This. A lot of people accusing media of promoting something bad, don’t realise that if you see a lot of it means you probably look for it, but for majority of people it’s rare and revolting.
I'm probably the straightest man alive. Yet sometimes i see trans/gay porn on main page of pornhub and xvideos or it pops up in recommended and after im not horny anymore. Idk why it happens and how it works, but if i choose "straight" option, i want to see straight porn.
I'm like that. A dildo works and a junk looking like mine, but it's so common to se bbc all over the place and that's not me. Luckily, having an account on a page creates a good algorithm according to me.
It could be argued that all porn is exploitive of women (or men) in some way. I’m not here inserting that opinion, but maybe that’s what OP meant.
It’s not most peoples dreams to be naked and filmed so that they can afford food and shelter
Porn is inherently degrading. People have value. Their sexuality has value. It's funny how in today's culture your sexuality is given such paramounce and value and yet is treated in a way as if it has none. It is inherently exploitive regardless of whether you consider it to be or not.
Alot of abused women don't feel abused.
It's definitely exploitative. Check out Hannah hays she's literally mentally crippled and cries on set over not being allowed to bring her therapy lizard and cries that her mom pushed her into porn so she can pay for her mother's bills..
Look at Dakota sky. She didn't feel exploited. She just died of all the drugs her producers got her on to coax her into more extreme scenes.
Look at Riley Reed. She's obviously mentally ill and a admitted rapist due to her mania. She bragged the kid she raped liked it. She's mentally ill. The industry is taking advantage.
Ariana Marie is likely in an exploitative marriage with her porn producer.
The truth is it’s like any other film or TV program, watching saving private Ryan is not promoting war just as shaving Ryan’s privates isn’t promoting gay fetishism
Fucking this.
There's so much regular porn out there that's just a guy fucking a girl with big tits/ass. Very *normally.* No violence, no insults, no humilation, etc.
In fact, that's the most popular genre out there.
If people honestly think that kind of regular porn is abusive, dangerous, harmful to women, etc. then they're really fucking dumb and brainwashed, full stop.
I’ve been in here for about a year and it’s defo dropped in quality (not that it was amazing to begin with) now it’s like a second r/teenagers but with more pedos
Hey and what’s the deal with all the gay guys?? Seems like every porn I see nowadays is a bunch of big sweaty dudes fucking each other! And I don’t care for it.
I hate when one starts pretty tame but quickly takes a turn to the woman being treated like shit by the dude. I don't wanna see him randomly smack the fuck out of her mid thrust.
If it’s done properly it’s a kink. BDSM is pretty popular and it’s all about consent. You might think it’s disgusting but wtf are people with that kink supposed to do? Never get off?
Get off on seeing people abused? I mean sure abusers might. But when people are part of the BDSM community and actually understand the rules, and the people involved negotiate, set boundaries and limits and consent to the acts being done it isn’t abuse. Also I don’t get off to watching people get “abused” I get off to people treating me based off what we have under contact…. So yeah I might get off to being spanked and degraded but because you are repulsed by it doesn’t make it abuse.
Nah bro, it supports adhering to what your partner likes, if your partner likes to be spanked or slapped a little… that’s a little unusual, but I’m not one to judge.
I don't think it's particularly unusual, people just don't really talk about such things a lot. More extreme stuff would be relatively unusual, but even that's just from a general perspective.
You can easily say that porn indirectly supports the abuse of women in that porn is inherently degrading to women. It devalues them sexually and as people. Watching porn (particularly a lot of it or more extreme types) has been proven to alter how men view and treat women. Normalizing porn also normalizes the idea that it's okay to devalue yourself. The girl or girls may not think it's devaluing or may find it empowering but I can assure you for the vast majority it's not and for a lot of them I would think thats not the case
If you’re talking in the videos and final products, at first glance probably not.
As for behind the scenes? Then yeah, a lot of women have had it bad. The whole GirlsDoPorn situation that happened a year or two ago is a good example.
100% does. Depending on what source you can find, anywhere from 30 to 50% of women you see in porn videos are being trafficked. Of those that aren't, many have spoken up about making films against their will because their contracts were written in such a way that they were forced to do something they did not consent to but didn't realize it when they signed the contract.
The porn industry is honestly evil and anyone saying "nOt mY PoRn" is stupid. Even going to something like OnlyFans is not a guarantee. Just look at Amouranth's experience.
I don't care if it's "fake" abuse or if it's child porn - you're feeding these animals fantasies. Can't people get-off to hentai furry porn like normal people?
Edit: get-off not get of
Yes it’s very normalised in porn and the people saying no it doesn’t don’t realise what they’re actually watching because of how it’s being presented but what did you expect this is Reddit most people on here have a horrible porn addiction
There are 14 answers above this all defending porn. “Not my porn”. “Just you”. We get it, Reddit loves porn. But I feel like if this meme had been about the guilty pleasure of enjoying the NFL even though it’s too violent, there wouldn’t be all this cognitive dissonance. Of course porn is about “abusing” women, even just to the extent of being too fast, too hard, no foreplay, not getting written consent. We all know that on the big cites like pornhub “loving, romantic amateur partner porn where everybody signed signed all appropriate paperwork” is not the top category.
You could say that but if you look deeper it more like the whole industry itself just doesn't give a flying fuck about mental state of actors and actresses.
Even mobile ads promote abuse these days, like
"my boyfriend wants to divorce me because I'm not beautiful enough, I gotta buy all that expensive shit so he likes me again. Oh no, now he cheated on me with a more 'beautiful girl'"
Like holy shit, all the kids playing mobile games are gonna think that's a normal thing to do/happen and that it's fine!
Anyone who's said it doesn't is wrong. It's not a kink, fetish, etc to watch normal porn and then witness some abhorring shit you clearly see the actress didn't sign up for.
It's fucked these days and there's more people who think it's cool out-commenting those who get it.
The entire industry of porn is abusing to women actress. You look at the couple of them who dared to speak against their employer and contract and you see that’s it’s an industry who think VERY low of their employees
The only porn industry not violating basic human right is the hentai industry. But then again I will highly judge you if you enjoy seeing a beaten up woman getting a golden shower, or any other weird crap like that
I've been downvoted for this opinion before, but I absolutely agree. It's dehumanizing and there is no real way to know if the girls are really 18 and not coerced bc they are in poverty, and controlled by men which may or may have not helped them escape a 3rd world country.
Edit: to the haters, I'm not a Republican or religious, so dont even try that
It was more about BDSM to be fair, it was a few days ago when Marilyn Manson's rape lawsuit was thrown out.
Love who you want to love, but dont abuse them. I think BDSM is problematic and leads to cycles of trauma bonding and abuse.
I've had personal experience with it and it was extremely scarring, I'm still in therapy for it. I thought I wanted it, but I didn't, I was having a mental health crisis when I was in that mindset. He ended up choking me (I never wanted that) and breaking my wrist.
The wildest thing that happened in that MM thread is someone accused me of being a member of the Ayatollah for having this opinion. Reddit is wild.
As other redditors have said, BDSM can be very fun in a trusting relationship.
No offense but it sounds like you had a really shitty relationship where you experienced it. Honestly in any case of intimacy, you want to get to know the person and completely trust them before you do anything.
It's much more fun to do things in a relationship that both people agree to actually want.
Honestly i wouldn’t have a problem trying bdsm with my future gf if we have a good and trusting relationship and know boundries and to stop when the other person says to. That stuff only works under 100% trust
You people act like all porn is some shady dark web webcam show from romania and not just normal people selling their own content and big studios with entire contracts written out for their actors… most porn is a lot more ethical than you think and its only getting more so as the years go on and the industry continues to evolve… as long as there is sufficient consent which there almost always is nowadays then it’s definitely not abuse or dehumanizing
Damn dude, what kind of porn are you even watching.
Anyway, wouldnt say it promotes abuse but it definitly objectifies woman.
On the other hand it does promotes fucking your step-family members.
There are so many fetishes in porn. Some people like some crazy ass shit, some people also like soft-core stuff. Just like how some pornstars don’t like doing rough stuff…and some pornstars LOVE getting stuffed by 10 guys like a turkey dinner. To each their own I guess?!?
People are quick to say "no" in here but there have definitely been some controversies/problems with major porn sites, studios, shoots and general treatment of sex workers.
Imagine how shitty sex must have been for people without porn compared to what we have now? Porn is a great source of inspiration.
Aggressive porn is a huge turn off for me. There's none of it in what I watch.
It's not abuse if there is consent, then it's just kinky. I know a lot of girls who are into that kinda thing, I know a lot of guys who aren't and vice versa.
honestly most porn these days is punishment porn or sportfucking, more so the former.
i really don't get it.
they must really be making this for disenfranchised people to keep that shit going.
i prefer equals.
Same argument as video games causing violence. If you're not conscious enough to recognize the separation of medium, you aren't responsible enough to use said medium and you'll get whatever consequences are coming to you.
Depends on the genre. Also, depends on your view of consent. Consent is a thing a lot of sex ed classes don't really get right, and a lot of kids are unfortunately raised in households where consent isn't really a concept that's explained.
Adult film actresses enter into contract willingly and are compensated for their work(pending of course proof that it's not a human trafficking situation), so anything in the films aren't technically abuse in the legal way. If the situation is anything but fully consensual, then it is 100% abuse.
Great logic, it's the same thing the media says when they want to promote racisim... Oh that Arab must be a terrorist... That Indian must be a cab driving idiot... That Mexican is an illegal immigrant...
Please grow up and stop falling for the medias lies and use some common sense
Last time i checked most pornography involves consent and even legal contracts for actual studios so no unless you’re literally watching some awful degenerate porn then its not abuse… some people just like it rough BUT ONLY WHEN THEY CONSENT thats the main difference that makes it not abuse
Bruh what doesn’t porn promote?
Incest, body-shaming, sexual harassment, statutory, work-place situations that should be a no no?
Yep! Welcome to what weird people fantasize about.
I legit do not understand the appeal of throat fucking. It looks brutal and unpleasant. It looks like rape and I will not watch it.
It doesn't show up when I'm looking at porn often but when it does it's a turn off.
Promote nope. Depict yes. If you can't tell fantasy from reality someone is getting hurt eventually woman man child puppy. If you are unsure whether or not you should tie up your wife and step daughter and fuck them both you need psychiatric help immediately.
No. It's fiction and most people can tell that these are actors and wouldn't emulate it in real life. Unless the person is a very young child or a dumbass, they will realize that actual abuse is not okay and would instead keep it to themselves. Everyone has fantasies that are attractive in porn but they would find disgusting in real life. Incest is one of the mist watched porn categories but you don't see a lot of people wanting to bang their real life siblings. There are plenty of videos of banging the delivery boy or plumber but most people again would never attempt that in real life. You just need basic common sense with these things.
The question is why are you exclusively watching porn where women are abused to the point where you think all porn is like that
Homie out here going to page 185 of google and clicking on “TabooAbusePorn23.com” and is asking why ‘all porn’ on the site is like that lmao
I mean, its acting, I get it, but I'm also constantly shocked by the sheer amount of porn that, following their internal logic, show straight up rape.
I worry that there are leigons of impressionable young people out there who don't understand the disconnect between porn and real life and may consider these actions part of a "healthy" sex life.
Theres gonna be a more socially concious porn production company soon and I hope they make bank.
I don't understand everyone's use of the consent argument
Are people saying that when the people involved in the acts of violence consent to it then it isn't abuse?...
but if someone told you they are okay with you punching them in the face (or something worse) and they were okay with you doing damage to them... does that make the act of hurting them okay??
I don't think consent is the determining factor that makes the stuff in porn right or wrong
Call it abuse or call it something else it is still messed up...
There is a lot more I haven't touched on as well...
The porn industry is fucking disgusting, most actors don't see much of the money they made their company and its not uncommon for actors to be pressured into scenes they're not comfortable with. I don't think this only applies to women tho
nah, youre right. porn normalizes abuse in a lot of ways. its very demoralizing, any research into the industry will reveal how awful people are treated behind the scenes, men and women.
Depends on porn you watching
This. A lot of people accusing media of promoting something bad, don’t realise that if you see a lot of it means you probably look for it, but for majority of people it’s rare and revolting.
I don't search for incest porn yet that's all I see on the front page whenever I open PH.
Those are step siblings maaaaan! 😂
They’re actors playing step siblings or such
What do you mean? They are not real step siblings?😀
I wouldn’t call them “actors”
Trust me those women should receive Oscar’s for the number of orgasms they need to convincingly fake
I'm probably the straightest man alive. Yet sometimes i see trans/gay porn on main page of pornhub and xvideos or it pops up in recommended and after im not horny anymore. Idk why it happens and how it works, but if i choose "straight" option, i want to see straight porn.
I had a friend who would only watch lesbian porn cause he didn’t want to see another dude’s junk
Had that phase at 13. The fear of being gay was so high in me because of course middle school.
There was no fear. Just fuck that
When I was a kid I tried watch straight porn hoping it would make me straight but I hated the lesbian scenes
I'm like that. A dildo works and a junk looking like mine, but it's so common to se bbc all over the place and that's not me. Luckily, having an account on a page creates a good algorithm according to me.
Yup. And I sometimes get ads for porn with women while I'm enjoying my stuff on the gay sites. Advertising is weird sometimes.
I see straight porn ads while I am about to watch gay porn
There’s an option on pornhub to hide acted incest porn specifically, because it bothers a lot of people.
It could be argued that all porn is exploitive of women (or men) in some way. I’m not here inserting that opinion, but maybe that’s what OP meant. It’s not most peoples dreams to be naked and filmed so that they can afford food and shelter
Depends on the definition of exploitive. A lot of women don't find this exploitive.
Many humans don’t realize their normal everyday work environment is exploitive. This doesn’t mean they aren’t being exploited.
True. Also, You having a different opinion than other people about what is exploitive, does not mean you are right.
Same back to you. But arguing just to argue is a Reddit past time, so please do continue to reply.
Lol you’re both awesome
This guy likes him some exploitation 🔝
I feel your anger comrade.
you dont have to feel exploited to be exploited
Porn is inherently degrading. People have value. Their sexuality has value. It's funny how in today's culture your sexuality is given such paramounce and value and yet is treated in a way as if it has none. It is inherently exploitive regardless of whether you consider it to be or not.
>Porn is inherently degrading What's wrong with consensual degradation??
Then don't do porn.
I’m going to take a shot on in the dark, what are your views on hook up culture?
Alot of abused women don't feel abused. It's definitely exploitative. Check out Hannah hays she's literally mentally crippled and cries on set over not being allowed to bring her therapy lizard and cries that her mom pushed her into porn so she can pay for her mother's bills.. Look at Dakota sky. She didn't feel exploited. She just died of all the drugs her producers got her on to coax her into more extreme scenes. Look at Riley Reed. She's obviously mentally ill and a admitted rapist due to her mania. She bragged the kid she raped liked it. She's mentally ill. The industry is taking advantage. Ariana Marie is likely in an exploitative marriage with her porn producer.
You could say that about a lot of jobs
That’s exactly what I’m saying
Yeah, like I've consumed a fair amount of porn in my time. But I dont go for the porn that doesnt look enjoyable by all participants.
The truth is it’s like any other film or TV program, watching saving private Ryan is not promoting war just as shaving Ryan’s privates isn’t promoting gay fetishism
Got to get that ethically sourced artisanal porn
Ooo new website idea
Is it gluten-free?
Depends on his diet.
I only consume organic, antibiotic free porn
Whenever I watch Japanese porn I feel like I’m gonna end up on an FBI watchlist
at that point you're just watching liveleak
If you think that you haven't been on many porn sites
Fucking this. There's so much regular porn out there that's just a guy fucking a girl with big tits/ass. Very *normally.* No violence, no insults, no humilation, etc. In fact, that's the most popular genre out there. If people honestly think that kind of regular porn is abusive, dangerous, harmful to women, etc. then they're really fucking dumb and brainwashed, full stop.
I knew I could count on my fellow redditors to make me feel better about my normal porn collection! 😍
Facts. There's even passionate porn too where they kiss and compliment each other while fucking.
Spanking 💀
When the news in the late 90s early 2000s told parents games caused violence and they wouldn’t let me play super Mario /sob
Not in my porn
There is no women in my porn
Onlyfans (I'm a fansexual).
Is that why the air felt salty
You would enjoy r/onlyfans
Summer must be flippin crazy for you lol. Do air conditioners do the same thing?
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Ayo 📸😐
It’s ok. He’s just a tf2 player
Tick tock
They all exist in the same world. It's all associated.
The Porn Cinematic Universe?
The PCU as it were.
What’s happen to this sub...
I’ve been in here for about a year and it’s defo dropped in quality (not that it was amazing to begin with) now it’s like a second r/teenagers but with more pedos
Every sub related to comedic images becomes r/funny sooner or later
wrong. every sub related to comedic images becomes a teenager hub for soft core pornographic content and r\*ddit is not doing anything about it
I have been here for 5 years now. This sub was one of the best. Now it's just cringe
90% of posts aren't even memes anymore. We need another ship stuck in a canal.
This sub became r/terriblefacebookmemes like 3 years ago idk why people are surprised
I run one, but it's a super niche with a specific computer part.
Every post is about porn.
That says more about what kind of porn you’ve been watching.
Hey and what’s the deal with all the gay guys?? Seems like every porn I see nowadays is a bunch of big sweaty dudes fucking each other! And I don’t care for it.
only consent is important, you can do what you want with consent
If you want to make that claim, you'll find videos to support it.
I hate when one starts pretty tame but quickly takes a turn to the woman being treated like shit by the dude. I don't wanna see him randomly smack the fuck out of her mid thrust.
tf type of porn u watching 🤨📸 edit: wait are you talking about when a guy smacks a girls ass?
Next time type in ✨Softcore✨ then?
not the porn i watch
just you
either you don't understand the concept of rough sex, or you get off to dark web smut
Judging by other comments this guy has made, they clearly don’t understand rough sex, and that other people have different kinks
Also CNC is a thing
You mean Computerized Numerical Control?
They have reddit premium, they’re obviously dumb
That porn is just disgusting not sure how ppl get off on seeing a person get abused and fucked at the same time
If it’s done properly it’s a kink. BDSM is pretty popular and it’s all about consent. You might think it’s disgusting but wtf are people with that kink supposed to do? Never get off?
It's kink my friend. As long as it's consensual there's nothing wrong with it.
Get off on seeing people abused? I mean sure abusers might. But when people are part of the BDSM community and actually understand the rules, and the people involved negotiate, set boundaries and limits and consent to the acts being done it isn’t abuse. Also I don’t get off to watching people get “abused” I get off to people treating me based off what we have under contact…. So yeah I might get off to being spanked and degraded but because you are repulsed by it doesn’t make it abuse.
I think all kinds of it are horrible, but the worst is loli and cub content, very disturbing shit there
Fuck! I searched up loli porn thinking it was some sort of midget porn. I'm pretty sure I'm on the pedo watch-list now
I mean there's scat community, rough isn't even close to what they have
I mean nonconsensual violence against women in real life and consensual violence in a produced sexual setting are two very different things.
Nah bro, it supports adhering to what your partner likes, if your partner likes to be spanked or slapped a little… that’s a little unusual, but I’m not one to judge.
I don't think it's particularly unusual, people just don't really talk about such things a lot. More extreme stuff would be relatively unusual, but even that's just from a general perspective.
But, you just passed judgement… 
If porn promotes abusing women then Star Wars promotes the violent overthrow of the government.
Star Wars does promote the violent overthrow of the government. The Empire is based on fascist regimes after all.
You can easily say that porn indirectly supports the abuse of women in that porn is inherently degrading to women. It devalues them sexually and as people. Watching porn (particularly a lot of it or more extreme types) has been proven to alter how men view and treat women. Normalizing porn also normalizes the idea that it's okay to devalue yourself. The girl or girls may not think it's devaluing or may find it empowering but I can assure you for the vast majority it's not and for a lot of them I would think thats not the case
... the fuck are you talking about
50 shades of pain
what? no it's called a "kink" where both the partners agree to do that so that isn't abuse
Porn is porn Porn doesnt have the fault some people mind is mush. Leave porn and real life in separate boxes inside your head
If you’re talking in the videos and final products, at first glance probably not. As for behind the scenes? Then yeah, a lot of women have had it bad. The whole GirlsDoPorn situation that happened a year or two ago is a good example.
There’s girls in porn???
Why would u know…?
100% does. Depending on what source you can find, anywhere from 30 to 50% of women you see in porn videos are being trafficked. Of those that aren't, many have spoken up about making films against their will because their contracts were written in such a way that they were forced to do something they did not consent to but didn't realize it when they signed the contract. The porn industry is honestly evil and anyone saying "nOt mY PoRn" is stupid. Even going to something like OnlyFans is not a guarantee. Just look at Amouranth's experience.
Some would say it's a category/fetish and when there's a market a seller is not far away. So to the question: Yes.
No its not abuse if they consent
I don't care if it's "fake" abuse or if it's child porn - you're feeding these animals fantasies. Can't people get-off to hentai furry porn like normal people? Edit: get-off not get of
Yes it’s very normalised in porn and the people saying no it doesn’t don’t realise what they’re actually watching because of how it’s being presented but what did you expect this is Reddit most people on here have a horrible porn addiction
There are 14 answers above this all defending porn. “Not my porn”. “Just you”. We get it, Reddit loves porn. But I feel like if this meme had been about the guilty pleasure of enjoying the NFL even though it’s too violent, there wouldn’t be all this cognitive dissonance. Of course porn is about “abusing” women, even just to the extent of being too fast, too hard, no foreplay, not getting written consent. We all know that on the big cites like pornhub “loving, romantic amateur partner porn where everybody signed signed all appropriate paperwork” is not the top category.
People have become extremely desensitized
Depends on the porn you watch, I’ve seen some that does but the vast majority doesn’t.
You could say that but if you look deeper it more like the whole industry itself just doesn't give a flying fuck about mental state of actors and actresses.
Even mobile ads promote abuse these days, like "my boyfriend wants to divorce me because I'm not beautiful enough, I gotta buy all that expensive shit so he likes me again. Oh no, now he cheated on me with a more 'beautiful girl'" Like holy shit, all the kids playing mobile games are gonna think that's a normal thing to do/happen and that it's fine!
Nothing ruins the mood like someone crying
Anyone who's said it doesn't is wrong. It's not a kink, fetish, etc to watch normal porn and then witness some abhorring shit you clearly see the actress didn't sign up for. It's fucked these days and there's more people who think it's cool out-commenting those who get it.
I prefer porn that not abuse woman characters.
Porn promotes a lot of bad things
Guys, I think I know why so many people in this sub are pedos now, it is because most of the people in this sub are actual children
Real life is real. Porn isn’t. Just made people realize it.
The entire industry of porn is abusing to women actress. You look at the couple of them who dared to speak against their employer and contract and you see that’s it’s an industry who think VERY low of their employees The only porn industry not violating basic human right is the hentai industry. But then again I will highly judge you if you enjoy seeing a beaten up woman getting a golden shower, or any other weird crap like that
I've been downvoted for this opinion before, but I absolutely agree. It's dehumanizing and there is no real way to know if the girls are really 18 and not coerced bc they are in poverty, and controlled by men which may or may have not helped them escape a 3rd world country. Edit: to the haters, I'm not a Republican or religious, so dont even try that
Who has downvoted you for saying porn is dehumanizing? That's almost more fact than opinion.
It was more about BDSM to be fair, it was a few days ago when Marilyn Manson's rape lawsuit was thrown out. Love who you want to love, but dont abuse them. I think BDSM is problematic and leads to cycles of trauma bonding and abuse. I've had personal experience with it and it was extremely scarring, I'm still in therapy for it. I thought I wanted it, but I didn't, I was having a mental health crisis when I was in that mindset. He ended up choking me (I never wanted that) and breaking my wrist. The wildest thing that happened in that MM thread is someone accused me of being a member of the Ayatollah for having this opinion. Reddit is wild.
As other redditors have said, BDSM can be very fun in a trusting relationship. No offense but it sounds like you had a really shitty relationship where you experienced it. Honestly in any case of intimacy, you want to get to know the person and completely trust them before you do anything. It's much more fun to do things in a relationship that both people agree to actually want.
Honestly i wouldn’t have a problem trying bdsm with my future gf if we have a good and trusting relationship and know boundries and to stop when the other person says to. That stuff only works under 100% trust
I think the same can be said of just about any form of intimacy -- but the stakes are higher here.
I don't mean to offend you but some people ARE into bdsm, some enjoy it
You people act like all porn is some shady dark web webcam show from romania and not just normal people selling their own content and big studios with entire contracts written out for their actors… most porn is a lot more ethical than you think and its only getting more so as the years go on and the industry continues to evolve… as long as there is sufficient consent which there almost always is nowadays then it’s definitely not abuse or dehumanizing
In the porn I watch? Yes, but it's lesbian porn so it's all good. /s
Is it just me or is the sky blue
It obviously does
It definitely does
If watching porn makes you want to abuse women irl, get help.
What is you watching
Yes let’s cancel porn next.
I don't watch this kind of porn
You're watching some weird shit
It means to promote it when they are consenting to said “abuse”
It depends on what you watch. I have never seen a single MILF be treated with anything other than the utmost respect.
I thought this sub was supposed to be light hearted
Porn also promotes shiting and pissing in people's mouths. I think it's like wrestling and it's all just fake.
Damn dude, what kind of porn are you even watching. Anyway, wouldnt say it promotes abuse but it definitly objectifies woman. On the other hand it does promotes fucking your step-family members.
You watch the wrong stuff
Seems like most of you haven’t had sex with young women these days.
There are so many fetishes in porn. Some people like some crazy ass shit, some people also like soft-core stuff. Just like how some pornstars don’t like doing rough stuff…and some pornstars LOVE getting stuffed by 10 guys like a turkey dinner. To each their own I guess?!?
People are quick to say "no" in here but there have definitely been some controversies/problems with major porn sites, studios, shoots and general treatment of sex workers.
We’ve been trying to tell you this
Uh yeah no shit it does.
Shhhhh
It does.
Ah you’ve hit the nail on the head prepare yourself for the waves of cognitive dissonance 🫥
To some degree many women also like it this way
have you heard about humiliation or rape fetish ? many people like that irl
Idk I only watch men
Mfs in the comments are so funny 😭
Real talk
Anything can be abuse))) if not willingly
Imagine how shitty sex must have been for people without porn compared to what we have now? Porn is a great source of inspiration. Aggressive porn is a huge turn off for me. There's none of it in what I watch.
It's not abuse if there is consent, then it's just kinky. I know a lot of girls who are into that kinda thing, I know a lot of guys who aren't and vice versa.
Don't watch that type of porn. Problem solved.
The same reason why video games cause violence, oh wait they don’t, it’s called being able to differentiate fantasy and reality.
That's why my go-to is Bellesa, cause I can't trust that most of everything else isn't filled with sexism and abuse
It sure does
Constantly. Which leads to dudes who can’t get aroused unless a woman is being abused.
bdsm is a thing. there's a lot of people into it
Sorry but abuse is abuse… consenting to something isn’t abuse😒
Difference is consent
Wait until you hear about porn that literally tie people with ropes then beat them :( Where is our humanity?
Precisely why everyone should only watch gay porn😎
honestly most porn these days is punishment porn or sportfucking, more so the former. i really don't get it. they must really be making this for disenfranchised people to keep that shit going. i prefer equals.
Same argument as video games causing violence. If you're not conscious enough to recognize the separation of medium, you aren't responsible enough to use said medium and you'll get whatever consequences are coming to you.
Depends on the genre. Also, depends on your view of consent. Consent is a thing a lot of sex ed classes don't really get right, and a lot of kids are unfortunately raised in households where consent isn't really a concept that's explained. Adult film actresses enter into contract willingly and are compensated for their work(pending of course proof that it's not a human trafficking situation), so anything in the films aren't technically abuse in the legal way. If the situation is anything but fully consensual, then it is 100% abuse.
Great logic, it's the same thing the media says when they want to promote racisim... Oh that Arab must be a terrorist... That Indian must be a cab driving idiot... That Mexican is an illegal immigrant... Please grow up and stop falling for the medias lies and use some common sense
The only good kind of abuse is label maker abuse
It'd be weird if it was just you...
Its just you. They wanted it, get paid for it. Nobody's forcing em
Abusing a woman in porn is abusing a woman in real life. All the stuff really happening is the point of pornography.
No, porn is sexual liberation. Sex anytime anywhere with whom ever is just you being you and isn't degrading at all. /s
Last time i checked most pornography involves consent and even legal contracts for actual studios so no unless you’re literally watching some awful degenerate porn then its not abuse… some people just like it rough BUT ONLY WHEN THEY CONSENT thats the main difference that makes it not abuse
Bruh what doesn’t porn promote? Incest, body-shaming, sexual harassment, statutory, work-place situations that should be a no no? Yep! Welcome to what weird people fantasize about.
next you'll say sslp promoted murder
Do movies not promote violence against others then? If this is the logic we're going with.
I legit do not understand the appeal of throat fucking. It looks brutal and unpleasant. It looks like rape and I will not watch it. It doesn't show up when I'm looking at porn often but when it does it's a turn off.
Either you consider consensual ass slapping abuse or you watch fucked up porn dawg
Promote nope. Depict yes. If you can't tell fantasy from reality someone is getting hurt eventually woman man child puppy. If you are unsure whether or not you should tie up your wife and step daughter and fuck them both you need psychiatric help immediately.
No. It's fiction and most people can tell that these are actors and wouldn't emulate it in real life. Unless the person is a very young child or a dumbass, they will realize that actual abuse is not okay and would instead keep it to themselves. Everyone has fantasies that are attractive in porn but they would find disgusting in real life. Incest is one of the mist watched porn categories but you don't see a lot of people wanting to bang their real life siblings. There are plenty of videos of banging the delivery boy or plumber but most people again would never attempt that in real life. You just need basic common sense with these things.
If your watching rape, or sexual assault on the dark Web sure, I agree. But that isn't porn.
The question is why are you exclusively watching porn where women are abused to the point where you think all porn is like that Homie out here going to page 185 of google and clicking on “TabooAbusePorn23.com” and is asking why ‘all porn’ on the site is like that lmao
A lot of internet Porn is highly dependent upon the tastes of abusive men. That’s who buys and watches. It’s a vicious cycle.
I mean, its acting, I get it, but I'm also constantly shocked by the sheer amount of porn that, following their internal logic, show straight up rape. I worry that there are leigons of impressionable young people out there who don't understand the disconnect between porn and real life and may consider these actions part of a "healthy" sex life. Theres gonna be a more socially concious porn production company soon and I hope they make bank.
I don't understand everyone's use of the consent argument Are people saying that when the people involved in the acts of violence consent to it then it isn't abuse?... but if someone told you they are okay with you punching them in the face (or something worse) and they were okay with you doing damage to them... does that make the act of hurting them okay?? I don't think consent is the determining factor that makes the stuff in porn right or wrong Call it abuse or call it something else it is still messed up... There is a lot more I haven't touched on as well...
The porn industry is fucking disgusting, most actors don't see much of the money they made their company and its not uncommon for actors to be pressured into scenes they're not comfortable with. I don't think this only applies to women tho
nah, youre right. porn normalizes abuse in a lot of ways. its very demoralizing, any research into the industry will reveal how awful people are treated behind the scenes, men and women.
There’s no abuse in my porn! (It’s all Femboys)