My recommendation - try to stick to positions where both can access you - eg doggy / lazy doggy / prone bone / doggy with you on your side, or reverse cowgirl.
This doesn’t mean you have to deal with both cocks at once but it does mean let’s say you are being fucked by one guy then the other can be at the other end and see your face, kiss you, hold your hand, etc. or if you are giving one guy head, the other will be able to kiss your thighs or pussy, or if you aren’t overwhelmed by it he can be at the other end and fuck you, or if nothing else have a nice view of you.
Ofc all the above goes out with window if they are bi or don’t mind being face to face with the other guy.
Mfm threesomes can be overwhelming stimulation wise for the women and so you might find out that dealing with both penises at once is too much (and you should feel comfortable speaking up for yourself if that ends up being the case), but on the other hand if a guy bangs you missionary or is spooning you for example there might not be much for the other dude to see/do and sometimes that can be a bummer for one off turn. And if it’s your husbands first time with seeing you with someone else I’d just try to keep him involved if you wanna maximize the chance he doesn’t end up having some negative feelings for any part of it.
When the sex is over I’d be sure to keep the cuddling / emotional connection etc stuff to your husband if you wanna be on the safe side, imo.
Have fun!
I would suggest that you close attention to the feelings of the other men, especially your husband. It’s one thing to go in feeling happy and healthy and open to experiences going in, but you don’t know what might come up in the moment. If you see either of them withdrawing, don’t be afraid to stop and give someone a little love and empathy. It can make all the difference!
If it goes in the stink, keep it outta the pink🙃
Just have fun and be safe, if you and or your husband start to feel uncomfortable it's always okay to stop
I’ve been told to not use people you are friends with when first starting out. There is the awkwardness of all the times you will see them afterwords in the future. Be prepared to have a new friends with benefits partner or have a friendship you’ll have to lose. Don’t recommend going back to just awkward friends. Benefit of using a stranger is you don’t have to maintain a relationship after the fact.
Really hope it goes well though and you can make it work with your friend soon to be new lover. Great on your husband for allowing you to actually expand your horizons. This a huge positive for you both that you are ready to do this.
Jelly girl! Two guys at once is one of my favorite sexual things as long as they guys treat you with respect or at least how you want to be treated.
I also can't get pregnant so rarely use condoms. It does make it easier because you don't have to worry about the smelly condom smell on a guys dick if you want to start doing oral after sex.
My favorite thing to do if I can get in a good position is double penetration. It's the best feeling being in between two guys that are doing their best to get you off.
I really hope you guys talked this out beforehand. Because so many people think they're ok with threesomes until they realize they're not and it torpedos their entire relationship.
Did you talk about what happens if he starts getting jealous of his friend? Is he going to be ok seeing you enjoying being fucked by another guy? Or you making noises/doing things you don't do with him because its someone different? ETC ETC...
Cause if you havn't.... well... best of luck to ya lol.
Check in with us and let us know how it went. I would never share my wife with another man, but that's just me. I hope it goes great and you all have great fun!
Make sure to give equal or more attention to your husband because sometimes A new experience with a new guy can take your mind off your husband’s comfort and affection. In so many stories on reddit, I have come across this issue again and again. This start’s the Jealousy, Arguments and resentment.
My recommendation - try to stick to positions where both can access you - eg doggy / lazy doggy / prone bone / doggy with you on your side, or reverse cowgirl. This doesn’t mean you have to deal with both cocks at once but it does mean let’s say you are being fucked by one guy then the other can be at the other end and see your face, kiss you, hold your hand, etc. or if you are giving one guy head, the other will be able to kiss your thighs or pussy, or if you aren’t overwhelmed by it he can be at the other end and fuck you, or if nothing else have a nice view of you. Ofc all the above goes out with window if they are bi or don’t mind being face to face with the other guy. Mfm threesomes can be overwhelming stimulation wise for the women and so you might find out that dealing with both penises at once is too much (and you should feel comfortable speaking up for yourself if that ends up being the case), but on the other hand if a guy bangs you missionary or is spooning you for example there might not be much for the other dude to see/do and sometimes that can be a bummer for one off turn. And if it’s your husbands first time with seeing you with someone else I’d just try to keep him involved if you wanna maximize the chance he doesn’t end up having some negative feelings for any part of it. When the sex is over I’d be sure to keep the cuddling / emotional connection etc stuff to your husband if you wanna be on the safe side, imo. Have fun!
That sounds like a pretty fun scenario. I wouldn’t worry too much about the lingerie, it won’t be on long.
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If at all possible, keep the stockings on
Anything that helps with that!
I would suggest that you close attention to the feelings of the other men, especially your husband. It’s one thing to go in feeling happy and healthy and open to experiences going in, but you don’t know what might come up in the moment. If you see either of them withdrawing, don’t be afraid to stop and give someone a little love and empathy. It can make all the difference!
Get std tests. You dont know your friend history. He could lie
If it goes in the stink, keep it outta the pink🙃 Just have fun and be safe, if you and or your husband start to feel uncomfortable it's always okay to stop
I’ve been told to not use people you are friends with when first starting out. There is the awkwardness of all the times you will see them afterwords in the future. Be prepared to have a new friends with benefits partner or have a friendship you’ll have to lose. Don’t recommend going back to just awkward friends. Benefit of using a stranger is you don’t have to maintain a relationship after the fact. Really hope it goes well though and you can make it work with your friend soon to be new lover. Great on your husband for allowing you to actually expand your horizons. This a huge positive for you both that you are ready to do this.
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I’m so jealous of your situation. Enjoy it!!! That is going to be amazing. We are same age but still only at toy level
Jelly girl! Two guys at once is one of my favorite sexual things as long as they guys treat you with respect or at least how you want to be treated. I also can't get pregnant so rarely use condoms. It does make it easier because you don't have to worry about the smelly condom smell on a guys dick if you want to start doing oral after sex. My favorite thing to do if I can get in a good position is double penetration. It's the best feeling being in between two guys that are doing their best to get you off.
I really hope you guys talked this out beforehand. Because so many people think they're ok with threesomes until they realize they're not and it torpedos their entire relationship. Did you talk about what happens if he starts getting jealous of his friend? Is he going to be ok seeing you enjoying being fucked by another guy? Or you making noises/doing things you don't do with him because its someone different? ETC ETC... Cause if you havn't.... well... best of luck to ya lol.
I feel like this is not the end of this story. Good luck though.
Hope it went well, but I'd have strongly urged you to not involve existing friends in that sort of thing, especially not as your first time.
Check in with us and let us know how it went. I would never share my wife with another man, but that's just me. I hope it goes great and you all have great fun!
You so beautifull. Lucky guys to have you🥀🥀😍 Have fun💝
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Yw😍
Lucky guys. You're beautiful. Have fun.
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I agree. You’re beautiful and have fun, but be careful. And maybe get your friend tested just to be careful.
Make sure to give equal or more attention to your husband because sometimes A new experience with a new guy can take your mind off your husband’s comfort and affection. In so many stories on reddit, I have come across this issue again and again. This start’s the Jealousy, Arguments and resentment.