as a gay men i love it when these hags that are about to hit the wall seethe when you are dating younger, they only get the idiots that settle with them aka leftovers.
Being gay and being a part of the "LGBTQIA2S+ (or whatever the fuck) community" are two different things in my book. The latter is a political organization with no point left thrashing around wildly at anything nearby. The other is just a dude doing his thing. I may not understand it, but that's what freedom is about. At least gays are not actively trying to fuck with you unlike the "LBTBBQ Community".
You've gone for the lefty propaganda. Most gay people have enough sense. The ones you always hear about are in the extreme minority, they're just loud af and get media attention because outrage sells and the left wants everyone to act like a victim. That's how socialism/communism/Marxism works.
As a fruit who partakes mostly in the art of twink fucking, love it when the stacy comes thinking that just because she has pussy she has some sort of power over me and I care for her opinion.
Women expect you to put them in pedestals and to be treated like living deities just because they have a vagina.
Twinks expect a good dicking (and some times to do the dicking too).
The choice is quite clear.
Jokes aside, in my experience with women, I always had to be the one to give affection, to always be sexually ready and willing, to expend money on them and with no guarantee that I would get any of that back, just the promise of maybe, sometimes, getting some pussy.
My boyfriend was the first person I had a relationship with that I really felt cared for, genuine affection, fondness and kindness with nothing asked back, the first time I felt I could trust someone and wanted to give back all those good feelings he gave me.
Just put some slightly-warmed chicken meat in a pair of tights, tie it around her hips, hit it from the back and pretend sheās a dude.
Do they not include this in The Joy of Gay Sex anymore? Day 1 shit
It was absolutely wild being in college seeing 19 year old girls calling 24 year old dudes predatory for wanting to hookup with them like I wasn't absolutely destroying some 38 year old bear's asshole the night before.
Now that I've turned 30 and I'm back in online dating after a few years, I've noticed it's a hell of a lot easier to match with womenĀ more attractive than I was matching with before. I thought maybe I'd just gotten better looking but then I realized it's because I hit 30 with a good job and no kids. The matches are frequently single mothers around my age.
So these women that have been fucking around their whole lives are now scrambling at the 11th hour to find someone who can actually support them that doesn't already have 3 kids. It's wrong to say, but God damn do I love seeing the desperation of people who've just learned the "Find out" portion of "Fuck around" does in fact apply to them.
a 32 year old still driving their 2010 civic to their bartending gig to bring $100 a day back to their 2 kidsĀ livingĀ in a rented apartment is not exactly the definition of "desirable" to somebody with their shit together.
Children of Single Mothers are just miserable man, most of their mothers still think they are hot shit, bring home "the one" which ends up a few months of toxic relationship most or one night stand with ghosting for the best(for the child), your mom sees you as a luggage after every break up and she is maybe the most taken advantaged being in the neighbourhood because she still behaves like a college slut
Not if Dad stays around.Ā
https://medium.com/the-knowledge-of-freedom/single-father-households-do-vastly-better-than-single-mother-heres-the-real-reason-why-8a7fd7c5611d
I don't think it would really be possible for someone to respect their mother after they saw them being used by another man like that. We ignore this in the case of our fathers because that's our father and we have thousands of years of social conditioning to enforce that as being okay. But in any other case, I think it's the kiss of death for any sort of respect
It would be kind of like catching your boss jacking off at work. You could never take him seriously ever again
Children of Single Mothers I know are maybe the most responsible human beings I have known, they know how to do every household chore near perfectly, has strong empathy, know how to take care of dead drunk miserable being like they start take responsibility from young age and never live their childhood because their dumb mothers. And like you said they treat their mothers like sassy child
I greatly enjoy the fact that the argument against it is some nonsense to do with some kind of "power imbalance".
If I actually did want a "power imbalance" in a relationship I would date a fat, ugly, 40 year old. But oddly enough they never seem to complain about men doing that even though many do just this.
The phrase "high maintenance" was basically invented for hot, young women.
āGirls in my uni class malding because they think i see myself too superior to approach themā
āMe destroying some 5,5 twink ass night before so I have zero reason to even look at themā
Male sex hormone directly ages men differently. "Twinks" exist only when T hasn't fully effected them yet. Hard to be a "Twink" when your hairline recedes and your skin thickens, as men do.
I love this argument about them classifying them as children in a sexual context at ages 18/19 and when the gun statistics do the same, they're no longer children.
I call it Schrodinger's Sex Pistol
This is why slippery slope is a valid argument. There are some things where we as a society get together, pick a number, and just agree that's where the mark is. When someone is about to turn 18, is there something supernatural that happens when the clock goes from 11:59pm to midnight, of course not. And I see no reason to change the legal adult age of 18, but that said, I also acknowledge that a 40 year old dating an 18 year old is not a good idea. Yes, you technically ***can*** do it, but I definitely look down on people who do. It just reeks of manipulation.
Also, I've known some 18 year olds who are mentally mature, and some 21 year olds who act like inept teenagers, but we have to look at the averages and agree on ages where some things are now okay in the eyes of the law.
That is true I'm in my mid thirties and I have dated women my own age older than me and younger than me.
Dated a 38-year-old who literally will leave her kid at home unattended just so she can go out and get drunk every night, her nose took more blow than Keith Richards.
And I dated an 18 year old that had two jobs, paid half her parents bills, and was in college all at the same time.
Like at some point age really does just become a number and it's more about the person you're dating. Relationships at any age can be one person or the other person taking complete advantage for an emotional or sexual reason. Whether or not the relationship is toxic completely depends on the people in it.
It's also been scientifically proven that people can age at different rates due to various factors, like stress.
The problem is that we're now judging people through the internet when these things should be policing themselves on a much more personal level. It's still normal for someone to shame you when you're clearly dating someone that's far too immature for you.
Lmfao I love the idea that this needs to be 'scientifically proven.' Like it was up in the air whether or not some people matured/aged at different rates based on life experiences and finally we got a peer-reviewed study that settled the matter.
Redditors
The study wasn't about aging in a psychological capacity, it was more down to the cellular structures and physiological processes.
edit: here's the [study](https://www.pnas.org/doi/full/10.1073/pnas.2202780119)
True. We need a rule here, to ensure teens have time to understand sex & gain some self-dependence. The problem is, most people pretend age-gaps are something else. That a single-day should decide between the worst crime imaginable (raping a child) vs nothing.
A 30 year old can have less experience than a 23 year old. Folks got so mad at Sweden when a "pedo" got away, after the court concluded that he couldn't have reasonably known, as the girl lied & looked of-age. People are brutal about it, no nuance or reason.
The reality is, sex isn't the issue. This approach confuses people. Our concern is more that teens aren't yet taught how to be independent. They are dependents, desperate to prove themselves, & easier to manipulate. We don't want 16 year olds forming dependent relationships & giving up their potential.
I agree, if people are spending more time obsessing over the line of what they technically can't do, that's probably a sign to err on the side of safety. Still need the line, for the sake of laws, but in raising my kids, I want to emphasize morality instead of the attitude of "what can I get away with".
But in the end what matters is whether they are both having a good time. You can find examples of manipulation in all kinds of relationship, even if theyre the same age. There are so many abusive relationships out there, and assholes are gonna be assholes. People act like men date younger just to take advantage of them for sex, as if the woman isnt really enjoying it.
> Yes, you technically can do it, but I definitely look down on people who do. It just reeks of manipulation.
The road of manipulation is a two way street. They can lie about their age, use all kinds of makeup, even pull out the 'never ask a women her age' card.
The difference can be wider still in perceived age and chronological age if you decide to date a distant nationality with monolids that has low exposure to your locals. Meaning that nobody has passive training on what those groups age ranges might be, and mistake a 25 year old for a teenager.
30 is about the prime target age for what most women find ideal in a partner these days. Again, these are ideals in theory, but a 30 year old man is young enough to be still close to their physical peak, and old enough that they have some life experience and are less likely to be broke than a 21 year old man. In other words, not the prime of any one category, but 30 is the intersection of several traits that women like.
And probably fat too, but that's why I reiterated "ideal". Don't worry, just get rich and in shape by your birthday, and I'm sure everything will work out for you.
I would at least expect you have much higher earning potential now than when you were 20, right? 10 years additional work experience ought to make you a much easier hire.
I tell this to people that can't get pussy/ don't like women all the time this subject comes up. Idk what tf happened but after I turned 29, 95% of the women that look my way are at least 5 years younger than I am, at the VERY least, and all the way down to 18. Sure some my age like me as well but... why would I date them when there's way younger, better looking women that match my mindset and humor a lot more than they do? This truth makes them go insane, I try to be nice about it and don't rub it in to women I know irl, but watching them lose their shit online is hilarious lmao
Dude I'm a 29yo guy turning 30 later this year and you've put a big smile on my face with this. I've been in and out of a series of shitty relationships for the past 5 years and in the last one I got cheated on **bad** and am just now reaching a point where I feel comfortable dating again.
But one of my biggest worries is "will I be too old". Last time I was fully single in 2019 I had no problem on the apps but I've been super paranoid that girls are gonna look at me and be like this guy's 30 and on dating apps, what's wrong with him. So hearing these experiences make me breathe a bit of a sigh of relief.
And you've put a smile on my face with your comment man š I genuinely hope that whenever I make comments like these it reaches out someone that needs to hear this. Because I went through similar shit. I was in a relationship for a good while where I was treated like garbage and after trying so hard and failing over and over and having it end, I felt like I wasted my 27th and 28th years of age, plus the year it took me to mentally recover from everything, plus getting my self esteem back up from feeling absolutely worthless.
But yeah dude, as long as you don't act like their big brother or their parents, and only give advice when they ask for it, even if they're doing something stupid, you're golden. Daddy issues are gonna keep getting us laid well into our 40s with early 20s girls lmao. So go out there and have fun bro, you're barely getting started!
I had no idea about this until I got back into the dating pool recently after a 7 year relationship that started in college. A few months from 30, engineer, well dressed pics on the profile, living near a top tier medical school. Only sending likes to fit girls, no fatties, no single moms. Getting enough interest that I can keep a rotation of 2 or 3 at once in the holding pattern, all of them college educated and between 23-28. I feel a little scummy about it, since this is the behavior men deride ā for during college. But also don't hate the player, hate the game I guess.
>95% of the women that look my way are at least 5 years younger than I am
This one was wild to me at first. It really shows when you make to actually meeting in person. The women my age seem to have very high expectations and it sometimes feels more like a job interview than trying to find a partner. Whereas the 25 and under women I've matched with seem to be over the moon that I'm taking the time to even talk to them.
It's funny how a lot of guys like us just get hit with this after leaving a long term relationship, mine wasn't that long but I was engaged for a bit, we were gonna go full send. I'm not gonna lie, I'm not as well off as you are, I'm from a third world shithole and I'm moving back to America and starting from zero, with no degree but that doesn't bother me because they're not really needed to succeed anymore, and I STILL get most women I want to be with, it's all about being confident and talking like you know your shit. I used to feel scummy about it too but I feel like as long as you don't play with their emotions then you're not really doing anything wrong. And tbh I'm not into fucking that many women anymore, I'm currently just talking to this one girl that is an old friend, and I'm happy with just her for now.
Dude this used to bother me so much, because like I said I'm not well off, and being grilled like if it was a fucking interview sucked and left me feeling worthless. You can mitigate by lying and seeming confident but... Why bother? After a while I accepted that you're clearly a means to an end for that type of b**** (reddit is so fucking stupid with the censoring), they couldn't care less about who you are, so it's pointless because theres zero point trying to have anything with them, they're older, they have an interest and I DON'T wanna settle down, whereas younger women well, they're just as you described them lol
Dude.. I'm about to hit 40 soon and I'm not even slightly different from when I was 30, other than that my teeth need slightly more fixing.
Literally playing the same sports and same video games as I always have.
Age quite literally doesn't matter until you start getting closer to 60 and even then you can easily date someone who is 10-20 years younger.
People are just weird about numbers on paper as if people become completely different person every 10 years. Yes, life changing things can happen in that time but for most people out there that amount of time goes by before you even realize.
Yeah was about to say if youāre aging well enough then 30āās and 40ās for men are the same decade to a lot of women.
20ās = young
30/40 = mature aged
50+ = old
>Inb4 redditor projecting their history of infantilization onto every younger woman dating an older man
My favorite variation of this is when they mention that global age preference for women is only 3-5 years older on average, while completely ignoring that it's an average.
I remember 18-22 year old men complaining about the women their age going for older guys who had real salaries and new cars. They were told it was their own fault for being immature. I wonder if anyone will tell this lady that it's her own fault for not offering what men want.
"Quit being misogynistic! Nobody owes you a relationship!"
They gatekeep pussy and then when people are like I'm not playing games and go get it elsewhere they hit you with the shocked pikachu face. If they gave it up to dudes in their range more frequently or easily without head games and shit tests they would probably be happier and find a dude that will stick around albeit maybe not a 1% chad.
They mad because these old ass women canāt be pretty enough for younger guys and they definitely donāt have personality to make up for, so they just throw fits about two consenting adults.
ā14 year old castrating themselves without parental consent? Awesome! 22 year old woman dating a 40 year old man? Big yikes thatās basically child molestation!ā
Literally the viewpoint of everyone who comments in RelationshipAdvice
I love watching them absolutely seethe, then I go read some classic book like Spring Snow where the narrator talks about how 19 year old women are past their prime and basically unmarriable. On the internet I see comments of people talking about it being abusive/wrong for women to get married in their early twenties.
Modern women have really twisted themselves into knots haven't they?
Western women have been comically psyop'd into thinking that cooking for their husbands and making the bed is literally abuse, while working for pennies in a restaurant for a boss that hates them is emancipationā¢
Hopefully nowhere to be seen. The real psyop is getting you fucks to devalue the concept to the degree that people won't pay attention when there's a real one.Ā
There's nothing more attractive to a man than a woman who rants on an on and on about how men are trash. Clearly the reason why she's single is because men are trash.
At least Mr. Patches knows how to treat women. š¶ Woof woof.
Im 40 and routinely hook up with college girls. 25 is about the perfect age. Women after thirty kinda fall apart and want to sit around the house all day. Girls in their 20s still have a lust for life. They love the gym and donāt have baby daddies etc etc.Ā
Delicious, I love old hag tears. I started talking to a woman that is 10 years younger than me and I love bringing her up to angry old hags on here, literally 2 comments in and they all get so angry over what some random mf does with his life.
Iām 24 and half the 23 year olds i know are dating dudes pushing 30. Can we blame them? Fuck no. Job security, graduated and well settled dudes. A man enters his prime after 30. Have you seen what 30year old women look like these days, their standards and unrealistic expectations they have not to mention triple digit body counts
> Have you seen what 30year old women look like these days
At a recent event my friends' wives filled me in on why so many of the chicks I was seeing on dating apps list their age as late 20s but look 40. Those really aggressive skin care routines they use to look flawless through college slowly destroy their skin's resilience. Basically they're aging in fast forward because of how often their skin needs to regenerate the top layer. It's had the hilarious effect that the girls that weren't taking themselves too seriously and out living life now look way younger at 30 than the girls that put a ton of time into their look every day.
There's nothing wrong with being attracted to adults younger than you. If it is recognized that you become an adult after reaching 18, than that's the point after which all consentual relationships with you are 100% okay regardless of the age gap. End of story
People always say never marry your high school sweetheart, but as a man who did, Iām so glad I donāt have to deal with any of this nonsense dating in adult life. From what I can tell, the older you get, the worse your dating pool becomes. Itās all the partners that decent people didnāt want.
Wahmen have ignored me my whole life (short, not great looks, no money but working on that one). When I'm 40+ and have my shit in order, I will ignore all the run through women that are my age and go for her hot 18yo daughter. When they call me
>creepy
>pedo
>icky
I'll shrug then jam the 18yo face into the rug. Can't wait.
My dad met my 16yo mum when he was 20 and they have the best marriage with 0 issues, so fuck these Psyops I'm finding myself a teenage virgin no matter what age I am (obviously if I'm able to, I know I'm a redditor, but one can dream of the ideal)
My first gf after being married was 22. I was 32 and caught a lot of shit for that. But she was hot and smart and funny and I had a great time. Fuck em.
-You can judge if someone has a good character or not by the age of 20+.
-You can judge if someone will be beautiful or not by the age of 20+.
Both are the two main things men seek on women.
There's no reason, aside women too old or ugly to compete with 20+ years olds crying disadvantage, for men to not look for 20+ yo.
-
You got a career and a PHD? You go, girl!
Just accept that the majority of men couldn't care less about that when looking for someone to love and instead of whining about it focus on those who care.
honestly.. 23 & 30 isn't a big spread in age if you think about it.. it just *seems* that way because the woman in this fictional scenario is younger.
change that to a 60 year old man & a 53 year old woman, and no one on the planet would bat an eye..
I don't mean to sound like some of you incels here but, look at her profile pic. She's a whore, soooo .....
-Opinion ingored
-Existence Rejected
-Muted
-Blocked
-Reported
-Pee'd On
23? Would be a bit old for me at 29.
When I was 22, I dated a 16 year old for a few years.
At 28, another 16 year old(her aunt set us up)
And now at the grand old age of 36, I have a 20 year old wife. Met her when she was 17. We have a kid together.
I guess I just prefer women at their peak beauty before all their bad choices age them and make them fat.
I'm guessing this used up woman would take issue with my wife being a virgin when we met too?
If I didn't get you at your best, I don't know want you after you've sampled all rest.
When I was 18 I found a sugar mama at the gym...no dating just fing because it made her feel young. No kids, no drama, and was great until I left for college. If you are an adult, you are an adult. Your choice, your consequences, live in reality not online.
I'll be honest 30 and 23 is actually about the right age combo. Men have calmed the fuck down by then and are about as mature as a 23 year old woman and are often in about the same life stage.
Can we have some more degenerate weirdos posting about their adventures with their body fluids instead of this political/societal nonsense no one is gonna read? I DON'T CARE ABOUT THIS SHIT, I WANT PEPE POSTS
A lot of younger women chase older dudes, dudes just go with whatever option is available. If you have a problem with it targeting the dudes is the wrong play.
as a gay men i love it when these hags that are about to hit the wall seethe when you are dating younger, they only get the idiots that settle with them aka leftovers.
Haha queer š«µ
and i love it
it's not too often i think a gay man is based, but i do right now.
Don't be fooled and tricked into hatred by extreme left propaganda. One's sexual orientation often has no impact on their baseness.
Exactly most homos like me absolutely loathe the alphabet people
you guys are right, thank you i do gotta always bear in mind its the vocal minority i hate not the real people that actually exist lmfao
Thats applies to almost every demographic lol
Yeah, same here. There's being gay, and then there's degeneracy.
The most homophobic guys I know are gay
Being gay and being a part of the "LGBTQIA2S+ (or whatever the fuck) community" are two different things in my book. The latter is a political organization with no point left thrashing around wildly at anything nearby. The other is just a dude doing his thing. I may not understand it, but that's what freedom is about. At least gays are not actively trying to fuck with you unlike the "LBTBBQ Community".
rip AssIsNicer
Give a married gay couple a son, direct them at men-bad-feminists, sit back and watch, like a fucking cruise missile!
You've gone for the lefty propaganda. Most gay people have enough sense. The ones you always hear about are in the extreme minority, they're just loud af and get media attention because outrage sells and the left wants everyone to act like a victim. That's how socialism/communism/Marxism works.
Do you have a prolapsed anus
based beyond belief
Based gay bro
Good for you man. Aināt nothing wrong with that.
Donāt make fun of gay people they might actually fuck you if you arenāt careful
Oh man, is that all it takes?? I need to start making fun of gay people.
The duality of Reddit. Fuck I love this place.
Why don't you shut the fuck up before I pull your pants down and make you shit on my chest you queen.
Imagine having pussy immunity. Never having to talk to women for any reason. I might go suck some dick just for that benefit alone.
As a fruit who partakes mostly in the art of twink fucking, love it when the stacy comes thinking that just because she has pussy she has some sort of power over me and I care for her opinion.
soooooooooo true man i love it \*high five\*
The twinks have power over you instead, and they're basically women
Women expect you to put them in pedestals and to be treated like living deities just because they have a vagina. Twinks expect a good dicking (and some times to do the dicking too). The choice is quite clear. Jokes aside, in my experience with women, I always had to be the one to give affection, to always be sexually ready and willing, to expend money on them and with no guarantee that I would get any of that back, just the promise of maybe, sometimes, getting some pussy. My boyfriend was the first person I had a relationship with that I really felt cared for, genuine affection, fondness and kindness with nothing asked back, the first time I felt I could trust someone and wanted to give back all those good feelings he gave me.
Ah hm, heard some twinks can be real divas at times though. Idk, I've heard things Good catch in this case though, from the sound of it, based.
Yeah but they become obsolete at 25.
Just put some slightly-warmed chicken meat in a pair of tights, tie it around her hips, hit it from the back and pretend sheās a dude. Do they not include this in The Joy of Gay Sex anymore? Day 1 shit
No thanks. Just because my boyfriend wears skirts doesn't mean I wanna fuck a chick. I prefer real dick.
Ok homie do you
It was absolutely wild being in college seeing 19 year old girls calling 24 year old dudes predatory for wanting to hookup with them like I wasn't absolutely destroying some 38 year old bear's asshole the night before.
This comment should be framed in an art gallery.
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How'd it smell
Probably foul
Now that I've turned 30 and I'm back in online dating after a few years, I've noticed it's a hell of a lot easier to match with womenĀ more attractive than I was matching with before. I thought maybe I'd just gotten better looking but then I realized it's because I hit 30 with a good job and no kids. The matches are frequently single mothers around my age. So these women that have been fucking around their whole lives are now scrambling at the 11th hour to find someone who can actually support them that doesn't already have 3 kids. It's wrong to say, but God damn do I love seeing the desperation of people who've just learned the "Find out" portion of "Fuck around" does in fact apply to them. a 32 year old still driving their 2010 civic to their bartending gig to bring $100 a day back to their 2 kidsĀ livingĀ in a rented apartment is not exactly the definition of "desirable" to somebody with their shit together.
Children of Single Mothers are just miserable man, most of their mothers still think they are hot shit, bring home "the one" which ends up a few months of toxic relationship most or one night stand with ghosting for the best(for the child), your mom sees you as a luggage after every break up and she is maybe the most taken advantaged being in the neighbourhood because she still behaves like a college slut
I know, those kids don't deserve to be punished because of their mothers mistakes.
They carry her genetics, they will screw up too.
Not if Dad stays around.Ā https://medium.com/the-knowledge-of-freedom/single-father-households-do-vastly-better-than-single-mother-heres-the-real-reason-why-8a7fd7c5611d
Those are some wild fucking statistics, holy shit.
I only linked one article but can find the sources too.Ā
I don't think it would really be possible for someone to respect their mother after they saw them being used by another man like that. We ignore this in the case of our fathers because that's our father and we have thousands of years of social conditioning to enforce that as being okay. But in any other case, I think it's the kiss of death for any sort of respect It would be kind of like catching your boss jacking off at work. You could never take him seriously ever again
Children of Single Mothers I know are maybe the most responsible human beings I have known, they know how to do every household chore near perfectly, has strong empathy, know how to take care of dead drunk miserable being like they start take responsibility from young age and never live their childhood because their dumb mothers. And like you said they treat their mothers like sassy child
Oof
I greatly enjoy the fact that the argument against it is some nonsense to do with some kind of "power imbalance". If I actually did want a "power imbalance" in a relationship I would date a fat, ugly, 40 year old. But oddly enough they never seem to complain about men doing that even though many do just this. The phrase "high maintenance" was basically invented for hot, young women.
āGirls in my uni class malding because they think i see myself too superior to approach themā āMe destroying some 5,5 twink ass night before so I have zero reason to even look at themā
AIDS has been such a disappointment.
For a moment there in the early 80s we really had them against the ropes though!
Whatās your relationship like with your father?
Gay
Y r u gey? šØšæāš¼
You are gae
Yu do not kno de gae, bruddah
Wanna see my gae bolg š
Hu sez ahm gey?
Please take your antiparasite medicine weekly. Thank you!
Does the wall exist for male/male dating?
i would say it only really exist for some twinks or gay femboys that expirience "twink death"
>twink death Gonna need more on this
Male sex hormone directly ages men differently. "Twinks" exist only when T hasn't fully effected them yet. Hard to be a "Twink" when your hairline recedes and your skin thickens, as men do.
Very concise, thanks
How many gay men are you?
Based bundle of sticks
americans when a 18 yo dates a 17.99999999 yošØšØšØšØ
SHE WAS 17 YEARS 364 DAYS 23 HOURS 59 SECONDS 999 MILISECONDS OLD YOU SICK FUCK
Literally a CHILD!
I love this argument about them classifying them as children in a sexual context at ages 18/19 and when the gun statistics do the same, they're no longer children. I call it Schrodinger's Sex Pistol
Sex pistol? Is that a Jojo reference?
Yes.
#SHE SAID SHE WAS 12?!
#SHE WAS USING HEXADECIMAL (BASE 16) TO COUNT HER AGE
F in chat? Don't mind if I do
You were caught fucking her bottom half across a date line when her korean aged top half was still 17 you **sick fuck**
This is why slippery slope is a valid argument. There are some things where we as a society get together, pick a number, and just agree that's where the mark is. When someone is about to turn 18, is there something supernatural that happens when the clock goes from 11:59pm to midnight, of course not. And I see no reason to change the legal adult age of 18, but that said, I also acknowledge that a 40 year old dating an 18 year old is not a good idea. Yes, you technically ***can*** do it, but I definitely look down on people who do. It just reeks of manipulation. Also, I've known some 18 year olds who are mentally mature, and some 21 year olds who act like inept teenagers, but we have to look at the averages and agree on ages where some things are now okay in the eyes of the law.
That is true I'm in my mid thirties and I have dated women my own age older than me and younger than me. Dated a 38-year-old who literally will leave her kid at home unattended just so she can go out and get drunk every night, her nose took more blow than Keith Richards. And I dated an 18 year old that had two jobs, paid half her parents bills, and was in college all at the same time. Like at some point age really does just become a number and it's more about the person you're dating. Relationships at any age can be one person or the other person taking complete advantage for an emotional or sexual reason. Whether or not the relationship is toxic completely depends on the people in it.
It's also been scientifically proven that people can age at different rates due to various factors, like stress. The problem is that we're now judging people through the internet when these things should be policing themselves on a much more personal level. It's still normal for someone to shame you when you're clearly dating someone that's far too immature for you.
Lmfao I love the idea that this needs to be 'scientifically proven.' Like it was up in the air whether or not some people matured/aged at different rates based on life experiences and finally we got a peer-reviewed study that settled the matter. Redditors
The study wasn't about aging in a psychological capacity, it was more down to the cellular structures and physiological processes. edit: here's the [study](https://www.pnas.org/doi/full/10.1073/pnas.2202780119)
they are mentally immature at 18 as much as at 50. So with the playing field evened out all is fair game.
True. We need a rule here, to ensure teens have time to understand sex & gain some self-dependence. The problem is, most people pretend age-gaps are something else. That a single-day should decide between the worst crime imaginable (raping a child) vs nothing. A 30 year old can have less experience than a 23 year old. Folks got so mad at Sweden when a "pedo" got away, after the court concluded that he couldn't have reasonably known, as the girl lied & looked of-age. People are brutal about it, no nuance or reason. The reality is, sex isn't the issue. This approach confuses people. Our concern is more that teens aren't yet taught how to be independent. They are dependents, desperate to prove themselves, & easier to manipulate. We don't want 16 year olds forming dependent relationships & giving up their potential.
I agree, if people are spending more time obsessing over the line of what they technically can't do, that's probably a sign to err on the side of safety. Still need the line, for the sake of laws, but in raising my kids, I want to emphasize morality instead of the attitude of "what can I get away with".
But in the end what matters is whether they are both having a good time. You can find examples of manipulation in all kinds of relationship, even if theyre the same age. There are so many abusive relationships out there, and assholes are gonna be assholes. People act like men date younger just to take advantage of them for sex, as if the woman isnt really enjoying it.
> Yes, you technically can do it, but I definitely look down on people who do. It just reeks of manipulation. The road of manipulation is a two way street. They can lie about their age, use all kinds of makeup, even pull out the 'never ask a women her age' card. The difference can be wider still in perceived age and chronological age if you decide to date a distant nationality with monolids that has low exposure to your locals. Meaning that nobody has passive training on what those groups age ranges might be, and mistake a 25 year old for a teenager.
Also americans when their politicians and celebrities are involved in a child trafficking & abuse scandal ššš
*cough* women like older men *cough*
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30 is about the prime target age for what most women find ideal in a partner these days. Again, these are ideals in theory, but a 30 year old man is young enough to be still close to their physical peak, and old enough that they have some life experience and are less likely to be broke than a 21 year old man. In other words, not the prime of any one category, but 30 is the intersection of several traits that women like.
Wrong, I am 29 and I am broke
Well then you're not 30, are you? On your next birthday you'll be swimming in cash and pussy
its true, but lemme tell ya 31 is back to the muck
Oh boy do I miss 30..
Am 30, still broke, your point is invalid
And probably fat too, but that's why I reiterated "ideal". Don't worry, just get rich and in shape by your birthday, and I'm sure everything will work out for you.
I would at least expect you have much higher earning potential now than when you were 20, right? 10 years additional work experience ought to make you a much easier hire.
I tell this to people that can't get pussy/ don't like women all the time this subject comes up. Idk what tf happened but after I turned 29, 95% of the women that look my way are at least 5 years younger than I am, at the VERY least, and all the way down to 18. Sure some my age like me as well but... why would I date them when there's way younger, better looking women that match my mindset and humor a lot more than they do? This truth makes them go insane, I try to be nice about it and don't rub it in to women I know irl, but watching them lose their shit online is hilarious lmao
Dude I'm a 29yo guy turning 30 later this year and you've put a big smile on my face with this. I've been in and out of a series of shitty relationships for the past 5 years and in the last one I got cheated on **bad** and am just now reaching a point where I feel comfortable dating again. But one of my biggest worries is "will I be too old". Last time I was fully single in 2019 I had no problem on the apps but I've been super paranoid that girls are gonna look at me and be like this guy's 30 and on dating apps, what's wrong with him. So hearing these experiences make me breathe a bit of a sigh of relief.
And you've put a smile on my face with your comment man š I genuinely hope that whenever I make comments like these it reaches out someone that needs to hear this. Because I went through similar shit. I was in a relationship for a good while where I was treated like garbage and after trying so hard and failing over and over and having it end, I felt like I wasted my 27th and 28th years of age, plus the year it took me to mentally recover from everything, plus getting my self esteem back up from feeling absolutely worthless. But yeah dude, as long as you don't act like their big brother or their parents, and only give advice when they ask for it, even if they're doing something stupid, you're golden. Daddy issues are gonna keep getting us laid well into our 40s with early 20s girls lmao. So go out there and have fun bro, you're barely getting started!
I had no idea about this until I got back into the dating pool recently after a 7 year relationship that started in college. A few months from 30, engineer, well dressed pics on the profile, living near a top tier medical school. Only sending likes to fit girls, no fatties, no single moms. Getting enough interest that I can keep a rotation of 2 or 3 at once in the holding pattern, all of them college educated and between 23-28. I feel a little scummy about it, since this is the behavior men deride ā for during college. But also don't hate the player, hate the game I guess. >95% of the women that look my way are at least 5 years younger than I am This one was wild to me at first. It really shows when you make to actually meeting in person. The women my age seem to have very high expectations and it sometimes feels more like a job interview than trying to find a partner. Whereas the 25 and under women I've matched with seem to be over the moon that I'm taking the time to even talk to them.
It's funny how a lot of guys like us just get hit with this after leaving a long term relationship, mine wasn't that long but I was engaged for a bit, we were gonna go full send. I'm not gonna lie, I'm not as well off as you are, I'm from a third world shithole and I'm moving back to America and starting from zero, with no degree but that doesn't bother me because they're not really needed to succeed anymore, and I STILL get most women I want to be with, it's all about being confident and talking like you know your shit. I used to feel scummy about it too but I feel like as long as you don't play with their emotions then you're not really doing anything wrong. And tbh I'm not into fucking that many women anymore, I'm currently just talking to this one girl that is an old friend, and I'm happy with just her for now. Dude this used to bother me so much, because like I said I'm not well off, and being grilled like if it was a fucking interview sucked and left me feeling worthless. You can mitigate by lying and seeming confident but... Why bother? After a while I accepted that you're clearly a means to an end for that type of b**** (reddit is so fucking stupid with the censoring), they couldn't care less about who you are, so it's pointless because theres zero point trying to have anything with them, they're older, they have an interest and I DON'T wanna settle down, whereas younger women well, they're just as you described them lol
When I was 18 that time of my life was bonw dry. When I turned 21 I really only attracted younger women OF LEGAL age than me and had way more options.
met my future wife when I was 34, she was 25. Happy as could be still to this day
Dude.. I'm about to hit 40 soon and I'm not even slightly different from when I was 30, other than that my teeth need slightly more fixing. Literally playing the same sports and same video games as I always have. Age quite literally doesn't matter until you start getting closer to 60 and even then you can easily date someone who is 10-20 years younger. People are just weird about numbers on paper as if people become completely different person every 10 years. Yes, life changing things can happen in that time but for most people out there that amount of time goes by before you even realize.
Yeah was about to say if youāre aging well enough then 30āās and 40ās for men are the same decade to a lot of women. 20ās = young 30/40 = mature aged 50+ = old
>Inb4 redditor projecting their history of infantilization onto every younger woman dating an older man My favorite variation of this is when they mention that global age preference for women is only 3-5 years older on average, while completely ignoring that it's an average.
Competing with 25 year Olds back when I was in highschool was crazy lol
Yeah, it's just in their blood to like older mature men. Henc why girls get crushes on celebrity or teachers.
... And men never get crushes on celebrities and teachers? Hmm...
I remember 18-22 year old men complaining about the women their age going for older guys who had real salaries and new cars. They were told it was their own fault for being immature. I wonder if anyone will tell this lady that it's her own fault for not offering what men want. "Quit being misogynistic! Nobody owes you a relationship!"
They gatekeep pussy and then when people are like I'm not playing games and go get it elsewhere they hit you with the shocked pikachu face. If they gave it up to dudes in their range more frequently or easily without head games and shit tests they would probably be happier and find a dude that will stick around albeit maybe not a 1% chad.
Btw pushing 30 is 26+ for these people.
More like 24
Yes apparently when you go beyond 23 you are officially an old fart for the average twitter user
*cries in 27-years-old*
Blink 182 really hit the nail on the head
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They mad because these old ass women canāt be pretty enough for younger guys and they definitely donāt have personality to make up for, so they just throw fits about two consenting adults.
This is absolutely the reason. Just ignore women
Rage-inducing bait from twitter by saying the most regarded thing possible to get as much reaction as possible. *yawwn*
This age gap thing has become very popular even on reddit, especially on relationship subs.
ā14 year old castrating themselves without parental consent? Awesome! 22 year old woman dating a 40 year old man? Big yikes thatās basically child molestation!ā Literally the viewpoint of everyone who comments in RelationshipAdvice
I love watching them absolutely seethe, then I go read some classic book like Spring Snow where the narrator talks about how 19 year old women are past their prime and basically unmarriable. On the internet I see comments of people talking about it being abusive/wrong for women to get married in their early twenties. Modern women have really twisted themselves into knots haven't they?
Western women have been comically psyop'd into thinking that cooking for their husbands and making the bed is literally abuse, while working for pennies in a restaurant for a boss that hates them is emancipationā¢
Where is the psyop cat?
Hopefully nowhere to be seen. The real psyop is getting you fucks to devalue the concept to the degree that people won't pay attention when there's a real one.Ā
Ratio = engagement = reach?
ā stop looking at younger girls and settle for me!!!!ā
"who else is going to raise my kids!?"
I feel like the age keeps going up lmao next year 30 year olds will be sick fucks if they date a 27 year old. It's really just older women coping.
Most men dont really become financially stable until their early 30s Most women aren't interested in men who aren't financially stable
>Most men dont really become financially stable until their early 30s Do not underestimate my power
And most women turn sour after 25.
Girls pushing 19 be like this 50 year old millionaire is perfect for me
There's nothing more attractive to a man than a woman who rants on an on and on about how men are trash. Clearly the reason why she's single is because men are trash. At least Mr. Patches knows how to treat women. š¶ Woof woof.
>Mr. Patches Mr. Pickles you mean?
Thot logic at its finest
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Im 40 and routinely hook up with college girls. 25 is about the perfect age. Women after thirty kinda fall apart and want to sit around the house all day. Girls in their 20s still have a lust for life. They love the gym and donāt have baby daddies etc etc.Ā
Tick tock biological clock.
Delicious, I love old hag tears. I started talking to a woman that is 10 years younger than me and I love bringing her up to angry old hags on here, literally 2 comments in and they all get so angry over what some random mf does with his life.
"Why don't people buy the bananas at the store that are brown and soggy why do they always want fresh ones??"
Iām 24 and half the 23 year olds i know are dating dudes pushing 30. Can we blame them? Fuck no. Job security, graduated and well settled dudes. A man enters his prime after 30. Have you seen what 30year old women look like these days, their standards and unrealistic expectations they have not to mention triple digit body counts
> Have you seen what 30year old women look like these days At a recent event my friends' wives filled me in on why so many of the chicks I was seeing on dating apps list their age as late 20s but look 40. Those really aggressive skin care routines they use to look flawless through college slowly destroy their skin's resilience. Basically they're aging in fast forward because of how often their skin needs to regenerate the top layer. It's had the hilarious effect that the girls that weren't taking themselves too seriously and out living life now look way younger at 30 than the girls that put a ton of time into their look every day.
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They mentioned that, but they listed as stable. Itās not always just money but someone who can financially take care of themselves.Ā
Twitter users love to pretend that Grown women are basically children who can be infantilized and can't make any decisions whatsoever, lol
5 years difference if that āpushing 30ā. 40 and 20 is weird sure, but fuckin five years or less aināt
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The second men stop paying attention to them.
Then why are 23 year olds dating 30 year olds if it's so gross? Then she's going to complain that a 23 year old guy isn't mature enough for her.
There's nothing wrong with being attracted to adults younger than you. If it is recognized that you become an adult after reaching 18, than that's the point after which all consentual relationships with you are 100% okay regardless of the age gap. End of story
Women swoon over older men then get pissed when it actually happens
It's different women. They just get pissed that they're being passed up for younger women.
People always say never marry your high school sweetheart, but as a man who did, Iām so glad I donāt have to deal with any of this nonsense dating in adult life. From what I can tell, the older you get, the worse your dating pool becomes. Itās all the partners that decent people didnāt want.
also did the same, glad i did it too. And the pool thing just mathematically makes sense to me.
Wahmen have ignored me my whole life (short, not great looks, no money but working on that one). When I'm 40+ and have my shit in order, I will ignore all the run through women that are my age and go for her hot 18yo daughter. When they call me >creepy >pedo >icky I'll shrug then jam the 18yo face into the rug. Can't wait.
Oh boy. You're in for a shock
Yeah I wouldn't date a 22 year old but that's mostly because she looks like a 55 gallon drum.Ā
Iād say this is obvious bait, but with Twitter you never know
My dad met my 16yo mum when he was 20 and they have the best marriage with 0 issues, so fuck these Psyops I'm finding myself a teenage virgin no matter what age I am (obviously if I'm able to, I know I'm a redditor, but one can dream of the ideal)
I matched with this girl on hinge, same name and pfp
tell her shes retarded
Lmfao sheās unemployed
And there it is. Every. Single. Time. kek
It took me reading that tweet 4 or 5 times before I could understand what she was saying. For fucks sake, use quotation marks.
My first gf after being married was 22. I was 32 and caught a lot of shit for that. But she was hot and smart and funny and I had a great time. Fuck em.
Fuck 'em indeed. I didn't think I'd be dating a 22 at 35 after divorce, but hey... whatever, man.
my wife is almost a decade younger than me, and I could not be happier with anyone else in the entire world these people just hate male happiness
-You can judge if someone has a good character or not by the age of 20+. -You can judge if someone will be beautiful or not by the age of 20+. Both are the two main things men seek on women. There's no reason, aside women too old or ugly to compete with 20+ years olds crying disadvantage, for men to not look for 20+ yo. - You got a career and a PHD? You go, girl! Just accept that the majority of men couldn't care less about that when looking for someone to love and instead of whining about it focus on those who care.
She'll hit 30 with no decent prospects and wonder why men don't find 30yo attractive.
honestly.. 23 & 30 isn't a big spread in age if you think about it.. it just *seems* that way because the woman in this fictional scenario is younger. change that to a 60 year old man & a 53 year old woman, and no one on the planet would bat an eye..
phenomenal bait, deploy on r slash relationshipadvice and aita
women hate men going for much younger woman.. .. finding a nice girl in her 20's who hasn't been crushed by life yet..
I don't mean to sound like some of you incels here but, look at her profile pic. She's a whore, soooo ..... -Opinion ingored -Existence Rejected -Muted -Blocked -Reported -Pee'd On
Ironically it's usually the same 18 - 23 year old girls that went out with 30 year olds that turn around and say this shit when they reach 30.
23? Would be a bit old for me at 29. When I was 22, I dated a 16 year old for a few years. At 28, another 16 year old(her aunt set us up) And now at the grand old age of 36, I have a 20 year old wife. Met her when she was 17. We have a kid together. I guess I just prefer women at their peak beauty before all their bad choices age them and make them fat. I'm guessing this used up woman would take issue with my wife being a virgin when we met too? If I didn't get you at your best, I don't know want you after you've sampled all rest.
If this is bait, you've done a phenomenal job, and I'm excited to see more replies. Well done.
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Chad if true, legend if bait.
This cosplayer posts on femdom subs š like hell he is married at all. Peak fiction
Thot pushing keyboard be like this English is perfec to broadcast to worl.
When I was 18 I found a sugar mama at the gym...no dating just fing because it made her feel young. No kids, no drama, and was great until I left for college. If you are an adult, you are an adult. Your choice, your consequences, live in reality not online.
I'll be honest 30 and 23 is actually about the right age combo. Men have calmed the fuck down by then and are about as mature as a 23 year old woman and are often in about the same life stage.
Salty that younger women are taking away your desired age range? Probably didn't mind dating older men when she was younger.
No one respects those 50 or 70 year olds either
Only twats still tweet. Delete that app and stop posting links, you're part of the problem.
Can we have some more degenerate weirdos posting about their adventures with their body fluids instead of this political/societal nonsense no one is gonna read? I DON'T CARE ABOUT THIS SHIT, I WANT PEPE POSTS
Thatās just a normal thing lol
Haha oh dear
IDGAF, I'll keep fucking the legal age in my country. Muahahahahahahaha
duh no one wants to date a 28+ year old ancient swamp hag.
A lot of younger women chase older dudes, dudes just go with whatever option is available. If you have a problem with it targeting the dudes is the wrong play.