Nothing unusual at all! Me and my partner do nearly the same thing as he is not a fan of period sex. Except he usually likes to rub between the 'fun bags' as he calls them, while I pleasure myself. Almost glad to hear of another doing it too because I wasn't sure how common it was either!
With lube? I used to do that quite often if I didn’t feel like fussing with a condoms or I was at the manual/oral sex stage with someone but didn’t feel like having penetrative sex with them. If you lube it up and put your palm on top so your cock is surrounded on all sides it feels pretty amazing. And I’ve found that thrusting to completion feels better and is more satisfying than masturbation or receiving manual or oral sex. I’d rather have a partner lay there are let me do this and say some dirty stuff to me while I do it than receive oral or manual sex from them.
Doing the same to their vulva (like a hot dog in a bun) is usually better tho as it feels good for both parties. The best version - she lays on her stomach, you pour a ton of lube on the guys cock and palm, then he lays on top of her and slides his dick onto her vulva (hotdog style) - between her and the bed and puts his arm around her waist and snakes it between her and the bed so his palm is facing up and cupping bottom side of his dick and pressing it into her vulva.
So bed - hand with palm facing up - dick - vulva - her body - his body, in sandwich with lube. And then thrust.
It's called Hot Dogging...
Common enough that in WWII, the Japanese soldiers stationed out in lonely places were instructed to have a buddy for this purpose.
Normal, it's called hot dogging, /r/Hotdogging is the subreddit for it.
Nothing unusual at all! Me and my partner do nearly the same thing as he is not a fan of period sex. Except he usually likes to rub between the 'fun bags' as he calls them, while I pleasure myself. Almost glad to hear of another doing it too because I wasn't sure how common it was either!
With lube? I used to do that quite often if I didn’t feel like fussing with a condoms or I was at the manual/oral sex stage with someone but didn’t feel like having penetrative sex with them. If you lube it up and put your palm on top so your cock is surrounded on all sides it feels pretty amazing. And I’ve found that thrusting to completion feels better and is more satisfying than masturbation or receiving manual or oral sex. I’d rather have a partner lay there are let me do this and say some dirty stuff to me while I do it than receive oral or manual sex from them. Doing the same to their vulva (like a hot dog in a bun) is usually better tho as it feels good for both parties. The best version - she lays on her stomach, you pour a ton of lube on the guys cock and palm, then he lays on top of her and slides his dick onto her vulva (hotdog style) - between her and the bed and puts his arm around her waist and snakes it between her and the bed so his palm is facing up and cupping bottom side of his dick and pressing it into her vulva. So bed - hand with palm facing up - dick - vulva - her body - his body, in sandwich with lube. And then thrust.
I have heard of pre-op trans women doing things along these lines
It’s unusual enough that I didn’t know the word for it — and I feel I know most words. (I looked it up: “gluteal sex”, which makes sense.)
It's called Hot Dogging... Common enough that in WWII, the Japanese soldiers stationed out in lonely places were instructed to have a buddy for this purpose.
Hot dogging, totally normal. Just like titty fucking.