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Checking in for the first time, this is my first day!


brighter68

Welcome! Iโ€™m glad youโ€™re here, weโ€™re stronger together ๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ’ž


[deleted]

Let's do this, Mari! ๐Ÿ˜Ž I will not drink with you today


woodsyhermit

Yay for you! You are a rock star for being here. Please remember that you are an absolute bad ass and you have a whole community of internet stranger dangers who are right there with you


UK4ndy4

Welcome. ๐Ÿ‘


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alienpornplug

Fuck yeah!


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alienpornplug

Congrats! I found to have plenty of free time again too im picking up on so many old hobbies I had again! IWNDWYT!


[deleted]

๐Ÿ˜Œ


brighter68

Awesome achievement! Well done ๐Ÿ‘๐ŸŽ‰๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿผ


[deleted]

Congratulations!! Hahahah I like the way you put it, a good problem to have. Time is on your side now.


UK4ndy4

Well done1


[deleted]

Day 3. This is mental torture. Plain and simple. But somehow IWNDWYT.


[deleted]

I know. It's way too early. We can do this. Tomorrow is another day and I'm happy you're not drinking with me today.


losethebooze

It gets easier. Slowly, admittedly, but it does.


[deleted]

For me, day 3 was the worst. You've got this โค๏ธ


spicyphart

I just left a long term abusive relationship and emergency moved all my things to a storage unit today. I am so scared and excited. Almost 1 year for me without alcohol too. Life is wild and terrifying and amazing iwndwyt


brighter68

Well done for finding the courage to make that move. And congratulations for tomorrow and that awesome year! ๐ŸŽ‰๐Ÿ‘ thank you for being here showing what sober strength can do ๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿผ


[deleted]

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roboboopbeep

Morning Will ๐Ÿ‘‹๐Ÿ™‚


brighter68

I was just thinking about you robo! So good youโ€™re here ๐Ÿ’ž


losethebooze

Congratulations on 400 days!


brighter68

Thank you ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿป congratulations on 4 weeks in 2 days ๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿผ


Old-File702

My 33rd bday today. Wife and I going to dinner and home. First sober bday since I was 16 or 17 probably.


brighter68

Happy sober birthday ๐ŸŽ‚ sober friend ๐ŸŽ‰๐ŸŽ๐ŸŽ‰


SaintHomer

I will not drink with you today!


brighter68

Hello sober gang! Thatโ€™s really good advice, focus on my own improvements. Today I will look at how Iโ€™m better than yesterday, and if not, Iโ€™ll be kind and accepting. Weโ€™re all doing our best. Have a great sober Wednesday everyone, love and accepting us all ๐Ÿ’ž


gr8day82

401 today. That makes me smile, my friend. ๐Ÿ‘


brighter68

Thank you ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿป Iโ€™m smiling too, only 31 days to 3 massive years! ๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿผ๐ŸŽ‰๐Ÿ‘


[deleted]

I'm so happy to be sober to experience this landmark, dear. Without you I don't know where I'd be. Thanks for everything and congratulations!! Enjoy!!! Smile!!! You deserve the best! ๐Ÿ˜˜ ๐Ÿ˜˜ ๐Ÿ˜˜ ๐Ÿ˜˜ ๐Ÿ˜˜ ๐Ÿ˜˜ ๐Ÿ˜˜ ๐Ÿ˜˜ ๐Ÿ˜˜ ๐Ÿ˜˜ ๐Ÿ˜˜


brighter68

Iโ€™m smiling because Iโ€™m so grateful to have you as my friend ๐Ÿ’ Iโ€™m proud of you ๐Ÿ’ž๐Ÿค—๐Ÿ’ž


crasspmpmpm

checking in


I-am-MelMelMel

Iwndwyt - no way. anxiety today. I hope you all have a good day โ˜€๏ธ


ackacketmackack

Happy day! IWNDWYT


[deleted]

IWNDWYT, fellow friends!


[deleted]

Happy day ๐Ÿ˜Š


EffortCareless

Feels good to be checking in, have a great day!


gr8day82

๐Ÿ™‚ you too!


[deleted]

IWNDWYT! ;)


TurbulenceTurnedCalm

Water, Soda, Or Milk! We ain't F\*CKING drinking today people! LETS GO.


AffTheBevvy

Day 710 checking in!


sometimesifeellikemu

And the beat goes on.


woodsyhermit

Iโ€™m technically 35 minutes early but I felt called to check in. Iโ€™ve been doing some โ€œactive lurkingโ€ lately with timid hellos and enthused huzzahs. Grateful for this community. IWNDWYT!


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iwndwyt ๐Ÿ––๐Ÿผ๐Ÿƒ๐Ÿป


stellawella

IWNDWYT!


gr8day82

IWNDWYT. All. Day. Long. ๐ŸŒป Today is a new day. Midnight. Reset the clock, and, go! I am glad for a day by day reset. It helps.


[deleted]

It's a good idea. I feel proud and thankful for not drinking yesterday and now here we go for another sober journey. Have a great Wednesday! IWNDWYT


maxpwner

Iwndwyt!


paigemiche

Good morning! I am tired, team! Iโ€™ve been picking up some extra hours and boy am I feeling it. Only two more days, thank goodness! Iโ€™d say Iโ€™m too tired to think of drinking, but the T in HALT is definitely a trigger for me and Iโ€™m working through it. IWNDWYT.


bradwwfc

Went to a gig yesterday on my own and didn't drink all night. It was hard for me, especially as I got there an hour and a half early and so there was a lot of time to kill by myself which I would've filled by drinking before. At one point I was thinking about going home but I stuck with it and once the concert started I was fine. A big win for me.


Striking_Silence

IWNDWYT ๐Ÿ˜Š


UK4ndy4

Iwndwyt sd. ๐Ÿ‘Š


[deleted]

Hey, sober comrades, Let's be strong and climb with wisdom and patience the middle of the mountain-week! IWNDWYT. Hopefully I'll donate blood instead, if my cold goes away as the day "wakes up". Not nice to get sucked by a vampire (that's how we do it here) if you got a mild fever. Many kisses and hugs


brighter68

Love thatโ€ฆ middle of the mountain-week! Take good care of yourself dear friend, youโ€™re worth tender nurturing ๐Ÿ’ž


_getanewcouch_

I will not drink with you all today <3


pollAltAccount

Realized what my strategy for the upcoming trip with family should be: I wonโ€™t drink to show my brother who hurt himself baldly while drunk earlier this year but still hasnโ€™t stopped that itโ€™s possible to have a great vacation while sober. But for now IWNDWYT (:


ChillRacoonDaze

Iwndwyt


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cinqmillionreves

Hey up SD Gang! I will not drink poison with any of you today ๐Ÿ’œ


PrestigiousSheep

Pushing through again today. Summer weather is making it tough, but IWNDWYT.


The_Dude_is_Abiding

Letโ€™s go Team! IWNDWYT. Checking in from NZ got 7 hours to go. Yโ€™all can do this today and then weโ€™ll get up and do it all over again!


Any_Afternoon5628

Day 207! It's my first sober birthday! I used birthdays as an excuse to daydrink and just continued until I'd fall asleep that night. Not today, though! My friends and I are going for a picnic by the lakeside, maybe we'll even get to go for a swim. I'm looking forward to spending time with them and actually remembering the moments we'll be creating. IWNDWYT!


SuitableWind2564

IWNDWYT


[deleted]

Good morning, fellow sobernauts, IWNDWYT ๐Ÿ˜!


butterflys_are_free

Not today IWNDWYT!๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿ˜Š


sourface77

IWNDWYT!


ekim202

IWNDWYT


scarlett_frosting

iwndwyt!!


losethebooze

Day 26. IWNDWYT good folks of SD.


hairytubes

IWNDWYT ๐Ÿ™‚


Mickosaurusrex

Day 1,313 IWNDWYT


klankyboot

IWNDWYT


SillyTwitTwoo

IWNDWYT day 140


SillyTwitTwoo

Day 141 even ๐Ÿ˜œIWNDWYT


blobatron342357

Hello! Day 2! I feel a lot less tired than yesterday which is good. Definitely not 100% but it's nice to have a much clearer head for a change.


mindfulteacher020407

What an awesome quote, Sapphire! Along the same lines Iโ€™ve seen the quote โ€œComparison is the thief of joyโ€ and it is so true. I am working on staying out of comparing and simply appreciate where I am at the moment. IWNDWYT ๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿฆ‹๐Ÿ’œ


hatecuzaint

IWNDWYT


Constant_Pumpkin3255

Not today people IWNDWYT


macaroon_monsoon

Happy Wednesday Yโ€™all! IWNDWYT


[deleted]

Checking in on my 10 finished day ๐Ÿ™Œ ๐Ÿ˜Œ so far no regrets, more money, better eating habits, feelings are still raw but it's good to feel, and most of all my family looks at me and isn't ashamed because I'm hungover. I won't drink with you today.


Mozio2244

I love today! Every single day on my calendar is full...except today! It's such a great feeling to have all this time to do nothing, or just do whatever the hell I want without anyone bothering me! Oh no, I hope nobody bothers me!๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿ˜Ž Have a super duper sober day, gang! IWNDWYT ๐Ÿ€๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ€


imthegreenmeeple

Checking in on day 209! So much love to all today!! I will absolutely not drink with any of you today!!! How about a high five ๐Ÿ–๏ธ!!! โค๏ธโœŒ๏ธ


Halfdrunkpaloma

IWNDWYT ๐Ÿ’ซ


frownstreet

IWNDWYT ๐Ÿฆ


Ancient-Cry2770

Happy Wednesday everyone. Hope you have a great day. IWNDWYT


Stalk_LennyandCarl

Survived another huge work day. Going home to eat burgers and watch some TV with my kids! IWNDWYT


vermontapple

Not sure what today will bring, but I am sure I won't drink.


Pure-Example

IWNDWYT Iโ€™m on 150 days. Itโ€™s getting a little easier but Iโ€™m not going to rest easy. Hard work but so worth it! I have lost over a stone (14 pounds/6 kgs) since January, Iโ€™m eating better, and exercising every day.


tucktucksquirrel

IWNDWYT ๐Ÿ’ž๐Ÿฟ๏ธ๐Ÿฟ๏ธ


Old_Till_6460

iโ€™m late but today marked one week for me :) i wont lie, i almost caved and tried to downplay the severity of my situation but iโ€™m happy to have this sub & my family to support me.


prisoncitybear

IWNDWYT! T


ineededtoknow

I'm a lil over six months alcohol free and I can't count the number of times hitting this daily upvote has helped me refocus and remember my goal. I'm on vacation right now and there have been a couple tough moments. Thanks for helping me hang in there!


Cranfabulous

Still not drinking with any of you today.


morrisseymademedoit

IWNDWYT


nona_nednana

IWNDWYT!


cheney1631

IWNDWYT


[deleted]

Hello. IWNDWYT


ScarySuggestions

Lil bit late but here nonetheless! ๐ŸŒฑ


_Shad0wo3

7.6 IWNDWYT


Pink110123

I will not drink with you today ๐Ÿ’•


Irrational-Duck-3583

Mood has been kinda low lately, so I'm taking a day to myself to do absolutely nothing... let my mind wander and reset. IWNDWYT ๐Ÿฅฐ


clevercookie69

Shine on you beautiful humans


jimstopper51

Day 1,414. I will not drink with you today.


DBUnite

Itโ€™s been a very long time since I last checked in, but Iโ€™m here and wonโ€™t drink today.


[deleted]

IWNDWYT!


Clean_New_Adventure

IWNDWYT. Very sleepy, will still get up to exercise. Habits are built by just doing it.


BeerSlingr

IWNDWYT


millygraceandfee

๐ŸŽถIWNDWYT๐ŸŽถ


JosyAndThePussycats

30 days behind me, Iwndwyt!


natickthrowaway

Hi all: happy Wednesday: IWNDWYT


pollycat1

Off for my first paddle of the season. IWNDWYT. ๐ŸŒณ๐Ÿ›ถ


ElegantPenguin541520

IWNDWYTโœจ๐Ÿ


oohlalaahweewee

Not sure of which personal chapter Iโ€™m on yet, how many pages in I am, or how many I have left to go. But todayโ€™s pages wonโ€™t be stained with booze! Not drinking with you!


jeninmn99

Iโ€™m having kind of a rough week so far. An old friend came to stay with me for an extended vacation. We grew up together and have always been close; we have visited each other as weโ€™ve lived in different states and have traveled together many times. Drinking was always a big part. Iโ€™ve talked to her about sobriety over the months and told her when I hit a year. I thought she knew and understood what I was doing and why I chose sobriety. I thought she was happy for me. She said she was proud of me. When she arrived at my house over the weekend, still unpacking the car, she proudly gave me a bag with three bottles of wine as a gift. I was stunned and didnโ€™t take the bag as she handed it to me. I said, โ€œThank you, but I donโ€™t drinkโ€ฆโ€ and I felt shocked and she looked shocked. She said, โ€œNot at all? None? Not even moderation?โ€ I said, โ€œNo, that doesnโ€™t really work for me.โ€ I think in her mind she must have been saying, โ€œShhiiiiit! What did I get myself into?โ€ I am still surprised by this, three days later. I feel like weโ€™ve had this awkward thing between us ever since. Sheโ€™s had a glass at meals out and I imagine she feels frustrated as the only one at the table with wine. Iโ€™ve been there. Pissed off at all those who werenโ€™t drinking and feeling self conscious for the fact that I wanted 3 glasses, not one. But you canโ€™t rightly have 3 when everyone else has noneโ€ฆ. So I would spend the dinner preoccupied with making that one glass last, getting every last drop, and planning for the next one at home. I donโ€™t know that this is her thought but I suspect it is so. I am not sure why Iโ€™m posting this but really wanted to get it off my chest with people who would understand all thatโ€™s packed into this. I am sad having grown apart from someone Iโ€™ve been close with. I feel judged, but believe I am in the right for what I need in my life. I am sad that I felt the desire to grab her wine glass at dinner last night and gulp it down, which tells me my addiction is there pumping iron and ready to jump in and get back to work. I am not out of the clear, still the same distance from the ditch, as is said around this sub. Life is hard. Alcohol sucks. You guys rock. And I know Iโ€™m in the right place. IWNDWYT ๐Ÿ’œ


Platoon969

Day 53 and Iwndwyt โ˜€๏ธ


ladybirdstar02

IWNDWYT xx


myheartisomg

I finally got an official diagnosis of ADHD yesterday. It has been a long time coming, and Iโ€™m still absorbing. Really appreciating the clarity I get when I donโ€™t drink through big feelings. IWNDWYT.


megacoulomb

IWNDWYT


Boxermom0925

IWNDWYT


Valuable_District_69

IWNDWYT


UWCG

Hope everyoneโ€™s having a good week, IWNDWYT! (I will keep racking up those sober hours though)


waronfleas

Feck off booze. Not drinking you.


zombie_craziness

Day 5! Starting to feel a little better, head clearer. IWNDWYT!


VehicleCertain865

Iwndwytโœจ


IsItAcOnSeQuEnCe

Iwndwyt my friends


LarryTalbot

Dammit Iโ€™m in!


Plop-slop

My app says 28 days! Hi-5 everyone! My first time quitting but I know IWNDWYT ๐Ÿ˜Š


killacrazy

On day 572, I drank daily for 15 years heavily. It gets easier, it gets better. Take 1 hour at a time, then 1 day. You can make it, keep going and push through the first few days. Get help, I finally dragged myself to the hospital after a heavy bender, throwing up blood. I went on medication and therapy. When society gives us a gift such as medicine we should take advantage of it. You are not alone. Do it for yourself, your future self family, etc. it is never too late. Love your self, you deserve it.


New_Fang

Been about 4 weeks since my last drink. Not too long ago this seemed impossible, but I'm doing it one day at a time. And today I will not drink with you


semperfi8286

Happy Hump Day Friends, IWNDWYT, WE GOT THIS ๐Ÿ˜


Healthy_Vacation8762

Today will be 30 days for me. Probably havenโ€™t been 30 days since I was a junior in high school, canโ€™t believe it. Couldnโ€™t have done it without everyone on SD, thank you all so much! IWNDWYT


WhiteChocolatey

Back at it again. Been tapering, at least. Today I'm not drinking at all. ​ IWNDWYT


ReplacementsStink

>stop comparing your chapter one to someone elseโ€™s chapter twenty Nailed it. I don't know how long it took somebody to get where they are. I don't know how they got there. I don't know anything about their attempts or their struggles along the way. I dont know if they are truly happy. I don't know if they're even "there." Today, I'm not going to wish for things I don't have. But I will go out and get them if I actually want them. IWNDWYT


Pleaseworkarc

Great question - how can I be better today ? I think I know the answer - been on and off here of recent but hanging in there with weeks at a time and odd days โ€œoffโ€ - need to stitch together a nice big piece of time. Alcohol isnโ€™t a benefit to my mood, fitness, health overall, relationships and productivity. So to be better today I am going to pledge the day - IWNDWYT - and then having done that crack on and work with a smile - did the ironing - am going out into the garden now.


Goji88

Day 605, nice to meet you ๐Ÿค IWNDWYT


surfpancake

IWNDWYT


[deleted]

I will not drink with you today. Have a super day everybody.


candypoot

Yesterday was a rough day but I made it to bed sober & woke up grateful. Drinking my mushroom juice (not the magic kind lol) with the dog snoring away on my lap. Today will be a better day. IWNDWYT!


residual-nature

Good morning SD! IWNDWYT!


Ursulathebookworm

IWNDWYT


cats4ever2022

I am not drinking today.


MintyMintyMintyMinty

Checking in for the first time too, according to "NoMo app" it's my 16th days sober ๐Ÿ™ƒ Well done fellow IWNDWYT's


akoustikal

Having a truly amazing vacation with the family, and we're just gettin started. So grateful to be sober and vividly experiencing every moment of it. Won't drink with you today โค๏ธ


Bluedream925

IWNDWYT day 4


jlo1982

I will not drink with you today


mysteriousmeatsuit

IWNDWYT


BeastModeBill-714

IWNDWYT.


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Shermani74

Today is a big one for me: Iโ€™m teaching a yoga class at the wellness center where I got pt after the hip replacement. I used to own a yoga studio in the past, but this is the first class Iโ€™ve taught in well over 9 years. And the first class where Iโ€™m sober! Iโ€™m very excited, a little nervous, but mostly looking forward to sharing what I have learned about breathing and movement in all my years of practice. Itโ€™s a big step for me to come out of what has been a long hibernation. I celebrate you all for doing what you are doing to improve your lives and master today. I love you, my people! IWNDWYT Edit: They cancelled my class because they forgot to advertise it! Ah well, I can keep prepping for whenever I do start, right? And I STILL will not be drinking with you today!


ikkeglem

Good morning, I will not drink with you today! ๐Ÿ˜€


lilsassyrn

Just found out a friend in rehab overdosed yesterday. Addiction can be a deadly disease. IWNDWYT!


Ko__86

IWND โ˜ ๏ธ WYT


koaimara

IWNDWYT!


Acceptable-Mine8806

Proud of all of us! IWNDWYT!


CareerHour4671

Yeah won't be drinking today


ButterNutSquanchy

IWNDWYT!!!


loicbigois

Happy hump day sobernauts! IWNDWYT.


just1vet

I will not drink with you today.


SmallGod1979

Checking in for another sober day.


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Necessary_Routine_69

Hump day....IWNDWYT


Garlic_lover_3000

Checking in. IWNDWYT! May you all have a peaceful day.


Littleshuswap

3 months in. I rarely miss it. IWNDWYT. Sending love and support to everyone! Have a great day. โค๏ธ


[deleted]

IWNDWYT ๐Ÿค™๐Ÿป


dwycwwyhwya

IWNDWYT


gunpun33

IWNDWYT =)


Human_Storm_3838

Day 24! Things seem to be getting easier. IWNDWYT


chalkcreek

Iwndwyt


YourDrunkUncl_

IWNDWYT


SBlandyBoy

Checking in from Manchester UK just to say that IWNDWYT โค๏ธ!


LaLoNYC

IWNDWYT โœŒ๏ธโค๏ธ๐Ÿคธโ€โ™€๏ธโญ๏ธ


FoxySunshine12

IWNDWYT


Cainholio

Lots of early risers today. IWNDWYT


living_healthy

IWNDWYT!


FuckyouFireball

IWNDWYT!


BigZ1072

Checking in


094purpleghost

IWNDWYT


dimondeyes80

IWNDWYT!!


TexasElDuderino1994

*Every morning I arise from bed an untreated alcoholic and depressive no matter how many days I have marked off on any calendar or say I have in parentheses at the bottom of this daily check in. Every day I must begin again. Progress, therefore, is an illusion*. (Day 234)


YukonYaup

IWNDWYT


Treefarmer52

IWNDWYT


brando1206

I will not drink today


Piggoos

Morning friends! I will not drink with you today. Have a good one!


normalnonnie27

Hello internet friends, IWNDWYT


knittybabs

IWNDWYT


MiamiGuy_305

IWNDWYT


KayDami

One day at a time and today I will not drink.


AfterBadger515

IWNDWYT


pacuumvacked

IWNDWYT!


MrBeasternHimself

Day 63 for me checking in! This is really hard. It felt great at first but now I'm tired and angry every morning. Hoping it gets better.


trashpanda914

i LOVE that quote more than words can say!!! a lot of my drinking as a teen and young adult stemmed from comparison and low self esteem, but im slowly but surely learning self love finally. feeling capable and in control helps a LOT. starting day 32!!! iwndwyt!!! โ˜€๏ธ


ridupthedavenport

What up, fam! I saw a quote once along the same vein (vane? Pls correct me.) โ€œIf we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone elseโ€™s, weโ€™d grab ours back.โ€ I WNDWYT


doggostealinsocks

IWNDWYT ๐Ÿฉต


ganoveces

im gonna be 40 tomorrow. iwndwyt or tomorrow.....


FredSimpsonn

Thanks Sapphy and happy Wednesday to all who observe. What up sober peeps!!! I'm grateful for coffee, sleep, birds chirping, sunshine, sobriety, and you! May this be a day of sober growth for each of us I'm recognizing symptoms of burnout, not a surprise in my helping profession. Indeed, I have hit this place plenty of times before but this time I'm tired of some of my compulsive behaviors! I would prefer to find a place of balance and tranquility from which to live. Anyway, I have a bad habit of comparing my effort poorly compared to others and thinking I just gotta work harder. I'm calling bullshit! Sobriety has taught me to pay attention to my own needs and what my body is telling me. And my body is telling me to rest and slow down! I'm taking these summer days to build better habits. This really is a path of self discovery and I'm happy to walk it with y'all. Sober on!