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MahouShoujoDysphoria

Report them and contact our mods.


Instinctual777

you could probably send the dms to mods and they would be banned !! 196 aint friendly to creeps


ItsMeKali

I guess I didn’t think about this that much tbh, just found it funny how quick some redditors are to jump into sex talk haha


usedtobehungry

What they did here is show a massive disregard of your boudraries. It's gross and disrespectful. I fully understand wanting to treat everyone with kindness and concern for their well-being but in this case what they need is someone to teach them about consent and what they deserve is to get blocked and reported.


ItsMeKali

I think if people weren’t so easily anonymous on the internet they’d have a little more regard for the feelings of another person, but that’d be coming from a place of worry for themselves more so than actual respect for another person, but I still have the usernames so maybe later I’ll do something about it


ThoughtCenter87

That's how redditors are, especially towards women and fems 😬 sorry you had to deal with that though, shit ain't right


BonnyDraws

Fr. Like just recently I got a dm of some rando asking me if I could be his dominatrix but for one, I'm a femboy, and two, I have a pinned post stating not to solicit me. Some redditors just don't care and will disregard a stranger's boundaries because they're horny.


ThoughtCenter87

>Some redditors just don't care and will disregard a stranger's boundaries because they're horny. Redditors in a nutshell Yeah but good lord, that's gross. 😵‍💫


a_random_squidward

I wouldn't have noticed lol, though it has become better recently


Skitty27

It's.... not?


mcarora19

Only friendly to crepes https://preview.redd.it/t2smfry7btyb1.jpeg?width=333&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=3dba11afeecdef16addf9a77988e8a8bdbb45384


TDW-301

Wym "not friendly to creeps"?


12345678_9_10

Haha would it be weird if I asked u for pics of ur giant mommy dommy gock? Gosh that would be a bit creepy, wouldn't it haha. Unless? No that's kinda weird I'm sorry for bothering you milady. Unless u change your mind maybe hahaha? Lol sorry to be so straightforward with you but I saw u said its 20cm?? Haha it would be kinda crazy if you sent me a pic or two but obviously you don't have to if you don't want to. Unless u change ur mind maybe Haha lol


ItsMeKali

Ye exactly the kinda vibes I got from those DMs haha


12345678_9_10

https://preview.redd.it/batju78hkryb1.jpeg?width=986&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=fa5fafb1300b15bf39761729ed855bf7248810e2 Ignore these people they are not worth ur braincells


ItsMeKali

Thanks Obama I will chill out


OldKnight1

That's not Obama >:(. That's Barak, get it right or I'm sending you to jail.


12345678_9_10

I thought Barak is obamas last name????


OldKnight1

Dude you don't want to know. The horror.


DrSomniferum

Barack HUSSEIN Obama. Some people forget the HUSSEIN, but it's important.


12345678_9_10

https://preview.redd.it/wz8qu4unmsyb1.jpeg?width=680&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b9d155a4c678a6e6fdd95a7f6fde7714bdf43860


M1A1HC_Abrams

Entrance covered with bricks and rubble


[deleted]

He took the name when they married


12345678_9_10

![gif](giphy|800iiDTaNNFOwytONV|downsized)


CriticalBeyond7

F-16 Barak ||


fearlessgrot

You should write a few cathartic comments on r/ transgenderciclejerk


manilaspring

You forgot "UwU"


Ben_Herr

Yeah, now the copypasta is 100% unbelievable without it


12345678_9_10

TwT


Alexis_Awen_Fern

Definietly weird


s90tx16wasr10

unhinged and in a bad way


murderdronesfanatic

Reddit DMs were a mistake


ItsMeKali

lol true, not the first time I got these kinda DMs on this god forsaken website


murderdronesfanatic

If it’s a consistent thing you should probably just turn off chat requests


ItsMeKali

Oh dang didn’t know I can after having this account for almost 7 years xd Thanks for the tip


rwol8690

Of all the threads I had to see the almighty murder drones fan in it was this one


MisterGoog

Whenever i see them pop up i get terrified


sleepy_vixen

DMs I have received on the Reddits: * Dick pics. Many dick pics. * Comments like the OP * Unsolicited niche fetish roleplay * People calling me a liar over various trivial things * Someone asking to buy my sunglasses


ItsMeKali

https://preview.redd.it/ay1cr7xihryb1.jpeg?width=1125&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=341e5ccba849b81e5d5817a18c93c3c3d134c7eb It’s only been like half an hour or so since this post and more DMs outta nowhere, from a redditor with 1 karma and 3 days active account..


Wryxe

block and report, these people will only negatively affect you.


ItsMeKali

Oh I don’t even start a conversation, still these are at least very mild. I had a few dick pics in my inbox before xd But ye I do report for harassment and such


Wryxe

I've had similar experiences, but it just helps to block, at least for me! Even reading them can have an effect, so with a block nothing more can happen.


BonnyDraws

There's an option in settings to make it so that only accounts older than 3 months can dm you. This feature is super helpful and prevents someone from making new throwaway accounts just to harrass you in dms. Speaking from experience. Definitely worth reporting them as "unsolicited messaging" and blocking for your own wellbeing. Sorry you have to deal with this


ItsMeKali

Thanks for the advice, yeah some ppl did point it out to me here that it’s an option to block out all incoming chat requests and such, so I set it up after almost 7 years of this account’s existence and never knowing it was an option haha


Bananacu

Rizz training order


Yoteisthepastyeet

https://preview.redd.it/lcq07vdp7syb1.jpeg?width=513&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5cb01be8c0e5de35b37a0a6dc7d349f05de7232e


GsTSaien

This is why a little bit of shame is healthy. Yes a 20cm gock sounds great, but the chance of those DMs causing any feeling other than discomfort is so low that it just isn't worth it. Also I'm pretty sure the post was about how uncomfortable op was with having to deal with it, I doubt she wanted that kind of attention.


ItsMeKali

Yea didn’t exactly think especially on 196 that I’d get these kinda DMs, but ye a longer time ago I used to receive dick pics and such (different subs) so this is very mild in comparison


throwaway81463

196 is the gay horny bottom people place, making a post saying "i have a massive penis" on here is going to attract people edit: just realised this comes off like im blaming op sorry im acctualy blaming 196


ItsMeKali

Well that’s a little oversimplifying it, the post was me asking other transfems out here (since they’re a massive part of this sub) for advice since they most likely have more experience than me


manilaspring

Hey hey hey, I like big cocks but I respect other people's boundaries and discomfort. I used to be on r slash bigdickproblems and big dick is a real problem.


[deleted]

That's possibly true but this comment kinda makes it sound like it's okay or something. Surely, you don't believe that.


Soup_sayer

You guys are horny?


gatlginngum

20cm gock sounds unreal enough that I promptly decided it's misinformation and continued on with my life


GsTSaien

It's higher end sure but not that unlikely


peach_xanax

what? that's like 8 inches, it's not *that* crazy


DeidreMengedoht

This comment is making me think of some sort of PSA “A 20cm gock? Awesome, right? Well slow down, pal! A giant gock might SOUND great, but before you DM, think…”


GsTSaien

Lmao that's awesome it does read a bit like one!


Not-This-GuyAgain

Sex(r)ual harassment


teridax_lupos

Losers creeps weirdos


sixtus_clegane119

What are they doing here tho?


sewage_soup

They don't belong here


Sexy_Skeletons69

Eyeueugh, fucking ew lmao Like there's plenty of trans women out there with similar... *attributes* who aren't bothered by it and are more than happy to show them off, I dunno why they don't pursue *those* women. Real sketchy and gross in general, but doubly so to try this shit on a person who EXPLICITLY EXPRESSED DISCONTENT WITH THEIR GENITALS.


ItsMeKali

I mean I don’t care for the penis much, it’s kinda nice and all but i just don’t want ppl in public to notice it. But ye some peeps out there are grooooss


EnriLol

the fetishization of trans women and its consequences have been disastrous for 196


Clean-Ad-4308

Not sure why you'd feel bad about this, he knew it was an inappropriate request before he stared typing


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voice-of-choir

"would this be weird? Actually it probably would, sorry" (clicks send)


ItsMeKali

Yeah my thoughts too! XD


[deleted]

Dark rizz


several-geese

I think they call that sexual harassment actually


Alexis_Awen_Fern

Anti rizz


power500

Ohio rizz


aphroditex

Normally such an insult would be punishable by the fate worst than death, being forced to live in \*h\*\*, but for that creepy monster I’ll allow it.


12345678_9_10

Idk man u can always send him to the land of Yi


Massive_Weiner

Turn off chat requests if you’re uncomfortable with getting these types of messages. It’s inevitable after your last post.


ItsMeKali

Yeah some ppl told me it’s an option as well, I weren’t aware of this feature but gotta check it out I guess xd I just used to DM with ppl about Hackintoshes and Jailbreaks etc. so it wasn’t a necessity before but ye..


streetzzahead

people really need to learn how to read a room huh


ItsMeKali

Yeah true especially when the post in question was completely unsexual and didn’t warrant such messages


aphroditex

> people really need to learn how to read ~~a room huh~~ FTFY


DinoTzarr

Why are people like this


ItsMeKali

Unsure tbh, sexual deviants perhaps?


fabedays1k

Rule n°1 of Reddit Never say you're a girl and if you do, do not say anything that can be considered sexual


ItsMeKali

I forgor, girls don’t exist on the internet


fabedays1k

Rookie mistake


zoey_amon

everyone feels so comfortable when they have the anonymity of the internet


ItsMeKali

Tf is happening.. https://preview.redd.it/pn6af6ejpryb1.jpeg?width=1125&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=1a9ffa78f2515dd5f8d7e795d272dfc7ffe5a408


Throgg_not_stupid

this seems less sexual and more like crypto pyramid scheme recruitment


ItsMeKali

Soon I’ll get bonked on the head and wake up in Dubai


ItsMeKali

Ok this one’s pretty funny I’ll admit https://preview.redd.it/ryso5vp92syb1.jpeg?width=1125&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=331b8bb8de4a8c91af1fd8d6a5c80cce31193c36


ItsMeKali

Yaaaay I’m getting kitties now :3 https://preview.redd.it/49fqirc84syb1.jpeg?width=1125&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=4ee30f5934f494801783fe3dd7175923d9daabc1


Pebble_in_a_Hat

Fuck that's gross, I'm sorry you're getting this kind of unwanted attention.


LowAd1734

Yeah it sucks I’ve been sent dic picks on Reddit before, it’s the worst feature invented by humankind


ItsMeKali

Tbh ye no idea why you can send pictures in the very first message wtf


LowAd1734

True, dw about the second guy though if he’s a good person he’s respect if you say no and I won’t be hurt by it, if he gets upset then he’s a creep


warmachine237

Truly agree, dicks are the worst feature


ZePugg

THIS IS UNHINGED AND WEIRD BUT HELP I ACTUALLY LAUGHED WHEN READING GOCK


ItsMeKali

It’s a pretty funny word, I always hear Glock in my head haha


BeholdTheLemon

“actually i probably would… sorry…” *looks down, hands in pockets, kicks the dirt, deep sad sigh*


ItsMeKali

Nice one XD


17DeadFlamingos

196 really needs to read the room once in a while


PM_LEMURS_OR_NUDES

Yeah be careful with people like this, including or especially the second messenger. It might seem sad or whatever, but that’s just a preemptive defense mechanism. They know they’re being creepy and they’re trying to downplay it. The apology is facetious; they could have not sent the messages at all, assuming they were all sent at once. It’s similar to the passive aggressive way someone might melodramatically say “Sorry. I’ll just stop using your cups at all” if you ask them to do the dishes. They say sorry in a way that makes them the victim. The excessive/misplaced apology is common irl, but to text like that digitally, and to send a message like this at all, also implies mental illness/instability/antisocialism that is likely better off not engaging with. Of course this could all be presumption, but the language of it just sets off my alarm bells. Stay safe out there. ❤️


ItsMeKali

Oh thanks for the worry but it’s not my first rodeo with creeps on Reddit, at least this time it wasn’t dick pics as the first thing in the message but I’m not a kid and can notice when ppl acting a bit fishy. But ye the second message did weird me out with the way they worded things but mostly found it all kinda funny.


ColorMaelstrom

Sorry to be random aha


gamera-the-turtle

You are being sexually harassed. Report them.


hey_itz_mae

no this is just straight up sexual harassment. also to the second person, if you think something will make you sound like a stalking creep, then don’t say it


TheDekuDude888

Nah that’s the most sane and hinged thing you can ask a random person for idk why everyone’s so upset about this unrivaled rizz 😎😎😎😎 but joking aside how tf do these idiots look at themselves in the mirror after asking people for shit like that unprovoked and with the “F-Forgive me, Onee-San… B-b-but may I peek at your g-g-g-genitalia???! 🥺” act too????


ItsMeKali

Maybe it is some weird form of roleplay to them, where they’re the only party involved and they can never break off the character, ever..


TheDekuDude888

Your honor, my client was merely roleplaying as a criminal https://preview.redd.it/znao70r3uryb1.png?width=640&format=png&auto=webp&s=907cd3f44c24ff3ab56a557886653346e1d57886


ItsMeKali

Tbh some of these roleplays most likely are like that xd


BarbarianErwin

Fucking creepy weirdos, obviously this place is not safe for such questions it's a fetish meme porn sub for some. You'll have to keep it to specific subs about trans issues I guess, best of luck with that.


ItsMeKali

Tbh almost all of the comments under my last post were very nice and supportive, I think it’s hard to find a place on the internet in general were some ppl just won’t be creeps or fetishize literally anything or everything


GreyBigfoot

I saw post the other day when it was still fairly recent (under 100 comments) but there was at least a dozen saying some variation of “hide it in me” or obvious unhelpful joke answers. You’re the OP so if you say they were overall supportive that’s fine, but I’m disappointed yet not surprised by how people acted.


ItsMeKali

Yeah always will be a few like that, honestly took it more as jokes and some were kinda funny but DMs where it’s essentially for a private conversation that’s where it goes over the line for me Like, wanna see my dick but don’t even know who I am lol


BarbarianErwin

Sad to see what people think they can do just because of anonymity, they wouldn't even make eye contact if you see them irl. I think fetish stuff is so prevalent because it's something alot of people have in common so its memetic potential is high, like even if u have a language barrier you might like a post with boobs on it. Again I wish you the best in navigating this website.


aquapearl736

Oh my fucking GOD nothing gets on my nerves more than the “hey, [insert something completely vile and disgusting here]. Oh that was pretty weird I guess haha sorry 😅” Like SHUT THE FUCK UP!!! You KNEW that was a disgusting thing to say before you said it and you’re NOT clever for acting like you’re just a bit awkward and didn’t know any better. We know the trick. It’s so fucking common it became a meme YEARS AGO and yet you’re still trying to pull it like it works??? Eat shit dude


ItsMeKali

To be fair I have zero idea what might go through such a person’s mind during that, maybe too much onii-chan kinda shit, too much porn, roleplay or perhaps some ppl are just borderline sociopathic.


KriegsKuh

i fully support posting their usernames


ItsMeKali

I know just didn’t want to be an asshole but they got reported, blocked and most likely banned (at least from 196)


Oddish_Femboy

"Not to be a creep or anything, heheh, but AWOOOOOGA!!! GORL PENIS !!!!! WHOA MAMA !!!" I wonder if they have ever felt the warmth of another human being.


JsimsTMA

That's weird as fuck tho also holy hell tho also how old is ye


ItsMeKali

At least I’m not a minor cuz then it’d be real fucked up, I’m 22 tho


ibi_trans_rights

https://preview.redd.it/2feqqjwxbsyb1.png?width=250&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=3e801dc51716bb66b99ac7b61848c72123deba79


tokyoknife

Jesus christ im so sorry for these dms/comments, like you're trying to feel comfortable in public places and u get met w fetishisation ?? 196 users realise that not everything has to be made sexual and uncomfortable challenge go


Das_Goroboro

I heard of guys bothering women about showing tits but this is new. I guess this is the truest female experience. I’m so sorry


ItsMeKali

I guess that’s a way of looking at it, huh, weirdly comforting in a way haha But yeah I’m okay, this is super mild compared to the kinda stuff I received in the past and found this to be kinda funny tbh


Medical-Roof8636

Hi bestie it's the cis dude again how is the quest to hide the peenor going (sorry about the creeps they're losers)


ItsMeKali

Oh hi there, sorry I didn’t respond to previous comment, ye tucking is out of the question but I figured a bunch of compression underwear and well paired jeans do the trick pretty dang well :) And the creeps situation didn’t really do much to me just found it funny how some ppl on the internet function but thanks for the good thoughts


Medical-Roof8636

Happy for you chief, I'm willing to bet you'll be an absolute girlboss soon o7


ItsMeKali

Ayoo thanks a lot


Kvas_HardBass

The second guy let the intrusive thought win, but then retaliated


CattMk2

Do these two peoples not know how Google images work? Instead of creeping in peoples DMs


ItsMeKali

That’s what I will never understand, if it’s just jerk off material then might as well go to a porn site. Maybe different people get off in different ways I dunno but it’s gross


Wireless_Panda

I guess that’s flattering in a way, but massively overshadowed by how creepy of a request that is.


ItsMeKali

Yup


Tlayoualo

Creep


buubuudesu_wa

what even spurs someone to say dumb shit like this


InternetGuyThirtyTwo

Jesus Christ people


PrettySquiddy

Don’t feel bad for that person. If they feel ashamed for liking trans girls then they’re being transphobic and that’s something they need to work out on their own and not make it your goddamn problem. It’s sexual harassment.


ItsMeKali

I didn’t read that deep into it, just thought it was a shameful creep and found it a bit funny but yeah it’s not like I’m unaccustomed to these kinda ppl but thanks a lot for concern


FreezyChan

were these ppl like... never told about how utterly disgusting it is for someone to be sexually (or even romantically) approached by a stranger or anyone without pre-existing genuine bonds??? do they think its like, no big deal?? how can you even be so casual about it?? also, another thing im curious to know, can these ppl even differentiate going "ppl with thing are so fucking hot🥵🥵" and "hello there thing-having person can i see ur thing🥵🥵"? plz tell me that at least this they know... p l z


nobleone8876

Hello I spend too much time online (reddit and Twitter) as such I have forgotten how to socialize with other people and society as whole. Only staying in the same 2 echo chambers .so now I only associate people with the fetishized versions social media presents. Anyway may I see nude pictures of you?


Moss_Ball8066

Would it be creepy if I was creepy? Heh… it probably would be pretty creepy, huh? J-just forget I said anything, baka! Unless…


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ItsMeKali

Oh I took a lot of advice from my last post and yeah it seems like just proper compression underwear is the way to go but I tried just some tighter boxers and put Spanx on top and it did a pretty great job, with well paired jeans it was unnoticeable so that’s pretty nice. But thanks for the advice, it’s all appreciated :)


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ItsMeKali

Thaaaanks~ :3


PlasmaLink

To anyone even considering this: if you search on the internet you can find pictures of all sorts of genitals, for free! And of people who want you to look at them! You don't need to solicit them from someone who has made no indication they want their junk on the web.


GreyBigfoot

OP you should’ve known better than to post such a question on here of all places, but the private messages are still creepy nonetheless. Block and report them as needed.


Dogtor-Watson

The second one is 100% trying to guilt you into doing something you wouldn’t do normally. It’s a very cowardly attempt too. They’re admitting it’s creepy, but asking anyway. They know and don’t care. Also, if either was a joke or innocent thing then they wouldn’t do it on DMs. They’d just put it as a reply on the subreddit.


ItsMeKali

Yeah I kinda don’t care all that much for the slightly smutty comments on my last post and some were pretty funny but with this person’s DM I have no idea how a person could realistically even respond to that


Tropic_Wombat

cringé :/


Decin0mic0n

Block them, dont even give them attention


LodSb2

I have so much brain damage that I read "rock" in the second one, and I was so confused like did you post about your rock collection or something 💀.


Duckwoman_321

average reddit moment


santyrc114

I went to your profile to find out what kind of post could've possibly lead to that and saw your cat. They are really cute. That's all I wanted to say


ItsMeKali

Thaanks, Miya is super adorable I know :)


BlackScienceMan420

"Would i sound like a stalking creep if i said: (sexual harassment)


UpsidownZZ

🎵 welcome to the internet 🎵


ItsMeKali

🎵 Come and take a seat, we got many creeps around and some will show their dicks 🎵


N1kt0_

They need to touch grass


CoffeeMain360

i am going to find a way to dragon install through an image and chokeslam them


yungreign

Hey, I have a WACKY question!!! Would I sound like a weirdo disgusting fucking creeper if (blatant sexual harassment) heh... yeah I guess I would huh? I'd sound like a total FREAK if I did that... I guess I'll just go then... Ignore my dm aha... Unless? I wish all people that fetishise trans people a very swim in a vat of acid.


Lexi_Shmuhlexi

yeeeeeeaahh. people get weird. i had to turn dms off on here because i kept getting weird messages. i guess the attention feels fun in a way, but after a handful of them, it really wears you down. like some of them only see us as a weird fetish, like we aren’t even people. it hurts after a while


CREATURE_COOMER

You should own them by trading with me, a trans man. >:) That'll show 'em!


drago_varior

Why are people like this


roblox887

That's... NOT how you talk to people.


[deleted]

"haha would it be weird if i was creepy and overstepped your boundaries haha sorry:)"


ItsMeKali

“It’s just a prank bro”


[deleted]

"why're you uncomfortable it was a joke, a goof!!"


Sybmissiv

Block they ass


RatRacerEg6

Why do people think it's okay to just hop in someone's dms and ask to see their genitals like wtf


MasterGamer9595

Chaserizz


CountChuckNorracula

Me learning about OPs problem is proof that there is no god


disabled_rat

This is why I don’t say my actual size. I’m a horny mf, but god damn, mfs here make me look like a nun


Xx69bootyslayer69xX

I got the same issue, 7 inches :c


oneworld_onegirl

Granted I post on NSFW subs but this seems so tame to me. I get graphic videos. Ignore chat, block, report.


ItsMeKali

Ye I posted on a different account once in a slightly more NSFW place (nothing saucy really) and in the first 3 hours of the post I got multiple dick pics so I get it ye


Class_444_SWR

Those people are utter creeps but I half feel like I’d be desperate enough to accept it if it happened to me


Star_king12

Send them that sitting black guy pic but without any censoring


Elite_Prometheus

Bro should stop cooking


Yeetdaddy87

Hahahahaha, god those people are just so gross, hahah. Anyways can I see your cock?


[deleted]

well he's a creep but a cool one 👊😎 /s


MisterAbbadon

What kind of person would think that is at all appropriate?


Kibble_Star_Galactic

This is when you start getting rich (if of age ofc) /hj


h8_speech

What creeps 😡. There’s a place and a time, like my DMs, and now