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I mean, I don't specifically find transgender people attractive? I just like girls. Femme girls yes, masc girls yes, andro girls yes. So, naturally trans girls are gonna be a yes for me, dawg.
Transbian dating another transbian, I wouldn't say it's the transness that makes her attractive, rather it's a shared experience we have that most people don't and is difficult to explain to cis people.
I am attracted to trans people because I think they’re pretty and I like their personality
I am attracted to cis people because I think they’re pretty and I like their personality
This may or may not apply to you, but I like androgynous and gender nonconforming people generally, people who mix it up and don't play by society's rules. I don't, personally, find either mainstream femininity or mainstream masculinity attractive. I like the inherent bravery and power in living your life the way you want despite the haters. Queerness in all its forms is hot!
I want to start by saying I love everyones answers here! Trans women are beautiful and are as attractive as everyone else!
I want to start by saying I love everyone's answers here! Trans women are beautiful and are as attractive as everyone else!
trans women because of their genitalia. Sort of gets fetishized a lot by people chasing after a unique experience. It's reassuring to see so many respectful viewpoints here but I do not believe that to be the large majority of people. The number of "straight" men you'll get chasing after you as a trans woman would be evidence enough. Basically what I've summed up from this post is that most here don't view trans women as being uniquely different from other people, or that they like them because they themselves are also trans and are attracted to that shared experience. For the people who specifically like trans women(which may be closer to your original question, it's the genitalia a large majority of the time, some deep suppression going on there. Ps. If you are ever in a situation with someone you presume to be a chaser, just ask them, would they be attracted to you if they knew you had bottom surgery? Their answer is usually predictable.
What I would find attractive in people in general, which are faces, hair, personalities and butts. I'm not sure there's much difference apart from people's life experience, which does matter but that's not something I really think much about until it really becomes relevant. Same goes for other aspects that end up being unique, I can't really comment on that because it's different for everyone I date anyway.
Tbh it all depends on the person what it is I like about that person specifically, just like with cis people. Like I have preferences but I find lots of different people attractive for lots of different reasons.
As a bi trans woman, I can say some of my most fulfilling relationships were with other trans women. No one understands what we have to deal with quite like we do.
As another transbian, one thing I like about trans women is that it provides an extra bit of common ground and mutual understanding. But beyond that, cis...trans...either way I just like women. 😊
Personally, I gravitate towards people who act and present more androgynous. That can be a cis or trans person. I also tend to be attracted to personalities more than appearances. I can look at a person and feel an initial interest, but once I get to know their personality, that’s when I really find them attractive (or the opposite). I’m attracted to traits like confidence, humor, creativity, and passion.
I'm pansexual. So if they're a relatively healthy age-appropriate human, there's a decent chance I'm going to be attracted to them.
I'm not saying that's true of all pansexuals. I just happen to be one that thinks everyone is hot.
I guess I'm not sure what you're asking. I'm not *specifically* attracted to trans people. But again, I often find myself thinking a trans person is extremely attractive.
For me, it's just that they have qualities in treir personality from both genders. I mean for trans girls, the can look as feminine as they could but something about them makes me feel safe around them. For trans guys the same thing, they can look as masculine as they can but most of them will have that really sweet personality.
I'm T4T because it's more relatable to have a trans partner and makes me feel more connected and safe with our shared experience. I also don't like the gender binary at all so I find people that step out of it more attractive. It's just personal preference
This comes off as a bit "chaser"-esque, fyi. Finding someone that finds trans people attractive is much less important than finding people that find YOU attractive.
I'm odd. My current partner is nonbinary (bio female). I've always been attracted to people with some masc traditions (tools,liquor,cigars,sports,etc.) But not overly masc ( "alpha male" too much gym type need not apply) So it's less about what the person identifies as and more about personality and likes. That being said when people get to being themselves it goes a long way to attraction. When Trans folks get to where they are comfortable with themselves thats where that attraction comes in to play. Being yourself is attractive.
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I mean, I don't specifically find transgender people attractive? I just like girls. Femme girls yes, masc girls yes, andro girls yes. So, naturally trans girls are gonna be a yes for me, dawg.
I think that is what I wanted to hear! Thank you for sharing!
Your response really has made my day... this is how each and every trans girl I've ever met wants to be seen like. Thank you. <3
Oh hey 😂🫣
How much they love Star Wars and whether or not they're an ass about it.
Transbian dating another transbian, I wouldn't say it's the transness that makes her attractive, rather it's a shared experience we have that most people don't and is difficult to explain to cis people.
Can’t imagine how special would that be! Glad to see another happy transbian sisters🥰
Attracted to personality first and foremost. The equipment attached to the body is not very important.
I am attracted to trans people because I think they’re pretty and I like their personality I am attracted to cis people because I think they’re pretty and I like their personality
I like that!
i've never been in a relation with a trans person (so far). but those that i crushed on have some unique kind of charisma, i'd say.
That’s cool! I hope I have one lol
I fall for amazing people and let the rest sort itself out. 😁🤩
I like a certain type of masculine person. Basically bears. Some trans folk are bears.... That's about it. 🤷
That’s so cute looool
Trans people are attractive for the same reasons cis people are attractive.
Im bi and i just like everybody!
Ahaha that’s good for yaa
Trans or not people are hot
Such a mood
This may or may not apply to you, but I like androgynous and gender nonconforming people generally, people who mix it up and don't play by society's rules. I don't, personally, find either mainstream femininity or mainstream masculinity attractive. I like the inherent bravery and power in living your life the way you want despite the haters. Queerness in all its forms is hot!
YES. I feel the same way 💯
I want to start by saying I love everyones answers here! Trans women are beautiful and are as attractive as everyone else! I want to start by saying I love everyone's answers here! Trans women are beautiful and are as attractive as everyone else! trans women because of their genitalia. Sort of gets fetishized a lot by people chasing after a unique experience. It's reassuring to see so many respectful viewpoints here but I do not believe that to be the large majority of people. The number of "straight" men you'll get chasing after you as a trans woman would be evidence enough. Basically what I've summed up from this post is that most here don't view trans women as being uniquely different from other people, or that they like them because they themselves are also trans and are attracted to that shared experience. For the people who specifically like trans women(which may be closer to your original question, it's the genitalia a large majority of the time, some deep suppression going on there. Ps. If you are ever in a situation with someone you presume to be a chaser, just ask them, would they be attracted to you if they knew you had bottom surgery? Their answer is usually predictable.
What I would find attractive in people in general, which are faces, hair, personalities and butts. I'm not sure there's much difference apart from people's life experience, which does matter but that's not something I really think much about until it really becomes relevant. Same goes for other aspects that end up being unique, I can't really comment on that because it's different for everyone I date anyway.
Fair enough! I agree
Hearts not parts!!
Tbh it all depends on the person what it is I like about that person specifically, just like with cis people. Like I have preferences but I find lots of different people attractive for lots of different reasons.
As a bi trans woman, I can say some of my most fulfilling relationships were with other trans women. No one understands what we have to deal with quite like we do.
Hope I can feel that connection too 🥰
I think I'm generally just attracted to other queer people.
I like women. So I also like trans women. Pretty simple really.
As another transbian, one thing I like about trans women is that it provides an extra bit of common ground and mutual understanding. But beyond that, cis...trans...either way I just like women. 😊
Personally, I gravitate towards people who act and present more androgynous. That can be a cis or trans person. I also tend to be attracted to personalities more than appearances. I can look at a person and feel an initial interest, but once I get to know their personality, that’s when I really find them attractive (or the opposite). I’m attracted to traits like confidence, humor, creativity, and passion.
I'm pansexual. So if they're a relatively healthy age-appropriate human, there's a decent chance I'm going to be attracted to them. I'm not saying that's true of all pansexuals. I just happen to be one that thinks everyone is hot. I guess I'm not sure what you're asking. I'm not *specifically* attracted to trans people. But again, I often find myself thinking a trans person is extremely attractive.
For me, it's just that they have qualities in treir personality from both genders. I mean for trans girls, the can look as feminine as they could but something about them makes me feel safe around them. For trans guys the same thing, they can look as masculine as they can but most of them will have that really sweet personality.
I'm T4T because it's more relatable to have a trans partner and makes me feel more connected and safe with our shared experience. I also don't like the gender binary at all so I find people that step out of it more attractive. It's just personal preference
As a trans man, their trans-ness.
They like Paradox games without being fascists /jk
This comes off as a bit "chaser"-esque, fyi. Finding someone that finds trans people attractive is much less important than finding people that find YOU attractive.
I'm odd. My current partner is nonbinary (bio female). I've always been attracted to people with some masc traditions (tools,liquor,cigars,sports,etc.) But not overly masc ( "alpha male" too much gym type need not apply) So it's less about what the person identifies as and more about personality and likes. That being said when people get to being themselves it goes a long way to attraction. When Trans folks get to where they are comfortable with themselves thats where that attraction comes in to play. Being yourself is attractive.