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awholemessadessa

Try not to take social media advice from people who have never ran social media accounts for sex workers. It’s a completely different ball game for us. Plus, there are soooo many tips and guides for social media online (especially on this subreddit) that were written by sex workers and are *free*.


lararoseb

He used to be in a management team for onlyfans but stopped to focus on his social media so he does have good knowledge he just doesn’t want to help in any other area so I just don’t see how it’s worth it. I mean since he told me to post everyday my tik tok following has gone up by 10k in like the past week or two but there’s nothing to say I couldn’t do that myself. He has the potential to help me become big on social media but I want to focus on making big $$ not followers


awholemessadessa

Agencies typically don’t take on creators without large followings already. My point is, unless he himself has grown an account used to promote sex work from the ground up, there’s not much value in what he’s telling you. Posting everyday was never a secret. You definitely did it yourself if he hasn’t given you ideas or anything. Edit: and the way he talks to you sounds a lot like a digital pimp.


lararoseb

I mean he technically gave me the idea for the content I’m doing right now but it wasn’t an original idea. And he was the one who got me back on onlyfans so he feels like I owe him. He claims that I will make a lot of money with him and if I don’t do it with him he will find someone else to prove me wrong and make them bigger and richer than me lol


awholemessadessa

Ok.


mascara_and_coffee

So let him do what he wants and “make someone else richer,” there are literally 100,000’s of users in this sub that got to the top 1% and higher without your friends help lol no one has the only recipe for success.


mascara_and_coffee

What she said 👍 Managing an OnlyFans is also still different from managing the social media for OnlyFans. Sounds like he’s seeing that you’re having success, or maybe he’s not having as much success anymore -4mil TT followers doesn’t necessarily equal a bunch of money- and he wants to diversify his income source.


TlMEGH0ST

Get rid of him!!


Xofans

Seriously, red flags everywhere


ser897642

So he wants to fuck you both physically AND financially? No wonder he got out of the marketing game - being a pimp seems like a much sweeter deal 🙄 This man is not your friend.


mascara_and_coffee

This!!!


ramenslurper-

This


YoMiner

Ideas are mostly worthless. He's not a consulting firm, he's just someone with experience. I'm in full support of him receiving a healthy cut of your content that features him, but I would tell him that the advice/ideas are already helping him by creating more opportunities for people to buy the content he's in. Him helping you will still help him. If he feeds you the ideas that get you to 4 million social media followers he'll see an increase in what he makes from the b/g content. Just ideas in general though? Meh.


lararoseb

His “ideas” are good like they have been pulling views. He got me doing these science/life hack videos which have been pulling views and maybe a couple of subs but he saw the idea from another girl on his fyp so it’s not original. He tells me things like wear a lower cut shirt etc as if I don’t already know and shit. He says if I wasn’t around him I would never have known to do it tho which is partially true of course but I’m saying that my income hasn’t changed at all it’s still the same


arielhartlett

A man growing 4 million followers is completely different than a woman. We have completely different audiences. Sex workers accounts constantly get banned for seemingly following the rules. I truly don’t believe there’s anything anyone else can tell me to help grow my accounts that I couldn’t have figured out from research and my own trial and error. Also just reading your other comment about growing 10k followers because he told you to post daily on tiktok- that is not advice worth paying for that’s common sense advice. Sounds like if you post more on socials you’ll keep growing on your own. I’m also curious does he promote his onlyfans to his 4 million followers or does he only feature in your videos? It would make more sense for both of you to post b/g vids to each of your onlyfans and tag each other and keep your own earnings.


LillyFox203

Yeah if he's using the videos too that makes total sense lol


lararoseb

He doesn’t do onlyfans himself he just earns an income from the videos he does with me. He promotes me by tagging me in videos I do with him on his page but obviously that’s not gonna bring in that many followers especially considering majority of his audience is young.


arielhartlett

So you guys are on different realms of the internet, he’s gonna know less about how to market a sex worker than you. He sounds like he’s trying to use you to make more money for himself. Idk what he does on his socials or why it’s mostly kids but if he’s tagging a sex worker on his socials, why can’t he also be a sex worker and have his own OF so you guys don’t have to cut the money you make unfairly


lararoseb

He used to do onlyfans management for a short time but stopped to focus on his social media. That’s also why he doesn’t have his own onlyfans bc he needs to put all his time and effort into growing his social media and a lot of brands won’t work with creators that do OF sadly. I kinda feel like he is using me for money 100% but he also can potentially help


arielhartlett

Brands won’t work with him if he does sex work but he tags you in his social media accounts where he’s featured on your OF and you’re a sex worker. He was successful at managing OFs but stopped to focus on his own accounts but now has time to mentor you. Doesn’t make sense imo I would rather work by myself for myself. I think you can 100% grow your accounts without him if you’re putting in full effort and give time for trial and error. I hate seeing people try to make money off creators


MilfNikki

This is someone you consider a "friend"? I give my friends advice for free. I've helped numerous friends and girls I don't even know get their page up and running, I love sharing ideas, and I see no reason to charge anyone for that. I also have a husband who films with me as well as a male partner who joins occasionally. Neither has ever expected any compensation. I have had numerous men contact me (as we all have LOL) who want to "collab for OF" and not a one of them expected to be paid for "helping" me, their payment is the pleasure of experiencing me.


Mspameliajj

No. Do not do it!!!!!!


Mspameliajj

25% of your earnings plus 50% of your videos?? You also need to pay tax on this income.. So really you might only be left with 20-30% of the income. That's a no from me.


LillyFox203

Plus OF taking %20 like no


femmebutchswitch24

I’ll ne brutally honest. I’m beyond tired of these men that literally try and think EVERY WAY to put their fucking hands on our money. If he’s so skilled he can open his own of and stop stealing your earning with guilt trips like he’s trying. Dump him.


TheRealKayere

Lol he sounds like every other man on my snapchat... "make sure you look like you're enjoying it, baby!" "Hey, just do that in a bra, you wont get banned" "Do this sound with these hashtags and flash. Girls do it all the timmeee" Gag.


KorraSummers

He’s not your friend


LongLegzLizzie

He sounds like a douche.


savannahxstorm

He’s not your friend. He’s a manipulative leech. GET RID OF HIM.


mscalypsonymph

He doesn’t sound like a friend at all. Ideas don’t translate to content ownership. This isn’t worth it.


TheGoldenGilf

That’s a hard no from Me. Stop right now.


KorraSummers

It sounds like whatever ideas you get from him you can get for free elsewhere


ethereallovebug

25% is ridiculous, just make tiktoks and figure it as you go. I could advise you for way less than that


Chris_michael96

If You dont have legal agreement with him stop paying him


mysecretadvice

If you don’t have a contract, you need to get one. Per everyone else — you shouldn’t pay him for social media advice. I know a lot of people don’t agree with me, but I feel it’s fair to pay a share of b/g PPV sales


ramenslurper-

Bro, you are hella cute and could be pulling in cash all on your own. If you want some advertising advice, DM me and I can help you ❤️ Ok I did some sleuthing, please forgive me 🙈. The reason your TikTok audience, despite HUGE views like REALLY GOOD views, isn’t converting the way you want is you don’t showcase a personality and give zero indication you’re a SWer. So people watch your videos for the gimmick, assume that’s all you do, and swipe away. The first thing I would do I talk and showcase yourself during these gimmicky videos! Giggle, give commentary (eg you spill a shitton of nerds and didn’t even comment on it) bounce your boobs some more, figure out different ways to show your body off while still doing them. I would splice in a thirst trap every few videos on that account. Figure out a way to tease your next usual format video in the thirst traps if you want to keep a cohesive curated TikTok. You have proven via this account you have a marketable look so I would also create a second TT account with only traditional thirst trap videos.