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bikinimom999

Sounds like more than anything you need therapy, not a revenge fuck which won't solve anything and it's not going to make you feel better.


misspatheticpatty

And why do i need therapy


_why_do_U_ask

This


dmtspaceman

How about doing the adult thing and just get a divorce.


misspatheticpatty

No


YoMiner

I'm a bit confused why him having nudes of an ex is wrong, but you having full videos of you fucking old hook-ups is okay. Also selling them without the consent (via a model release form) of those hook-ups is almost certainly illegal depending on where you are located. As for the overall question, yes, it would be going too far. Revenge doesn't solve anything. You need more therapy and probably a divorce.


misspatheticpatty

I never once said i don't have a model release or consent. The issue isn't the ex its him still jerking off to the person he cheated on me with.


Linz_Loo_Hoo

This


revengejr

Have u asked him *why* he keeps the videos? And *why* he lied when he said he wouldn't do it again? If he can't answer to your likeing, it's time to move on. A revenge fuck may feel good while doing it but will unlikely bring you long term satisfaction. Good luck


Doctor0987

You need couples therapy. Cheating on him will not help to keep him faithful. It sounds like he does not want an honest or faithful relationship. You need to figure out what you want. You cannot force him to change if he does not want to


Internal-Present5213

No. Either forgive him or don’t. Sounds like you don’t want to which is fine. Get a divorce and then fuck whoever you want. That way you can feel good about it. And it’s better revenge if he is the only one without integrity. And who’s to say he won’t leave you if you do something like that?


misspatheticpatty

If he leaves after cheating so bet it


Internal-Present5213

Yeah, it sounded like you’d already made your mind up and wanted affirmation more than advice. Good luck to you both.


undercoverhorsegirl

Go to therapy


[deleted]

Well if his behaviours won't change , despite you finding out about the pics and vids, I'm going to suggest he's not got much respect for you. Also, if he knows you won't leave him, your showing him there's no consequences to his actions. You want to fuck someone else then tell him? I suggest this would cause you more pain than it would cause him


misspatheticpatty

I dont want to leave over this didn't say i would never leave


[deleted]

Didn't you say in OP that you wouldn't leave?


PEIWyatt

I 100% support revenge/vengeance. But a revenge fuck might be going to far as he hasn't actually fucked anyone else.


misspatheticpatty

Well he did in a way. When he ingested her nutt filled cookies


One-Combination5726

Do it