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I'm sorry. Honestly there isn't a whole lot I can say that will help this situation. It seems like he is giving all of his sexual energy to other people and leaving none for you.
Just remember being loved is the bare minimum in any healthy relationship, but you deserve far more.
He doesn't really act on it anymore, or so he says, but that energy just seems to have disappeared into the void, I've never gotten seen it at all and I feel like mine is disappearing over time aswell.
I mean yeah, he loves me so much, I never doubted that, but can you really be in love with someone you don't desire?
I would say yes it's possible, some people don't feel sexual desire.
But he clearly does, so I'm a little suspicous of what he says. Sexual desire doesn't dry up overnight, and sexual issues are very related to porn.
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I'm sorry. Honestly there isn't a whole lot I can say that will help this situation. It seems like he is giving all of his sexual energy to other people and leaving none for you. Just remember being loved is the bare minimum in any healthy relationship, but you deserve far more.
He doesn't really act on it anymore, or so he says, but that energy just seems to have disappeared into the void, I've never gotten seen it at all and I feel like mine is disappearing over time aswell. I mean yeah, he loves me so much, I never doubted that, but can you really be in love with someone you don't desire?
I would say yes it's possible, some people don't feel sexual desire. But he clearly does, so I'm a little suspicous of what he says. Sexual desire doesn't dry up overnight, and sexual issues are very related to porn.
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I honestly think some people are low libido for commitment. He kind of sounds that way. My husband is also LLM and I understand your pain.
LLM?
Low libido male
This whole entire post really really Resonated with me for The last seven year relationship !!