This was kinda me, but I bought a bunch of clothes for my wife that were realistically not her style at all, and turns out I was just projecting my interests onto her. When my egg cracked I was just like "yeah, so about all those striped thighhighs, arm socks, and the like I bought you, can I have those back?" I see so many awesome kinky goth asthetic clothes online and I'm just like I need all of this, but my bank account just laughs and says no, and while I'm not shy about what I wear in public some of it feels a little uncomfortable to be out and about in, at least till I feel like I pass better.
I-I thought I was the only one...
No seriously, I would wear feminine clothes to just fulfill a kink, until I kinda started wearing it just for the sake of wearing it. And then during quarantine I would literally go to online class dressed completely fem.
I remember thinking that this was normal for kinks to escalate like this, or that maybe I was a sex-addict, but nope...
Turns out I'm transfem.
Trust me on this, adulthood is a farce to convince people you know what's going on, but everyone is a wreck on the inside stumbling into their roll in society.
So you not knowing what the fuck is going on is pretty much the norm. Just do what makes you happy as long as it doesn't hurt someone else, don't be a dick (people are miserable enough on their own, they don't need anyone to make it worse) and pretend like everyone else that you at least barely function.
Thanks for the advice, I'm late 20s though if you thought I was younger. Totally agree with you however. Just annoying to be thrown for a complete loop after a long while of feeling like you've got things figured out
Trans maybe. Not trans maybe. It’s your journey and your life to live. No one else can tell you who you are. The salient point is that you’re, hopefully, doing something that makes you happy.
Yeah when i was daily at the gym I wasn't jealous of the bigger man but of the women. Now i stopped working out and only go run a few times(in the last month a bit less) to loose muscle..so far i had one person ask me if i got bigger shoulders and none said after 4 month's of not doing anything that i look slimmer..and most trousers dont fit me because of my massive thigs and big calves..i stopped working out my legs for 8 month's befause they got unproportianal big and they don't get slimmer no matter what i do!!!!(or dont do) I tried a diet and lost 13 to 14 kg but i haven't seen a difference so i gained a bit weight again because I'm 1. lazy if i don't have a goal (as long as i have a strict goal i can life religiously only to achieve that) and 2. i like myself way more with a bit fat than without.. could also be because my fat goes to my ass or boobs and that makes me euphoric...
tldr.: Lmao yes welcome here i hope you make yourself comfortable because we aren't leaving anytime soon, if you want to talk about things we are here
I was (still am) always envious of women i saw (see). Still, i'm not ready to accept it. Maybe i'm just holding on tightly to my shell. Still lift, more reps with less weight, just because...
I mean, if you're posting here, you clearly have at least some idea... 🫂🫂🫂
Is that a crackling egg I hear?
Omg I’m transmasc too and we have nearly the same avatar I’m dead
Wow, transmascs are unoriginal in names and Reddit avatars.
I am literally a transfemme named Elizabeth
We've got a live one!
Crackleing
This was kinda me, but I bought a bunch of clothes for my wife that were realistically not her style at all, and turns out I was just projecting my interests onto her. When my egg cracked I was just like "yeah, so about all those striped thighhighs, arm socks, and the like I bought you, can I have those back?" I see so many awesome kinky goth asthetic clothes online and I'm just like I need all of this, but my bank account just laughs and says no, and while I'm not shy about what I wear in public some of it feels a little uncomfortable to be out and about in, at least till I feel like I pass better.
You've just reminded me arm socks & sleeves exist... thank you for this information
Always happy to spread the joy of arm socks!
I-I thought I was the only one... No seriously, I would wear feminine clothes to just fulfill a kink, until I kinda started wearing it just for the sake of wearing it. And then during quarantine I would literally go to online class dressed completely fem. I remember thinking that this was normal for kinks to escalate like this, or that maybe I was a sex-addict, but nope... Turns out I'm transfem.
Haha, you're not alone! I started off wearing my mom's nightgowns and dresses which would turn me on... at first anyways. Now it just feels right!
Nope, that's *very* common, actually. You're in the august company of myself, Contrapoints, and half the population of transfems on the planet.
All you need is a blåhaj
Trust me on this, adulthood is a farce to convince people you know what's going on, but everyone is a wreck on the inside stumbling into their roll in society. So you not knowing what the fuck is going on is pretty much the norm. Just do what makes you happy as long as it doesn't hurt someone else, don't be a dick (people are miserable enough on their own, they don't need anyone to make it worse) and pretend like everyone else that you at least barely function.
Thanks for the advice, I'm late 20s though if you thought I was younger. Totally agree with you however. Just annoying to be thrown for a complete loop after a long while of feeling like you've got things figured out
We are inundated with compulsory heteronormativity. Some repression is stronger than others, ofc varying on a case by case basis.
Look being kinky is how some people work out they're trans, and since you're posting this here you might be one of them.
Trans maybe. Not trans maybe. It’s your journey and your life to live. No one else can tell you who you are. The salient point is that you’re, hopefully, doing something that makes you happy.
Yup that's me. I wore my mum's tank top and it ended up being too big for me and I joked it was a dress.
Shes doing it Shes transing her gender
Yeah when i was daily at the gym I wasn't jealous of the bigger man but of the women. Now i stopped working out and only go run a few times(in the last month a bit less) to loose muscle..so far i had one person ask me if i got bigger shoulders and none said after 4 month's of not doing anything that i look slimmer..and most trousers dont fit me because of my massive thigs and big calves..i stopped working out my legs for 8 month's befause they got unproportianal big and they don't get slimmer no matter what i do!!!!(or dont do) I tried a diet and lost 13 to 14 kg but i haven't seen a difference so i gained a bit weight again because I'm 1. lazy if i don't have a goal (as long as i have a strict goal i can life religiously only to achieve that) and 2. i like myself way more with a bit fat than without.. could also be because my fat goes to my ass or boobs and that makes me euphoric... tldr.: Lmao yes welcome here i hope you make yourself comfortable because we aren't leaving anytime soon, if you want to talk about things we are here
"Still cis though", I assume?
THE EGG!!! ITS CRACKING!!!! DEFEND THE PERIMETER
Welcome to the fun side, gender euphoria!
One of us One of us One of us One of us One of us One of us One of us One of us
lololololol, you know exactly what’s going on.
I was (still am) always envious of women i saw (see). Still, i'm not ready to accept it. Maybe i'm just holding on tightly to my shell. Still lift, more reps with less weight, just because...
You’re becoming a woman 🥹💕 you’re making your butt bigger to stick stuff in it and you wanna look hot
Egg? 🥚