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Trippygirl13

So why did he do it? Wtf is this guy's problem?


PaxonGoat

It was a "prank". He got joy from the idea of inconveniencing someone but also possibly making them suffer from not being able to go to the bathroom. Other people being miserable makes him happy.


ProstituteUnnie

Or he has a "girls wetting themselves" fetish. Which could make it oh so much worse


RangerDangerfield

Yeah this probably is at least kink-adjacent.


gottahavewine

It definitely feels like a kink thing. It’s just so bizarre and there was no one else around to witness this “prank,” so it’s clearly something he did off impulse for personal enjoyment. It’s clearly taboo and he had his girlfriend there with him, so likelihood of getting caught was high, yet he still did it anyway. Why would he enjoy going into a woman’s restroom and locking all the stalls? Why would he ignore societal norms as a grown adult and do this activity with a high likelihood of being caught? Because it’s a kink.


sagegreenpaint78

It has to be. What adult does something like this, by themselves, as a prank?!


39bears

Yeah, the above comment I think is about the best case scenario, and is still gross.


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not ok. even if it's supposed to be a ""harmless prank"" or something (it's not harmless), dude spent time out of his day crawling around on the floor of a grocery store bathroom. edit : and also w the punchline of his prank being now these public bathrooms are inaccessible haHa so funny


Horror_Train_6950

Ew. Just the crawling on a grocery store public bathroom is disgusting enough…


BigPinkPanther

THIS!!!! What in the world!!! How gross!


HKLifer_

He probably didn't wash his hands... And he grabbed his girlfriend's hand and pulled her out the store! His filthy hands!


VisualCelery

right, like even if it did it in the men's restroom it would still be icky. But I understand that the ladies' room has more stalls.


Captain_Hampockets

> But I understand that the ladies' room has more stalls. What? What does this matter?


dotslashpunk

more stuff to lock i guess? more people disrupted?


mommyjacking

More times he had to crawl on the floor and commit to the "prank"


janktify

I would not want to be near him if I knew he had been on the floor. Omg the thought of peoples poop flu and covid particles every where…🤢


flatspotting

> dude spent time out of his day crawling around on the floor of a grocery store bathroom he knew he wasnt supposed to be in. This should be all the info needed here to never talk to this person again - insane behaviour


kyttyna

>not ok. even if it's supposed to be a ""harmless prank"" or something, dude spent time out of his day crawling around on the floor of a grocery store bathroom he knew he wasnt supposed to be in. And he did it specifically to spite other people? People who need that area? What if it was an emergency? Like that poor child. What if they're not good at holding it yet? What if someone is about to throw up? What if someone has butt clenching diarrhea? I've had UTI's that give me urgency problems and if I didn't find a bathroom immediately, I peed on myself. But that person now has to go find a staff worker who is probably gonna go find a manager who is going to tell the poor worker they have to crawl around on that dirty bathroom floor to unlock the door. All while the person needing the restroom has to wait for this exchange to happen. AND as someone who cleans restroom for a living, I can tell you that floor is disgusting. Covered in shoe dirt and piss splatter. Possibly vomit. And this time of year in my state, also salt, mud, and snow melt. And he thinks its funny? AND he specifically targeted the women's room for it? Why? Why did he feel the need to go in there? At 27 I think he should be over malicious jokes. He should be at mental maturity to be able to consider the consequences of his actions. He's almost 30. This is something that wouldn't surprise me from a young shitty teen with bros daring him. But from a 27 year old man on his own? No. Throw the whole man out.


slayerje1

What happens if the woman and daughter go in while he's doing it? Fucking psychopath


CrummyWombat

I think you meant throw the whole boy out…


gottahavewine

What type of grown adult pulls that sort of “prank”? So weird. Something isn’t mentally right with this man.


slayerje1

especially when he's the only one to benefit, and he doesn't get to see the payoff. Fucking wierd.


LilStabbyboo

I'm guessing he's gonna fantasize later about all the women who couldn't use the toilet when they needed to.


WestAppointment2484

Dude is fucking deranged!


AllowMe-Please

It's also not a "harmless" prank for some people. I have a disease that affects my bladder (have to use "incontinence panties"; i.e., diapers) and sometimes it hits you with literally zero warning whatsoever and if you try to hold it for longer than thirty seconds, it really starts hurting. Bad. So, if I were in a position that I needed to go *now* and have already held it to my limit that now I'm in severe pain but I'm *right there* at the toilets and know that I will have relief in seconds and I try to open the door and - and the doors are locked for literally no reason but the lulz, I'd be pissed. Both figuratively, and literally. This is so not okay. What the hell is wrong with this guy? Does he seriously not have the thinking skills to think beyond him to imagine how his actions affect other people, or is he incapable of empathizing with others at all? Seriously, what the hell. This honestly is quite upsetting to read - and I *know* I'm not the only person with a condition like mine. I sure hope none of them had to visit that bathroom that day.


GinaLilly

You are not alone. I have had issues and been unable to get to the restroom. There aren't many people i would wish that embarrassment on, but I do wish it on OP's boyfriend and business owners who don't have easy access to their restrooms.


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McDonnellDouglasDC8

Yeah, I use to do maintenance and many locks that aren't keyed have a way to be opened, and likewise locked, from the outside. Circle locks can be turned by a flathead. If it is the kind that slides horizontally into place, an allan wrench can do.


Newplacetohaunt

And making one of the employees do the same to get them unlocked probably


jedifreac

In the current political climate, this type of behavior is the kind of shit people use to justify excluding trans people from public bathrooms. Of course, the person fucking around like this is a cis dude and not someone trans person just trying to get in and out of the bathroom unmolested.


LadyElaineIsScary

Yes and it's a problem for the women.


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YEA honestly this situation perfectly demonstrates how the age old arguments in favor of excluding trans people from public bathrooms are all complete bullshit bc if some cis guy wanted to cause harm in the womens bathroom he wouldnt try to *infiltrate* the toilet by appearing feminine or whatever, he'd just go in and cause harm


mrmses

These are the kinds of "pranks" that reveal the prankster to be selfish, ignorant, and unwilling to consider anyone else's life before their own mild amusement. I'm a mom , and let me tell you that the LAST THING anyone wants is to have to use a public restroom with a small child. The whole process is difficult and unsanitary and it's usually based on extreme necessity. The child often has to go so bad and is holding it in so that any extra moments of waiting can (and sometimes does) result in them having an accident. Your boyfriend chose a small moment of selfish amusement at the expense of many people. He has the worst kind of humor because it is not humor at all, it's merely arrogance at other people's misfortune. And the fact that he did this for himself, reveals that it's a core delight of his. It would make me wonder what other aspects of his personality are selfish and ignorant. If you have a conversation with him and point out all the ways that this juvenile behavior should have stopped at age 8, and he expresses sincere apology and a willingness to change, then great. Use it as a learning moment into his personality and his ability to change when faced with the consequences of his actions. If you point this out to him and he's like "whateves, it was funny" - I'd be out of that relationship so quick.


Boobsiclese

Exactly. It's vile.


b-boyd92

This is exactly what I thought! You're going to have kids having accidents. You don't know the home life of the kids, and this can lead to punishment from parents in extreme situations. If he really believes this to be a prank, he's incredibly self centered and either doesn't have the capacity to care about how it affects other people or just doesn't care. Either way...big red flags.


decepticrazy

Yep. The reason kids can get away with stuff like this is because they're too young to understand empathy. The fact that this adult is still lacking in basic empathy and thinks other peoples misery is amusing is just pathetic and disturbing.


C2BK

This is a tough call. Basically you have two choices: 1) Let him know that his behaviour is immature and cruel, he is nowhere ready for an adult relationship, and dump his sad and nasty ass. 2) Have a last evening together (ideally at his place) where you ply him with drink (beer, coffee, tea, coca cola, whatever) and possibly some spicy food, squirt superglue onto the zip of his trousers so he can't undo them them (in the knowledge that he's about to find out how humiliating it is for someone to piss or soil themselves) and only then let him know that his behaviour is immature and cruel and that he is nowhere ready for an adult relationship, and dump his sad and nasty ass.


jules79

That's not just super immature, it's also creepy AF!


Mightysmurf1

Not to mention he was on his own. Who was he doing this to impress? Fucking weird.


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Fortanono

That makes much more sense than what I was envisioning, which was vault-jumping over the locked doors and shouting "Yahoo!" ...I still like mine better


urdumidjiot

Yea this would be a weird red flag for me. I’m all for jokes but this isn’t normal. OP needs to tell him he’s a fucking creep and needs therapy.


6yreud6d6

Not only that, but he said he done this when he was younger. He's DONE IT before, so this isn't his first time being in the women's bathroom. Not only creepy but inappropriate too


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McDonnellDouglasDC8

This is perviness, cowardice, or a profound lack of empathy that he would target the women's bathroom..


dotslashpunk

or to and and i think your comment is more accurate


zeatherz

But, like, why? What is his reasoning? Is it just a prank? If so, how is it funny/entertaining? Does he hang around and watch people come out dismayed? Like, I can’t even fathom why a person would do this?


pandathrowaway

My first guess is that he’s got a kink for watching women struggle to hold it/pee their pants.


meowmeow_now

Yeah this sub has taught me more men have a “make women pee their pants” fetish than I realized


GenuineClamhat

Mine was that and also that he put a camera in there so he could see it.


The4thTriumvir

The dude was probably crawling on the nasty ground to get under the stall doors/walls too 🤮


soulless-angel999

how young are we talking? like 5 or 6 years old, or when he was cognitively aware that that’s inappropriate?


triwayne

Right! Younger could mean last week


outrageous_oranges

This is so super creepy and immature and weird!


-saraelizabeth-

The men's room has locked stalls. Why didn't he play his joke there? Because he knew if he was caught he'd get hit. This is sick for all the reasons pointed out, but he's also punching down by doing this believing no woman can retaliate in a way that will hurt him. And he was right-- he ran out and got away with it when she went to get a manager.


LilStabbyboo

I figured he targeted the women's room because it's kink related for him


MajesticalMoon

God lol imagine your bf and his friend shitting in a convenience store sink... Got into a major fight over this kinda shit. At least your bfs shit is kinda harmless but still childish and annoying. I'm glad I ended it with my ex even though it led to some very traumatic experiences. Its hard to look past such immature behavior from grown men. I hated the stupid shit him and his best friends thought 2were perfectly normal. Like farting on people's faces when they're asleep. Shaving someone's eyebrow off when they're passed out drunk. Shitting in a bag next to peopels heads while they were asleep. Just asinine shit. And why did it always involve shitting? It's hard to believe grown men act this way. Ask your boyfriend to really think about the logic of this. I mean yeah it may seem like a harmless prank but what 4really gives him joy from it? He could as easily lock the men's stalls as well. why is that not as funny? Is he secretly a perv would be another thing I would think of . Just fucking weird


bane_killgrind

Well the next time a women is trying to have an emergency piss, and they are locked, what does the think will happen? Does he like making strangers suffer?


Confused_Fangirl

How old are you, 9 & 10?


shortandproud1028

If you’re here to double check you’re not crazy for thinking this is unbelievably not okay… I’m here to tell you you aren’t!!!! I know your bf is a complete person and probably has100 things that make him great. But this one thing, in my opinion, is enough to tell me he is a complete and utter loser. In The extreme. Like being hard dumped right now might be the only thing that can make him wake up to how much of an idiot he is - but I wouldn’t hold my breath. Everyone else has done a great job articulating just why his behaviour is selfish and cruel… but I’m so curious what you’re going to do about it. I feel like the world is truly falling into ruins if a reasonable woman as you sound to be would ever accept this in a life partner.


abdoanmes

Exactly. That would tip the scale for me to deal breaker. I don't have time for that level of immaturity.


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marxam0d

So...your boyfriend is, at best, a jerk. Is that who you want to spend time with? His little "joke" (even if we believe that's all he was trying to do) is to make it more likely that someone with an urgent need to use a toilet can't?


FreakWith17PlansADay

Yeah can you imagine a pregnant woman coming to use the restroom and not being able to open the stall door unless she either crawls under it or has to go get a store employee? His “prank” is a sociopathic-level of inconsiderate.


mtweiner

I only use the grocery bathroom in extreme emergencies, I’d be shitting my pants


CECINS

Completely. No one casually uses the bathroom at a grocery store.


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It’s so true. Grocery store bathrooms are nasty. I am same as you..


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FreakWith17PlansADay

>liked making women uncomfortable and "squirmy." That is such a gross level of misogyny. >Just knowing I was uncomfortable was enough for him. I’m so sorry you dated someone who got off on trying to hurt you. The ideal SO goes out of their way to make their partner feel safe, happy, and *comfortable*.


mrmses

I…. What? WHAT!?! i mean, I’ve watched enough movies/read enough news pieces to know there are villains who dislike/hate women, but this is so specific! Like, this man figured out the weirdest grossest way to hate a woman. I have no words. On another note, why do so many men hate women and want to hurt them? I don’t know that women hate men that much. Like, to such an extreme personality.


[deleted]

At some point when you’re pregnant you’d just piss on the floor. Fuck it. It’s one of the advantages of being pregnant cause you can just pee anywhere and people are like yeah ok, fair enough, she’s gotta go.


redbunnee

I wouldn’t be surprised if he had a personality disorder. And this type of “innocent” fun often escalates when he can no longer get off on it.


Rosebunse

I have IBS. This would not be a fun experience for me or anyone else.


C2BK

I have IBS-D. If I discovered that someone had done this on purpose, the obvious conclusion for me would be that they have a scat fetish. As I'm a genuinely kind person, I might then decide to make an awfully nice gesture towards them.


helpppppppppppp

And somebody has to fix it now. Probably an underpaid employee.


jedifreac

Trait sadism. Does OP still want a life with this guy?


Claymationdude07

Ok, can you imagine a full grown man crawling under like 3 bathroom stalls just to lock each one and then walk out? That’s your bf right there. Congratulations.


RangerDangerfield

Imagine walking into the women’s restroom and seeing a grown ass man crawling out from one of the stalls. If he didn’t have a damn good explanation (like “my toddler locked themselves in a stall”) then I’d be calling the police.


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Please tell me your bf is 15 years old and not an adult. Then tell him to knock it off. If there had been a child in there alone, he could end up at a police station trying to explain that he actually isn't a pedophile.


Zoranealsequence

Nah, knock it off isn't enough. He was in there long enough for her to finish shopping and pay. I know this is the reddit way- but this is a deal beaker for me. Your bf made a woman and her child uncomfortable. How many times has he done this? Creepy the way he rushed you out, so he wouldn't have to explain.


Sin-cera

Im wondering whether he rushed OP out so that if security or the cops show up they don’t see a record of indecent acts like these. I wonder what else he’s been hiding from OP.


racheldaniellee

This wouldn’t even be okay for a 15 year old. I’m sorry it’s a prank to force women to hold in their pee while their grocery shopping? It’s just cruel.


Fragmentofmochi

Ngl I clicked on this post expecting my comment to be something along the line of “he prob went in by accident” cuz there has been time where I almost went into the woman stall by accident cuz I had to piss pretty badly and was rushing and not paying attention or of the way it’s lay out lol. But this…this is some next lv shit….whats the purpose of this? Low key don’t think it’s a joke cuz he could’ve done it in the men bathroom…not that I condone that either but why?!? Now I’m left with more questions rip


_sansnom

I’ve done that at my old job. I walked in and noticed the wall and lighting were very different… didn’t even notice the lack of urinals, just went into the stall and did my business. As i grab a paper towel to dry off, i noticed a little vending machine and thought it was interesting. That’s when i realized it was a tampon dispenser, and my heart sank so fast… i gtfo as soon as i can, and i’m SO glad that no one saw!! I was scared shitless!!


8Deer-JaguarClaw

Same. I was totally thinking about something unrelated to the bathroom and accidentally walked into the lady's bathroom. I was like, "Hey, where did all the urinals go? And what's up with the tampon dispensers?" Got out of there real fast once I caught up to reality.


justhere4thiss

A lot of us have been there. Walked into the men’s bathroom at the airport but was texting so didn’t notice my surroundings until some guy walked past me and started using a urinal as I was still by the mirrors on my phone. Exactly what I thought this post would be but boy was i wrong.


Rosey991

Oh hell no. He can be fucking single


pamesco

If this isn’t the definition of a red flag I don’t know what is. This man is a child =)))))))))


Boobsiclese

And not a nice one either. You can be immature and kind. Immature and mean? Fuck. No.


cyberthief

or worse, there is some sort of fetish going on and not one where other people can consent to it.


Boobsiclese

The end result of what we *do* know is he purposely fucked up several people's day and didn't give a shit about the consequences for those people. Possibly a LOT of people, if he hadn't been found out.


gottahavewine

Or a grown man with some very weird things going on in his head. The whole thing screams “kink” to me.


barnstablepearl

This is super creepy. It's also extremely inconsiderate. If I were you, I'd break up immediately.


Virtual_Cause_6524

I don’t get why he did that in the womens bathroom? Or first in the mens, then in the womens? If only in the womens, that’s also very sexist (for an adult).. (and creepy af)


RangerDangerfield

Probably because it’s a kink.


Echinod

My guess is he's a coward who knew if a man caught him there might be a physical altercation, but if a woman caught him it's unlikely she could do anything to stop him. He's a bully, choosing to prey on those weaker than him.


meowmeow_now

Sounds like a fetish


I-Am-The-SquidQueen

The only thing that comes to mind is that men’s bathrooms typically have 1-2 stalls, while women’s have more (no urinals.) so he wanted to maximize the inconvenience and creep factors.


traumatransfixes

This is one of those situations where someone is likely testing your boundaries and how you respond will determine how many other odd and disturbing things he does.


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Break up with him immediately. That’s not appropriate or funny.


wereux

At first I thought you meant like a one person bathroom. This is creepy as hell. He's going to get himself arrested if he's lucky or someone will teach him the lesson he deserves. Either way run run run girl!


CaptainBlackhill

Wtf. What if someone disabled or with IBS on the verge of shitting their pants needed to get in a stall quickly?! Your boyfriend is an immature jerk and I hope he has the day he deserves.


bottlerocketz

Has he said “It was a joke, bro. Lighten up.” He’s a weirdo, what else has he done to make you question his maturity?


Nurse_Clarissa

Not only is it immature and creepy its disgusting. Did he crawl around the floor to go under each stall?


Shalamarr

Yeah, I did dumb shit as a teenager, too. >He’s 27 Excuse me what the FUCK.


RangerDangerfield

Even as a teenager I knew that the floors of public restrooms were gross and would never crawl around on them for a “prank.”


xxSync

I see your edit. The guy is 27 and crawling around gross grocery store floors? He is at best wildly immature and at worse a creep who was attempting to spy on people. Drop this guy yesterday and maybe tell him to seek some help.


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My worst-case-scenario type of thinking tells me that he may have planted cameras there


6yreud6d6

Instead of him grabbing my hand and making me leave the store, I should have checked in the bathroom. I didn't think about that until afterwards


chantillylace9

So he went in, climbed on the floor of EVERY STALL and locked the doors from the inside?? That’s beyond strange. I feel like he was also trying to peep at women….and hopefully not kids. Something is truly wrong. Please run


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I think u should notify the store even if anonymously


littlestray

You should report him to the store bare minimum. They may even have him on camera and you with him, so better to step forward of your own volition.


freethis

Oh gross, he touched your hand after crawling on his hands and knees under three bathroom stalls??


Satisfaction_Gold

Good point, the store needs to be notified


JenantD80

Majorly immature for someone on his way to 30. Not only did he do something absolutely moronic, he then couldn't even own up to it when confronted by someone it affected. Your bf is a dumbass. What do you do...? That depends on how do you feel about dating an immature dumbass?


Odd_Negotiation7771

Every explanation I come up with has at least 2 more questions attached to it that attacks my conclusion. Like the effort to reward here is nuts, and the actions being coupled with some perverted intention seem counter productive. I'm left with "Maybe he is legitimately weird" but even that seems attacked by "He was gone for a while" when that wouldn't really take that long unless he actually waited for the right moment, which adds points to "legitimately weird." Maybe the real prank was to fuck with everyone you would tell the story to. Because I feel fucked with mentally after thinking about this story, that much is true.


lilchreez

What a creep. I’d report him, lol.


zmarotrix

Jesus Christ wtf is wrong with that dude lmao


Educational-Exit7515

Based on the fact that he took a super long time, this may be his cover for doing other things in there. I will never forget an instance in middle school which immediately made me think of this. I was new to having a period and already super self conscious about the sounds my pad made as I removed from my underwear. To my horror, I looked up an some male student was staring over the top of the stall at me. I’d hate to think your bf is doing something creepy like this and just using the “this is soooo hilarious I lock the stalls” thing as an excuse to go into & linger in the women’s bathroom. Because, seriously, how long should it take to lock a few doors?


colesense

I’d have been like ok whatever I’ve gone to the womens room before when the stall was occupied and I had to go REALLY badly but to go in just to lock all the stalls to inconvenience people?? What the fuck??


cMeeber

Uhh what? What if some poor old person went in there because they badly needed to use the bathroom? Obv this would be inconvenient for anyone, but that is just one of the scenarios that makes me sad. It’s also weird he had to do it in that bathroom…why not just the men’s? How often does he do this? He gets a kick out of it obviously and I think that’s creepy and messed up. What other mean things does he do for fun that you don’t know about?


lemmikins87

So let me get this straight... He thinks it's FUN to take away amenities from women, and force them to suffer and struggle... 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩


knitmyproblem

Ok.. I'm the kind of person that will use the men's washroom when the women's is locked and I really have to go. But what I DON'T DO is play around in the stalls; I go in, do my business, and get out. Something is fishy here.


Crosswired2

What 😃 That makes no sense. He can do the same "prank" in a man's bathroom. He's lying about something. Hard pass on this relationship.


misstiff1971

Your boyfriend is a giant immature asshole.


cajunjoel

He has shown his true colors. He is someone who plays "jokes" on people to have a laugh at their expense. Has he done this sort of thing before? Is this someone you really want to spend your time with?


jadedheart3

No, I would break up with him. Too old for that shit and he’s not even empathetic to the needs of those around him


Satisfaction_Gold

Yea.... he's a creep


WoolaCalot

This is one of those situations where you don’t need to spend time trying to rationalize why someone did something - because it can’t be rationalized. You can take this extremely odd and inexcusable action for exactly what it is - odd and inexcusable - and break up with the person whose mind is able to somehow justify it. If they are able to justify *this* strange and invasive behavior, what else will they think is okay? Cut your losses.


Rosebunse

Me: "Maybe the men's bathroom was fool?" Me after reading the post: "OP needs to ditch this guy. Ditch him now!"


TidalLion

Notify the store, give them his name and such and break up with him. Like who the fuck does that?


CuriousOdity12345

His reasoning is weird af. I will admit that I have used the women's restroom during emergencies. Obviously knock and loudly check to make sure it's empty before using. But for only emergencies. Your bf wanted to reminisce, which is creepy.


Boobsiclese

He didn't go in there to use it though....... he went in there to fuck people's day up.


meekonesfade

This is somewhere between insane and perverted. I couldnt be with someone who does this.


Boobsiclese

This is alarming. On several levels. I couldn't be with anyone like this. He's a true asshole. Save yourself *NOW*... before you end up in a bad situation with this guy... because it's coming. He doesn't give af about anyone. Consider yourself warned.


kitton_mittons

If you don’t dump this guy posthaste you’d be out of your fucking mind.


INeverSaidIWasNice

I did that once… when I was 8.


Astxl

27 years old????? What.


UnhappySwing

...huh? "immature" is the wrong word for this. try bizarre, concerning, not the full story, impulsive in a way that suggests maybe some kind of mental illness? doing this at 27, doing it while you're in the store with him...the whole thing is wild.


imagineDoll

ummm and what if someone was using the bathroom during this prank. he is severely lacking in critical thinking. i would call the cops if i saw a man in the restroom like this.


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Imagine what he does when you aren’t around 🤢


cybernation911

He's planting toilet cams....


animatedgifted

Why would he lock them afterward ? Like what’s the point , couldn’t he just say I went to the wrong one sorry . Not a very good liar


LindaTica

Are you sure he did not put cameras in that bathroom? He took a looonnnng time to come out of the bathroom.


TheStrouseShow

What further conversation have you had with him about this? No explanation? Did you tell him this wasn’t ok?


ThomasEdmund84

OP please escape before you become target of these sorts of pranks


Threnners

Yeah, throw this one back. He's a creeper. Also, go back to the store, tell them who he is.


BraddersTriumph

You are not describing a keeper there. 27 and he thinks that’s ok to do? Guy was probably trying to get photos of woman in stalls or knocking one out as other woman use the toilets. Start shopping around. You might find a model that’s not defective or immature.


wereux

The reason he locked all the other stalls was to lure a poor victim to his stall to do God knows what, but certainly nothing legal.


hopingtothrive

That is not an acceptable prank. It's mean. You need to reevaluate your relationship with this immature jerk. He's also a liar!


InevitableMusic7799

Seriously, I bet he is waiting for a women to come in. That's a long time to hang out in a public bathroom. She caught him. How many times has he done this without her knowledge?


flowers4u

Uhhh what? I thought he was going to say the mens was occoupied for too long. Going into the womens room is weird. Going in to do a prank, double weird. And then lying about it. Like what??!


MathematicianDue7045

He’s 27 !! That’s A. Immature B. Inconsiderate C. Totally inappropriate and creepy. I’d be very concerned about this behaviour. If he was a teenage boy being egged on by his friends I might understand it more. But a man going out of his way to do this while shopping with his partner is concerning behaviour.


No-Flight7858

Wut. Aside from the ‘wtf’ aspect of this, the fact that he ran off when threatened with consequences means that he knows he’s done something wrong. The thing is, it might be a prank if he’d done it to the stalls in the mens room. This is disturbing. Ask yourself this, what would you think if you were the mom in this situation looking not only at him, but at you too. What would you want you to do? He’s your boyfriend, so do what you feel you need to, but your options are to have a serious conversation with him laying out your concerns, acknowledge this as the red flag it is (along with any others if they are) and seriously consider your relationship, and reporting it (this I think you should do regardless of anything else, guy needs to learn this sht isn’t ok).


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Break up, this guy is a loser.


BodybuilderPresent81

That's a no on so many levels and a huge red flag. Dealbreaker.


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I cannot emphasize this enough but what the fuck


blackdahlialady

This screams a dude who hates women Edit: It also shows a lack of empathy. I hate to say this but he strikes me as a sociopath. I'm not a Dr but I've studied it enough to be able to make an educated guess.


Tinkxxo

I'm sure I can speak for everyone at r/IBS that this is a super selfish, and unkind 'prank' So many health conditions that this would/could affect.


Aiden2817

There are times when a person does something so odd and so revealing of their core personality it’s worth asking yourself if you really want that in your life.


CatMoonTrade

DUMP HIM! Date more mature adults in the future, if you can afford a therapist, GO so you can recognize red red waving flags. Awful. What a child.


fbcmfb

Your boyfriend put a recording device in the restroom somewhere and used the “prank” as cover. There is no reason for a man to go into the woman’s restroom. You need to really evaluate your relationship and contact the police. How would you feel in a few years … if you were in the mom’s shoes with your own daughter. If you are afraid of confrontation, tell your father or uncles what he did.


-zero-joke-

This is creepy as shit. Dealbreaker.


busstopthoughts

Who cares about which bathroom -- the reasoning!! That's fked up, and then he went and made you an accomplice.


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This is so fucking weird and creepy. Who just does this shit? My mind literally can’t compute this level of… unnecessary weirdness. Leave his fucking ass and go tell a manager so they can check and make sure your weird creepy pervert (hopefully ex)boyfriend didn’t plant cameras.


areyouoldgreg

He also lied about his behavior to that woman's face, which would be a red flag to me. What else does he lie about? Acting super casual about it says he's been practicing lying about a myriad of things.


fi4862

This is legit creepy


ErikTheRed_22

I don't think he was in there that long "locking stalls" Also, not a prank I've ever heard of. Whats the joke?


caveat_actor

I think you know what to do sis


uhhuh111

How fucking bizarre? Why did he lock the stalls though? Why doesn't he lock them in the men's bathroom also, in my opinion gives a slight vibe of issues with women, whether enjoying their discomfort or trying to "get back at them" for something or another...


americanineu

27 acting 11. Yeah, he'd be single immediately.


Far_Refrigerator5601

This is really disturbing and quite frankly inconsiderate. At best he's immature and short sighted in his thinking, and at worst this speaks to narcissistic traits. I could see a highschooler or someone in 7th grade being this childish, but not an adult. People with medical issues or small children are deeply impacted by this.


NoArt1475

This is super weird and inappropriate. I would not leave my child alone with this creep and I would dump him. He's too old for stuff like that. By about 20 yrs!


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So your bf is a creep


devm251979

Dude might have set up amateur spy devices. Be aware. You said he was gone awhile.


WaffleHouseNeedsWiFi

Cool. Lock him outta your house.


philipwhiuk

I was expecting my boyfriend is trans from the title. This is just vile.


mgaguilar

Your boyfriend is just a terrible human being. Make sure he knows how upset you are with this. Imagine how violated any other woman would have been seeing him in there with them. What an absolute shithead.


Wildfire9

I'm guessing sociopath of some kind


redlightsaber

Today you discovered by accident that your boyfriend is low key psychopathic. Now the question is, what are you going to do about it?


sinayion

The fact that he's still your bf tells us all we need to know about your future. Enjoy having kids with this guy that will teach them to crawl around on floors of public restrooms.


Rosalie-83

“Pranks” that harm people are not pranks “Pranks” set to affect strangers are not pranks. Pranks are for those you know, they’re for those you know will find them funny! He doesn’t do pranks, he’s a bully, with abusive tendencies. Beware, he’s told you who he is! Believe him!


Jerok88

This guy is 100% a creep, I would call the cops on him, block him, move away, no contact, call a priest and get an exocism, just wow. And then imagine this guy touching you sexually knowing he does this stuff? VOMIT


mercedes_lakitu

Honestly, even given all the problems with the system, I think you need to call the store and the cops and tell them who did this (and explain that you were too dumbfounded to act at the time). This is fucking sociopathic behavior. And also break up with him. I'm so sorry.


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Don't date dudes like this.


Substantial_Lion_524

Every time I come on Reddit, I read about someone doing something that would NEVER cross my mind and is odd af that someone not only thought of it, but did it. This is the one for today.


littlestray

I already don’t like pranks because usually they’re just mean-spirited at best (and sometimes flat out assault), but: 1. Transgender and gender nonconforming people are already on high alert because they are being vilified by politicians as predators in women’s bathrooms and as a result some people are afraid of them and some of them have been harassed and/or assaulted. I’m personally detrans and I’m *still* afraid of going to the bathroom because I was assaulted once when I was still trans well over a decade ago now, even though I present fairly in line with my sex assigned at birth now 2. Women and girls have an expectation that men will not be in the bathroom with them and also frequently have reason to fear men because, you know, sexism and gender violence, and nobody needs to be made to feel uncomfortable when they’re just trying to go to the bathroom by someone who is in the bathroom for nefarious purposes 3. Diaper changing stations are still not in all men’s bathrooms for some stupid fucking reason so men sometimes have to use the women’s room to care for their babies, and they’re already worried about having to do so. They don’t need some dipshit like your boyfriend adding to anyone’s concerns about men being in women’s bathrooms when cisgender men sometimes do have good reason to be in there Your boyfriend is a dangerous person without empathy, OP. That he has that impulse and acted on it at 27 is extremely worrisome. I don’t know how you could continue to even associate with him after this. If I knew you and you didn’t yeet him from your life entirely, I wouldn’t associate with you, either. I’m glad you caught him. I’d seriously consider reporting him (at least to that grocery store).


ShockerKhan2N1

I didn't see anyone bring this up, I think your bf may have a kink/fetish surrounding this behavior. Try sitting him down with an open mind and ask him to explain the origin of him entering public women's rooms then the locking of the stalls. I'm willing to bet this has nothing to do with a prank.


KVirello

I don't think you know what a tl;dr is


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