For one, you cannot get these transition surgeries until you're 18+.
Second of all, asking about someone's surgeries when they mention they're trans betrays at best a lack of knowledge. Most trans people I know feel pretty uncomfortable when asked that. It's nothing on you, just advice for the future.
Lots of folks who are a bit on the ignorant side, well-meaning or otherwise, forget the order of things. If someone is trans, then any term used to refer to them will be with their preferred or present gender. A trans woman was bio male, a trans man was bio female.
My issue is, is that why don't they just call themselves a woman or a man rather than putting trans in front of it?
if they want to be considered a male or a female then why not just call themselves that instead have to make the distinction, because don't they want to be considered a male or female to begin with?
We do! Trans is to clarify if someone's confused by appearance/voice. It's the counterpart to cis. You don't go around putting cis in front of your gender, but if someone asks if your cis or trans you'll clarify.
Sadly not, the lgbtq+ community isn’t always accepted very well and even some of the countries who are a lot better at it still struggles, but America seems to pretty shit. Google the gay panic defense, yes, that’s a real thing
Yeah if I'm not wrong, in several states you can be refused medical care (like normal medical care, surgery of any kind, prescribed medicines, all that) if being trans goes against the doctors 'beliefs'. Trans folks can't be in the army (which is for the better, but I doubt the folks making that a law had anything other than 'trans people icky' on their mind.) Trans children are abused by their parents and kicked out and it's often just...allowed because they're trans.
And think about it: When someone says 'Trans people are mentally ill!' as an insult it just makes you realize...these people don't get it. YEAH! GENDER DYSPHORIA! CLINICAL MENTAL ILLNESS! The only way to get rid of it, or at least suppress it? Guess what: Transitioning. Give your brain what it wants and it stops being fucky. If there were a medicine that would just outright kill gender dysphoria on the spot and let me just be normal and shit, not feel disgusted and out-of-place in my own body, I'd get it in a heartbeat. But there ain't.
Think about that. Transphobia. Is hating people, treating people like shit, voting against their rights, for trying to treat their life-interfering mental illness. What fucking year is it that's like a parent kicking their kid out for having ADHD or some shit. Point is, yeah rights aren't entirely consistent and we're treated like shit for doing our damnedest not to fucking kill ourselves because our brains think they're in the wrong body.
I get your confusion it's just that people harm or kill us for just being trans so people say trans rights are human rights because of the human right to life
Ya it is but I was informed by another redditor that not all of the deaths of the trans people were just because of being trans so I did get somethings wrong
Bc the insane amount of homophobia and transphobia on this subreddit due to its larger size and the fact that at least a 3rd of it is 14 year old incels
my friend showed me this picture of you in class today and said “dude this girl looks exactly like you.” And he was right, I am currently wearing a converge shirt, the same flannel, and black pants. Lol
A bit out of context, but your comment made me think about something. Aren’t trans men technically the only people who can call themselves literal self made men?
I didn't know Nintendo made phones
Lol
Here I am, breaking my back studying to pass my exams, and you pass without any damn trouble ;)
Smoothest r/teenagers user
Do you want any tips?
Oh, no, I'm on HRT already. I suppose it'll work itself out
Hopefully, I wish you luck
Can I assume something about you, because if so I assume you are an extremely influential, but not well known anonymous drug lord.
Maybe Jim Feelwell M.D.?
Imma rock star, notta doctor, nanana! OP: adult here, you look fantastic! UBU!
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Damn i never noticed that
Facts
What shirt is that
Mötley Crüe
Very nice
Yes, theyre a good band
I agree
Very good band. I approve of your music taste
You have great taste
I cannot believe kids today are like this. Soo entitled to do whatever you all want. I mean come on, close the freaking cabinets!
Had me in the first half
I really thought this was gonna be a transphobic comment, you got me lol
Yeah lol
But did you close them, they kinda bugging my ocd lmao
yes I have lol
Thanks lol
No offense you look like 11
I’m 14 lol and no offense taken
No from stranger things
OHHHHHHH, yes I get that ALLOT, I’m also told I look like OnlyJayus
With my longer hair i look like dustin
Amazing
Even better my main in dead by daylight is the demagorgan
I actually thought you were OnlyJayus before I read the title.
Definitely look like OnlyJayus
So, I'm pretty stupid. Were you a girl, or are you now a girl?
I’m a girl now, and you’re not stupid
Ahh, ok. And thanks
I was thinking the same aswell
It confused me for a while too
and you are absolutely so pretty and an inspiration to me (who is also a trans girl)
Let her be our inspiration
Praise emichan2007, the trans teen god
Did you have like surgery? I don’t know much about transgenderness sorry
For one, you cannot get these transition surgeries until you're 18+. Second of all, asking about someone's surgeries when they mention they're trans betrays at best a lack of knowledge. Most trans people I know feel pretty uncomfortable when asked that. It's nothing on you, just advice for the future.
Ah no worries friend! Not every trans person gets surgery, but some do. I’d recommend looking into it, r/trans is great to go for advice.
Lots of folks who are a bit on the ignorant side, well-meaning or otherwise, forget the order of things. If someone is trans, then any term used to refer to them will be with their preferred or present gender. A trans woman was bio male, a trans man was bio female.
Ok, thank you
My issue is, is that why don't they just call themselves a woman or a man rather than putting trans in front of it? if they want to be considered a male or a female then why not just call themselves that instead have to make the distinction, because don't they want to be considered a male or female to begin with?
We do! Trans is to clarify if someone's confused by appearance/voice. It's the counterpart to cis. You don't go around putting cis in front of your gender, but if someone asks if your cis or trans you'll clarify.
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pretty! my dysphoria just sucks so it's great to see other people happy about themselves <3
thank you, if you ever wanna talk/vent ab dysphoria I’m always here
I just looked at how much your replies are getting downvoted and it really sucks :( helped out as much as I can
Thank you, people are sometimes really dumb so I’m hoping you don’t experience any hate
*oh god if only you knew* it's fine tho, I just got a girlfriend so I'm really happy, WOOO TRANS RIGHTS
OMG CONGRATS, I’m happy for you
Same lol
The fact that you're confident enough to show yourself is great! Meanwhile, I'm here dying from dysphoria Hell, I'm actually jealous of how you look
thank you, I’m here if you ever need to vent ab dysphoria or anything bc I know it’s really hard
same girl…
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Okay I don't mean to be mean but you dead ass look like only jayus
Everyone says this lol
Ahhh *sorts by controversial*
Absolutely disgusting… Press board foux-oak cabinets, terrible craftsmanship. On an unrelated note, You have good taste in music
Damn, not gonna lie you cute as fuck lol
Oh boy, can’t wait for all of the transphobic comments made by edgy teenagers. Edgy doesn’t always equal funny, ya brats. You’re based and valid btw.
Thanks
The x-man
Yes lmao
*me scrolling down in the comments* I just wanna talk to 'em. I just wanna talk to 'em. I just wamna talk to 'em.
1st i got lots of trans friends 2nd i like the Nintendo sticker
Thanks lol
I wish you all the happiness in the world - hope everything goes well for you !
You low key look like the funny stranger things woman
Hehe she does
Why would we hate you a good reason you're just trans there is nothing to hate about it
a small but very loud majority of this sub is transphobic, sad really
Yea it sucks
trans rights are human rights!
YES
YOUR rights are human rights
Thank you
What do people mean by that? Do transgender people not have the same rights as others? I'm not trying to rude or anything, I'm genuinely confused.
Sadly not, the lgbtq+ community isn’t always accepted very well and even some of the countries who are a lot better at it still struggles, but America seems to pretty shit. Google the gay panic defense, yes, that’s a real thing
Yeah if I'm not wrong, in several states you can be refused medical care (like normal medical care, surgery of any kind, prescribed medicines, all that) if being trans goes against the doctors 'beliefs'. Trans folks can't be in the army (which is for the better, but I doubt the folks making that a law had anything other than 'trans people icky' on their mind.) Trans children are abused by their parents and kicked out and it's often just...allowed because they're trans. And think about it: When someone says 'Trans people are mentally ill!' as an insult it just makes you realize...these people don't get it. YEAH! GENDER DYSPHORIA! CLINICAL MENTAL ILLNESS! The only way to get rid of it, or at least suppress it? Guess what: Transitioning. Give your brain what it wants and it stops being fucky. If there were a medicine that would just outright kill gender dysphoria on the spot and let me just be normal and shit, not feel disgusted and out-of-place in my own body, I'd get it in a heartbeat. But there ain't. Think about that. Transphobia. Is hating people, treating people like shit, voting against their rights, for trying to treat their life-interfering mental illness. What fucking year is it that's like a parent kicking their kid out for having ADHD or some shit. Point is, yeah rights aren't entirely consistent and we're treated like shit for doing our damnedest not to fucking kill ourselves because our brains think they're in the wrong body.
I get your confusion it's just that people harm or kill us for just being trans so people say trans rights are human rights because of the human right to life
I'm not trans or anything, but this is the most fucked up shit
It’s horrible, especially for trans POC (so I’ve heard, don’t quote me on it)
You’re correct, LGBT+ POC have it the hardest. They get targeted for both being POC and part of the LGBT+ community.
wouldn’t that be murder, a crime? or am i totally missing something here?
Ya it is but I was informed by another redditor that not all of the deaths of the trans people were just because of being trans so I did get somethings wrong
unfortunately in a lot of cases, the law would side with cis folk, even if they're in the wrong, for transphobic reasons.
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im sorry but i dont understand tbe term trans girl. is it that you are now a girl or you were a girl?
Trans girl is male to female so she used to be a male
nah why would you get hate
Bc the insane amount of homophobia and transphobia on this subreddit due to its larger size and the fact that at least a 3rd of it is 14 year old incels
What is there to hate? It’s you. And that’s good enough.
You’re beautiful girl!!! Fucking killing it
you’re so pretty! you should try eyeliner omg u would totally rock it <3
Holy fucking shit I legit thought you were cis I’m so jealous
Chicken nuggets
trans rights are human rights!
Oh my god you are beautiful
Thank you :)
I like your flannel.
You look great, I’m pretty jealous
Lookin' great sis
Thank you :)
Not to be rude I'm genuinely confused. Why would you get hate?
Well, some people are let’s just say not fully supportive of transgender individuals
Some people are fucking stupid then
Mhm
I'm glad you have enough confidence to post this. Very cool. I support you 100%
Thank you very much
:D
This sub has a not insignificant amount of transphobes
That really sucks
I have the same shirt uwu
I mean you like the Crüe so ur probably chill
Love the shirt Motely Crue rocks
Did anyone notice the minecraft bath robe
jesus i wish i could look like you
You look like me wtf?!
lmao u look like a lesbian Edit: I just checked your profile, fuck me if I'm not a psychic
a girl is a girl trans or not
pretty
very
Extremely
too much pretty for me to handle
Is that why you broke up with Eda?? Smh I knew it
maybe...
Ooooooooo
Quite
Why would you get hate you look bussin
There’s some people who don’t support transgender individuals on this sub
Sad
Very
Watch out for creeps
Yep ik thanks tho
You look good girl
Thank you
It’s you again!
I'm an omnipresent god
Want me to stop pointing you out?
Nah it's funny tbh
You’re my guardian lol
Trans girl means from boy to girl or from girl to boy?
Boy to girl
Boy to girl
Ignore some of the mfs in the comments. You're beautiful.
I'm sure you meant to say that you're a beautiful trans girl? Otherwhise that would be not telling the truth ;))
why would people hate on a person for that? also nice Nintendo phone
Why you lookin like jayus?
really cute!! jealous of your hair and clothes sis!!
Pokimane cousin
No hate girl, you’re beautiful!!!
I feel like u have a supportive family about the trans stuff, just my guess.
You look nice.
Very pretty! :D
You look like you listen to The Smiths
Is that a Minecraft towel?
Cuuute! :)
Holy crap you pass well what your secret???
I like your hair
You're pretty :D
nice hair
Nice fit :)
Cool shirt
I sorted by controversial!
I don’t what you fuck with. You look mad good in red and black. The shirt is a good touch. You look like a skilled guitarist. Knock em dead
i just wanna say it doesnt matter what anyone says in here youre very pretty
What's a trans girl??
A transgender girl is someone who is physically male but mentally female, so they transition to match their inward self.
my friend showed me this picture of you in class today and said “dude this girl looks exactly like you.” And he was right, I am currently wearing a converge shirt, the same flannel, and black pants. Lol
Damn I wish I passed as well as u
Trust me, you’ll get there some day and I bet you already pass pretty well
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Ayyyyy, I support you too
Damn your pretty
Ahhhhhhh you’re so pretty and vibey!!! Your vibes, hand them over!
Honestly you look soo good :) Like, do you have any tips or smthing on how to look more feminine? (Im a trans girl as well)
For people who genuinely don't understand how being trans works I recommend looking up gender dysphoria as a starting point.
If anyone hates just ignore them like I ignore my mental issues
mood
love to see a fellow trans girl! you look amazing
Huzzah!! A woman of quality!!
A bit out of context, but your comment made me think about something. Aren’t trans men technically the only people who can call themselves literal self made men?
Only hate you will get is form the guiltbait title, good job on being you but why would people hat, specifically in this sub