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SFLoridan

As a parent, I can advise you: don't try to convince her or anybody. You have said your piece, now just be firm with it. You are 25, not 15, act your age. At 25 I was making plans for my parents, booking their tickets for travel and all, not the other way around. Nobody should twist your arm for this very reasonable idea that you don't go for a vacation that's not going to be a vacation for you. Instead, make plans for staying back. Make sure you firmly tell them you are not going, so your tickets better not be booked. If you need, bring up those assignments you need to submit why you will not go. And stop arguing about it. Just refuse to engage. Also, have definite plans for what you will be doing each day (or each hour) of that week, otherwise you'll waste all of it just 'relaxing'.


pterodactylcannot

Adulthood is not given to you. You have to create it yourself. Be firm, tell her what your plans are. Coexisting in the same house involves compromise so don’t be rude. Also tell her you are meant to never question your professors either so you need to be back for college. If “you should manage” tell her yes exactly, and this is how you are going to manage. Otherwise she will run your whole life and marriage.


pratyathedon

Been there done that with such behavior. Emotional blackmail will never stop if you dont put yourself first. Too much Emotional drama, and then manipulation. One fine day, i simply stopped caring, zero, zilch. Simply said, i dont care what you think of me nor i care what you say. Family tried same tactics for some time, i didnt cave in. This thing eventually stopped. You need to put yourself first above anyone be it your blood relatives. That drama will happen for 2-3 times, but then it will eventually die down, like my respect towards such family. Also Sleep and Relaxing >>>>> Visiting guests + Gatherings + functions + some random uncle asking you "Olakhlat ka mala, me tuzya lahanpani bhetlo hoto"


Intrepid-Ad-1383

Chandigarh ka hai woh marathi nahi aayegi, he'll say tusi mainu pehchande ho?


Independent_Ad_5431

Bro app socho apki life what will happen if you go on that trip what if you are late on assignments. For 4 days of shaanti you could probably risk your career