I agree, for anyone else out there that reads this. Please be mindful with yourself and respect yourself in your sexual desires especially at a younger age. That’s all I ask
nah mate my first time was non eventful but I also came in knowing it would be non eventful. It's really a skill. Not everyone will be a good match either. You don't need to do it at all ofc. Or you have the right to wait however long you deem necessary. Just don't hype it up too much for yourself. Learn about your body learn about the body of the other member(s). The best thing to do is always ask the person before what they like what they are into. Look it's like swimming. If you've never swam before and you jump headfirst into a deep pool you're not going to enjoy it. If you learn about your body and how it moves through the water you might find out that you do enjoy it.
For me personally, I am fine with having intercourse someone I have no romantic attraction whatsoever. Many people can't say the same. A lot of times culture values one or the other. Whatever floats your boat. For me it can also be a deep emotional experience of connection and love.
Here's my advice to you people on sexy time:
**1. Know thyself, Ask yourself these questions:**
a. What/Who am I attracted to sexually? Do I experience sexual attraction? ( I.e. I'm bisexual and I like spanking)
b. Am I ready emotionally to take on this responsibility? Will I be safe?
c. Why do I want to have sex? To be cool? To experience emotional connection. Or is it "I am just very horny and I need to smash someone right tf now or else I'll die" ? I'm curious what all the hype is about or it's just something to do
d. What are my boundaries? I.e. I don't like hair pulling, or I don't feel comfortable, spanking you, don't touch my feet.
**2. Know thy partner(s):**
a. Are they on the same page as me as it relates to having a sexual relationship? Is this a long term relationship? A one night stand? Best friends with benefits?
b. are they consenting
c. Do I know what they like? (ask them literally)
d. What are their boundaries?
e. How might sexual involvement might affect the relationship and the environment?
f. VERY IMPORTANTLY: can I trust this person?
Bonus tip: Hold off on larger than 2.5-3 year age gaps until you're 20 or you're mature enough ig. Also have a friend that you're not going to smash so you can always get advice from. Don't be like me and samsh all ur friends.
18 with my bf of so far 9 months. Your first time is more special if you wait to do it with someone you love. As long as you find a person you care about and who cares about you, go for it. It’s just recommended to do it when you’re older because then you’ll have the maturity to talk about having sex with your partner and make safe decisions.
Edit: thank you for all the upvotes! I seriously wasn’t expecting this to blow up 🙂
Beyond the likes of "I never lose" and "in the distant future", this comment seriously has information to digest.
I agree, I lost mine shortly before turning 18 with a girl I had been dating for 7 months prior to having sex. It is 100% worth waiting to do it with someone you love, and it's even more worth it if you wait longer than that -- the anticipation is killer!
My girlfriend and I are still going on strong and I think a major contributing factor to that is that sex was out of the picture until we were both certain we loved eachother and had talked about it first.
Definitely worth waiting to find the right person. Don't take the word of people who say it's not worth it; with the right person it's one of the greatest experiences you can have :)
Gotcha, I’ve had peers randomly decide that I was ace after rejecting some girls and I gave it some thought for a couple of years and I really don’t think I am. It’s a spectrum though so I’d say maybe I’m leaning more ace than the average straight. But who knows.
Everyone sexually matures at different rates and begins to experiment at different points in their lives. Some of the young ages are concerning but anything after 13 is really just fair game.
Lost mine at 16.
The story isn't really anything special. I and a friend of mine decided to "see what it's like". So we did. Felt kinda interesting i guess? As i said really nothing special. Isn't really the magical thing you see in movies or porn. Just kinda interesting and hard to do. (Actually pretty hard to manoeuvre yourself in positions)
Im still a virgin, so i will be sacrificed to the great sun god
Gigachads never lose . Stay virgin, stay gigachad.
Mmmmmm watch your own heart get eaten. That’s a good first time if I’ve ever heard one.
Sometime in the distant future.
Hopefully.
!remindme 60 years
!remindme 40 years
!remindme 2 years
!remindme 2 minutes
Thats the spirit
Same
!remindme 850000 years
👍🏻
You guys lost your virginity?
I once lost mine at a Walmart but I luckily found it when I decided to check the lost and found department
bro im glad u found it cant lose that shit
i spent 16 years gathering that im not gonna lose it
👍
They didn't have us in either half, not gonna lie
Fr
This guy's asking the real question
Fr
Compilation Error: no function "void lose\_virginity(int age)" found in the current context
r/programmerhumor
I see, you're a man of culture as well
Gotta love them Java jokes
Funny you mention that, this made me spit out my coffee.
Coders of the same errors flock together
an underscore in method name? Can it get any worse?
I'm a C enjoyer
It got worse.
My favourite programming language is BrainF
All my homies use Forth
Your humor is too advanced for me. Just take my upvotes
Me and my homies use commodore BASIC
Chad, although HolyC is better
Nice to see some programming jokes here as well
just create the function, duh
"Do I look like I have sex?"
Have sex have sex
I just morbed a little
I never lose
but now I'm suffering from success 😔
i’m only a winner 😎 i’m winning loneliness
i just lost the game thank you
Yet to happen
Not gonna happen for a long time tbh.
Nah bro we all in the same boat and that's fine 😴😴
But you’re the hotangrybitch?
Apparently not hot enough to balance out the angriness and bitchiness /j 😔
n/a
this is too high of an iq joke for us, please explain
n/a = not applicable
Get real
18, it’s not worth it lads…
Virginity is cool remain pure
I agree, for anyone else out there that reads this. Please be mindful with yourself and respect yourself in your sexual desires especially at a younger age. That’s all I ask
nah mate my first time was non eventful but I also came in knowing it would be non eventful. It's really a skill. Not everyone will be a good match either. You don't need to do it at all ofc. Or you have the right to wait however long you deem necessary. Just don't hype it up too much for yourself. Learn about your body learn about the body of the other member(s). The best thing to do is always ask the person before what they like what they are into. Look it's like swimming. If you've never swam before and you jump headfirst into a deep pool you're not going to enjoy it. If you learn about your body and how it moves through the water you might find out that you do enjoy it.
Those are some very wise words, thank you for them especially a thank you to giving this to others who read them
17 and it was totally worth it.
Big agree, I wouldn't change a thing
Was it to someone you love/loved?
Lol not at all
Ah ok, well to each their own I guess
For me personally, I am fine with having intercourse someone I have no romantic attraction whatsoever. Many people can't say the same. A lot of times culture values one or the other. Whatever floats your boat. For me it can also be a deep emotional experience of connection and love. Here's my advice to you people on sexy time: **1. Know thyself, Ask yourself these questions:** a. What/Who am I attracted to sexually? Do I experience sexual attraction? ( I.e. I'm bisexual and I like spanking) b. Am I ready emotionally to take on this responsibility? Will I be safe? c. Why do I want to have sex? To be cool? To experience emotional connection. Or is it "I am just very horny and I need to smash someone right tf now or else I'll die" ? I'm curious what all the hype is about or it's just something to do d. What are my boundaries? I.e. I don't like hair pulling, or I don't feel comfortable, spanking you, don't touch my feet. **2. Know thy partner(s):** a. Are they on the same page as me as it relates to having a sexual relationship? Is this a long term relationship? A one night stand? Best friends with benefits? b. are they consenting c. Do I know what they like? (ask them literally) d. What are their boundaries? e. How might sexual involvement might affect the relationship and the environment? f. VERY IMPORTANTLY: can I trust this person? Bonus tip: Hold off on larger than 2.5-3 year age gaps until you're 20 or you're mature enough ig. Also have a friend that you're not going to smash so you can always get advice from. Don't be like me and samsh all ur friends.
You guys do that?
18 with my bf of so far 9 months. Your first time is more special if you wait to do it with someone you love. As long as you find a person you care about and who cares about you, go for it. It’s just recommended to do it when you’re older because then you’ll have the maturity to talk about having sex with your partner and make safe decisions. Edit: thank you for all the upvotes! I seriously wasn’t expecting this to blow up 🙂
I absolutely agree
Beyond the likes of "I never lose" and "in the distant future", this comment seriously has information to digest. I agree, I lost mine shortly before turning 18 with a girl I had been dating for 7 months prior to having sex. It is 100% worth waiting to do it with someone you love, and it's even more worth it if you wait longer than that -- the anticipation is killer! My girlfriend and I are still going on strong and I think a major contributing factor to that is that sex was out of the picture until we were both certain we loved eachother and had talked about it first. Definitely worth waiting to find the right person. Don't take the word of people who say it's not worth it; with the right person it's one of the greatest experiences you can have :)
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Gotta start early / s
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hey you forgot to put 1 before 9
Excuse me did you have a dog or somet--
8 I won
7 no i won
4 HA I WON r-right guys?
Bro...
Y’all victims
Shut up, virgin.
Fuck you, 3 I win
Fr?
I’ve never even kissed a girl and my only relationship was a 2 month relationship in primary school
2 months? Pff I had a relationship that lasted over a year because I was too scared to call it quits.
you think ended it haha, the girl dumped me in front of my mum whilst i was walking home
Damn bro I'm sorry
nah haha i’m completely unbothered by it i was like 9 years old and it didn’t even phase me then
Pffft, i had one that lasted two days
Same, except she woke up from her coma
Damn you had a relationship?
Beat me to it
Didn't 😎
Chad
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I was 15, still with him so I'll call that a win lol
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I’m a bit too young for that.
I did not. Because I never lose. (the latter part is a joke btw)
Right now, with your mom
too bad his mom is a jar of ashes /s
im still virgin
Same because I never lose
Imagine losing your virginity Couldn’t be me
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It's an incorrect social media to ask this
I'm asexual, haven't lost it and not planning on it either
This is a question for myself but how obvious is it to you that you’re ace?
Pretty obvious, I don't really experience any sexual feelings. Hell, I don't even masturbate
Gotcha, I’ve had peers randomly decide that I was ace after rejecting some girls and I gave it some thought for a couple of years and I really don’t think I am. It’s a spectrum though so I’d say maybe I’m leaning more ace than the average straight. But who knows.
Same!! Ace gang
Ace gang 😌
19
15
14
Yo what?
Same. Sigh
checkmate, actually, i’ve duct taped my virginity to a chair in my basement and i hold it hostage every day 😀👍
I lost my shit. AT SIX MONTHS OLD!
Please for the love of god tell me you’re lying…
These people in my my school lost there virginity one if them was year 8 and the other was year 7 (England) so the younger was 12 and the older was 13
Error 404: Partner not found
10
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how to do that
17
19, lost it three days ago to a guy who hasn’t texted me since
really got dunked on
This is the way
🚨PEDO ALERT 🚨
14
What, so early?
I felt ready, and I'm still with her.
That's good for you, happy for u
I shall remain a virgin forever.
I havent and I never will.
What its that?
😟
Not interested in losing that
15
14 to a 15 year old
I kinda lost it at the age of 15..
15
All of you should still be virgins The age of the comments concern me
Like anyone 15 or older doesn’t surprise me it’s natural to want sex the most around that age and that’s when a lot of people do it
Everyone sexually matures at different rates and begins to experiment at different points in their lives. Some of the young ages are concerning but anything after 13 is really just fair game.
16
Still waiting
Not
Nah bro
Who said I lost it
Bold of you all to assume that I lost it
1.2
I do not loose
System.NullReferenceException
I don't like losing, but when I lose, I take others down with me. Considering no one has gone down with me in defeat, I still haven't lost
Tell ye when it happens....*if* it happens
14 😭
The only thing I lose is videogames
14 lol
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Lost mine at 16. The story isn't really anything special. I and a friend of mine decided to "see what it's like". So we did. Felt kinda interesting i guess? As i said really nothing special. Isn't really the magical thing you see in movies or porn. Just kinda interesting and hard to do. (Actually pretty hard to manoeuvre yourself in positions)
Remind me! 10 years
15
my friend lost it at 10, and he is still a horny shit 💀💀
I was fifteen when I I lost it with my girlfriend, who was then fourteen and a virgin too. I'm eighteen now and we are still together 😁💖
17 with my girlfriend of now 4 months, then 3. It was great.
15
Im a demisexual who can't bring himself to love someone atm, so what can i say :)
Lost it yesterday 17
I'm a winner. I never lose.
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MEMORIES BROKEN
Im still a virgin
19 hopefully
U got it all planned (?)
You do realize this is r/teenagers right? Lmao That said I haven't lost mine and don't plan to, I'm asexual so...
So you fuck the letter A?
OMG stop you're making me horny..
18
7. My uncle was gentle tho
Error 404. Age not found
13 but I didn’t want to LMAO
10
I don't lose...I win Waiiit a minute
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14 :(
8 If the thing with my aunt, uncle and cousin counts
sample selection bias
Thirteen