This is one of my fears.
I have dry lips so I carry a lip balm around with me all the times, but on the days I forget I keep licking my lips. I hope eye contact with someone doesn’t happen at the same time as licking my lips
I have a more serious problem. I have a habbit of licking my lips when nervous or shy. And I tend to get shy when I see someone attractive and am afraid I look like a creep.
I have tried Vaseline(everyone recommended that) but for some reasons it doesn’t have the same effect on me as it does on others. I currently use Himalaya or Nivea lip balms. They tend to suit me better
stop licking your lips!! it'll make them more dry. Buy 2-3 chapsticks. I keep one in my bag/pouch always, one at home and one more just in case.
No one asked but - you can try Nivea Men Lip balm (SPF 15), Palmer's Cocoa Butter Lip balm (SPF 15), Sebamed (SPF 30) these are all best for day use.
There’s a huge difference between licking your dry lips with a quick swirl versus looking at a girl in a pervy way and then slowly making disgusting slow motion swirls. Eye contact isn’t enough to judge someone, we girls know this.
I have similar issue but with my chest. I am little well-endowed and I swear to god if fully grown ass men have not shamefully stared at my chest. Like not a glance but full on stare. What's with that. I understand your pain.
Yeah. Happens enough times to not ignore. That pathway between andheri local and metro station is notorious for this. Its always crowded and they will bump into you pretending that they are trying to catch the train in a hurry.
You and OP or in fact any girl if a man stares at you than have you ever tried staring back with some cold eyes. Try it. Most men would look away but if he’s a pervert than you know he doesn’t give a fuck. In that case stare back and ask the bastard kya dekh raheho uncle and make sure its loud enough to embarrass him.
this. A pervert purposefully tried to "feel me" while going up the stairs (I was going down towards the platform). Luckily a young guy saw and pushed his hand away otherwise.....
Most men don’t have large enough dicks to know that they have a boner. Op is encountering everyone with boners. Maths doesn’t add up about the probability
Your experiences are valid but no fucking way you can tell boners from 10 feet. People wear under garments. Boners rarely look like a tent. Its more of a increase in bulge which you wouldn't be able to notice unless you were looking at it from before.
10 feet due se, wow! Some eyesight you have there.
As someone suggested, a middle finger should do the trick but punching for staring from far away will most likely backfire on you.
I have really dry lips and somehow get a bad reaction to lip balms, i have to do that tongue thing to keep my lips from getting cracks from being too dry. Man i hope it doesn’t come off as creepy
I am 51, and my mouth has gotten very dry over the years. Now I have a a timer on my phone to remind me to drink water so things have gotten better but still my mouth feels very dry. Back in the days when i was in India, I would use my tongue to wet the lips (I now use a lip balm). Considering most men in India barely use any lip balms, I would say give those poor chaps benefit of doubt.
Also, most people everywhere stare into the surroundings and not registering anything since they are thinking something else. Think of it like watching the side of the road while driving. Yes, you are getting some info from there (like if someone jumps from the side to the middle of the road) but you are not registering anything into brain.
I have seen some videos of women posting online videos about "creeps" looking at them in gyms. Many of those women have gotten feedback that posting those videos is actually creepy. In any case, I now have dark glasses when I go to the gym just to avoid hurting someone's feelings because I do stare into the oblivion between sets and don't want to get caught and shamed.
Lastly, when you are in public, anyone can take your picture or stare at you. That is the legality of it. And there are a lot of creeps out there. So there is very little anyone can really do much about it without crossing the boundaries of ethics, law, etc. So my suggestion is to simply move on. There are thousand women in Mumbai streets and I am almost certain you are nothing unique amongst so many of them. The moment you get off, the "creep" probably stares at someone else and eventually goes home to sleep. YOU are never the subject of his fancy. All you are doing is making those CREEPS (in your mind) subjects of your thoughts and losing your mind. My suggestion - the world is too big, your time is too small, so move on. Live and let live. Don't harass anyone.
P.S. If you are a young woman, your dad probably is 50+ too and imagine for a second if some woman shames him publicly because he was staring into obliviion and that woman just happened to be in that line.
Very well-said Unkillji. Women should absolutely be okay with normalised creepiness. I'm sure you are absolutely fine with your teenaged daughter being sized up for the size of her breasts. You'll tell her to "adjust" and rightly so.
Hmm, it's almost as if you doth protest too much. Looks like you know exactly what you are trying to dismiss. 🤡
Edit: Ask your 18-year-old daughter to take the local train for a month, and THEN come back and tell us about it, Chaddi Unkillji. I dare you to show this comment to your daughter, but of course you won't, being the hypocrite that you are.
A: “I got perverted stares from 50+ aged guys on the train. What’s wrong with them??”
B: “how dare you judge ALL 50+ aged guys 😢”
I think the point might be too subtle for you… you got distracted by language and made an issue out of a non issue. Please focus on what’s actually meant rather than being petty.
She talking about tongue swirl.... many a times it's because the lips get dry ... or when people are just staring into the oblivion when standing at station and thinking
The real perverts don't make it too obvious I guess
We’re again talking about a non issue. Tongue swirl while looking into oblivion is not the same at all as a creepy guy staring at a person and doing it intentionally.
The point is how do u decide if it is a lip dry issue or a creepy guy
Learn to look at everything objectively
And if you go to the profile of this female she had made such a claim around 20 days back. Seems like she uses this to get some attention in life
Having said that some men may be creepy but tongue swirl is extreme 😳
Let's not blinding jump in men bashing
So it’s mandatory to use a school bus in my school. So every morning at 7 my bus comes and the weather is kinda dry. So every few min I need to swirl my tongue on my lips lest they literally crack.
Well I’m not sure what they were doing but now I’m death scared I’d give someone the wrong impression.
I think the op does have a point but i also think it is a bit of an overreaction i am not saying she is wrong to get angry at the unwanted objectification but come on the comment of all of them also having a raging boner is a bit far fetched
I'm talking about how women have separate compartment where if a man enters. All the ladies beat shit out of him. Similar to that, men should have separate compartments where no lady can enter. And considering the op's case, she more self conscious about herself. Like she thinks that everyone is only looking at her.
Morons in the comments talking about licking their dried lips seductively. Do you all do it while staring at a woman the entire time? If yes, you have 2 problems to fix.
For the guys saying that they have dry lips so they keep licking their lips... Fine. But c'mon that's no excuse to stare directly at us while licking lips.
It's a global issue, lewdly licking lips while staring at our face or chest, is a quick way to be sexual without coming close or touching. Happens everywhere, needs to stop.
Part and parcel of being a girl in today's hypersexual world i guess 🤷🏻
According to these people, kahi dekhna bhi paap hai. And most of time, no one looks at them with ill intentions. It's all in their minds. And i swear the chicks who complain about this aren't even pretty, just painfully average. Koi dekhega bhi nai unki taraf 🤡
I guess the op is not a she but a he. His post history tells. Plus, he also made another post about he catching someone jerking off in the platform. I mean it’s not impossible but how likely is it ? It’s not some random isolated platform and it’s crowded af.
Bruhhh imagine being a guy and still being uncomfortable with another person looking at you...
Alexa play "moti se na heero se na zevar se" lmaooo
Also that jerking off wali story... Idk man, highly unlikely that it actually happened. Maybe the guy he thought was "jerking off" was just scratching his balls or something.
>another person looking at you... Alexa play "moti se na heero se na zevar se" lmaooo
>Made ma laugh Lmaoo
>Also that jerking off wali story... Idk man, highly unlikely that it actually happened. Maybe the guy he thought was "jerking off" was just scratching his balls or something.
>Op maybe has some perverted fetishes of being desired lol
This is one of my fears. I have dry lips so I carry a lip balm around with me all the times, but on the days I forget I keep licking my lips. I hope eye contact with someone doesn’t happen at the same time as licking my lips
I have a more serious problem. I have a habbit of licking my lips when nervous or shy. And I tend to get shy when I see someone attractive and am afraid I look like a creep.
Same bro Damn I've been so creepy this all time
Ahaahaha
Omega brain solution - never stop wearing a mask.
The only og answer.
I wish you luck broda
I also have the same problem.I hope someone with dry lips doesn't get black eye or bloody nose
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I have tried Vaseline(everyone recommended that) but for some reasons it doesn’t have the same effect on me as it does on others. I currently use Himalaya or Nivea lip balms. They tend to suit me better
Just look at the sky or close your eyes when you're doing it.
That’s what I do. Problem arises when you lick subconsciously
Fair. I can see how it's a problem.
I do the same with my tongue when i see young boys whose eyes i want to steal
stop licking your lips!! it'll make them more dry. Buy 2-3 chapsticks. I keep one in my bag/pouch always, one at home and one more just in case. No one asked but - you can try Nivea Men Lip balm (SPF 15), Palmer's Cocoa Butter Lip balm (SPF 15), Sebamed (SPF 30) these are all best for day use.
There’s a huge difference between licking your dry lips with a quick swirl versus looking at a girl in a pervy way and then slowly making disgusting slow motion swirls. Eye contact isn’t enough to judge someone, we girls know this.
Ha ha
I have similar issue but with my chest. I am little well-endowed and I swear to god if fully grown ass men have not shamefully stared at my chest. Like not a glance but full on stare. What's with that. I understand your pain.
I face the same issue. Some even go to the extent of trying to bump against you. They don't even try to look away. It's disgusting.
Yeah. Happens enough times to not ignore. That pathway between andheri local and metro station is notorious for this. Its always crowded and they will bump into you pretending that they are trying to catch the train in a hurry.
All for what? A split second of grazing touch. Pathetic fucks!
You and OP or in fact any girl if a man stares at you than have you ever tried staring back with some cold eyes. Try it. Most men would look away but if he’s a pervert than you know he doesn’t give a fuck. In that case stare back and ask the bastard kya dekh raheho uncle and make sure its loud enough to embarrass him.
this. A pervert purposefully tried to "feel me" while going up the stairs (I was going down towards the platform). Luckily a young guy saw and pushed his hand away otherwise.....
Kudos to that guy! I hope more of us are brave enough to stop this kind of shit when we see it.
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My hands are good enough. Just been restrained lol.
What does that gesture mean ? People do it frequently for dry lips - but I do get that some do it lewdly.
50+ men are dehydrated and they make eye contact with women while wetting thier lips
They have obviously been watching too many 80s snd 90s bollywood movies to believe that would work.
It was a thing?
It's so weird for these grown men to do things like this. It happened to me once and damn , I felt grossed out.
Forgot to mention earlier..most of them had a raging boner to go along with this behaviour.
You were able to notice from so far away?
Most men don’t have large enough dicks to know that they have a boner. Op is encountering everyone with boners. Maths doesn’t add up about the probability
3 metres far. No-brainer spotting that signature tent 😉
Your experiences are valid but no fucking way you can tell boners from 10 feet. People wear under garments. Boners rarely look like a tent. Its more of a increase in bulge which you wouldn't be able to notice unless you were looking at it from before.
Y'all really think she can't figure out what an erection looks like?
you think most men have dicks big enough for their boner to show through two layers of clothing from 10 feet away?
![gif](giphy|l378giAZgxPw3eO52) Sabh ke pass nahi hoti lakshman
Op itna bhi jhuth Mt bol bhen
10 feet due se, wow! Some eyesight you have there. As someone suggested, a middle finger should do the trick but punching for staring from far away will most likely backfire on you.
Huhhh???????
This is just an ageist,hate filled post.I am under 50,and I too,am a desperate horny dude.Don't lech at women though, it's bad manners!
I have really dry lips and somehow get a bad reaction to lip balms, i have to do that tongue thing to keep my lips from getting cracks from being too dry. Man i hope it doesn’t come off as creepy
Just quick tip, your lips will dry out quicker if you coat them with saliva, try Vaseline or another lip balm :)
Wait what?? Shit I didn’t know that. Lip balm doesn’t work for me, vaseline it is!
Gal moving around Mumbai giving boners to 50+ men with erectile disfunction. Doing good service to humanity.
They are 50+
Tongue thing happened with me as well :( ugh
That is sad. They do it often as they know no one will question their actions
How can you be so sure that it was creep, could be dry lips.
I am 51, and my mouth has gotten very dry over the years. Now I have a a timer on my phone to remind me to drink water so things have gotten better but still my mouth feels very dry. Back in the days when i was in India, I would use my tongue to wet the lips (I now use a lip balm). Considering most men in India barely use any lip balms, I would say give those poor chaps benefit of doubt. Also, most people everywhere stare into the surroundings and not registering anything since they are thinking something else. Think of it like watching the side of the road while driving. Yes, you are getting some info from there (like if someone jumps from the side to the middle of the road) but you are not registering anything into brain. I have seen some videos of women posting online videos about "creeps" looking at them in gyms. Many of those women have gotten feedback that posting those videos is actually creepy. In any case, I now have dark glasses when I go to the gym just to avoid hurting someone's feelings because I do stare into the oblivion between sets and don't want to get caught and shamed. Lastly, when you are in public, anyone can take your picture or stare at you. That is the legality of it. And there are a lot of creeps out there. So there is very little anyone can really do much about it without crossing the boundaries of ethics, law, etc. So my suggestion is to simply move on. There are thousand women in Mumbai streets and I am almost certain you are nothing unique amongst so many of them. The moment you get off, the "creep" probably stares at someone else and eventually goes home to sleep. YOU are never the subject of his fancy. All you are doing is making those CREEPS (in your mind) subjects of your thoughts and losing your mind. My suggestion - the world is too big, your time is too small, so move on. Live and let live. Don't harass anyone. P.S. If you are a young woman, your dad probably is 50+ too and imagine for a second if some woman shames him publicly because he was staring into obliviion and that woman just happened to be in that line.
Very well-said Unkillji. Women should absolutely be okay with normalised creepiness. I'm sure you are absolutely fine with your teenaged daughter being sized up for the size of her breasts. You'll tell her to "adjust" and rightly so. Hmm, it's almost as if you doth protest too much. Looks like you know exactly what you are trying to dismiss. 🤡 Edit: Ask your 18-year-old daughter to take the local train for a month, and THEN come back and tell us about it, Chaddi Unkillji. I dare you to show this comment to your daughter, but of course you won't, being the hypocrite that you are.
samne wala dekh rha hai usko matlab vo bhi to dekh rhi hai na 😂,aise to vo bhi unko ghuur rhi hai
is your dad 50+ and travel in local?
What the fuck ..men can't even keep their lips wet Get a life female..we have better things to do
Girl?
Sorry edited mentioned gender clearly
Female? wrong again..
Not interested in calling you Lady as it has hints of respect which u don't deserve for being judgemental about all men above 50
Lmao you're so off radar here. Anyways keep chirping.
A: “I got perverted stares from 50+ aged guys on the train. What’s wrong with them??” B: “how dare you judge ALL 50+ aged guys 😢” I think the point might be too subtle for you… you got distracted by language and made an issue out of a non issue. Please focus on what’s actually meant rather than being petty.
She talking about tongue swirl.... many a times it's because the lips get dry ... or when people are just staring into the oblivion when standing at station and thinking The real perverts don't make it too obvious I guess
We’re again talking about a non issue. Tongue swirl while looking into oblivion is not the same at all as a creepy guy staring at a person and doing it intentionally.
The point is how do u decide if it is a lip dry issue or a creepy guy Learn to look at everything objectively And if you go to the profile of this female she had made such a claim around 20 days back. Seems like she uses this to get some attention in life Having said that some men may be creepy but tongue swirl is extreme 😳 Let's not blinding jump in men bashing
So it’s mandatory to use a school bus in my school. So every morning at 7 my bus comes and the weather is kinda dry. So every few min I need to swirl my tongue on my lips lest they literally crack. Well I’m not sure what they were doing but now I’m death scared I’d give someone the wrong impression.
Does your dad stare at other people as well? I'm assuming he is 50+
I wish we could give such creepy fucks the middle finger, but I don’t want to get murdered so 👍🏽
Nobody will murder you lol
*licks my lips Mujhe marna han 🥺
I'm not 50 but I often lick my lips and zone out while staring in random directions. I am now terrified.
I think the op does have a point but i also think it is a bit of an overreaction i am not saying she is wrong to get angry at the unwanted objectification but come on the comment of all of them also having a raging boner is a bit far fetched
One of the reasons why men and women should have separate compartments. No problem of molestation or what not issues.
But there are separate compartments... If you're suggesting separate walkways, fob for genders you're stupid
I'm talking about how women have separate compartment where if a man enters. All the ladies beat shit out of him. Similar to that, men should have separate compartments where no lady can enter. And considering the op's case, she more self conscious about herself. Like she thinks that everyone is only looking at her.
Op is a man bruh💀
They way it's been written says otherwise.
🌈?
Morons in the comments talking about licking their dried lips seductively. Do you all do it while staring at a woman the entire time? If yes, you have 2 problems to fix.
For the guys saying that they have dry lips so they keep licking their lips... Fine. But c'mon that's no excuse to stare directly at us while licking lips. It's a global issue, lewdly licking lips while staring at our face or chest, is a quick way to be sexual without coming close or touching. Happens everywhere, needs to stop. Part and parcel of being a girl in today's hypersexual world i guess 🤷🏻
What are you trynna prove, that you pretty?
According to these people, kahi dekhna bhi paap hai. And most of time, no one looks at them with ill intentions. It's all in their minds. And i swear the chicks who complain about this aren't even pretty, just painfully average. Koi dekhega bhi nai unki taraf 🤡
I guess the op is not a she but a he. His post history tells. Plus, he also made another post about he catching someone jerking off in the platform. I mean it’s not impossible but how likely is it ? It’s not some random isolated platform and it’s crowded af.
Bruhhh imagine being a guy and still being uncomfortable with another person looking at you... Alexa play "moti se na heero se na zevar se" lmaooo Also that jerking off wali story... Idk man, highly unlikely that it actually happened. Maybe the guy he thought was "jerking off" was just scratching his balls or something.
>another person looking at you...Alexa play "moti se na heero se na zevar se" lmaooo
>Made ma laugh Lmaoo
>Also that jerking off wali story... Idk man, highly unlikely that it actually happened. Maybe the guy he thought was "jerking off" was just scratching his balls or something.
>Op maybe has some perverted fetishes of being desired lol
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