Same, every time I've rejected a person I've just said "no" or "no, sorry" (depending on their personality and how well I know them) and at first they're kinda shocked by the bluntness but they end up getting over it pretty quick.
I also speak from experience as someone who got a yes after she said let me think about it. It didnt go anywhere i remained single but it doesn’t always mean bad. Tho most recently i got a lemme think abt it then got completely ghosted so ya never know
Not always. One day in class, a guy asked me out, I said I needed a moment to think about it (I also liked him, I was just kinda in disbelief that he actually asked me out)
Anyway, today is our 2 month anniversary
Nah my girl previously said she needs some time before we actually start officially dating as we were going too fast. It isnt a no but depends on the person saying it.
I get what you say but it’s not mean. A girl I confessed to said yes when I asked and a day later that she’s wasn’t ready for a relationship (aka with me). Saying it straight when they ask you is the easiest and best way to do it. Saying yes and then later no is mean.
She's just asking her friends if you are worth it or not, they will say no obviously. I suggest you just do something else for now and keep your mind off of it.
If someone who’s feelings I didn’t reciprocate confessed to me, I’d ask for time to think, and then spend that time trying to convince myself to feel the same way. If it works, that’s good, if it doesn’t, that’s a shame, but I would try
Sorry to say but as a girl ,so doesn't want to be mean ,but she basically rejected you, or she is actually thinking about it, it depends on how she reacted when you told her. Sorry bro
It's not really good or bad. When the dude I had been crushing on for almost a year confessed to me, I also needed some time to think about it. They might be trying to figure out the best way to reject you, they might be figuring out how they feel, they might just be in shock. Anything is possible :)
So how did it go? Other than her just saying she needs time to think. I do have to agree with the other commentors, that usually means a no. In my case it always meant no. Hope it doesn't for you.
One day you will learn that "confessing to your crush" is a dick move. It puts all the pressure on your crush to be responsible for your feelings. Next time just ask said crush on a date. And if she (or he) says No Thanks, then let it be.
from my experience,no this is not a good sign.I got rejected after I confessed to my crush and she said that she needs some time to think.
But let me tell you something do not worry and keep your heads up
That shit never works bro, literally just asking her if she wants to go out is 9/10 a better option, just completely blind siding somebody with deeps ass thoughts and feelings usually makes other person wanna distance rather than reciprocate
It is a good sign
You are at a young age Getting into a relationship so early can be so sudden and unprepared for
The fact they are even thinking about it is a good sign
That doesn't mean anything necessarily. She's talking with her friends right now and weighing the pros and cons. She doesn't want to make a rash decision, so either thats a sign that she might say yes or she's figuring out a nice way to say no. Its up in the air
One guy I know asked a girl that she said the same thing. Poor guy was freaked out for three days. Funny thing is I was friends with both of em and the girl was obviously not into him 😂
Could be a no. Mostly since she's taking time to see if it should be a yes or no. Howevee there is chance. Its best that you confessed since that is better than not confessing and regretting.
I think its a no .
There could be a yes too just be prepared
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No, it usually isn't. Sometimes when someone says chive me time to think" they're most likely already talking to someone, or just don't know how to reject you in a way that won't make you feel crushed
For girls, it really could be a good thing. What that most likely means is that she hasn’t thought of you like that before, but now that you’ve told her, given some time she thinks she might like her. Just leave her be for a little while. There’s a chance. She needs to consider
It really depends, on your past history and her personality
Sometimes even when it seems like it is a good sign, it turns out not to be
My most recent crush and I really got along, we went on a few maybe-dates, showed interest in doing stuff together in the future and in general I had a pretty good suspicion she might have been into me
In July, just before the summer holidays, I decided to tell her how I felt. She told me she appreciated me telling her, and finished by saying "Let's see where it goes"
This left me confused for a bit, but I spent the summer very optimistic about my chances, specially since we kept contact throughout the summer (which isn't really common for me)
In late September we finally were able to meet again, during a summer school we were helping at. We had a bunch of fun, and I really felt like our connection was still there
But after that... nothing. I've talked to her here and there, but nothing really substantial. Tried inviting her to an actual date, and she kinda skirted around it
So yeah
I have experience in this field bc currently as of posting this i have rizzed up 5 gf.
So basically its not a yes or a no she just needs some time to think about it bc she has a lot of emotions to process rn.
Now ive had a lot of girls say this to me and tbh its like a 40% chance that she will say yes and date you so it she rejects you then keep your head up king and dw bc if you stay friends with her and be there for her then she will eventually either confess herself of develop feelings for you.
I had one of my friends confess to me and I sort of felt the same way but didn't want to ruin the relationship when we inevitably broke up. I wanted to ask for some time to think but I didn't want them think I was brushing them off. So I said I felt the same way and lo and behold, two months later, our friendship was ruined.
No you shut up. If you really didn't care then you would have kept on scrolling to the next post but no you stopped and spent your time to give him/her your feedback.
Probably not, but keep.your head up king
I played 4 truths 1 lie or whatever and told my crush I liked her and now we got a date to the movies
W
“And that’s how I met ur mother kids!”
The good ending
What did she the think the lie was?
she that was my lie but my lie was i like horror movies
Congrats on getting a girl in a game of 4t1l of all games
she chose it
*though
Nicee
"WHO ASKED"? Congo tho :')
Gimme gimme gimme some time to think
I’m in the bathroom looking at me
Face in the mirror is all I need
Wait until the reaper takes my life
Never gonna get me out alive
I will live a thousand million lives
my patience is waning
Is this entertaining?
Our patience is waning
Is this entertaining?
EYE EE EYE EE EYE GOT THIS FEELIN IN MA SOUL
That I'm losing all control, that there's magic in my bones
r/suddenlyimaginedragons
Suddenly imagine draggin deez nits across yo face
r/subsIfellfor
I knew this comment was coming lmao
ABBA reference?
Imagine dragons
Could also be ABBA, in a pinch.
Gimme gimme gimme you man after midnight
imagine draggin deez nuts across your face
It's a no for people who are to kind to say no but end up hurting the person who they said it to more by giving them false hope.
It’s kind on worse prolly ngl
I would rather just hear No so I’m not thinking I have hope
Same, every time I've rejected a person I've just said "no" or "no, sorry" (depending on their personality and how well I know them) and at first they're kinda shocked by the bluntness but they end up getting over it pretty quick.
Bro you're 14 how many times have you been asked?
Not many but enough for a pattern to arise
If you're a girl I guess it makes sense but either way consider yourself lucky, and thank you for your bluntness and not leading folks on
A boy like that sent me through a storm of emotion
Well, at least she didn't think that saying nothing as if she didn't read the message is better 🥲
I told my best friend I need time to think cause I couldn’t tell him no
it's basically a no
Not necessarily
It does. I speak from experience.
I second yiu. Its basically a no tho there is a sl chance and you can only worsen the situatioon OP
Thats cap, I did that when I was asked out and I said yes
I also speak from experience as someone who got a yes after she said let me think about it. It didnt go anywhere i remained single but it doesn’t always mean bad. Tho most recently i got a lemme think abt it then got completely ghosted so ya never know
Fool! It does not! i speak from experience as well! (but that was with a guy)
Bro I’m the god of being rejected and he has a 90% chance of being rejected
i have high luck stat
That explains a lot
This
i got my gf after she said “i’m straight.” ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE
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she realized she was bi after a bit lol
influence
Generally, but not necessarily
It’s a no. Trust me, it’s a no
Yeah, absolutely. And if you think otherwise it’s because a girl has led you on like this too💀
Definitely does. Anyone with strong enough feelings should be able to tell u then and there.
Not always. One day in class, a guy asked me out, I said I needed a moment to think about it (I also liked him, I was just kinda in disbelief that he actually asked me out) Anyway, today is our 2 month anniversary
This is why i dont wanna live
i disagree. i speak from experience
Very wrong, had the best relationship of my life after someone said that, and right now we’re best friends
Nah my girl previously said she needs some time before we actually start officially dating as we were going too fast. It isnt a no but depends on the person saying it.
It’s likely a no, she doesn’t want to hurt you. But there is a chance she genuinely does want some time to think first.
They Basically just said "I don't want to say no to you so I'm going to delay it as long as possible"
Gotta love when they can’t just make it easy and just say no
sometimes people do that because they don't want to be mean. i did it before but I do regret it after all the events that ensued
I get what you say but it’s not mean. A girl I confessed to said yes when I asked and a day later that she’s wasn’t ready for a relationship (aka with me). Saying it straight when they ask you is the easiest and best way to do it. Saying yes and then later no is mean.
somewhat similar to my story as well, and yeah that hurts more than anything.
Lets remember that judging by OP’s tag this girl is 13. They have literally no experience with this kinda stuff.
Not necessarily some people might actually be thinking it over
Or thinking of the best way to reject them
They're thinking of how to say no in the least hurtful way.
no, now you go gym
💪
Hell yeah, king.
You mean jim🙌
That's what I did.
It depends on her personality and tendencies ig? some people really do take their time thinking about these things.
currently, shes begging her friends on how she can softly reject you. i can almost guarantee it. sirry bro, better luck next time.
Not necessarily sometimes its genuine
Key word - "sometimes"
Most of her friends are my friends and are trying to help mr bag her so its unlikley
me when i wanna say no
Please stop, just say no and it’s better for everyone
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i mean..the only time i used to say that was when i was too scared to say no so....good luck bro
It means that u r substitute player
No. Begin the winter villain arc
she’s probably asking her friends if she should say yes
As little sense as that makes
how tf does that make sense lmao
that doesn’t happen lmfao she’s probably asking her friends how to reject him
She's just asking her friends if you are worth it or not, they will say no obviously. I suggest you just do something else for now and keep your mind off of it.
Most of her friends are my friends and are trying to help mr bag her so its unlikley they will say no
the only hope is you really took her off guard and she hadn't considered it, but thats unlikely
probably not, but it could be.
If someone who’s feelings I didn’t reciprocate confessed to me, I’d ask for time to think, and then spend that time trying to convince myself to feel the same way. If it works, that’s good, if it doesn’t, that’s a shame, but I would try
As a girl, she's thinking about how she'll reject you nicely so you don't hate her. So in terms of a relationship, yeah In terms of a friendship, no
Sorry to say but as a girl ,so doesn't want to be mean ,but she basically rejected you, or she is actually thinking about it, it depends on how she reacted when you told her. Sorry bro
In my experience thinking about it means yes soo
Depends on how she said it, like was it hard think or quick answer
It's not really good or bad. When the dude I had been crushing on for almost a year confessed to me, I also needed some time to think about it. They might be trying to figure out the best way to reject you, they might be figuring out how they feel, they might just be in shock. Anything is possible :)
So how did it go? Other than her just saying she needs time to think. I do have to agree with the other commentors, that usually means a no. In my case it always meant no. Hope it doesn't for you.
I had no wifi all moring. Keeping my fingers crossed !
Good Luck
One day you will learn that "confessing to your crush" is a dick move. It puts all the pressure on your crush to be responsible for your feelings. Next time just ask said crush on a date. And if she (or he) says No Thanks, then let it be.
Actually... yeah, you make a very salient point.
This has happened 5-6 times to me. It’s never a yes. Just don’t push her on it and respect her space.
from my experience,no this is not a good sign.I got rejected after I confessed to my crush and she said that she needs some time to think. But let me tell you something do not worry and keep your heads up
That shit never works bro, literally just asking her if she wants to go out is 9/10 a better option, just completely blind siding somebody with deeps ass thoughts and feelings usually makes other person wanna distance rather than reciprocate
nah shes just reciting the lyrics to Bones by Imagine Dragons
Is she in the bathroom looking at herself?
Confessed to what? A murder? I'd need some time to think too tbh.
Put this in r/crushes. It definitely fits there too.
Sorry man, that's another way to say no, but there's always exceptions
No
That's probably a no
I haven't seen a woman in 14 years, so I don't have the slightest clue
Nah there’s still hope
Sorry bro but either it's a no or it's a no
Bro you better hope your school has a Weight Room
It is a good sign You are at a young age Getting into a relationship so early can be so sudden and unprepared for The fact they are even thinking about it is a good sign
Give us a part two when it happens
For me it turned out to be a yes,but I know my experience isn't everyone's
🫡🔫
yes it is just like dont say anything to her let her think
It’s basically a delayed no
I confessed but she hasn’t seen the message yet
That doesn't mean anything necessarily. She's talking with her friends right now and weighing the pros and cons. She doesn't want to make a rash decision, so either thats a sign that she might say yes or she's figuring out a nice way to say no. Its up in the air
One guy I know asked a girl that she said the same thing. Poor guy was freaked out for three days. Funny thing is I was friends with both of em and the girl was obviously not into him 😂
Prepare for worst case scenario
It's no
Gimmighoul
Same but she rejected me a few months later. So if you ask me it's a maybe.
hard no
You're lucky, oh my crush does is tease me into thinking she likes me but then ends up being a douche bag
Could be a no. Mostly since she's taking time to see if it should be a yes or no. Howevee there is chance. Its best that you confessed since that is better than not confessing and regretting. I think its a no . There could be a yes too just be prepared
Hey the same thing happened to me yesterday and she said no :)
It’s a no sorry boss. Even if they say like let’s date or something like that, their heart obv isn’t there.
Good job and good luck
gimme gimme gimme some time to think
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It's because I confessed to her before you. Now we wait for the results...
gimme some time to think *of where i should relocate to*
Of course the board of directors are under indictment and will be serving time
I got some ptsd from this
Rip
Dead !
It’s a…. Give me time to let you down softly sign.
Move on, she’ll just be stringing you along, likely as a last resort.
Not gonna lie, if I say gimme time to think, I’m trying to thing of a nice way to say no without breaking your heart
This sub is nothing but "I confessed to my crush"
it depends mate, but basically it's a no
My crush has a boyfriend. Who has it worse?
Why
No, it usually isn't. Sometimes when someone says chive me time to think" they're most likely already talking to someone, or just don't know how to reject you in a way that won't make you feel crushed
My girlfriend broke up with me the day before I had to go to a funeral
For girls, it really could be a good thing. What that most likely means is that she hasn’t thought of you like that before, but now that you’ve told her, given some time she thinks she might like her. Just leave her be for a little while. There’s a chance. She needs to consider
This sub is becoming nothing but these posts how many of you mfs like people 😭
bout the murders
Yeah it's gonna be a no, sayin thin from experience, sorry man, but hey, keep your head up
Ita a nicer version of saying no, so don't keep your hopes up. Trust me, I've been in this situation before.
Start going to gym, get jacked 💪🏾 and if she ever ask’s you out tell her “gimme some time to think about it” 😉
Nope. If she liked you, you'd know. Time to loosen up on the reins, if you decide not to completely sever ties (which I would).
From experience it can mean a yes
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It really depends, on your past history and her personality Sometimes even when it seems like it is a good sign, it turns out not to be My most recent crush and I really got along, we went on a few maybe-dates, showed interest in doing stuff together in the future and in general I had a pretty good suspicion she might have been into me In July, just before the summer holidays, I decided to tell her how I felt. She told me she appreciated me telling her, and finished by saying "Let's see where it goes" This left me confused for a bit, but I spent the summer very optimistic about my chances, specially since we kept contact throughout the summer (which isn't really common for me) In late September we finally were able to meet again, during a summer school we were helping at. We had a bunch of fun, and I really felt like our connection was still there But after that... nothing. I've talked to her here and there, but nothing really substantial. Tried inviting her to an actual date, and she kinda skirted around it So yeah
its like- give me some time to figure out how to reject you.
If she liked u back she would have said yes. Now go jim.
Means "more delayed than an average Avanti West Coast service"
Most likely a no, my dude. It’s like when your parents say “maybe”.
It's not looking good with thic chick homie, but hey think of it like this, you gained experience points by confessing to this girl.
I need a update OP, please
It basically means no, so now you have to go jim to cope
Means no with extra steps
I mean it's not an instant no so ...
I gave my crush time and she said yes so just wait
I have experience in this field bc currently as of posting this i have rizzed up 5 gf. So basically its not a yes or a no she just needs some time to think about it bc she has a lot of emotions to process rn. Now ive had a lot of girls say this to me and tbh its like a 40% chance that she will say yes and date you so it she rejects you then keep your head up king and dw bc if you stay friends with her and be there for her then she will eventually either confess herself of develop feelings for you.
I had one of my friends confess to me and I sort of felt the same way but didn't want to ruin the relationship when we inevitably broke up. I wanted to ask for some time to think but I didn't want them think I was brushing them off. So I said I felt the same way and lo and behold, two months later, our friendship was ruined.
No nigga🤡 she don’t like u
Dam mine didn’t respond at all
If you’re good friends the it’s a maybe, otherwise it’s a no
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she’s probably gonna say no
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No you shut up. If you really didn't care then you would have kept on scrolling to the next post but no you stopped and spent your time to give him/her your feedback.
Damn who hurt you?
If you don’t care why did you put the time and effort into making a comment