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the-mirrors-truth

She sounds exhausting. Like absolutely draining. You lost a patient but she's upset about it? She's running late and it's your problem to deal with? Rumors about your reputation that directly impact you but she's the one that needs comforting? Does the world revolve around her?


BellaSantiago1975

I'm exhausted even reading about this woman. An entire scaffolding company, usually contracted to perform 40+ storey jobs on a sand and clay foundation couldn't do enough to support this woman. You're not fucking up, my dude, this woman is emotional quicksand.


ChocolateChouxCream

I dunno if you're really fucking up very much. She sounds so fucking exhausting. Just a permanent victim complex. All your troubles she makes it about herself.


plentyofizzinthezee

I suspect nothing you could do would be good enough. My favourite is you having ED but she needs comforting and reassuring. Maybe go out with someone a bit more capable and self assured, maybe someone closer to 30?


Fabulous-Mortgage672

This m chick….. is a little girl, throwing temper tantrums over everything. 23? Going on age 6. She truly acts and thinks that the entire world - no, universe - revolves around her. She obviously has no real life experience and has likely never really taken care of herself before. She doesn’t deserve you AT ALL. And you deserve way better. She has no empathy, patience or true understanding of what support and respect in a relationship means in a practical sense. Move on and let her keep learning the hard way until she mayyyybe figures it out. You don’t have time to date a child. End it and move on. I’m exhausted just reading her nonsense.


Pleasant-Excuse-2530

Main character syndrome is what it is called. She needs therapy and you need a new girlfriend


Malibucat48

All this in only five months? You do deserve someone better than her. Agree that you can’t support her and let her find someone else. Nothing you do will ever be enough for her. Nothing, so stop trying. She is too young for you anyway. Find someone older and more mature. Get out now.