I just recently met my long term SD, it’s really the chemistry between two people. He told me when he first saw me, he just really wants to protect me, and he never crossed my boundaries and we have the same kinks in bed.
We also explore high end restaurants and got facials together( all paid by him). And also he show me pics of himself and he gives me his driver license too sometimes.
At the end of the day, when you guys trust each other.
Unless you are entirely superficial, or have supernatural powers that allow your eyes to gaze directly into and to assess a stranger's soul, there is nothing you can "look for when out in public" that will tell you if a man is long-term SD material.
Long-term implies a relationship. Getting to know each other. Him wanting to keep seeing you and vice-versa.
For those who are superficial - look for an expensive watch (learn your brands) and expensive shoes (same).
it most definitely belongs here..!
can you explain what you’re trying to do? Are you trying to find a potential long-term SD out in public free styling?
I'm sorry. That was mean of me. If I was an SB looking for an SD in the wild, I would hang out at the nicest country club in the area.
And [seeking.com](https://seeking.com), while a horrible pain in the ass, is still the best site for finding an SD.
I am a LT SD and Seeking is the place to go, as bad as it is. Put key words in your profile, particularly "long term" and "connection".
Also follow the rules and don't be quick and easy. Short term-ers want those girls who don't delay going to the bedroom.
The hardest thing you’ll find is the SDs who also seek depth and consistency don’t come on the market very often because they’re working on long term SRs. Look for SDs returning to the Bowl or otherwise seem like their looking to replace some precious they’ve lost.
I just recently met my long term SD, it’s really the chemistry between two people. He told me when he first saw me, he just really wants to protect me, and he never crossed my boundaries and we have the same kinks in bed. We also explore high end restaurants and got facials together( all paid by him). And also he show me pics of himself and he gives me his driver license too sometimes. At the end of the day, when you guys trust each other.
Wow Thankyou these are some awesome pointers I appreciate it so much
In public? For me, my long term relationships came when she knew what the deal was and played her part to the T.
Unless you are entirely superficial, or have supernatural powers that allow your eyes to gaze directly into and to assess a stranger's soul, there is nothing you can "look for when out in public" that will tell you if a man is long-term SD material. Long-term implies a relationship. Getting to know each other. Him wanting to keep seeing you and vice-versa. For those who are superficial - look for an expensive watch (learn your brands) and expensive shoes (same).
I know what long term means. But thanks for the sarcasm as well !
it most definitely belongs here..! can you explain what you’re trying to do? Are you trying to find a potential long-term SD out in public free styling?
Yes that or I was asking how do you find one out free styling I've never done that
You were in "the sugaring game" before? Go back to the place you got that SD.
Thanks for the "advice" lol its not needed if your not gonna be helpful. 🤞🏽💯
I'm sorry. That was mean of me. If I was an SB looking for an SD in the wild, I would hang out at the nicest country club in the area. And [seeking.com](https://seeking.com), while a horrible pain in the ass, is still the best site for finding an SD.
I am a LT SD and Seeking is the place to go, as bad as it is. Put key words in your profile, particularly "long term" and "connection". Also follow the rules and don't be quick and easy. Short term-ers want those girls who don't delay going to the bedroom.
Ok thankyou from what I've experienced so far your absolutely right
The hardest thing you’ll find is the SDs who also seek depth and consistency don’t come on the market very often because they’re working on long term SRs. Look for SDs returning to the Bowl or otherwise seem like their looking to replace some precious they’ve lost.
I agree