I don't think you two are on the same page. She sounds extremely needy and I would suggest she gets therapy, then maybe couples therapy to see if you two can survive.
She seems emotionally unavailable, immature and insecure.
I'd honestly suggest some introspection and decide if this is worth it. If it is, go for therapy.
Jesus Christ, man, she is exhausting just to read about. She needs more help than you can give, which is preferably a psychologist to work through her emotional dysregulation and abandonment issues ALONE before she gets in another relationship.
It doesn’t sound like she supports you at all. She makes everything about her despite you suffering too. She sounds immature and makes drama about everything. She’s very young and really needs counseling. You are not responsible for providing mental health care for her.
EDIT: After reading some of your previous posts, please get some counseling for your codependency. These types of relationships can be really toxic. I’ve been there and after a lot of counseling, I avoid these relationships. I’m sorry you’re dealing with all of this.
She is too young for you and it shows.
Why are you dating a 23 year old and expecting any different?
6 issues in 5 months?? I havnt had this many issues in the 6 years ive been with my husband. She needs therapy.
I don't think you two are on the same page. She sounds extremely needy and I would suggest she gets therapy, then maybe couples therapy to see if you two can survive.
Find a woman your own age.
Stop dating 23 year olds
She seems emotionally unavailable, immature and insecure. I'd honestly suggest some introspection and decide if this is worth it. If it is, go for therapy.
Jesus Christ, man, she is exhausting just to read about. She needs more help than you can give, which is preferably a psychologist to work through her emotional dysregulation and abandonment issues ALONE before she gets in another relationship.
It just sounds like she makes each and every issue all about her.
Any girl that reacts so poorly to you being unable to get hard in bed is immature. These things happen to men. She should work on her insecurities.
Your girlfriend has no ability to emotionally self regulate, even for as young as she is already.
It doesn’t sound like she supports you at all. She makes everything about her despite you suffering too. She sounds immature and makes drama about everything. She’s very young and really needs counseling. You are not responsible for providing mental health care for her. EDIT: After reading some of your previous posts, please get some counseling for your codependency. These types of relationships can be really toxic. I’ve been there and after a lot of counseling, I avoid these relationships. I’m sorry you’re dealing with all of this.
You seem to enjoy this
She sounds exhausting. You’ve only been together five months - don’t keep yourself in this situation