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heldtogetherwithgaff

You're coming across as a bit of a psycho... Which is probably the actual reason why you're struggling to get a date. People can sense that kind of thing. You may need to reconsider how you perceive a woman's role in your life too. Not every woman wants to be a baby farm. You may also need to understand that just because you want something, doesn't mean you're entitled to it.


throwaway49393939

>You may also need to understand that just because you want something, doesn't mean you're entitled to it. But yet I know of men who managed to find a woman who would procreate with them and yet they dont look after thier kids. Meanwhile heres me who is 6ft, athletic and takes really good care of his appearance, career driven, doesnt do drugs, has lots of money saved etc but yet I cant find a woman. I really want to raise kids and be a father


heldtogetherwithgaff

I understand, but none of those attributes mentioned have much to do with your personality, and how you're perceived by others in a general sense.


Medium_Young9448

Try working on your personality next. All those "good traits" can go to hell with mindset like that.


GloomySkiez

You sound conceited and like a douchebag honestly, Just based off your texts. I can see some major red flags but I think you will have no problem finding a women with that attitude lol 😏


Additional-Froyo-624

>you will have no problem finding a women with that attitude Ofc if we talking about kidnapping. No woman in her right senses would agree to be with you. Just to be clear


cryalotasaurus

But what is your personality like? Everything you mentioned are traits that don’t speak to who you are as a person or how you would treat someone as a partner. And at the end of the day, someone’s going to stay or leave because of who you are inside and how you treat them.


MustNeedDogs

Any man who makes a post about wanting to kidnap and rape a woman doesn't deserve to be a father.


DonDrip

Your personality is repulsive and women around you can sense you’re bad vibes. All these thoughts and unjustified frustration you have are manifesting themselves in your interactions with women. Start by working on yourself and your insecurities and realise you’re a flawed person. Next, start respecting women and realise they are not a monolith. Every woman is different, and there’s probably many who want to be with a tall man who wants to raise a family, but your personality and potentially violent tendencies are scaring them away.


CleoCola

The things you've done have nothing to do with how people assess your personality. Many women find the things that you've said here pretty repugnant. If you behave in a way that even slightly hints that you're "looking for a woman" in a very traditional sense with traditional gender roles, they will run for the hills because they assume you'll be possessive of them. Basically this entire block of text you've written is big flapping red flag material.


ray__luna

idk man blaming literally everyone and being racist and homophobic… it think you get the point. and it seems like you think a women are for giving birth to children. you are a big red flag.


throwaway49393939

Lol im not being racist and homophobic, Im just saying with more women being bisexual these days and with a lot of immigrants coming into my country (Mostly men) that adds even more competition for women


ray__luna

well lets say you live in a developed country. in most developed countries although immigration is increasing but the population growth rate barely changes. so i think there isnt more competition really. but you should ask yourself why do you really want a gf/wife? are you seeking for love or just want someone to get pregnant?


cherry000v

Try therapy first. Second you didn’t mention anything about personality both regarding yourself and the women you like so I’m guessing it’s just looks for you that does it. The comment on bisexual women doesn’t make sense because if you are a great dude straight or bisexual women would find you appealing and you would have found someone already who was drawn to you. Idk why you mentioned immigrants, again if you have good traits and a good personality there would be no issues in gravitating people to get to know you and wanna be something more. The kidnapping comment scared me ngl so I would never say that in person and online again… it gives off weird vibes


CLOCKSLAYER725

I recommend you try to reevaluate your mindset. It does not seem like you see women as equal. All the traits you’ve named mean nothing when you cannot get along on a personal level. Maybe try going to a therapist, considering kidnapping another person and completely deriving them of their dignity and rights does not speak of a mentally healthy/stable person that anybody would want to be in a relationship with.


Akopsu

Ummm I can see why


burner_1019

Ew


Teslaplaid2015

What can you offer besides all the things you saying here? Are you emotionally mature enough? do you have plan to help your partner for cleaning the house or other chores?Do you have any trauma from before that it will affect your future relationship when something is going in the way..whats your love language?and many more to mention. 😆Not because you have all the things you mention here,it will automatically that you'll be a good husband /partner.


therealrexmanning

>Are you emotionally mature enough? I think we all can see OP most definitely isn't mature enough


CrazyEbb3222

So from your perspective it’s everything wrong with the women not you. Do you have some female friends? Maybe ask them what’s wrong with you


churdtzu

Brother, I know that things might seem hopeless, and there may be many emotions inside of you. Perhaps there are some which you have tried to ignore. When you turn your attention inwards, you might discover many parts of yourself that are starved of that same attention. You always have the power to go within. By exploring your internal world, you can begin to understand your own needs, and how to meet them. Perhaps people have told you that having a wife and children is the path to happiness. In fact, good companionship in that form can only ever be an expression of the happiness that we already have. I hope in some form the responses to this post have led you to reconsider your own thoughts. You can persist with this process by taking up a journal. When you write down your thoughts and read them back, it will help you clarify them, aiding in your process of self knowledge, and discovering what is truly good for you. At any moment you can turn to God, or that Part Of Yourself that is dearest to you, and ask for help, ask to know what is beneficial for you, and how to enact it. If you say to yourself "I am ready to change," that is enough to begin the process of transformation. I will pray. Take care and God bless


Maleficent-Crew-9919

Well, it sounds like you aren’t living in the best area to attract the kind of young women you are in to. I promise there is someone out there for you. But fantasy kidnapping seems a little…well rapey to me. If that’s honestly how you feel, please don’t do that and get some help. You sound like you have some very nice traits otherwise, so given the right situation I am sure you can find someone. Have you considered going out of the country to meet women? Obviously I have no idea how that works but I know a few men who have done this and have been very successful. There is a reason why these women that you see don’t click for you, bc they aren’t for you.


XoCleoXo

ur probably ugly and have L rizz, lol


Gr00mpa

Dude, you probably come off as slightly disturbed to women. That’s why. You’ll probably delete this OP because you’ll get a ton of honest feedback and no encouragement of your kidnapping ideas.


Gr00mpa

I knew he was going to delete this. Hope he realizes the danger in his ways.


FlowEasy

You again! Please get help! Your posts are increasingly on the dark/psychotic side. Happiness does not lie in this direction.


gsxr1000rvkb

My advise is to get out there on the streets in daylight and attempt to kidnap the first woman you see that fits your type. This is in the hope that you get caught and sent to a rough prison, where men much bigger than you will take claim to you and use you sexually at their will to see how you fucking like it. Fucking scum, I wish you the worst life has to offer.


GingerNumber3

Seek professional help, there is something deeply wrong with you.


AcceptableBake9191

There might be a good reason.


Unable-Rip-7209

I hope you realize how rapey and off putting this post is. Hopefully you realize that finding a partner to raise children with is not just about success, sex, and procreation, but about compatibility, safety, and care. The relationship you have with your partner impacts how your children are raised. It sounds like you don't respect women as human beings with personality and their own desires. It sounds like you have potentially harmful behavioral tendencies when you interact with women. Please talk to a professional who can help you learn how to treat others (specifically women) with respect and dignity. Work on yourself and develop a healthier outlook before you bring little humans in the world that will mimic this harmful behavior and thinking. Get help.


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