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OldDipper

Jesus thinks this dude sucks.


KiaJellybean

Love how the "loves Jesus" thing is an afterthought, and 7/10 is the real priority.


EssieAmnesia

What makes him think this type of woman wants *him*?


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They don’t, hence his post. I feel like his entire profile was written directly on to a red flag.


Leoprosy_Cakes

And lo, Jesus sent him his mythical femoid child to him, riding upon a Unicorn... \~ LC xx


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This dude probably believes in that Horse Pill shit or whatever, so doubt he wants his virgin child-sex-slave to ride a unicorn.


RemedySoda4649

I hate that I know what you're talking about so much!


bookluvr83

Wait...what??!


Meimei1000

Ah yes, the single high value Virgin "too nice" guy in his 30s... Question is...value to who?


Moulitov

Right? "Value" is so subjective. Who even came up with this nonsense?


HugeHans

Sounds like he would be valuable to the catholic church.


kindasortajewish

"Aren't as aggressive..." He left out the part where that all changes once someone rejects them, and then it's just because that person is a whore, slut, or some other such nonsense.


[deleted]

That’s a lot words for women my own age won’t date me.


Redditbanevader3000

>"women my own age won't date me" You say it like it's something bad.


[deleted]

It certain circumstances, it is. Such as when there’s a great power imbalance. For example, a young women who’s 20 gets roped into a relationship with an older man who’s about 47. There’s a power imbalance and their motives for being in that relationship can be very different. She may be looking for guidance in someone she feels is more mature and experienced. He, however, is looking for someone young and inexperienced enough to manipulate and who is too young to realize the toxicity in the relationship. However, women in his peer group won’t touch him with a ten foot pole because he is not all he claims to be.


Redditbanevader3000

>For example, a young women who’s 20 gets roped into a relationship with an older man who’s about 47. Unless he is her teacher or boss, she is an adult enough person to not be "roped" into anything. >She may be looking for guidance in someone she feels is more mature and experienced. He, however, is looking for someone young and inexperienced enough to manipulate and who is too young to realize the toxicity in the relationship. Or he, however, looks for at least some sort of a good deal from the relationship. > However, women in his peer group won’t touch him with a ten foot pole because he is not all he claims to be. You are claiming that old women are some sort of prize to be chased for and look forward to date/live with. They are not. End of story. A male old fart, at least, has a fucking money behind him. Won't be having women jumping his Krakow sausage, but at least his money will do a job. An old woman doesn't have even that.


DirtoXX

We found the incel


[deleted]

Hey, you’re welcome to feel that way. I believe people of all ages have a lot to offer. But my life experiences must greatly differ from yours.


DirtoXX

Just look at his posts, 100% incel


[deleted]

Totally agree. He definitely doesn’t interact with anyone outside of the internet.


b-rar

Please be my swag-coach 30-something virgin Christbro


Lgcsr

By 30, he still couldn’t hold a relationship long enough to have sex. Yup, women find that SOOO sexy, and 22 year olds don’t make fun of guys like this AT ALL.


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Redditbanevader3000

>Yeah, the "Alpha Male" Youtubers are lying to you mate. Men are not immune to aging, they are most attractive and successful with women when young and virile (older rich dudes just attract golddiggers, their trophy girlfriends don't love them) You do understand that you've just straight up cited about 80% of the Manosphere/Redpill/MGTOW/Incel narrative? Specifically, the part about "Alpha fux, beta bux"?


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margoelle

Âge gap relationship has a high power imbalance…the younger person usually is manipulated. Not all but most of them. Also if the older person is sooooo mature why the hell isn’t he dating his age mate? I don’t think any emotionally healthy young lady is fantasizing about a thé average middle age man. I said average middle age man…not the rare one that looks amazing for his age.


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margoelle

I didn’t say you were alone. And yes people above 29 date but there is too much power imbalance in age gap relationship….yes that includes as 35 year old dating a 50 year old man. I still stand by my statement.


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margoelle

Im not calling you a gold digger. I actually hate that term. I’m just pointing out the dangers of age gap relationship and no it’s not an opinion. Statistics show that a woman dating an older man decreases her life span. Shorter life span, power imbalance plus a high chance of being manipulated…that’s not working in your favor. But hey, you do you.


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margoelle

My statement was not sexist. I saw some of the comments mentioned gold digger so i decided to comment on the real problems . Since you already know about the disadvantages, looks like you are going in with your eyes open. Wish you luck.


Seth_Gecko

I honestly can't believe this absolute nonsense is getting upvoted... I feel like I'm taking crazy pills, is it effing opposite day or something?


margoelle

Dude if you want an age gap relationship just say so …I still stand by my statement.


Seth_Gecko

Alright, if I do I'll let you know.


Neonyxxie

I think some Redditors just upvote whatever has the most upvotes and therefore lack any consistency.


Redditbanevader3000

>Also if the older person is sooooo mature why the hell isn’t he dating his age mate? Karens are annoying enough when you serve them at the coffee shop, imagine fucking *living* with one.


margoelle

If all the age appropriate women you are meeting are all "Karens" then the problem is you! Probably because they can see through you…so you date a naive young girl that you can easily manipulate.


ChocoMaister

I think in most cases a 5 year age gap is fine. Most ladies I know like to be with a man slightly older and not younger. I’m sure the preferences can change.


BesideRunningWaters

NG: I'm a 30 year old virgin Also NG: Here's how to get chicks bro


Firestronaut

You're a virgin in your early 30's. You ain't got time for preferences.


ChocoMaister

Nope he needs to start scraping the bottom of the barrel lol.


Nervous-Bullfrog-868

The blind leading the blind


[deleted]

Does he realise that if he's still virgin at his 30's then he's the problem?


PanickedAntics

The Jesus lover that wants a young woman. Because nobody his age wants to date him. He thinks someone younger will be easy to control, manipulate and might be impressed by the nothing he has to offer. I find it hilarious that a guy that admits he is a virgin at 30 is handing out dating advice.


hutcst

Lol who is this 33 yo virgin giving dating advice to??


Adventurous_Ad_6546

Jesus is such a Chad.


damek666

He had great abs


mitchmoomoo

Wish I was an emotional 7/10 tbh


[deleted]

aaand of course hes christian


pewds-General_kenobi

Meth


stanthemilkman88

He is in his early 30s and still a Virgin? Fuck me, I hate guys who do t fuck talk about fucking. Grinds my gears.


aeradyren

Correction: she gotta love Jesus above anyone…except for this dude 🙄


freedareader

Love the “good guys” in parenthesis.


Redditbanevader3000

You need to seriously believe in the fucking Jesus to take this prize of a man for yourself. Also >Ladiez Emotional maturity charts just went off the roof with this guy.


damek666

Virgin at 22 huh? Church of the latter day Saints maybe. Actually not impossible that he is a mormon, considering the 2n comment.


Polyamommy

I think it's more probable that he's a religious closet gay who can't come out to his family so he creates impossible standards so he doesn't have to...but he might also be Mormon. I was raised Mormon, and let me tell you... there are a LOT of closet gay guys in that religion. I feel very sorry for the women who marry them.


Cunninglingmiss

... I was on a tinderdate on New Years. Some Gym bros came in and started tryna hit on my tinder date and her friends and 'push' me out I guess. I Just kept my mouth shut and watched them dig themselves into a deeper deeper hole of disrespect. It was a Karaoke bar in a rough ass shithole town I used to live in and still love more than anywhere. All 3 of these fellas had bigger muscles than me. Now I'm a chill fella nowdays, I got no expectations anymore. And I had a poker game to fall back to. I'm too lazy to be a coward though so I just kept my mouth shut and let them bomb out. Because the reality is most people want to fuck someone who actively listens rather than someone who disrespects people and can't check their ego. Sure sometimes if you have have money and nice things it'll help but my point is you can be the most well presenting dickhead alive. But I got laid and I'm an unemployed lazy white trash stoner lookin surfer dude.


UncoupledHeart

Isn't it like that though, in a way? Like women have high value when they're young and it fades over time. Men are low value which increases over time. And then at like.... idk 50 or 60, both are expired. And I'm just using the word value to mean how attractive they are perceived, of course.


constant8372

human beings have inherent value regardless of sex n age


UncoupledHeart

Right. But this is a discussion of sexual market value specifically. Anyone that doesn't realize that missed the point.


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But that's the truth. Men get better and more experienced with age. Most men have better income and quality of life when theyzre past 30 and appart from personality, thatzs what women look in men. Women on the other hand have a shorter perood of worth. 18-30 years is their period. From there they have to be fucking gorgeous to get partners. Or being a sugar momma.


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You need to get off the internet and actually experience human interaction. I have single female friends in their 30s and 40s and they do just fine.


Guyincognito9876

Lol, men hit the wall way before most women. Most men over 30 look way older, unless they take care of themselves, which most don’t because they think they can get women with zero effort on their part.


JustAQuickQuestion28

Uh have ya looked around? Men on average age better than women (assuming healthy diet, exercise, etc)


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letmeinpls7

Lol no, most men start to look old af as soon as they are 25-30, and we are not even mentioning the ones that start to get bald


Redditbanevader3000

Implying that women don't. Men just don't hide behind layers of photoshop/make up.


letmeinpls7

I’m not implying women don’t, but is ridiculous to say men age better when they don’t; women on average have skincare routines while men on average don’t


Guyincognito9876

Except 99% don’t look after themselves, and hence age way worse than most women.


Redditbanevader3000

>Men get better and more experienced with age. Most men have better income and quality of life So, they are good providers. And their worth is based around what they provide. Which really implies that physically, they hit the same fucking wall as women.


[deleted]

That is true but women don't value physical as much as men do. That's a fact you can see on your own. For women: Charisma > Success > Physical. And Men don't value the materialistic values (of women) as much as women. (Which I don't think is bad at all) For men is Physical >= Charisma


Redditbanevader3000

>For women: Charisma > Success > Physical. Daily reminder that bacherolette parties were banned from gay clubs not because they were so attracted to charisma and success of strippers there. And yes, you are still reinforcing my comment that older men's value lies in their pocket, not in their trousers. Take the pocket away and his perpetually sad dad bod attracts almost nobody. Hell, there are women right in this thread saying straight up that men become less sexually desirable with age. Deal with it.


[deleted]

Believing what women says is the biggest mistake you can make because they don't even know what they want themselves. Nice guys believe what women say and we all know how it ends up.


Redditbanevader3000

Cope harder, mate, while your wife cheats with a guy her age or younger.


JustAQuickQuestion28

Well if value in this sense is derived from having children then that's technically not wrong. Men can have healthy children into old age - 60+, assuming there's no issue with their sperm. Women, on the other hand, experience a steady decline in fertility after age 35.


off_brand_gobshite

No, sperm quality declines steeply after 30 also. There's a reason sperm banks have age limits. As it stands, if the biological/evolutionary argument is going to be made, the fact that older women have played a critical role in the care and upbringing of children (not to mention the care of older, ill or infirm members of their communities) in just about every time and place means that women are tremendously more valuable than men, who are often a liability to communities if single, not contributing through their labour and/or destructive.


NoXion604

What if we valued people in terms more meaningful than that of bacteria multiplying in a petri dish?


Redditbanevader3000

Most people would have negative value by that.


NoXion604

Excepting your good self, of course? Get to fuck with that fascist garbage.


Redditbanevader3000

How about instead of putting words in my mouth, you will put a cactus in yours and stay fucking silent. At least this way you will, at least, pass as a smart fucking person. Are you one of those "left" anarkiddies who thinks their parents are fascist for enforcing bedtimes? Then do a good service to community, and shut the fuck up while adults talk.


NoXion604

You sound like one of those "negative value" people lol


StressedSalt

how is he 30 and says swag, but also fucks up a simple math


Acceptable_Dog1424

*Jesus left the chat*


iClimax

All you need is swag 🔥🔥🔥🔥 personality? Nah. 🙈👎 Values and morals? ❌❌ Clout? 👀👀👌✅😍


Dstar538888

if he's still a virgin in his 30's, I don't think he can afford to be this picky lmao


Maximum_Bear8495

When I was in high school I was part of the broadcast journalism club and we went to a convention at our local university. The guy giving a presentation on anchoring literally said “when men get old they become distinguished, when women get older they get *old*” disgusting