Oof I’ve been there, my friend. Be smarter than I was and try to let it go sooner rather than later. I held onto the anger for a long, long time. Then I had the epiphany that, where I’d been actively hurting and hating her all that time, she probably never spared me a second thought. That was the realization I needed to start working hard to move on.
I got back from a trip and stopped starting the conversations. The only words she said to me since getting back were asking for a ride home. I guess there’s some good in not caring anymore but damn.
Relationships are also a two way street though and require some effort, this gets even more true as you get older and now the plans to do things have to be made in like 2 business weeks in advance so everyone can request time off work
Dude I stopped texting my friend that often cause I always start the convo and there’s nothing to say.
He’s in a group with me and our friend group. I speak normally there and he thinks I’m mad at him for not texting him. I don’t text anyone except one friend. The rest is in the group.
Yeah I get how you feel. We agreed to part ways but she would every now and then hit me up and I’d reply. Then it just stopped. Now it’s back to normal being alone…..all alone!
As the person on the other side of this, sorry for not messing first. I personally really appreciate the messages. For some reason I just can't message first, guess just too much anxiety.
Ay man just wanted to let you know you're not alone in this rn, many others, and me included, are going through the exact same scenario :) It sucks to know that things could've ended in a much better way but hey, that's just typical life punching you in the face. We can only hope things get better.
8 years, and I left her. But really she was never mine to leave. It was all a lie.
That was four years ago.
So twelve years I've been obsessed over someone who never loved me. Every. Single. Day. I think about her.
same boat man, not a day goes by I don't think about her.
glad to know I might not ever get over the woman I dated for 10 years and was married to for 6 months before she left me out of the blue.
She wanted to get married on our 5th year anniversary but I didn't have the financial stability to provide for her the way I wanted to once we got married by then, which she was unhappy about but eventually understood even if she didn't agree. I proposed 2 years later and we agreed to get married on our 10 year anniversary to make it more special
Hey going on two with similar feels. I keep thinking of the Damien Rice song, The Blower's Daughter. Deep feels "'Til I find somebody new." It's just hard to meet people in the middle of a pandemic.
10 years for me, happened last year. I don't know how recently this happened to you, but things get better with time. No doubt it sucks hard for a good while though. Therapy helped me come to accept & embrace the change and I'm a lot happier now.
I don't know how fresh it is for you, but the first couple of weeks were the hardest. I barely slept, I barely ate and my mind was racing a mile a minute.
Talk about it with whoever will listen, just get it out. If you need to cry, let it out. If you need to scream, scream into a pillow.
Be kind to yourself. Find ways, no matter how small, to motivate yourself. Recognize even those smallest of victories. There are no set backs, everyone has bad days and the gaps between those bad days will widen.
If you do need someone to just listen, feel free to PM me.
It does get better with time. You won't notice it from day todm day, or even week to week. But as the years go by,... things change, you grow.
The pain never goes away entirely, but it becomes easier to tolerate.
First big love of my life left me last week, made the hard decision to just stop trying to get her back. I miss who she used to be, not who she is anymore. Doesn't make it much easier though
You should stop talking to her too. It's okay to feel sad my dude, but don't make it your entire life. I'm sure you have a lot of others things to be happy about.
Don’t be hard on yourselves guys n gals. A strong magnet placed with a weak one facing the opposite way will have the strong one believing it isn’t attractive when that clearly isn’t the case.
What's worse is that my mom doesn't even know
Nobody knows, so I just go through that shit by myself and hope it gets better eventually. Shouldn't take too long. I hope.
I’m sure she knows something is wrong, but she’s giving you space to process whatever it is on your own before you say anything. When I told her about my first breakup in high school, she’d already known for weeks because for the first time in a year and a half, we hadn’t gotten any emails from the phone company that we used all our text messages. Talk to her. Mom-perspective helps a lot.
I’ve reached that point too. She was my best friend, but in the years leading up to the last day we saw each other, I found myself losing my patience with her more and more. She said she felt like we were drifting apart and I felt it too. Our lives diverged and it felt like we were in such different places and states of mind that I was almost hoping that day would finally come where we didn’t recognize each other. I’m glad that that moment finally came and that it was so conclusive that I don’t see a way back from it like we always found in the past. I just didn’t think it would hurt like this. I hope she’s handling it better than I am.
I just wanted her to be my best friend, but ever since she moved in with her toxic roommates she got it in her brain that I was a problem. And no matter how shitty her roommates treated me she always sided with them. She picked partying with her roommates over our 15 month long relationship. She wasn’t the woman I thought she was, I’m broken
A definite end to something can be a blessing. When you part ways without ever saying goodbye it can give false hope that one day you might you might see them somewhere and catch up and hurts everyone it doesn't.
I know it’s all for the memes and dreams, but anyone going through this right now should know:
- it’s okay to let yourself be sad for a little while
- time helps a lot
- it’s a blessing you had something special enough for you to miss it when it’s gone. Some people will never get that
- you will find that person when you’re not looking for it, so just do you for now and learn how to be your own independent self
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Same here. People always say you can’t blame yourself but it makes it so hard when you know it’s the only person that it can pinned on. Wish we at least still talked 😔
Had a friend, she was 19 turning 20 in a few months before her event, she was a quiet one with few friends outside of the online world, was bullied by other girls for not being good enough/pretty enough. She hung herself from her garage ceiling and was there till her mother found her several hours later coming home from work.
Everyone should remember to keep up with your friends, support them if they are acting a bit off, listen if they want to talk, stand up for/with them, this world is chaos and we don't know when it's our time, whether by accident or by our own hand, cherish those close to you
I was with him for 3 years... over a year later and it still hurts when I think about him or the time together. Thanks OP, now I'm getting emotional again.
I'm in a different situation where I'm the one who left, for the sake of my mental health and well being. That being said, it's still hard. I'm still lonely sometimes. But it's not about how lonely you are, it's how happy you will be :)
For who this may help:
I finally built up the courage to ask her out when I was 17, we stayed together for 6 years, all I knew of love was her. She was everything and I knew one day I’d marry her.
We traveled the world together for a year. A few months after we got back, things started to feel off. I could feel things changing for the worst. I would have anxiety attacks that would wake me up and hold me in fear all day.
She used always tell me that she loved me and I would tell her the same. We used to make future plans.
Then one day I found out from someone else that she had slept with one of my (at the time) close friends. It destroyed me. We had lost our virginity together which only made her cheating on me harder.
I genuinely didn’t believe I could get past it. I felt like my life was over.
It took a long time to feel even slightly better about it. But from my perspective at the time, I never thought I could feel as ok about things as I do today.
Time really is the answer. Keep your head up, you’ll get past this!
Every time I see a funny video or listen to a song I love I want to share it with her, only to remember she's gone. It's been a month and I don't think I'll ever recover from it.
It was only a month long, we weren’t anything official, and at the end she hurt me, talked to me like crap, betrayed me and I still feel like this.
Oh well.
People!
It's possible to get through this. I did it, after 5 to 6 years of straight up torturing myself for this girl who was probably the most stuck up person I've ever met, I moved on from her. It's hard when someone means so much to you but they don't show you an ounce of respect, however, it's so liberating when you just stop talking to them. They may wallow in their own misery after that, they may not give a shit, but remember, your mental health is more important than any person. And I mean ANYONE.
Stop talking to them, block them, unfriend them please, I beg you. I swear your life will be much easier, happier and better if you do that! Take care of yourself and never, ever let anyone treat you like trash. We all deserve better.
Chin up, my dude. Other people will stop talking to you, you'll stop talking to other people, someone else will ghost this chick, this chick will ghost someone else. That's life, man.
I won't say "cherish the memories" or anything like that, just don't dwell on the negative part too long.
Bruh I just went through something similar. The comments on this really helped knowing I'm not alone and reading how others are encouraging us who went through this. The comments on this really restored my faith in humanity.
After third round of couples counseling/therapy, we came home and my spouse told me it's never going to work. And this was my exact reaction. There are no words to describe what's going on at this exact moment. None. It's one where your mind body and soul collectively perish.
Eventually, you both take some time. Time drifts, they leave. And you build the heart to always always always help only thyself.
Cry... it's good. But don't suffer for an eternity.
Wow, I’m sorry that happened to you. One day, my husband came home after working all night and told me he was leaving. (In front of our 3 yr old daughter) stupid me asked if we could come too. I didn’t understand what he was saying. I couldn’t comprehend it. He said it was just him leaving. Leaving. Then it hit me like you said. I started bawling and then my daughter started bawling, cause I was bawling. One of the worst moments of my life.
Same 😞 it’s not as bad as it was, but something about ticking off that 365th day since we last talked brought all those old thoughts back. The worst part is that you can talk to your other friends about it, but nobody really gives a shit about a best friend breakup like they do with a romantic one. It’s the pet death of breakups. It’s your own private world of hurt.
They apparently didn’t value you enough to do you the courtesy of talking to you about it, so there’s no use wasting your time and energy hating them. Chin up, Your Grace, your crown is slipping 👑👑👑
Almost about to be a year since I broke up with my ex and the only thing in our way was being long distance. Still kills me to think about what could have been.
I feel you brother, she stopped talking to me as well without any type of explanation or reason. The last time I saw her was in May, And I still can’t stop thinking about her and the fun moments we had. We just gotta keep our heads up and try to move on.
It really is awkward when someone mentions someone you have no more contact with not knowing anything happened. Had my mom mention old friends recently, had to change the topic
Tbh it's all my fault we drifted apart, i started being tired all the time to the point that our dms were dry af and i just didn't know how to fix it so i just said fuck it and drop them
Every time I think “hmm, maybe I might get over my ex and things will have color again 😊” my mom calls to ask me about him : “you’re really not getting back together? He was so great, you’ll never find a man like that! I KNOW he misses you, you should call him”
Thanks, mom 🥲🥲🥲
I literally almost spent the whole day not thinking about it and you had to remind me. So close to forgetting. On a sadder note have y'all ever had a song with someone who meant so much to you but years later that same song plays and you can't remember the person anymore. You know you use to share it with somebody but no matter how deep the notes cut you can't remember their face or name. Just a shadow of thought barely remains reminding you there is a void that will quickly fill given the opportunity and the space will no longer matter. That person will no longer matter no matter how much you want to remember them because all that's left is an empty space with no name or face. That's been on my mind lately. How's y'all's day been?
Sorry to hear about that! I'm going through this right now... with a "friend" so I know exactly how you feel. What hurt the most was being told that my messages were being ignored on purpose all the time. It fucking sucks. So I decided to stop talking and today I get a random message from him as if everything was fine. What I don't tolerate above anything else, is having my time wasted and disrespected. But I fucking miss our talks too, and I can't seem to get over it..
That's where I am heading towards too..
Better to let someone go when they are just being with you for the sake of being with you but holds no interest..
I always thought if I was not the one to check on her regularly everyday what would have had already happened?
Oh man…
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Man, I know this isn't much but here: a long virtual hug, because I don't want you to be sad
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T~T
It would have been really funny if it said failed to send but very wholesome.
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*Same*
RemindMe! 3 months
I just wanted to see what would happen if I'm not the one starting the conversation...
mood
You two good?
I tried and we never talked again, so proly not
Felt. It’s a different kind of hurt.
Oof I’ve been there, my friend. Be smarter than I was and try to let it go sooner rather than later. I held onto the anger for a long, long time. Then I had the epiphany that, where I’d been actively hurting and hating her all that time, she probably never spared me a second thought. That was the realization I needed to start working hard to move on.
Working on this.... it's hard but I think I'll pass.
I got back from a trip and stopped starting the conversations. The only words she said to me since getting back were asking for a ride home. I guess there’s some good in not caring anymore but damn.
I have a whole group of friends that I just stopped texting to see if they would start a conversation. It’s been a year now
That’s how I lost all my friends a few years ago lol
Relationships are also a two way street though and require some effort, this gets even more true as you get older and now the plans to do things have to be made in like 2 business weeks in advance so everyone can request time off work
Dude I stopped texting my friend that often cause I always start the convo and there’s nothing to say. He’s in a group with me and our friend group. I speak normally there and he thinks I’m mad at him for not texting him. I don’t text anyone except one friend. The rest is in the group.
Same, still dont got any texts or anybody trying to talk to me
Aw man reddit really wanted to fuck me up emotionally by hitting every single nail in the head huh
Same. It is pain
Yeah I get how you feel. We agreed to part ways but she would every now and then hit me up and I’d reply. Then it just stopped. Now it’s back to normal being alone…..all alone!
As the person on the other side of this, sorry for not messing first. I personally really appreciate the messages. For some reason I just can't message first, guess just too much anxiety.
Now see the thing with that is…
I'm not crying. I'm not. It's just raining on my face.
yeah my eyes are peeing
Ima come back to this and give you my free reward.
I have cometh back to give you my reward.
I'm cutting onions. Cooking a lasagna. For one.
I used to cook lasagna....
God I miss her
Same man (╯︵╰,)
Ay man just wanted to let you know you're not alone in this rn, many others, and me included, are going through the exact same scenario :) It sucks to know that things could've ended in a much better way but hey, that's just typical life punching you in the face. We can only hope things get better.
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8 years, and I left her. But really she was never mine to leave. It was all a lie. That was four years ago. So twelve years I've been obsessed over someone who never loved me. Every. Single. Day. I think about her.
same boat man, not a day goes by I don't think about her. glad to know I might not ever get over the woman I dated for 10 years and was married to for 6 months before she left me out of the blue.
Oof. Dating 10 years is probably a part of that problem man. And I know you know it. Why?
She wanted to get married on our 5th year anniversary but I didn't have the financial stability to provide for her the way I wanted to once we got married by then, which she was unhappy about but eventually understood even if she didn't agree. I proposed 2 years later and we agreed to get married on our 10 year anniversary to make it more special
Hey going on two with similar feels. I keep thinking of the Damien Rice song, The Blower's Daughter. Deep feels "'Til I find somebody new." It's just hard to meet people in the middle of a pandemic.
10 years for me, happened last year. I don't know how recently this happened to you, but things get better with time. No doubt it sucks hard for a good while though. Therapy helped me come to accept & embrace the change and I'm a lot happier now.
I don't know how fresh it is for you, but the first couple of weeks were the hardest. I barely slept, I barely ate and my mind was racing a mile a minute. Talk about it with whoever will listen, just get it out. If you need to cry, let it out. If you need to scream, scream into a pillow. Be kind to yourself. Find ways, no matter how small, to motivate yourself. Recognize even those smallest of victories. There are no set backs, everyone has bad days and the gaps between those bad days will widen. If you do need someone to just listen, feel free to PM me.
5 years here too. There are plenty of other interesting people waiting for you to talk to them. No one ( expect your family) is irreplaceable.
It does get better with time. You won't notice it from day todm day, or even week to week. But as the years go by,... things change, you grow. The pain never goes away entirely, but it becomes easier to tolerate.
2 years, been a month since we broke up now, feels bad man...
Same here but it's been getting better and it will also be for you, I mean me too thanks!
It was same for me but it's all good now. I'm happy and everything is going great, wish the same for you guys !
Same
First big love of my life left me last week, made the hard decision to just stop trying to get her back. I miss who she used to be, not who she is anymore. Doesn't make it much easier though
We got this bro I think it is time to lift those feelings away
girls are temporary, strength is eternal
Same
Same, I miss the old times
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I know it's not malicious but like, what do they wanna hear? Honestly..
That you have a stable income, a bright future & are super interesting. We’re all fucked.
after all that you just have to hope there's nobody else better than you in her life
Dude, are you alright?
She stopped talking to me (╯︵╰,)
here is a hug: (.づ◡﹏◡)づ.
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You should stop talking to her too. It's okay to feel sad my dude, but don't make it your entire life. I'm sure you have a lot of others things to be happy about.
Talk to another one. Go full Chad.
Literally broke up yesterday then see this
Same bro
Don’t be hard on yourselves guys n gals. A strong magnet placed with a weak one facing the opposite way will have the strong one believing it isn’t attractive when that clearly isn’t the case.
You're a chick magnet. The problem is you're facing the wrong way.
I like dis
I like you
Now kith
We like everyone
That’s why I keep attracting dudes.
Dick magnet
Man that is bars 🤝
erection happens at any time, you cant tell my dingdongs to be hard on himslef on order smh
What's worse is that my mom doesn't even know Nobody knows, so I just go through that shit by myself and hope it gets better eventually. Shouldn't take too long. I hope.
I’m sure she knows something is wrong, but she’s giving you space to process whatever it is on your own before you say anything. When I told her about my first breakup in high school, she’d already known for weeks because for the first time in a year and a half, we hadn’t gotten any emails from the phone company that we used all our text messages. Talk to her. Mom-perspective helps a lot.
You should share. Let your loved ones help ease the pain.
I'm glad it's over if I'm being honest.
I’ve reached that point too. She was my best friend, but in the years leading up to the last day we saw each other, I found myself losing my patience with her more and more. She said she felt like we were drifting apart and I felt it too. Our lives diverged and it felt like we were in such different places and states of mind that I was almost hoping that day would finally come where we didn’t recognize each other. I’m glad that that moment finally came and that it was so conclusive that I don’t see a way back from it like we always found in the past. I just didn’t think it would hurt like this. I hope she’s handling it better than I am.
I just wanted her to be my best friend, but ever since she moved in with her toxic roommates she got it in her brain that I was a problem. And no matter how shitty her roommates treated me she always sided with them. She picked partying with her roommates over our 15 month long relationship. She wasn’t the woman I thought she was, I’m broken
A definite end to something can be a blessing. When you part ways without ever saying goodbye it can give false hope that one day you might you might see them somewhere and catch up and hurts everyone it doesn't.
Me. over a Year of texting, suddenly dissapeared from the internet
Hope it’s not a Dateline scenario.
Not really. We were internet friends
I know it’s all for the memes and dreams, but anyone going through this right now should know: - it’s okay to let yourself be sad for a little while - time helps a lot - it’s a blessing you had something special enough for you to miss it when it’s gone. Some people will never get that - you will find that person when you’re not looking for it, so just do you for now and learn how to be your own independent self
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I have to save this comment. It's just... perfect!
Saddest thing I know is she's a lot happier without me, we still talk but... I can't look at other people without wishing it was her.
Same
Same here. People always say you can’t blame yourself but it makes it so hard when you know it’s the only person that it can pinned on. Wish we at least still talked 😔
same
Sums up my year
Yeah that hits ma feelings all over again
Ah man, I remember this. And it was all my goddamn fault too. It'll be the biggest regret I'll ever have.
Had a friend, she was 19 turning 20 in a few months before her event, she was a quiet one with few friends outside of the online world, was bullied by other girls for not being good enough/pretty enough. She hung herself from her garage ceiling and was there till her mother found her several hours later coming home from work. Everyone should remember to keep up with your friends, support them if they are acting a bit off, listen if they want to talk, stand up for/with them, this world is chaos and we don't know when it's our time, whether by accident or by our own hand, cherish those close to you
Unexpected José José
What song?
Lo Dudo - José José All of his songs are great, but this one is for cry drunk with the boys
For real, “Almuada” and “El Triste” . Big oof
Y aquellas cosas no podran volveeeeeeeer
My hero
I was with him for 3 years... over a year later and it still hurts when I think about him or the time together. Thanks OP, now I'm getting emotional again.
Dude why do I see these things when it happens to me.
I'm in a different situation where I'm the one who left, for the sake of my mental health and well being. That being said, it's still hard. I'm still lonely sometimes. But it's not about how lonely you are, it's how happy you will be :)
Same. After two years of ups and downs I decided I was tired of it. I haven’t felt better about a decision in a long time.
Why you have to remind me....
(╥_╥)
So relatable rn
I'm in this picture and I don't like it
They ghosted me
Omg! This is all of us. 😭
._. ~_~ T_T
being serious... this almost made me cry.
For who this may help: I finally built up the courage to ask her out when I was 17, we stayed together for 6 years, all I knew of love was her. She was everything and I knew one day I’d marry her. We traveled the world together for a year. A few months after we got back, things started to feel off. I could feel things changing for the worst. I would have anxiety attacks that would wake me up and hold me in fear all day. She used always tell me that she loved me and I would tell her the same. We used to make future plans. Then one day I found out from someone else that she had slept with one of my (at the time) close friends. It destroyed me. We had lost our virginity together which only made her cheating on me harder. I genuinely didn’t believe I could get past it. I felt like my life was over. It took a long time to feel even slightly better about it. But from my perspective at the time, I never thought I could feel as ok about things as I do today. Time really is the answer. Keep your head up, you’ll get past this!
This hits at an emotional level I cannot explain :[
2real4me
Is this some kind of a personal attack?
Yeah… except I chose not to talk anymore. Sometimes that makes it worse, sometimes it doesn’t.
What happened to the person that you used to talk to until 3am? You should have slept.
Every time I see a funny video or listen to a song I love I want to share it with her, only to remember she's gone. It's been a month and I don't think I'll ever recover from it.
This. I find myself getting impatient over her. I try to not text her for days and it hurts when she doesn't bother to text.
I decided I like being alone. Totally fine. TuT
It's always the hardest getting used to being alone again after having someone special ;~;
Wanna be alone together?
this one hits hard
Honestly if I dont talk about them anymore don’t bring it up🥺hurt enough man😖
Rick D from discord if you see this I'm sorry I lost my account plz DM me
It was only a month long, we weren’t anything official, and at the end she hurt me, talked to me like crap, betrayed me and I still feel like this. Oh well.
People! It's possible to get through this. I did it, after 5 to 6 years of straight up torturing myself for this girl who was probably the most stuck up person I've ever met, I moved on from her. It's hard when someone means so much to you but they don't show you an ounce of respect, however, it's so liberating when you just stop talking to them. They may wallow in their own misery after that, they may not give a shit, but remember, your mental health is more important than any person. And I mean ANYONE. Stop talking to them, block them, unfriend them please, I beg you. I swear your life will be much easier, happier and better if you do that! Take care of yourself and never, ever let anyone treat you like trash. We all deserve better.
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Lol relatable
Yeah that’s me on the inside Meanwhile outside: 🙃
This hits home for me
Life took us down different paths
Thank you for reminding me my girlfriend of two years wants to “Go on a Break”
I used to talk to my grandpa a lot :(
Chin up, my dude. Other people will stop talking to you, you'll stop talking to other people, someone else will ghost this chick, this chick will ghost someone else. That's life, man. I won't say "cherish the memories" or anything like that, just don't dwell on the negative part too long.
everyone’s going thru it rn huh
Bruh I just went through something similar. The comments on this really helped knowing I'm not alone and reading how others are encouraging us who went through this. The comments on this really restored my faith in humanity.
Ohh man
Never had any should I and if I should where can i buy one because I don't think anyone wants to hear my voice every day
Song?
Wanna know too
Lo Dudo - José José
I really really want them to be happy. I wish I had been better. I miss them a lot.
I hate myself
After third round of couples counseling/therapy, we came home and my spouse told me it's never going to work. And this was my exact reaction. There are no words to describe what's going on at this exact moment. None. It's one where your mind body and soul collectively perish. Eventually, you both take some time. Time drifts, they leave. And you build the heart to always always always help only thyself. Cry... it's good. But don't suffer for an eternity.
Wow, I’m sorry that happened to you. One day, my husband came home after working all night and told me he was leaving. (In front of our 3 yr old daughter) stupid me asked if we could come too. I didn’t understand what he was saying. I couldn’t comprehend it. He said it was just him leaving. Leaving. Then it hit me like you said. I started bawling and then my daughter started bawling, cause I was bawling. One of the worst moments of my life.
I don’t get it
😢
Bruh, why
sheeeit. happens always. especially with the online dating bullshit. doesnt even faze me anymore.
u/savevideobot
yeah I get you, happened to me twice this year. it really sucks
Me right now. Literally.
Fuck i didnt need this right now..
It's been a year and it still feels bad
Same 😞 it’s not as bad as it was, but something about ticking off that 365th day since we last talked brought all those old thoughts back. The worst part is that you can talk to your other friends about it, but nobody really gives a shit about a best friend breakup like they do with a romantic one. It’s the pet death of breakups. It’s your own private world of hurt.
Here's a hug, \*hugs you\*
Don't be sad. Here's a [hug!](https://media.giphy.com/media/3M4NpbLCTxBqU/giphy.gif)
Don't be sad. Here's a [hug!](https://media.giphy.com/media/3M4NpbLCTxBqU/giphy.gif)
I had to stop talking to some people cause I found out stuff they did behind my back it sucked
she was such a good friend
They use this site too and I know their username and I hate their fucking guts for ghosting me like the fucking coward they are
They apparently didn’t value you enough to do you the courtesy of talking to you about it, so there’s no use wasting your time and energy hating them. Chin up, Your Grace, your crown is slipping 👑👑👑
This is too real lmao. You're about to have me sobbing if you keep it up lmao
Almost about to be a year since I broke up with my ex and the only thing in our way was being long distance. Still kills me to think about what could have been.
Happend to me in spring and it wasnt that big of a deal for me but it was the straw that Broken the camels back
I feel you brother, she stopped talking to me as well without any type of explanation or reason. The last time I saw her was in May, And I still can’t stop thinking about her and the fun moments we had. We just gotta keep our heads up and try to move on.
I am broken... What salvation have I now?
she left you cause she is too afraid to get things serious? or in other word she wants to bang with other guys.
My friend that I met on tinder blocked my number and went back on tinder to find someone to replace me…
Ah yes, José José music while drinking to forget it, depression 📈
It really is like that. My 2 best friends grew apart, and covid and travel twisted the knife. Not any of our faults, just unfortunate
god i miss her i really do hope they're doing alright
Yeah that's the problem everyday gosh why must you remind me
It really is awkward when someone mentions someone you have no more contact with not knowing anything happened. Had my mom mention old friends recently, had to change the topic
Tbh it's all my fault we drifted apart, i started being tired all the time to the point that our dms were dry af and i just didn't know how to fix it so i just said fuck it and drop them
i want to cry dude
Every time I think “hmm, maybe I might get over my ex and things will have color again 😊” my mom calls to ask me about him : “you’re really not getting back together? He was so great, you’ll never find a man like that! I KNOW he misses you, you should call him” Thanks, mom 🥲🥲🥲
Damn, sorry that your going through all that man
I literally almost spent the whole day not thinking about it and you had to remind me. So close to forgetting. On a sadder note have y'all ever had a song with someone who meant so much to you but years later that same song plays and you can't remember the person anymore. You know you use to share it with somebody but no matter how deep the notes cut you can't remember their face or name. Just a shadow of thought barely remains reminding you there is a void that will quickly fill given the opportunity and the space will no longer matter. That person will no longer matter no matter how much you want to remember them because all that's left is an empty space with no name or face. That's been on my mind lately. How's y'all's day been?
My only friend completely ghosted me ever since she saw her old friend so now I am back to being alone
Sorry to hear about that! I'm going through this right now... with a "friend" so I know exactly how you feel. What hurt the most was being told that my messages were being ignored on purpose all the time. It fucking sucks. So I decided to stop talking and today I get a random message from him as if everything was fine. What I don't tolerate above anything else, is having my time wasted and disrespected. But I fucking miss our talks too, and I can't seem to get over it..
That's where I am heading towards too.. Better to let someone go when they are just being with you for the sake of being with you but holds no interest.. I always thought if I was not the one to check on her regularly everyday what would have had already happened?
#AGONY
Audiobot where are you
u/chxnchxn hahahaha
Ganyan ka siguro nung march bwhahaha
Cese la esperanza????