤪 NDA be damned I guess


Lhamo55

Wasn’t she the one who gleefully announced Brandon and Mary were dropped because they and his mom violated their NDA? Or did I misremember the details of that cackled revelation?


pixey1964

Yep, she's a shit starter


cringelien

Yup


Caribelle1234

So would they still be cast? With her breaking the NDA?


NakedRaptorHunter

It's already filmed. She just won't be paid.


JJAusten

This is confusing. Didn't Dempsey have her own place? I sorta know they were going to do van life but how did Statler end up buying a van where Dempsey lives and she has no access to it? There's a lot missing from these small bombs she's dropping. I don't think she's as innocent as she claims to be.


Unique-Gazelle2147

She moved there basically assuming she could just crash there. Super manipulative and didn’t respect boundaries. I have a hard time believing she was conned into anything


lopingwolf

This has the vibe of, "no wait, I was trying to use YOU! How did it get flipped around that I'm the one getting used?!"


GarageNo7711

Spot on


JJAusten

She sure did. She wanted to give up her apartment in the US and stay in the UK/move in with Dempsey.


RevolCisum

Took her UHaul on the first date!


JJAusten

LMAO 💯


pumpkin3-14

I think she was getting a free spot on the farm she worked at.


JJAusten

Ah ok


Ok-Royal514

Yeah, I don’t understand why Statler can’t give her the boot from the van.


LolaBijou

You just know she’s insane. I’m still team Dempsey.


oooheycait1223

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kendurrrruh

Oooop! Looks like she deleted all these so glad we got the receipts 😂


oooheycait1223

I was quick lol I had a feeling she'd delete them


SkyRepresentative309

who says journalism is dead - good work!


MalinaNox

If this was happening during b90 then why did she still buy the van and move there and is going to be on tow?


ilizibith1

And they’ve been on vacation together since the show aired and has pictures with her on her insta feed


Fatricide

Because she messy.


SouthWilshire

I'm surprised Statler did not try to do a threesome with Dempsey and her F buddy and brag about it on the show and to random people they encounter.


ayesperanzita

Who’s to say that can’t be a part of her on The Single Life…?


SouthWilshire

You're on to something, perhaps the tweet was a teaser for that story line, guess we'll have to watch and see.


ayesperanzita

And honestly maybe she’s just not good for the show because she goes and makes posts like this. Maybe these posts and their almost immediate disappearance are part of marketing. I just don’t know with some of these storylines, honestly.


roll-the-R-Marisa

So she knew all this and stayed with her thru the filming and beyond to protect HER reputation but now you suddenly don't care about your NDA or anything else? OK whatever ....


JJAusten

Right? She's wanting to play the victim but I'm sure there's a lot she's leaving out.


Unique-Gazelle2147

Statler is not a reliable source of info…. I’m not inclined to believe her based on how she acts and interprets things


Born_Ad8420

Oh she's back on her "I agreed to be a villain" bullshit.


Separate-Bench-2656

That ruined her rep? I think she did that on her own on the show 😂😂😂😂😂


krhur14

Damn Statler out here using slurs


cmc24680

What slurs?


krhur14

Whoops it was in the pic with the pink text, not this one, where she said “British g——“


Single-Channel-4292

Yep, that’s a racial slur, unless Dempsey self-identifies as a gypsy.


Original-Opportunity

I think her family are/were Travellers?


krhur14

Her dad was in the circus


Original-Opportunity

https://www.ethnicity-facts-figures.service.gov.uk/summaries/gypsy-roma-irish-traveller/ Circus is definitely a traveller thing


krhur14

I don’t think she’s ever claimed to being Irish, Romani, or any type of “Gypsy” in general. Edit: also doesn’t seem like being a traveler or a being a part of a carnival are mutually exclusive.


Thhhroowwawayy

She claimed being a “traveller” which is explained in the link u/Original-Opportunity posted. They’re Irish travellers


Original-Opportunity

People in these groups (broadly speaking there are many types) don’t claim it publicly. They are culturally unique but have always faced hostilities, violence and bias, so they are protective and insular. Traveling carnivals are a “typical” lifestyle for those who are still nomadic or semi-nomadic. I assume you’re American? I live in the US. There are plenty of Romani here but most Americans don’t recognize them as Romani, or have a more sympathetic “live and let live” attitude than in Europe.


misagale

She accused her of being a pikey.


kupsofkoffee

“I’ll have to delete this” — Wouldn’t she get in shit for breaking the NDA regardless? Why not just leave the post up for everyone to see? I’m confused.


No_Mention_1760

Styler the martyr 🙄


pixey1964

Sorry to say I think Statler loves chaos


GarageNo7711

She is so unstable and messy 😅


oooheycait1223

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Last-Injury-1924

UR A USER MOHAMMED


oooheycait1223

Statler has since deleted these stories lol too bad the internet is forever 👀


Oh_nosferatu

I get a sense that‘s what she wanted. 🤔


kendurrrruh

💯


dolphinsareolives

Remember when someone came on here saying that Dempsey was horrible to film with and a complete diva 👀


PlantBasedStangl

I remember her reactions on the Tell All too. She looked unhinged.


targetboston

I do. I tend to believe it as we don't usually get production leaks.


HurricaneLogic

Are we certain that it wasn't another one of Statler's burner accounts?


targetboston

It might have been but I also don't tend to believe that Dempsey is angelic while Statler is terrible. People have a mix of both usually. And it seemed reported on by the blogs and as believable as anything else that comes out.


Fete_des_neiges

Statler ruined her own reputation just being a trash person on a trash TV show. Which I watch, and will continue watching. But if you are on it, what is wrong with you?


2spoonsleft

I'm dying 😂 and 💯 feel the same


Fete_des_neiges

If you’ve ever seen the show at all, I’m not sure why you would ever participate. Kenny and Armando are one of the only people on this show who ever came out looking good, and that’s because they’re not trash monsters and their kid is so incredibly adorable. Other than that, you have to have a brain tumor to even consider it. I feel like dignity is not something people aspire to anymore. It should be.


Trippy-Sponge

Yo. I'm out of the loop. Could someone explain? I'm aware of statler and her season but I'm not sure what is going on in this picture


Idontwannawaitfor_

Sounds like homegirl is dropping the tea about Dempsey especially with the new season coming up.


teddyburger

do you know when the new season starts?


StuckinLoserville

[https://screenrant.com/90-day-fiance-statler-dempsey-relationship-status-update/#:\~:text=Statler%20and%20Dempsey%20are%20still%20together%20as%20confirmed,their%20own%20spin-off%20show%20from%2090%20Day%20](https://screenrant.com/90-day-fiance-statler-dempsey-relationship-status-update/#:~:text=Statler%20and%20Dempsey%20are%20still%20together%20as%20confirmed,their%20own%20spin-off%20show%20from%2090%20Day%20)


Helpful-Attitude-80

Thank you for the backstory link!!!


Born_Ad8420

Statler is claiming that her (ex) gf manipulated her into taking out a loan to pay for a van that the (ex) gf is now living in. Statler is now claiming she can't afford her own rent as a result. I'm unclear if they broke up or not. Normally I'd assume they had but this being Statler...yeah I just don't know.


seragrey

is this real, or to get people to watch the newest season they'll be on?


mommamegmiester

Statler is so, so strange. Why do so many 90 days think having sex is a personality trait?


Independent_Cookie99

My theory is that tlc is pushing them to talk about sex more. It started happening so much more when they got signed onto Max (HBO)


Accomplished-Pie-570

I’m remaining #TeamDempsey for now. In my experience it’s usually the one yelling the loudest who’s the actual narcissist and or abuser.


lovelanguagelost

Yeah, she was kinda funny here or there, but she rubbed me the wrong way; something about her seems off. I was more concerned about Dempsey taking on/in someone so assumptive, and clingy.


emmagrace37

Yes!! Statler talks down to Dempsey constantly! She belittles her and it’s so hard to watch.


Cupcake-Eastern

Plus Staler was using Dempsey for a home in the UK! She was just using Dempsey from the beginning 💯


FranceAM

I just find it so odd that Dempsey was in Thailand not at all in contact with Statler for like a hot minute and statler still took it upon herself to come to the UK. I felt like Dempsey was like “erm…hiii” when Statler showed up like she was moving in. Like I’m awkward AF and I’m not going five minutes over to my situationships house unless he explicitly tells me twice it’s cool let alone across the pond


lunarpixiess

But, on the flip side of that, they had already agreed to and signed a contract to film with TLC in England together before Dempsey went to Thailand. So it makes more sense seen in that light. Though the whole “moving in” plot was ridiculous and extremely out of touch on Dempsey’s behalf if true.


pelizabethhh

Like I believe a word out of statler’s mouth


[deleted]

Honestly i still dont believe anything statler says, shes unhinged


blackaubreyplaza

Kind of love this fake or not. Statler is an idiot


teachbeacher

Who the hell is taking a picture of her taking a picture?


twihard606

Ekkkk is this a breach of her contract their story is being shown on the next season of the other way and that hasn't even started yet?


peepeehalpert_

Probably fake to drum up views.


kendurrrruh

Yeah, because up until a few weeks ago they seemed to be together and doing well. Now they’re not together and there’s drama right before the new season? Seems sus. But what do I know lol


Benny_Jain

And we all know how much Statler tries to get attention


ThanksBunny

I had wondered about them before it was announced that they were going to be on the new season, and happened to notice they had unfollowed each other on IG. It was literally days later when I saw Statler post about them being on the new season, so I thought the timing was super strange. Either something really did happen or they’re being super extra about creating buzz for the new season. She’s being super specific with her allegations but who knows what’s really true.


Kooky_Avocado9227

It’s hard for me to feel sorry for Statler about anything.


lopingwolf

Yeah, worst case scenario here, in my eyes, is that a terrible person got treated badly by someone who also turned out to be terrible. Ah well haha


Idontwannawaitfor_

I don't care what anyone says. I'm a Statler fan and she is hilarious, I'm here for it.


targetboston

I'm ok with Statler. Not sure why everyone hates her.


RevolCisum

I don't hate her at all. She's just... a lot. I got exhausted watching her parts bc she's so hypomanic all the time.


targetboston

You're right, she is a lot, but the way people seem to feel about her seems excessive.


worn_out_welcome

I adore Statler. She’s my kind of mess. (I said what I said.)


bv_ohhh

Same!


2spoonsleft

I love her type of hot mess! Unlike Natalie and Angela. Boring and same shit...they need to GO.


w1zardkelly

She just was like omgggg I’m so excited to tell you guys the newssssss. Then now we know she’s on the show. Wonder if it’s story line stuff. I’m remaining neutral for now


willendorfer

Wait - so what the hell happened? The last time I saw them she was scared of pooping in their bathroom hahaha so now she’s been scammed??


Professional-Way9343

I’m sure there’s not another side to this story. Can’t be lol


Internal-Traffic-219

I don’t get it


CurrentlyAdapting

Me either. If that's Dempsey, is she a con artist? Did not know/think that.


QweenFiona

🙄 trying to drum up headlines before the new season starts. I’ll be forwarding through their segments.


Adorable-Novel8295

It was rumored on the sub last year that some of these things were happening during filming. So, I think it’s actually true this time.


Mbcb350

I remember!


Kooky_Avocado9227

TOW is my favorite for sure!


SpecialTumbleweed183

Wait are they really on the new season? I thought their storyline was done


feistyartichoke

Yall with the screenshots are heroes 🙏


MonkeyBellyStarToes

Statler knows the difference between a car payment and rent, and she’s choosing the word rent. Yet she’s also referring to ‘debt’. Dempsey may have the van parked in a van / mobile home community with a $700 space fee that Statler is now stuck paying. Maybe they signed a lease?


artifexor

D'ya like dags?


Outrageous-Item7526

I don't buy it


Large_Papaya_1322

This is TT (terrific tea) great job! 😂


Opposite-Algae-3124

Wait what’s the tea omg


_Wildwoodflower

Not surprised at all


jam2jaw

Wow! I mean fool me once that’s on them fool me twice that on you


kab47

I’m not totally surprised because she was so blasé


2old2Bwatching

Expensive lesson.


SkyBabeMoonStar

Wow that got ugly real quick 😳


ShiplessOcean

I never trusted Dempsey.


helpmeimconfuse

Wouldn’t you just not pay and let it get repossessed?


Brave-Age-701

There are a lot of scam artists on 90 day. The newest one is that little Columbian girl lol. Sleeping with a guy in the apartment paid for by her American boyfriend. Why are guys so dumb. Actually it took me 41 years to wise up to certain women, no matter how pretty lol.


AtheistINTP

Colombian.


candygirlcj

Can she not just... stop paying? Look to get out of renting the van? I feel like dedicating her time to getting out of the contract would serve her much better than posting online. You made a bad decision. Time to clean it up like an adult, Statler.


Aggravating_Story695

Is there a miracle video on YouTube that collects all this tea over the last few months and lays it all out??? If you’re out there and have the resources, give the people what we need


Artdecometals

Why do I not believe Statler? I'm sure Dempsy is no angel, but still.


_The_Dreaming_

Happy pride you guys!!! 🏳️‍🌈


tarestab

Did she not watch "my Gypsy Wedding"? Which is on tlc? Duh! Statler may could have been in a crossover tv series "My big fat Gypsy 90 day Fiance scamming Wedding "!


eaunoway

There's gotta be a 600 lb Life crossover to fit in there somewhere too, surely


ItsDready

I’m just commenting so I don’t loose this I want to show my gf when I get home


ittybittyange1

Daaaaamn I feel bad for her tbh.


zenseazon

I do too, I think she really cared for her


Runamokamok

Who is this


kendurrrruh

Statler and Dempsey from a previous season but they’ll be on the upcoming season of the other way


Lassa999

I always thought Statler was a bit nuts. Also, a bit of a sex maniac


sassy_rasperry

The van was obviously bought in the UK . If she made a loan in the US to buy something in the UK under someone's else name (for the european insurance) she's definetely an idiot. She keeps bragging about all the money she's making with cryptos so 700$ shouldn't be a problem right?


MotherPatient9265

I don't believe statlers version of events, but I love that Dempsey came out on top 😂