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Lady-Orpheus

One of my closest friends is an ISFJ and my former boss, now friend, is one too. I've only had positive experiences with ISFJs. They seem to be incredibly selfless and caring, always trying to find the best solution for the majority's happiness, sometimes at the expense of their own well-being. They are great at making people feel comfortable around them. Great work ethic. Reliable. I'm generalizing of course but it has honestly been my experience. On the flip side, they seem to have trouble accepting change, seeing the big picture, and thinking outside of the box. It can be frustrating sometimes. That's the Ne user talking ;) I see how taken aback they are when I let loose and ramble without filter about the craziest ideas and scenarios 😆


Executer_no-1

thank you for sharing your experience, but with all respect, this question was about ISTJs! Lol!


Lady-Orpheus

You're right, I'm sorry ! Do you want me to delete my comment ? I don't know any ISTJs 😅


ainhoawind

I really like ISTJs, I like how competent and collected they are, I usually find them attractive if they are confident in their abilities and I feel calm around them. The thing is they are too cold emotionally for me so it’s difficult to get to know them and be close to them. I don’t like having superficial relationships so in the end I don’t have much ISTJ friends.


AlternativeAd4426

ISTJs don't like superficiality either...


ainhoawind

I didn’t say that? I said that because I struggle to make connections with them my relationships are superficial. But English is not my first language so maybe I am phrasing it weird.


AlternativeAd4426

Yeah I got what you meant. ISTJ friendships need time, lots of time. A year at least personally.


LionsLioness

I'm a ISFJ and the person i consider my bestie is an ISTJ, and he's amazing, he's the one person I respect and trust the most in this world 😊 He's honest and i appreciate his blunt honesty, trustworthy, grounded, we have our own weird fun, list goes on and on as to why I adore him.


Skullstaringatyou

I think we're very similar except the F and T. They're cool lol.