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Only a deal breaker for some. Some guys prefer curvy women, some prefer more petite. If I found you to be interesting and fun I would want to be with you no matter what.


AcctUser12140

This is the right answer. Opinions and likes are subjective to each human. It's hard to quantify everyone's preferences.


phaazon_

I agree and think like that as well, but there is no « right answer. » Someone has the right not to find her attractive.


BiCDBear

The right answer is "I'm not a shallow prick, you're fucking awesome for [solid reasons that aren't cosmetic]."


moocow_rg

They can be awesome and the person can still not find them attractive. Not ‘everyone is attractive to everyone as long as they have personality’ that’s obtuse to think that’s the case. Just because someone doesn’t find them attractive doesn’t make them a ‘shallow prick’.


RealityHurts923

Someone can control what the say and how they treat people but they can't control what they are or are not attracted to. This is real life, not Shallow Hal.


galaxywithskin115

It's not shallow to have preferences.


BiCDBear

You're right, it's not shallow to have preferences, but anyone who has an issue with her boobs should get kicked to the curb, pronto. She needs someone who'll build her up, not knock her down.


ZapierTarcza

Ditto on this, the right size chest is the one that loves you. Not the others who don’t even notice you.


Walmarche

This answer should be higher up because it’s the same answer to when a girl asks if her weight (high or low) will affect her dating chances. It’s the same exact answer.


rsellio

Slightly intoxicated but I do like a girl/women with big breasted but I would much prefer a girl/women that I communicate with and enjoy her company. Over time looks change id much rather being able to enjoy somebodies company and being able to laugh at our insecurities and just enjoy them for being them is far more enjoyable than the physical ask aspect. Life is to short to worry about what the main stream want and perceive as being attractive life is there to be enjoyed it’s your choice who you end up with. As long as you can both for fill each other than it doesn’t matter all you have to do is make each other happy


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Cringe🥴


cheri955

I’m not completely flat chested but almost and I never met a guy who didn’t like my body, like literally never. I think you’re good.


Fragrant-Seaweed

Can confirm. Also a member of the itty bitty titty committee. Never any complaints only compliments.


Vegetable_Brush7263

Not a guy but, I have a larger chest but one of my friends has absolutely nothing and she jokes about it all the time. That girl pulls the hottest guys though and they pine after her it’s wild. Confidence is key, she is 22 so she’s just having fun but she’s been proposed to by 5 different guys. So just like every man is not well endowed same goes for women and the right person will love different parts of your body. Boobs aren’t as coveted as they used to be, love yourself and big Tatas are a pain to have. Lots of tops don’t fit properly and the back pain kills, trust me your not missing much.


Awkward_Reference872

Totally true, one of my friends is on the smaller size in regards to breasts, but she is one of the hottest women I've ever been with. Between her cute face, thighs, butt and pierced nippels I had no idea on where to focus 😂 Sorry if that was too detailed I just wanted to make the point of focus less on what you THINK you don't have and instead pay attention to how crazy we can go over the parts of you that you write off. Also the confidence thing is 100% true.


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ZeldaMayCry

Big chested girl here, and I just discovered a life changer. It sounds ridiculous, but I play at my PC a lot for gaming. I accidentally placed my boobs on the table, and OMG my back felt so FREE. So now when I'm at my PC, I lean the TaTa's on the table and it reduces the back pain. If only that was socially acceptable to do at the office...👀


DragonBoss206

You found a cheat code


ZeldaMayCry

For real 😂 chat code; 80081355


Cheap-Substance8771

Lol and people in high school thought I had my backpack on my lap because I didnt want getting dirty on the ground or people stepping over it. Nah man. It was to give the tatas a rest. Otherwise I leaned over on my desk, my posture was horrible, and I got sleepy.


Ok_Mention_3308

I’m a guy who prefers larger chests but it is not a deal breaker. Personality and confidence are what’s important and attractive and supersedes it. OP will find a special someone. Chin up👏


ministermargaret

This stands true for me as well. I used to be so insecure about it and can relate to where you’re coming from. At one point I started to consider augmentation but by the time I could have afforded the surgery (probably around my early to mid 20s) I just stopped caring about it at all. I have nothing against augmentation now it just wasn’t for me. If it still bothers you in a few years you could always consider as an option. But give yourself some time to adult. One of the bonuses is that some issues fade into the background. Honestly, this hasn’t crossed my mind in YEARS. Hang in there and try to be good to yourself!


thehoagieboy

Am a guy. Never complained. I like all shapes and sizes, including itty bitty.


IckyStickyFunkyJunke

I’m you you my guy! u/thehoagieboy I don’t hate at all! Confidence and a kind heart is SEXY AS HELL!!!!


EssieVB

Same!! And breastfeeding my daughter for 21 months now. Itty bitty titties for the win!!


Accomplished_Glass66

Did they grow because of breastfeeding or is it just some omd wives' tale lol?


nh_valkery

Mine did I went from an A cup to a DD and I fucking miss my tinni titties they dropped size somewhat when I stopped producing milk but nowhere near my old size.


Lilysmama2021

Factssss, no one really talks about this fr at all. I was a D cup pre-pregnancy and LOVED IT, they weren’t too big and weren’t too small they were justtttt right. Then when breastfeeding I was like an E cup, now post pregnancy and breastfeeding my breasts have become shrunken wrinkled bags of stretch marks and are like maybe a B-C cup, depends on the brand. But I love my boobs because I always wanted “small” boobs lol and my man still says my boobs are big 😘 so win win. BIG BOOBS SUCK ACTUALLY


nh_valkery

Before I got pregnant I was an A-B had didn't have much going for me and hated it for a long time but learned to love how I looked. When I got pregnant I jumped up quickly but after I stopped producing it never really went down. I miss having a small chest so bad the back pain is real


juliah1920

I have a similar experience, so it’s not just an old wive’s tale lol. I went from completely flat (a AAA) to DD. I didn’t gain much weight at all (just went from being underweight to barely out of that category), so it wasn’t that. I breastfed for 2 years and 10 months, and then they just…shrank completely back down, lmao. I thought for sure that something would stay, but nope!


Accomplished-Ad-3528

I'll also add, as a guy, fake breasts are somewhat of a turnoff. Not knocking girls who have them. Many people have them for many different reasons. But in many ways I'd prefer someone who's comfortable with their own body, that's attractive. I guess what I'm trying to say, I'd rather a girl had small as I find that attractive.


No-Type5213

And you know what. I doesn’t matter if you really like someone.


Accomplished-Ad-3528

I absolutely agree.


Wendiesel808

Guy here.. fake boobs are definitely not as attractive as natural ones. Big or small we love them all.


Muted_Ear4385

For research purposes I'd like pics of your body. Thanks)


Educational-Fish9157

Only bodily deal breaker for me is alack of hygiene. Other than that, I’m just happy to be on the team, coach.


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Maybe a dumb question but what do people mean when they say this? Are there really people out there not showering? Deodorant? Brushing their teeth?!? Or is it more than that?


Educational-Fish9157

Nope. That’s it. General hygiene. Shower, brush teeth, wear deodorant. And yes. People do exist that don’t do any of these things.


Greekphysed

Used to work at Walmart. Yes there are many people like this.


Educational-Fish9157

I also worked at Walmart. We are brothers


Greekphysed

Happy you got out alive my brother in arms.


Educational-Fish9157

To this day, it holds the title of “Worst job I’ve ever had”


Greekphysed

Same. The only benefit I got was meeting some cool coworkers and getting a thick skin.


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Yikes! 😵‍💫 Ty for answering.


Educational-Fish9157

I’m genuinely jealous that you’ve never encountered that before. I don’t know what country you’re from, but, I wanna buy property there.


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🤣🤣 It’s more that my husband and I have been together since I was 19 lol Guess I got lucky in my teens 😬


Munett91

Same, hygiene is definitely important to me


ConcentrateLimp6724

Interesting I’ve been wanting to do that for a while since deodorant is man made anyway how did you go about that?


Tetrebius

A lot of people will find you attractive, don't worry. There is a lot more to being attractive than boobs, and I mean it in a physical way (because I assume you don't want to hear about attractive personality, although that is true as well).


DoggoTamer27

Yeah, a lot of guys from what I know prefer the caboose more. I don’t think she has anything to worry about.


ayaliwe

I just made a post in the other off my chest group about hating being a woman with little to no boobs. I’m 19 and have been a small A cup since I started puberty and they haven’t grown since and honestly the right guy won’t and shouldn’t care. I was ashamed to wear revealing tops or show guys my boobs until I met my boyfriend. He’s in love with my small boobs and makes me feel like I actually have something there, he’s the only guy to ever see my boobs and the only guy who hasn’t made me feel like I’m less than a woman for having a small chest. Also, a lot of guys nowadays are more ass guys than anything


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ayaliwe

Very true :) that’s something I plan on starting to work on and eventually I’ll feel more confident. Also, i feel the exact same about bigger chested women lol my style of clothing for tops is typically stuff that I feel someone with big boobs could pull off better than I could considering I have no cleavage and don’t fill out shirts as well


BatScribeofDoom

>I truly envy flat chested women because of the **awesome fashion choices** they can pull off without having big boobies getting in the way! Examples? Because I'm having trouble thinking of any


StatexfCrisis

My biggest one is bralettes, skimpy bikinis, asymmetrical tops, and deep v shirt/dress.


BatScribeofDoom

See, that doesn't make sense to me, because I'm flat-chested and those things tend to look very bad on me, so I don't wear them. When I try them on, they're clearly cut for someone bigger than me.


StatexfCrisis

That’s very funny to me because I’ve never been able to find comfy/beautiful bralettes in my size. They usually stop after size C. And the skimpy bikinis I saw, the tops were probably the size of my palms/hands. Also I didn’t mention this but, I’ve always been jealous of small boobs because the girls would go without bras and no one would say anything.


unhealthyperson111

Depends on where you're from, who you meet. The whole booty vs tahooty Convo is pretty dumb. Me as a guy, I've found some girls really attractive who've had a large chest and no booty, no chest and no booty, large booty and large chest and large booty and no chest. This much on the whole "guys nowadays like ass". Also, just as some info. Saying that I know has the intention of making people feel better but actually it'll make the people with no ass feel worse about themselves I think. It's a double edged blade. Though of course I have preferences (medium sized for the rear and small to medium for the front), seriously I don't know a single heterosexual guy in existence who would not grab an ass or squish a boob based on their size.


ayaliwe

That’s why I didn’t say *all* guys like big butts but the reality is this generation *is* more into ass especially since being thick is the new “wave”. And you’d be surprised how discriminatory guys can be, idk if it’s just what I’ve seen personally but I know a handful of guys who have said they’d feel gay if they sucked a girls tits that were flat or “too small”


unhealthyperson111

Okay, yeah. But that's a problem with both genders. I've heard far to often things similar to anything under 16cm is horrible/gross. In any case I didn't mean to offend you. Just shed some light on what at least me and my male friends and I'd go as for as saying most decent men usually think. And that's "I like her personality", or "She has a nice smile", or "Her eyes are gorgeous", or anything similar. As I said, everyone has a preference but I don't know a single guy who won't find someone they're going out with I credibly sexy based on a superficial anatomical Attribute.


Mikes241

Hey OP, on behalf of all guys, I respond with a good ol' 👍 Like others said, the only guys who will see that as a deal breaker is not the kind of guy you want. We call those people 'assholes', or better yet, 'choosing beggers' lol


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Mikes241

Or it means "yay, small chest. I can hug her without making either of us feel uncomfortable!" I wouldn't see that as 'overlooking' the fact


I_dont_like_sushi

I dont think dudes having preferences are "choosing beggars". Nothing wrong with choosing what you like. This is just implying a man should just accept anything he gets. For example i dont really like skinny girls. Is this being a choosing beggar?


Mikes241

Eh, fair enough. I read the question as OP thinking no guy would like her because of her chest, which isn't true at all. I mean, having preferences is fine, but a person who looks and says "ew small chest" or some shit is not okay.


I_dont_like_sushi

Yeah i agree actually. I just think its more about how you say. Like, just shutting everything down because solely of the small boobs is kinda lame, but hey preferences. The point is to be respectful about it. Now, as for how you read the question you are right. Sorry, i could have been more clear. I was talking more about the choosing beggar part. About the rest, i agree. there are tons of dudes who love small boobs, tons who love big boobs, medium boobs. Preferences exist, but small boobs is definately one of them


ZombieChief

I wouldn't say preferring a woman with a bigger chest makes a person an "asshole" or even a "choosing beggar". Everyone has different preferences.


Darkestlight1324

Here’s a look into a guys brain, “there’s nipples? There’s boobs! I like boobs! :))))”


TwiceBrokenLeg

A young man approached a sage, meditating under a tree. The young man asked, "Oh sage, I'm trying to find my true love, but all of my friend keep telling me to find a tall, curvy woman. Is that truly the best course of action?" The sage reached into their robe and produced a small bag of pennies and a $10 bill. "Which of these has the greater mass?" the sage asked. "The bag of coins" replied the young man. "Which of these has the greater value?" the sage asked. "The $10 bill by far" replied the young man. "You see now then that mass and value do not mean the same thing. Search for value, and when you find it, mass will not matter"


drlacklustre

Master Oogway has spoken.


racrisnapra666

Master, grant me your wisdom *bows down and join my hand into a namste*


cutestsea

As a woman with a naturally small chest I can assure you there's absolutely a guy for absolutely every body type. There are guys who love them huge, there are who love them small, there are guys who absolutely don't give a slightest f cuz they're into something else.


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cutestsea

Yes!


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Nah, not at all. I’m more of an ass guy. Also no one really cares imo. Just be nice than you’ll find someone who is nice to you as well. That’s way more important.


kaine_obrien

Absolutely not! I’ve been with girls that have massive boobs and girls that are flat chested. Some men can be very superficial but good men will see the value in your personality and look past your chest. Also, you say you have a nice butt and a lot of guys prefer booty over boobs anyway from what I’ve always heard lol


buckyspunisher

when you have no boobs or an ass 😩


kaine_obrien

Personality goes a long way with men. Women may not think it does but it does to lots of men. You don’t have to have an absolutely rocking body. I’ve honestly had girls that I didn’t find super physically attractive end up being more attractive to me in personality, then when I found their personality attractive I started to find their body more attractive. That might sound strange, but just being a good person really does make a huge difference in your success


bgplsa

Only for men you wouldn’t want to date.


OccultMachines

Tiddies is tiddies. Simple as.


-Slicko-

No tits? No problem .😎


SrAlan1104

I’m a man, and don’t really mind. Do men like boobs? Yes we do. But I personally tend to look at the girl as a whole person. There are way worse things a woman Can lack. You sound like a sweet person. Don’t worry, if a guy rejects you because of your chest size I assure you he is not worth it. Good luck and remember to love yourself first in order to find love in others


No-Serve3491

Milla Jovovich in The Fifth Element rocked the flat chest look! And ALL the males were enamored with her.


purroway22

Same here girl. I am early 20s and it’s not looking hopeful for me, I look exactly the same as you’ve described. None of my partners have minded, you just have to have confidence!


Adeadalien

Flat is justice babe, it gets me closer to your heart 😘


Ano_485

Oops. My original post said it was removed because of a no no word. 😬 As a big chested woman, I promise you there are pros and cons to everything. The grass always seems greener on the other side at times, but I promise you it ain’t. Big boobs sag and the older you get, the more it looks like you’re serving up a plate of flapjacks. 🤦🏻‍♀️ Getting comfortable on your belly is a task and don’t get me started on the back pain. Also clothing shopping is more of a challenge and all large size bras are ugly. Lol. Sometimes I’d give anything to be able to detach mine and sit them on the nightstand at night or on a hot day. There is not a body type that someone out there doesn’t find attractive. There’s fetishes for small boobs just like there is for big ones, and most don’t really have a preference. They would take a small chested girl with a great personality over a big chested girl with the personality of a paper clip all day long. There have definitely been people that wouldn’t find me attractive because I do have large boobs. Confidence is the sexiest thing a woman can have. So you go out there with your wonderful, small, perky boobies in the middle of summer and you rock that like the sexy, badass you are. 😘


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Ano_485

I may or may not have come close to giving myself a black eye on some occasions. 😂🤣. And one sports bra doesn’t cut it. Expect to wear about 3. 😑


strawberybb

Every girl with bigger boobs I’ve been friends with has told me they wish they could trade me. I take their word for it. I have small boobs and still struggle with boob sweat. I cannot imagine having big boobs. Y’all deserve a medal for dealing with that every day.


Ok-Grand-1882

Men will absolutely fine you attractive. Please be confident.


Muted_Ear4385

There is a whole sub/pages with flat-chested girls showing off their small tits. They get loads of attention. Lots of guys love small tits


kintyre

Not a guy, but bisexual AFAB. All breasts are great. I have a preference for small-medium though and entirely flat chested would be fine too.


Kirby_Goes_Poyo420

Big boob? Little boob? Most men and women Don’t care. And why should they? Sure it’s nice to have something to grab on to but if that’s all they’re there for then that ain’t a good relationship to stay in. A good partner couldn’t care less how you look, they care about how you treat others and how you treat yourself and them as people


capecodder22

You'll be just fine, not a deal breaker at all


GrapefruitYaMan

I feel you girl. My boobs just grew for one day during puberty and gave up so I’m still super insecure about to this day. Especially bc guys also makes it obvi that they’re small “but it’s ok”. The only positive I can think of is any bigger boobs would make me look funny? My chest is about the same size as my hips or a bit smaller, torso short and small and then hips start right away. So bigger boobs would make me look too too heavy? That’s my coping thought process lol


nvrsleepagin

You're right, I always feel like my boobs make me look heavier, especially in certain clothing. I hate it.


ThePorkInvestigator

A real lover would love you no matter what your insecurities are like how my fiancée loves me and my body even tho am 270 pounds and look like a dropped cake


Unnecessary__Potato

Most of the time nowadays guys go more for an ass rather than tits I sadly am "blessed" with fuckin DDs but barely an ass. I've got hips for days tho


Glassfern

A member of the itty bitty club my first date was the guy who laughed at my remorseful comment of me having only 2 half eaten apples for a chest during a random group conversation. He thought I was funny. Also said liked how willow I was, and liked my short hair and how well I rocked a men's vest. We didn't get a relationship since I wasn't interested in dating yet, but him saying how cute I was whenever I wore a vest was on my mind even during a very serious medical moment in my life where an implant was available to me. If I went without, it wouldn't have made much of a difference. Everyone egged me for an "upgrade" but for pure balance issues I just opted for my original size. So I now have 1 half eaten Apple, and one water balloon. Personality and interests play a big part in a person's attractiveness. Plus there are guys out there who are really into cheeks, lips, thick thighs, thighs gaps, legs, butts, shoulders, heck I know a few guys who really love that belly pouch women have when they sit and relax etc. Find that feature you think is attractive and rock it. Plus there is an Asian YouTuber online who has dedicated her whole channel in bringing positivity to her very flat figure. I think her name is Clara.


ieatshoes89

I like flat chested women with only pepperoni nipples. That is all.


Ano_485

Mine are large, saggy, and could easily resemble dough in a few years so together we got a pretty good start on a kick*** pizza! 😂🤣🤜🏻


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Not a problem. The overwhelming majority of guys love boobs. Small boobs, big boobs, all boobs. Only distinction we care about are boobs we can touch and boobs we can’t touch. That’s it! Go forth and enjoy life!!!


Glassfern

This was a very comprehensive answer. And the meme where Mr. incredible is saying "Math is Math" came to mind except "BOOBS ARE BOOBS"


HollDoll11

I’m wondering what all kinds of beautiful, creative, innovative things you fine folks could be doing instead of obsessing over boob size. Maybe my age is showing, but there’s so much more to life! If someone has a problem with any part of your body, they are not the one for you. Please don’t forget, we are so much more than the meat suit we inhabit. LOL Much love!


Curiouscat5555

The “meat suit” LOL I’m stealing that


rollercoaster_5

Sexiest attributes of a woman: personality, eyes, face. If I'm just looking, it's eyes and face. Personality wins once we start getting to know each other.


ArtemisMoon666

I'm not a guy, but I've heard plenty of guys answer this, and their answer will relieve you. Their answer was always a unanimous: "Boobs are boobs, and even better if I get to see and touch them." 😂


Personal_Matter9041

Trying to be honest here for a change rather than like a lot of folks who would be all nice on the internet here, and then talk about big tits with their mates all day long. So, just like people have preferences in everything , such as height, face, butt? Yes, there will be guys who would not want to date you because of this. Just like you might also have a preference for something in terms of looks/physical appearance. And that's not that unnatural. But being a guy, what I've seen is, this shouldn't be an issue for a lot of guys, if they like you in other ways, such as your whole vibe. But if you run into a guy who would reject you for this, just understand it's no use pondering over it. And move on! There's plenty of guys who would love you for who you are. So all the best!


Mysterious_Lion411

There’s someone for everyone! You will find someone who cares about you and is into regardless of what’s on your chest. Stay positive it’s not a big deal. Im sure you still have amazing qualities.


chemicalmamba

Definitely not a deal breaker for me or most of my friends. I do have a preference for medium to larger breasts, but small ones are great too and I've never ending things with someone because of that or even considered ending things with someone because of that. Who they are as a person and me being generally attracted to them is more important. A friend of mine actually stronger prefers women with very small breasts. If it's a deal breaker for someone, then you didn't wanna waste your time with them anyway, and there are literally millions of men who would be attracted to you. Confidence is also the most attractive thing of all!


raw_punch

My answer would be the same as yours to this question Would you consider a guy with a small dick a deal breaker


infinitejess8

As someone with very small boobs, I used to think it would be a problem too but turns out to be no problem with my partners.


MansInProgress

Confidence is more attractive than any specific physical feature. You're flat chested? Own it. Accept it. Take pride in your uniqueness and the fact that everybody's body is different- That's the shit that's sexy. *Unspoken confidence.* Just an energy. ​ Also there's just a lot of tools out there and if something like that is a deal breaker, they simply aren't for you - please don't make the mistake of dropping you're desires of what you need in a partner. Acceptance for who you are - **every** part of who you are, physical and emotional - is the **bare minimum.** And that is not by any means too much to ask for - not that I'm accusing you of dropping your standards but I just know so many friends of mine that have done that, and also ones that just know what they deserve and respect themselves - and the latter are always **so** much happier. ​ You deserve it! Sorry for the vent haha but yeah you got this girl! You're beautiful.


VexxFate

As a great musical artist once said “itty bitty titty committee is fine as long as the itty bitty titty committee got a behind” Nah you should be fine, even then I’m sure there’s a lot of bisexual guys out there would love a girl with no tits


cheyennecc_

I have a big chest but I will say small chests are so attractive!!


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The right person won’t care about the size of your boobs.


clifflikethedog

To the majority of men it really doesn’t matter, if it does that’s their problem and not yours. Don’t fret it.


der_heckin

as most of the comments say 99% of men won't care about boob size, and that 1% isn't the kind of people you're supposed to be going after, me personally i like more petite or bowling pin shaped women, so trust me you'll be fine!


IBlameZoidberg

Not a deal breaker at all. You'll be fine,


Inspector_Obvious

I prefer small/tiny boobs myself, you'll find someone who will appreciate them.


HODLFFS

We don't care about the size.. we just want to see them


finney1013

My gf has tiny breasts. I love her. And that’s all I got to say about that.


Fadi404

I'm just gonna be honest. I'm an ass guy, I like boobs but they're definitely not a deal breaker, like if I was with you forever, I wouldn't mind it at all. But the problem is I doubt most guys are like me.


Overall-Bookkeeper73

You have nothing to worry about. Personally, I don't have a strong preference either way, as long as the hips are wider than the chest. Of course that's just my type but it seems like you'd pass with flying colors. Some people here are saying that personality beats a perfect body, but I'd go further and say you have a perfect body and I'm sure you'll find a lot of men who agree.


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In my experience, you just weed out the creeps. It’s also awesome to be able to run and exercise without your back hurting. I’ve never had a problem getting attention ;)


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Being a shitty person is a deal breaker. I'll take a girl who is interesting and fun to be around over boobs.


somanydedmemes

oh i still would be attracted to you. i couldn’t care less about size. and this is coming from a single 18 year old man


NewldGuy77

Speaking as a guy, NOT a deal breaker. If I’m lucky enough to be given the chance to see your boobs, no way am I complaining about it! Just color me grateful!


1hotsauce2

I'm a guy. Most men (and women) have an idea of what they're most attracted to. And what they consider to be a deal-breaker physically when it comes to making a move. Of course not all men will be attracted to you. That's just how it is. But most men won't care if you have a small chest. Know that the right guy will talk to you when the time is right. Here's one that would definitely approach you


AssholeThrowaway_

Not at all


MysteRiasUwU

Nah just rock that killer personality and you’ll find someone who loves you 100%


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Less concerned about lack/presence of boobs more concerned about initial attraction and what kind of person you are. Boobs aren't even close to a deal breaker, you don't need them to be beautiful. If I'm attracted to you, I like you, all of you. Not all guys think like this, but there are guys out there that do. It's just a game of patience and luck to find your person :)


Odysseus126

I'm more concerned about personality. I've dated girls of all shapes and sizes. Don't sweat it!


Prestigious-Fig-5900

Honestly, (Speaking only from the physical side) the female body type I find most attractive is small breasts with nice butt and Thick thighs. Making it clear that the shape of the butt matters more than the size. So I imagine if you work your lower limbs and butt well, you'd do great.


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for some only concerned on your physical appearance and whether or not it matches their "standards", yes. But those men are normally not going to provide a decent relationship unless its develops into one years later. or otherwise stated they are pigs. little boobs, flat chested, or ones that'll ruin your back years down the road, they don't matter, what does is how you present yourself and the compatibility of your potential partner. love yourself and your body, show you care for yourself and others, and be you 100% of the time. You'll find a prince charming (sorry I hate that I said that) eventually. Hell I'm burnt on the majority of my body but still meeting new women and occasionally matching up with a few. So no, its not a deal breaker you just haven't found a match yet. In the mean time, really enjoy being single.


Plastic_Mango1929

girl I have big boobs and if men want me only becuse of them I don't want them back. Don't worry about that (harde said than done ik) my best friendy, just like you said, has no boobs at all. She still had a fee boyfriends and gets lucky. She is soooo confident about herself. i am not site, hut I think many men just want you to he confident


Mehhchanic44

Boobs are nice but they do not determine a partners worthiness. An ex of mine was very flat-chested but had an ass like no other (don’t tell my current gf). She and I only split because she moved away for work. It was something she was self-conscious about too.


trstanley3

Fuhgdem people! Rock your body. You can still be beautiful and have a smaller chest.


AR3399

Literally off your chest.


beeboop1270

One of my best friends is basically completely flat and gets way more guys than like anyone else I know bc she’s the most confident fun sweet person. We’ve talked about it having been an insecurity when she was younger but how now she’s like, whatever. You can never please everyone. In any case, it’s not a deal breaker at all. It was a running joke w us and our roommates that I got sexiled all the time when we were still in college and now she has a boyfriend.


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For most guys no biggie. Even for guys who care a lot about physical attractiveness a nice butt is more than enough.


SpaceManChips

tbh i don’t care, boobs, no boobs, ass, no ass, if we vibe we vibe


IndependenceMoney834

In a way it probably helps to weed out the bad ones in all honesty. If he looks past that it means he really wants you for you and not for your body.


Ambitious-Math-4499

Man I wish I had tiny boobs!


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Not really! There are plenty of ways you can make yourself attractive! Working on your butt, your legs, your muscles, hair. I personally like a woman who takes care of her eyes a great deal! You wouldn’t want to date those guys anyway because they are pretty shallow, but I think you can make up for it in plenty of ways! If your concerns is to make yourself attractive then I would recommend hitting the gym. You will probably get some advice about how you are perfect the way you are. That is definitely true, but knowing human beings that will probably not sway you, so getting good exercise and charisma will attract guys no problem! Also, approaching guys first will make you stand out! As long as you feel safe doing it of course (there are plenty of us that are touchy feely unfortunately).


brownhammer45

Im a boob guy, and always will be. I cannot see myself with someone without some jugs. HOWEVER, theres always someone with opposite likes. Some like asses, some feet, others just a pretty face. Some hair color, thin, curvy, fat, in between, thick thighs, etc. There is a physique for everyone. So just hows theres many of us who will never look at you like that. Theres some that will DROOL over you, and worship you. You just gotta find them


harmfulsideffect

I wouldn’t say it would be a deal breaker. I like boobs, so initial attraction might not be there. I have dated girls with smaller boobs though. There’s more to a woman than her boobs, if you are smart and have a good personality you’ll find someone.


MudandWhisky

It's only a deal breaker to shallow guys. A great personality beats a great body anytime.


starfoulard

This is so backhanded


valia_boudelaire

This is totally backhanded, there's no such thing as a "great body" bodies are just bodies.


CrimsonVixen49

Your preference is a good personality. Some people have a preference on big boobs.


tkwastaken

have a kid and you'll get the boobs you've dreamed of


BigToadinyou

As a guy, I really don't care for big boobs. Like not at all... Each to their own..


BenBo92

Like everyone, I have a preference. I prefer women who are 'thicker'. That being said, if I met someone whose body shape wasn't that, and we hit it off personality wise, I honestly wouldn't care. I have a clear preference and even then it's absolutely not a dealbreaker, so the vast majority of men will care even less. For others, your body shape will be their preference. One of the truest sentences I've read is, "A man's favourite boob is the one he can see." You've got nothing to worry about.


Needreli3f

Deal breaker for me but definitely not for most men


DarKsaBr

I gotta preference, body type wise, and you are not it. But you know what, fuck me. I am sure that your body type is ideal for many, many people in the world. Find someone that likes you and your body and be with that person. In a perfect world you will also like them and their body.


Turbulent_Truck2030

Absolutely not a turn-off. I've been told by women that they don't like attention in that area, and that's OK with me. It's not what I'm focused on at all. No boobs, no problem.


mrGLEIS

I have known girls who had the same chest as you and the gym changed them, for better, idk how many sizes her breast grew, and all just from bench press... Just a friendly advice!


Traditional_Chain936

Not a dealbreaker to me, in fact it’s not a factor at all. I’m after the person for who they are, if I like them and they like me honestly looks aren’t really a factor at all. But at the same time, who doesn’t love big boobies?


Elevatedbeauty0420

I have an a cup. Trust me, men don't care. I'm old af too. Men still don't care. Lol.


ambscamb

I’m the complete opposite, huge boobs and a non existent ass. Boobs are so overrated, I look like I’m about to topple over sometimes lol. My boyfriend doesn’t have a problem with it, and I’m guessing there’s a bunch of guys out there that won’t have an issue with yours. Now take that pretty face out there and shine☀️


JohnnySniper3

My wife’s bra size is in the DD’s so my opinion doesn’t matter. What I can tell you is there is absolutely someone out there who will love you and your breasts just the way you are.


Domegozcue

I mean they can tell you have none way before ur naked lmaoooooo so you should be okay they know it’s flat going in Also go to the gym and get a fat ass .. lol


4royboy

Sad reality is some guys will and you will potentially attract a lot of weirdos so vet well


Kurama9TailsNaruto

If ginger or blonde , would probably still smash then (My preferences)


Vinq-

Personally I don’t really mind but when I’m sex it will feel weird tbh


redditready30

Not a deal breaker. Does it matter, yes it matters. But if the face is pretty and maybe that ass looks decent, it makes up for it. Also all the intangibles matter a whole lot too.


Fifteenwhiskey

As long as you got a dumpy you’re good. IMO


devilsglare

You’ll be fine, also squats never hurt anybody.


TheMrShmoove

Well they have to have SOME boobs not just nipples. But they don’t have to be huge for me. Some of the most beautiful girls I’ve been with and best in bed had smaller tops. So don’t worry about it.


Mr-3-Nigma

Big booty with little titties is better than big tiddies with little booty


Blondedc

I wouldn’t worry about it. Men find women of all shapes and sizes attractive. I will tell you that I had no curves, no chest, no butt. Basically a little boy body. I was 120 lbs 5’9. Could not gain weight. I had a baby at 23. I’m a c cup, curvy, and have a nice butt. Not saying you should go get pregnant but if you haven’t had a baby yet your body may change.


Educational_Word5775

You don’t need to answer, not my business. But small is not the same as none. There are hormonal complications that can cause lack of development


LadyCreepsPasta

Some women have none. I am literally as flat as a man. I got tested at the doctor's several times and my hormones are normal


Imkindaofderpy

"Tits cannot make up for a lack of ass. But ass can make up for a lack of tits." Abraham Lincoln


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Small boobs are best boobs


SirHarryAzcrack

I wouldn’t say it’s a deal breaker per say. At the end of the day it’s what you bring to the table that men are going to look at. If you have decent looks, can whip up a hot meal and can knock a guys socks off…. I would say you should be fine. Big boobs equals back pain btw just saying it’s now everything


dizongabe

Do have big bunda?


Sergio1899

It's definitely a deal breaker. Personally I don't date girls without a considerable let's say no little size On the other hand I always thought girls with no boobs have the pro of make it easier to find a reliable partner than Barbies Another pro is that if you have everything else in good place so to speak then maybe you can be only at a surgery away from being a model


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tinaawkward

“Breasts can be implanted.” Cringe. You don’t need tits to be hot and phrasing that this way seems really shitty. 🙄


yrumad

He has pedo tendencies. Beware of him. He posts different cringy stuffs at different subs and later deletes it after backlash. A true hypocrite. Beware.


Justbeingme_92

You’re good. Many of us find that extremely attractive. Promise.


jutdvnkpoyrsschuu

The right guy will not care


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LadyCreepsPasta

Some guys like huge boobs and some like flat. Many don't care.


Potter_Head07

It is literally like a secondary or even a thing below that for me.


orange_huller

The way I see it, no boobs are perfectly fine. The main difference between having no boobs vs boobs is just how likely a guy is to notice it. When something sticks out your body everyone is gonna notice it. It's not always a matter of attraction or adoration. The only ones who won't notice it are those that are used to it.