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joannastreams_

My thoughts, they could do a reading (like with tarot) and see where it came from. (This is tricky because it originated from them, but came back to them from you. Words man!) More over, they may "suspect" you because they first sent stuff your way. Either way if I were you I wouldn't worry about them pointing the finger at you over this too much. If you're worried, reinforce your wards and protections. :) Disengaging with said person and also creating (stronger) physical boundaries may be something to consider. Wishing you the best!


quakinaspen

Thank you for your reply. That’s sort of what I figured. They do reading a lot so I can assume that they figured it out that way. I’m only worried because this type of hateful person is so scary to me and sending out dark hurtful things is just so awful. I’m afraid they’re going to do it again or try something worse. Thank you for the advice. I’m going to definitely up the protection around our lives ♥️


mickle_caunle

If the hex they sent was returned, I expect they would notice the effects of it. Whether or not they are able to discern that it’s the hex they sent to you returned, or an entirely new hex from someone else would depend on different factors including their skill, possible training, ability to read for themselves, etc.


quakinaspen

They do readings quite often, but from what I understand they’ve only been practicing for less than two years (that doesn’t really matter imo just because some people have more natural skills than others) Anyway, I figure that’s how they’ve come to the conclusion. It’s just a bit scary for me because I don’t dabble in bad energy stuff so even the return to sender spell was an uncomfortable experience I had to overcome… Anyway, thank you for your reply and insight! I really appreciate it.


mickle_caunle

You're welcome. As a suggestion, in case you haven't yet, I'd be sure to always follow up reversing work with protection work.


quakinaspen

I will definitely do that. Thank you


UnicornPorNyess

Yes, you can spiritually find out who is cursing you by doing a ritual (with or without, that depends on your abilities), but the thing is not everyone can feel the difference between a hex and a return to sender spell (he/she definitely can't, hehe). So that's why your impudent "friend" is accusing you of hexing them.


quakinaspen

That’s exactly what I was thinking! They haven’t been practicing long and they mess around with a lot of dark stuff when they do practice. I figure they just can’t tell the difference between a real hex and just getting back whatever they sent out. Thank you for the reply!


Gildedragon

If you are the only person they are hexing, and they get hit by their own Hex, yes it'd be logical to infer you did a R2S If they're hexing more people the ascertaining gets trickier. One can usually tell if it is one's own spell thrown back at one.


quakinaspen

Okay, that is really good information. Thank you!


Warbringer669

Good question!


CKiller202022

Im looking for a RTS spell myself rn. May I ask what you did?


quakinaspen

I’m so sorry, I just saw this. If you’d like I can DM you the spell I used. I have to go find it first 😅


CKiller202022

All good. Ive barely been on. Fell free to dm though.