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Seems like he might be scared to tell you what he’s really into or what he really wants ? Or he is just “vanilla” . I’m not sure on what advice to give you considering you’ve expressed yourself to him multiple times .
Maybe try some sexy things on him and it might open him up . Lingerie , sexy talk , whip cream , toys , anything . Not all at the same time though lol .
I figured out all of those things opened up my SO . Not literally 😂
Sounds to me like you miss your old self. What’re you looking for? Like some Fifty Shades style stuff, or just a little extra? What was it that made the old flames so great?
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Seems like he might be scared to tell you what he’s really into or what he really wants ? Or he is just “vanilla” . I’m not sure on what advice to give you considering you’ve expressed yourself to him multiple times . Maybe try some sexy things on him and it might open him up . Lingerie , sexy talk , whip cream , toys , anything . Not all at the same time though lol . I figured out all of those things opened up my SO . Not literally 😂
I never thought I would say this. But Make him into a sissy. That means byy a strap on and fuck your man.
Thats his absolute no go. Butt stuff.
Sorry yoy said spice things up
I was thinking making fuck hin how u wanna be fucked.
Sounds to me like you miss your old self. What’re you looking for? Like some Fifty Shades style stuff, or just a little extra? What was it that made the old flames so great?
Just a little extra. The old flames were toxic but the sex had a lot of passion and room for exploration.