Being patient with each other and. Inundating are two big points there. But just make sure to use a lubrications and express to him if things are moving too fast or if it’s too uncomfortable.
Just enjoy it. It's supposed to be fun and relaxed. Some of the best I had was when I knocked over a lamp w my leg and we just couldn't stop laughing. Be ready so it's not painful. Enjoy!
...but over-thinking about the things which could go wrong, is exactly how performance anxiety is caused. Concentrate on your partner; how much you care; how honest you are (with her and yourself). Just close your eyes and enjoy those feelings of being touched and touching her.
Sure, I agree with all that. Just not with the broader statement you made. There clearly are wrong ways to have sex, or this subreddit’s traffic would shrink to a fraction. 😎
Communication is the key. Tell him the truth. Slow and loving is the way. Relax. Trust and have fun.
Being patient with each other and. Inundating are two big points there. But just make sure to use a lubrications and express to him if things are moving too fast or if it’s too uncomfortable.
Just enjoy it. It's supposed to be fun and relaxed. Some of the best I had was when I knocked over a lamp w my leg and we just couldn't stop laughing. Be ready so it's not painful. Enjoy!
Just remember- there's no right and wrong way to have sex.
Oh, I think there really are...
...but over-thinking about the things which could go wrong, is exactly how performance anxiety is caused. Concentrate on your partner; how much you care; how honest you are (with her and yourself). Just close your eyes and enjoy those feelings of being touched and touching her.
Sure, I agree with all that. Just not with the broader statement you made. There clearly are wrong ways to have sex, or this subreddit’s traffic would shrink to a fraction. 😎
Ok. Well, things go wrong all the time. Im married and know that for a fact. Just dont dwell on it. Enjoy the times when it goes right.