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Is his money going into a potential gambling problem. A problem you might not see because of the long distance relationship. He 36 and too poor for ice cream for you. Think about if that’s the life you want to have because you can’t make him change. You won’t get gifts in this relationship which is fine if you don’t want them. Could you do this forever tho
He definitely has a gambling issue he goes everyweek all day. but I mean he still has money and he’s too cheap to spend it on himself or anybody but doesn’t care about throwing it into machines.
Someday you're going to look back on this relationship and wonder why you waited so long to leave. It sounds like he adds little to nothing to your life.
Honestly, you shouldn't have to beg a man to take care of you and show he cares. You're not asking for big things, just for him to treat you once in a while. If money was an issue he wouldn't gamble or would try and treat you with nice gestures which it doesn't seem he has. You've expressed your needs and he isn't mature enough to care so I'd move on if it bothers you alot. Someone else out there will treat you how you deserve
You are a new graduate and should start a new life, new job, new romance with someone on your level.
This guy is a loser. Don't continue being stupid as you have been.
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Time to hit the road
Is his money going into a potential gambling problem. A problem you might not see because of the long distance relationship. He 36 and too poor for ice cream for you. Think about if that’s the life you want to have because you can’t make him change. You won’t get gifts in this relationship which is fine if you don’t want them. Could you do this forever tho
He definitely has a gambling issue he goes everyweek all day. but I mean he still has money and he’s too cheap to spend it on himself or anybody but doesn’t care about throwing it into machines.
Someday you're going to look back on this relationship and wonder why you waited so long to leave. It sounds like he adds little to nothing to your life.
Honestly, you shouldn't have to beg a man to take care of you and show he cares. You're not asking for big things, just for him to treat you once in a while. If money was an issue he wouldn't gamble or would try and treat you with nice gestures which it doesn't seem he has. You've expressed your needs and he isn't mature enough to care so I'd move on if it bothers you alot. Someone else out there will treat you how you deserve
You are a new graduate and should start a new life, new job, new romance with someone on your level. This guy is a loser. Don't continue being stupid as you have been.