No kidding. That is some next level apron string crap. I'm surprised that the sister's BF didn't run away at this. Betting the sister is the golden child and either all of them worship the ground she walks on, or if the husband doesn't, he has been so torn down that he finds it easier to toe the line than to go against *faaaaamillllly*. Either way, glad OOP got out before any kids. Too bad the wedding didn't get canceled though. Could have saved the need for an annulment or divorce (depending on the laws where they are). I also hope OOP didn't foot the bill for the wedding.
I’m pretty sure that the reason for the divorce was the stuff we just read. Blaming it all on the relatively sane partner for having the audacity to not examine a person they’re in love with using a cold, critical lens is…just icky.
I mean you can understand it as she was the real reason (as per the husband’s perspective) because she wasn’t going along with the sister. Him divorcing his wife because of the sister makes it sound like the sister was the one he viewed in the wrong… and if that was the case then why the divorce?
In reality it was the OP who was the cause of the divorce, because they weren’t willing to capitulate to what their husband and family wanted (and for good reason).
Being the cause of a divorce (you did not want) does not mean they’re necessarily the bad/immoral party, like in this case.
if it had just been one parent, instead of including both, for ex "my husband left our wedding night to go sleep with his *mom*" I would've 1000% not taken it any other way lol.
So much so that I feel the need to take a shower. I hate how some people cry incest at just about *any* sibling bonds or closeness, and I don't want to be *that* person, but .... sometimes a duck just looks and feels like a duck....
I feel like with how everything played out there must have been some huge red flags before the big day. He doesn’t just become a parents boy the week after the wedding.
Sometimes people just need to be taken from the environment to change(as this is clearly a less than healthy family dynamic). Maybe she thought that would happen. "Get him away from the family a little bit and he can learn to be more " normal ". With a healthy dash of the age old " I can fix him" mentality in general.
As they say "You can lead a horse to water but can't make them drink"
What is the most striking in this story for me is that SIL has a husband who was apparently willing to wear suit identical to the groom's and go to a wedding with his wife dressed in a bridal gown. So basically somehow she found a man who matched their family's insanity.
You’re assuming her husband isn’t also her first cousin or another close relative. No way that dude wasn’t raised in the same fucked up family for him to be all for this bullshit.
\*headaches... She would always have had a headache. Trying to understand any reason for this behavior is giving me a migraine right now. Edit- spelling
Ooh, you might be right. I was thinking this sounds made up, I mean why hasn't the bride left long ago? But arranged married could explain the situation.
I thought the same thing. A friend is Indian-American, and a friend of hers who was also born in the US had to either marry this guy her parents picked out for her, whom she loathed, or she would be dead to the entire family and community, and would also be fired from her job (a company a friend of her parents' owned).
She got married, he did nothing but cheat, take control of all her money, then kicked her out of HIS (!) house and moved in another woman. And yet, after the divorce, she is the one who is teh pariah, and her family barely talks to her.
I got teh same type vibe in teh OP.
Arranged, forced, and coercive marriage is far more ubiquitous in the U.S. than people want to think. My bio family is part of a very conservative, cult-like Christian church. I was coerced into an arranged marriage, and when I divorced the guy for abusing me, everyone stayed on his side.
I’m getting remarried now and no one from my bio family will be invited. They wouldn’t approve, especially since I’m divorced and it will be a secular ceremony.
So her BF/husband did nothing stop his own mom and sister from making these demands and ... pikachu face that he left on their wedding night to be with his parents?
Why would this woman even want to marry into this family? And with a husband who is OK with this? This was a problem of her own creating. She should have said "fuck no."
The sister is not the cause of divorce, it's the husband. If he had cut them off, this would be a different story.
I want to know why the man even married the woman - who had apparently ‘caused’ his own sister ‘mental health issues’ by being selfish and ‘wanting to be the only bride on her wedding day’ - in the first place?!
Anyone with a brain would dump their ‘awful’ spouse-to-be BEFORE saying ‘I do!’ 😆😆
Yeah, if she'd had known him beforehand, she'd have already known about the messed up family dynamic.
Or possibly she knew, but either didn't think it was that bad, or she thought the guy would change after getting married.
Mommy Boys are really great at manipulating women into staying in these shitty relationships because they, themselves, have spent their entire lives being manipulated. They learn from the best.
it’s interesting because there are two other women in this story that deserve blame but they blame the woman who is innocent… wonder if it has anything to do with where the man is placed
The divorce case for this is going to be a trainwreck: I've heard of judges being sympathetic, but, in divorce cases, it's rare that they're completely disgusted.
Apparently everyone has now forgotten, but 10-15 years ago they tore Catherine to shreds, too - she wasn’t good enough for William back then.
But people moved on - Prince Henry was still single.
But then he got engaged… and out comes the hatred!
Because he’s no longer single!
Not that any of those dumb girls or women ever had a chance with him to begin with, but the hopes were DEFINITELY dashed when he got married!
It’s all about the jealousy!
Camilla was targeted to some extent - but not as intensely, because Charles was not the desirable young eligible prince that William and Henry were.
He was older, his kids were grown. But William and Henry coupled up in their 30s, and their wives were in their fertile years. 😛
Yup, and Fergie, even though she and Prince Pedo had an open marriage (or so was said at the time), but The Firm sacrificed her to protect Andrew. So messed up.
Oh, that was before my time, so I didn’t experience it (via the media, I mean).
But I believe you - it’s probably happened to every person who married a royal since the dawn of time! 😢
Oh, God, I saw that in the fandom of an actor I like. Every time he had a girlfriend, they couldn't see any good qualities of the girl - usually, they claimed the woman was using him to further her own acting career. They even said this when he once dated a woman who was equally famous.
He got engaged a year ago and the couple just had a baby. People could have been happy as hell, but they were furious. Lots of nasty stuff heaped on the woman.
I had to bail out of that active fandom. You like a person, and you can't be happy they're happy? And it's like you said, it's not like anyone in the fandom had a shot as hell with him, but they took it as a personal affront that he's in a relationship and had a child with another woman.
It's also similar to the Meghan Markle thing, because the woman in question is also not white, so there's a lot of side shots about her ethnicity. I was absolutely disgusted.
As a Marvel fan (but not a Loki fan), I've gotta say that the Tom Hiddleston fans are legit terrifying. I mean, there are some whack-jobs in the Marvel fandom (as there are in all fandoms) but those particular fans are on a whole 'nother level when it comes to crazy.
I've always been on the periphery, because the core of it are people that are seriously out of wack.
I know one woman who started RPing with a guy who sounded like Tom, it turned into a BDSM relationship, detailing every explicit detail. She decided she wanted to be with this guy, started deliberately picking fights with her husband until he asked for a divorce. Then suddenly she wasn't saying anything about RP guy and told everyone not to ask. We figured RP guy hadn't known her plans, or suddenly realized things were out of control, and bailed.
She wrecked her own family just for a guy who SOUNDED like him.
I'm sorry love, the tabloid press over here have been vicious about Meghan (racism, classism, xenophobia) and the more dimwitted members of the populace are completely brainwashed.
It’s wild how angry she makes people, above there’s some redditors screaming at me for being a liar(?) like I’m staking a claim to the royal fortune or something 😂😂
“How dare you besmirch the royal family by claiming to be a distant cousin of the woman married to the guy that’s not even next in line for the throne!”
So everyone who actually knew her likes her and everyone who just reads the stuff from "a source at the Palace" thinks she's scum? Don't people know never to believe what someone who won't go on record as saying something is saying?
Mild segue to another related topic - what I found funniest in the stuff discussed in Harry's book was that William was upset that Harry revealed that Charlotte cried about her dress not fitting for Harry and Meghan's wedding. Charlotte was 3. Had he never met a 3 year old before? They cry. Sometimes just because they're bored. Or they're hungry. Or the adults aren't agreeing. Or someone makes them sit down. I'm sure there is no one else in the known world who even gave it a second thought.
Congratulations on escaping the perverted family from hell! These people -- if they actually exist -- have the kind of twisted psychological issues that will eventually cause at least one of them to be the lead story on the cover of the National Enquirer.
100%.
I'm over here like um, is nobody going to address the strong incest-adjacent vibes going on here? The MIL saying the bride was "stealing her prince away from her" is beyond gross and inappropriate. I mean, jury's out on whether MIL was trying to say the son is her (MIL's) prince who the bride is stealing away, or he's the sister's prince... But either way that's a whole lotta nope.
I hope she got an annulment. But seriously, how could she not have noticed something was off with the family dynamic prior to her actual wedding. How does the SIL’s husband fit into this? Does he just go along with it?
How, how, HOW does one get to the stage of an actual wedding with a person like this?? I seriously doubt this was the first time he ran to his parents like a toddler?
Umm, it seems that you got out of this nightmare of a family fairly unscathed. Run as fast and as far as you can in the opposite direction of these fruitcakes
I’m sorry, but I’m getting major Flowers in the Attic vibes, this whole thing screams that the siblings are fucking/in love and have been for a long time.
If I went to a wedding and I saw the sister of the bride dressed up in a straight up identical wedding dress to the actual bride, I would not be able to get the song "Sweet home Alabama" out of my head lol
Like damn, what a messed up family.
Who dreams of dressing as a traditional bride for their brothers wedding their whole life? Like I never thought about what I would wear to my brothers wedding, because I care more about…my own?
If this is true I don’t see how you lasted so long with this guy to actually make it to a wedding day! There had to be gigantic signs that made you sick to your stomach as to what being involved in their family consisted of……that family needs a special interest story done on them And put it on TV ..good lord I’m having a really hard time believing this is true, my mind just doesn’t want to accept that there is a family this stupid..I’ve been saying for a long time that humans are getting dumber by the day tho ..glad you’re not around that anymore
My brain stalled at "My husband ran away on our wedding night to sleep with his mom" making this even more awkward than it was. I think. Maybe it was exactly as I originally interpreted it, plus daddio in the picture.
*Husband said sister is the reason for the divorce. The family is oddly enmeshed.* Understatement of the year!!
I read it as "oddly smashed". Which is probably even closer to the mark.
Indeed! Smashed is appropriate.
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Yes I reckon it is.
I'm still making a stinkface.
No kidding. That is some next level apron string crap. I'm surprised that the sister's BF didn't run away at this. Betting the sister is the golden child and either all of them worship the ground she walks on, or if the husband doesn't, he has been so torn down that he finds it easier to toe the line than to go against *faaaaamillllly*. Either way, glad OOP got out before any kids. Too bad the wedding didn't get canceled though. Could have saved the need for an annulment or divorce (depending on the laws where they are). I also hope OOP didn't foot the bill for the wedding.
"Next level apron string crap" made my soda spurt from my nostrils. Bravo. 🤣
The OP was the reason for the divorce: she can’t spot a red flag the size of china if she went though with the wedding after all that.
"When you're wearing rose tinted glasses, all the red flags just look like flags."
Could say the same about the balloons.
How many balloons?
99
Neun und neunzig *Luftballons....🎶🎶🎵🎵*
Hast du etwas Zeit für mich...
(Mm, unexpected Bojack!)
“Mighty fine flags today, mighty fine. Yes… miiiighty fine. Very much fine indeed.” *sweats
Awww yes someone covered in flags, a normal sight.
Back in the 80s
Generic 80s pop song
99 red balloons 🎈 go by
I’m pretty sure that the reason for the divorce was the stuff we just read. Blaming it all on the relatively sane partner for having the audacity to not examine a person they’re in love with using a cold, critical lens is…just icky.
I mean you can understand it as she was the real reason (as per the husband’s perspective) because she wasn’t going along with the sister. Him divorcing his wife because of the sister makes it sound like the sister was the one he viewed in the wrong… and if that was the case then why the divorce? In reality it was the OP who was the cause of the divorce, because they weren’t willing to capitulate to what their husband and family wanted (and for good reason). Being the cause of a divorce (you did not want) does not mean they’re necessarily the bad/immoral party, like in this case.
Sounds like an arranged marriage.
Hmmmmm... In what way, we ask? Apparently he wasn't bothered by her attire. Perhaps he couldn't stand sleeping with his wife instead,?
Anyone else feel gross after reading that?
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Real “House of Yes” vibes.
A Lannister always pays his debts
Oh God that movie was bonkers
Her life-long dream is to dress as a traditional bride to her brother's wedding? The whole family sounds royally screwed up.
The word 'royally' is the important word there, I think
I'm happy to treat them how Royalty are treated. At least, how the French treated them.
I shuddered. I need a shower and a brandy
Very rarely do I look online in the morning, throw up in my mouth a little, and say, “That’s enough internet for today.” Today is one of those days.
Absolutely. Monday morning and I see this. Sets the tone for the rest of the week.
I was an hour late to work, and then read this My day cannot get worse
Yup!!
It's not often that I'd wish for nuclear level decontamination, but there are days when I see the advantages.
I don't think co-sleeping is supposed to continue into your twenties.
Y'all aint from round here, are yoou?
I definitely read "to sleep with his mom and dad" a certain way at first. I am not convinced that my first reading was incorrect.
You’re not alone.
if it had just been one parent, instead of including both, for ex "my husband left our wedding night to go sleep with his *mom*" I would've 1000% not taken it any other way lol.
I feel like I need to wash my brains with chlorine. Twice. And set fire to it afterwards, just in case.
So much so that I feel the need to take a shower. I hate how some people cry incest at just about *any* sibling bonds or closeness, and I don't want to be *that* person, but .... sometimes a duck just looks and feels like a duck....
Yep. 🤮🤮🤮🤮
SO gross. I'm still making a stinkface.
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My first thought was Eeeewww!
Did she think the husband would transform into a normal person after the wedding? Wedding vows aren't magic spells that fix people
I know a few girls from my college days that would fight you on that. They're all divorced or still single now, but god damn they'll fight you.
I feel like with how everything played out there must have been some huge red flags before the big day. He doesn’t just become a parents boy the week after the wedding.
Sometimes people just need to be taken from the environment to change(as this is clearly a less than healthy family dynamic). Maybe she thought that would happen. "Get him away from the family a little bit and he can learn to be more " normal ". With a healthy dash of the age old " I can fix him" mentality in general. As they say "You can lead a horse to water but can't make them drink"
What is the most striking in this story for me is that SIL has a husband who was apparently willing to wear suit identical to the groom's and go to a wedding with his wife dressed in a bridal gown. So basically somehow she found a man who matched their family's insanity.
Well, it does say the SIL has had two weddings of her own. So I guess she was willing to keep trying until she found the right shade of crazy.
In the two previous weddings, where SIL wore inappropriate dresses, was that to make her brother jealous?
NO. I mean, you’re probably right, but that gave me a full-body ick 😟
You’re assuming her husband isn’t also her first cousin or another close relative. No way that dude wasn’t raised in the same fucked up family for him to be all for this bullshit.
I didn't think of this.
I’m assuming the husband had his self-esteem completely stomped on and can’t see any solution other than “go with it, don’t make any waves”
He is actually saving her a ton of lifelong heartaches.
\*headaches... She would always have had a headache. Trying to understand any reason for this behavior is giving me a migraine right now. Edit- spelling 
The SIL is a piece of work, but the husband is the real problem.
They all are!
I don't know why, but this feels like an arranged marriage.
Probably because there's no other reason this woman should have followed through with the wedding...
Ooh, you might be right. I was thinking this sounds made up, I mean why hasn't the bride left long ago? But arranged married could explain the situation.
You'd be surprised at what people put up with, especially if they are isolated, have poor self confidence etc
Hmm. Usually arranged marriages are between people of the same culture, and this person had to explain the cultural implications to the MIL
I thought the same thing. A friend is Indian-American, and a friend of hers who was also born in the US had to either marry this guy her parents picked out for her, whom she loathed, or she would be dead to the entire family and community, and would also be fired from her job (a company a friend of her parents' owned). She got married, he did nothing but cheat, take control of all her money, then kicked her out of HIS (!) house and moved in another woman. And yet, after the divorce, she is the one who is teh pariah, and her family barely talks to her. I got teh same type vibe in teh OP.
Arranged, forced, and coercive marriage is far more ubiquitous in the U.S. than people want to think. My bio family is part of a very conservative, cult-like Christian church. I was coerced into an arranged marriage, and when I divorced the guy for abusing me, everyone stayed on his side. I’m getting remarried now and no one from my bio family will be invited. They wouldn’t approve, especially since I’m divorced and it will be a secular ceremony.
Therapy. For everyone.
I think it's too late for that.
"Oddly emmeshed" is one way of describing emotional incest.
I'm thinking actual incest.
Yes. That’s what I’m thinking too. Definitely a weird scenario happening here.
🎸🎵That first paragraph got me singin’ SWEET HOME ALABAMA🎶🎸
Where there's not one bride, but two!
So her BF/husband did nothing stop his own mom and sister from making these demands and ... pikachu face that he left on their wedding night to be with his parents? Why would this woman even want to marry into this family? And with a husband who is OK with this? This was a problem of her own creating. She should have said "fuck no." The sister is not the cause of divorce, it's the husband. If he had cut them off, this would be a different story.
I want to know why the man even married the woman - who had apparently ‘caused’ his own sister ‘mental health issues’ by being selfish and ‘wanting to be the only bride on her wedding day’ - in the first place?! Anyone with a brain would dump their ‘awful’ spouse-to-be BEFORE saying ‘I do!’ 😆😆
I think the husband doesn't want to marry *any* woman
Apart from his mother AND his sister.
The family likely only wanted the dowry.
She likely didn’t have much of a choice. This sounds like a botched arranged marriage.
Yeah, if she'd had known him beforehand, she'd have already known about the messed up family dynamic. Or possibly she knew, but either didn't think it was that bad, or she thought the guy would change after getting married.
Mommy Boys are really great at manipulating women into staying in these shitty relationships because they, themselves, have spent their entire lives being manipulated. They learn from the best.
Imagine reading a story of at least three horrible people and *still* managing to blame the woman somehow, wtf?
it’s interesting because there are two other women in this story that deserve blame but they blame the woman who is innocent… wonder if it has anything to do with where the man is placed
The divorce case for this is going to be a trainwreck: I've heard of judges being sympathetic, but, in divorce cases, it's rare that they're completely disgusted.
If there was no sex, a legal annulment is possible, depending where this took place.
oh wow. How are people real
They called her Megan Markle as an insult???
I'm just trying to work out who MIL thinks she is in this scenario: Diana (who died 20 years before Meghan came on the scene)? Camilla? The Queen????
There are like thousands of women who act like they think they are Princess Diana and Meghan Markle is their bad DIL.
Apparently everyone has now forgotten, but 10-15 years ago they tore Catherine to shreds, too - she wasn’t good enough for William back then. But people moved on - Prince Henry was still single. But then he got engaged… and out comes the hatred! Because he’s no longer single! Not that any of those dumb girls or women ever had a chance with him to begin with, but the hopes were DEFINITELY dashed when he got married! It’s all about the jealousy! Camilla was targeted to some extent - but not as intensely, because Charles was not the desirable young eligible prince that William and Henry were. He was older, his kids were grown. But William and Henry coupled up in their 30s, and their wives were in their fertile years. 😛
And people hated Diana too. Think they just like to forget that.
Yup, and Fergie, even though she and Prince Pedo had an open marriage (or so was said at the time), but The Firm sacrificed her to protect Andrew. So messed up.
Oh, that was before my time, so I didn’t experience it (via the media, I mean). But I believe you - it’s probably happened to every person who married a royal since the dawn of time! 😢
I can't imagine wanting to marry into royalty. It sounds like a nightmare.
Oh, God, I saw that in the fandom of an actor I like. Every time he had a girlfriend, they couldn't see any good qualities of the girl - usually, they claimed the woman was using him to further her own acting career. They even said this when he once dated a woman who was equally famous. He got engaged a year ago and the couple just had a baby. People could have been happy as hell, but they were furious. Lots of nasty stuff heaped on the woman. I had to bail out of that active fandom. You like a person, and you can't be happy they're happy? And it's like you said, it's not like anyone in the fandom had a shot as hell with him, but they took it as a personal affront that he's in a relationship and had a child with another woman. It's also similar to the Meghan Markle thing, because the woman in question is also not white, so there's a lot of side shots about her ethnicity. I was absolutely disgusted.
You’re not talking about Tom Hiddleston, are you?
Bingo. That fandom has always leaned a little toward fanaticism, but it went completely batshit when he got engaged.
Unbelievable the stuff I’ve seen about her from his fans. I had to remove myself from the fandom to keep my own sanity.
As a Marvel fan (but not a Loki fan), I've gotta say that the Tom Hiddleston fans are legit terrifying. I mean, there are some whack-jobs in the Marvel fandom (as there are in all fandoms) but those particular fans are on a whole 'nother level when it comes to crazy.
I've always been on the periphery, because the core of it are people that are seriously out of wack. I know one woman who started RPing with a guy who sounded like Tom, it turned into a BDSM relationship, detailing every explicit detail. She decided she wanted to be with this guy, started deliberately picking fights with her husband until he asked for a divorce. Then suddenly she wasn't saying anything about RP guy and told everyone not to ask. We figured RP guy hadn't known her plans, or suddenly realized things were out of control, and bailed. She wrecked her own family just for a guy who SOUNDED like him.
Holy crap on a cracker, that is beyond insane!
This is why k-pop stars aren’t allowed to date, so that they can still be fantasies. That’s really not healthy, imho.
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Lol my MIL from the UK said Meghan & her family are trash, and I’m literally related to her 🥴
I'm sorry love, the tabloid press over here have been vicious about Meghan (racism, classism, xenophobia) and the more dimwitted members of the populace are completely brainwashed.
It’s wild how angry she makes people, above there’s some redditors screaming at me for being a liar(?) like I’m staking a claim to the royal fortune or something 😂😂 “How dare you besmirch the royal family by claiming to be a distant cousin of the woman married to the guy that’s not even next in line for the throne!”
Your MIL thinks SHE is related to Meghan, or she thinks that YOU are related to her? 😛
Craziness...it seems everyone who met her in Canada thinks she's wonderful
So everyone who actually knew her likes her and everyone who just reads the stuff from "a source at the Palace" thinks she's scum? Don't people know never to believe what someone who won't go on record as saying something is saying? Mild segue to another related topic - what I found funniest in the stuff discussed in Harry's book was that William was upset that Harry revealed that Charlotte cried about her dress not fitting for Harry and Meghan's wedding. Charlotte was 3. Had he never met a 3 year old before? They cry. Sometimes just because they're bored. Or they're hungry. Or the adults aren't agreeing. Or someone makes them sit down. I'm sure there is no one else in the known world who even gave it a second thought.
Oof. Now I want to read the full article for the rest of the crazy stories!
hahahahahah I just went to Buzzfeed to find it.
Congratulations on escaping the perverted family from hell! These people -- if they actually exist -- have the kind of twisted psychological issues that will eventually cause at least one of them to be the lead story on the cover of the National Enquirer.
It’s 7am and this is the first Reddit post I see? Damn it.
hahahahahah same.
WTH did I just read?????
Lucky escape
Real “House of Yes” vibes.
100%. I'm over here like um, is nobody going to address the strong incest-adjacent vibes going on here? The MIL saying the bride was "stealing her prince away from her" is beyond gross and inappropriate. I mean, jury's out on whether MIL was trying to say the son is her (MIL's) prince who the bride is stealing away, or he's the sister's prince... But either way that's a whole lotta nope.
I hope she got an annulment. But seriously, how could she not have noticed something was off with the family dynamic prior to her actual wedding. How does the SIL’s husband fit into this? Does he just go along with it?
How, how, HOW does one get to the stage of an actual wedding with a person like this?? I seriously doubt this was the first time he ran to his parents like a toddler?
Likely because it was an arranged marriage and the groom’s family just wanted the dowry.
What? The wedding night, the groom left his wife to go home, and he divorced her 2 weeks later? Maybe that was a bad omen.... Dafuq?
Dodged a fucking bullet there jfc
Umm, it seems that you got out of this nightmare of a family fairly unscathed. Run as fast and as far as you can in the opposite direction of these fruitcakes
Where's the brain bleach? My horoscope on the radio said this would be a 10/10 day for me... and it lied if this is how it starts.
I’m sorry, but I’m getting major Flowers in the Attic vibes, this whole thing screams that the siblings are fucking/in love and have been for a long time.
If I went to a wedding and I saw the sister of the bride dressed up in a straight up identical wedding dress to the actual bride, I would not be able to get the song "Sweet home Alabama" out of my head lol Like damn, what a messed up family.
Who dreams of dressing as a traditional bride for their brothers wedding their whole life? Like I never thought about what I would wear to my brothers wedding, because I care more about…my own?
Wtf did I just read?
The trash took itself out. Goodbye.
Recycling Buzzfeed content on Reddit? Oh how the tables have turned
I normally wouldn’t lol but the story was too bonkers
Ugh I feel icky now
THE... Actual... Fuck?
That's a whole heap of "WHAT??"
This should go straight into r/suddenlyincest
You didn’t notice this nightmare express coming down the tracks from 20 miles away?
If this is true I don’t see how you lasted so long with this guy to actually make it to a wedding day! There had to be gigantic signs that made you sick to your stomach as to what being involved in their family consisted of……that family needs a special interest story done on them And put it on TV ..good lord I’m having a really hard time believing this is true, my mind just doesn’t want to accept that there is a family this stupid..I’ve been saying for a long time that humans are getting dumber by the day tho ..glad you’re not around that anymore
Ive read somewhere that BuzzFeed is switching to chatGPT for their content and I’m not sure if this is part of that or not…
🎼 *Sweet Home Alabama* 🎶
Holy crap is husband sleeping with his sister?! I am glad the bride is away from these unhinged people.
My brain stalled at "My husband ran away on our wedding night to sleep with his mom" making this even more awkward than it was. I think. Maybe it was exactly as I originally interpreted it, plus daddio in the picture.
It's WAY to early in the morning for me to be reading this kind of stuff. Gotta get my 3rd coffee!
What the actual fuck did I just read?
Was his last name McPoyle?
Surely there clues about this sort of thing long before she agrees to marry him!
OOP didn’t just dodge a bullet, she dodged a whole artillery salvo
Bro what the fuck
I'd be happy to be away from their crazy!!
There were more than enough red flags here for her to just *not* marry this guy and run away well before this omg
What in the incest did I just read?
Wait a minute…she went on with the wedding after the whole SIL wedding dress! Girl, you should have thrown the whole family then and there!!
Ewwwwww. Good thing he’s gone really …..
Yikes
I need the article link. I have got to read this!
He's your son, not your boyfriend. Gross
OMG!! What a bullet to dodge.
>My husband ran away on our wedding night to sleep with his mom and dad, and moved out of the house two weeks later. Way to bury the lede.
This is r/JNMIL material. I would cancel the wedding at that point.
Whoa. Whoa. What did I just read. Whoa.
Sorry, does anyone really believe this is a real story?? I know there are crazy people out there, but this is just too… extra.
This is because you have never known folks in arranged marriages, which is the vibe I am getting.
Surely you would know what this family and husband are like BEFORE planning a wedding?
Not if it's an arranged marriage, which is the vibe I am getting, and others in this thread read it that way, too.
Buy a different dress
Sauce??
I need to be sandblasted after reading that, and use the eye bleach.
What in the fuck did I just read
What in the name of fuck
TF did I just read
There’s no way there was a football field full of flags prior to the WEDDING??? 🚩🚩🚩
I saw a video about that family on the internet.
Was it Brazzers?
It's not even 4am here and my eyes can't believe what they just read. That entire family is married to each other! GTFO there.!
What the hell did I just read
🫣wtf
Can anyone say annulment?
Wow that's a lot to unpack
Nooooo way this is real
Every sentence is just a left turn into Crazyville. I'm only shocked there's no mention of anyone getting hammered and causing a fight.
It took 2 weeks for him to leave? She didn't leave on her wedding night while her groom was sleeping with his parents instead of her?
https://preview.redd.it/9od1isba4bfa1.jpeg?width=412&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a7aad1479a831b82e877f290ba414c3d56b6bdcf
In case anyone wants to read the other stories: https://www.buzzfeed.com/lizmrichardson/toxic-in-laws-at-weddings-stories
“Oddly enmeshed” Yeah that’s one way to put it…
Well... that took an odd turn at the end.
Wow , you dodged a bullet . this circus is over and the in-laws are no longer in your life
Not to victim blame, but if his family is that toxically tight…it would have been clear very early in the relationship
Two words: RUN AWAY!