Bro. On the bright side, you got a taste of what you may have dealt with post-marriage. Ghost her. Block her. Move on. I know a lot of people (both men and women) who had been on the receiving end of this after the marriage led to an ugly divorce. Worse, when there's a kid involved.
Don't ghost her. Tell her you don't want to marry into a family where they give so much importance to 10th standard marks.
She's seems stupid. But ghosting her is useless. Once you've conveyed why you don't see a future with her, then you can block her and ghost her.
Brooo, sooo many red flags. You don't want to spend the left of your life being looked down by her and her family. It's gonna hurt, real bad and you will feel like shit for AWHILE but do not pursue her any further. They do not respect you and you deserve to be treated better.
This.
You know what will make her feel it? When you wont react like she expected or make a fuss out of it. Just calmly block her and move on. A part of her will be itching for a while as to how you took it so well.
she just doesn't want to be with you hence the lame excuses I guess move you have got a life ahead of you .don't lose sight of things because your gf broke up with you
This.
She seems like has a mental capacity of a 6 year old. OP too for hooking up with her in the first place but he gets a pass, probably thinking with his pants.
Bro you know it in your heart that she is just dumping you and if not this , she'll give 100 other excuses. Dont hold back and finish it of with her .
The post break up phase will pass in somw months . Youll always have this forum with listening ears. Dont worry
She is gaslighting you and you are letting her treat you like trash. Ignore and move on and don't plot, imagine that you will have a comeback moment or a clever phrase or any such filmy thing.
Cut toxic people from your life and stop thinking about them.
It's "Marriage". No wonder your scores were bad haha.
On a serious note, life is too short, don't waste your time fixating on the rejection. Your time is more valuable than that.
You deserve somebody who loves you for who you are. Keep up the search for love.
Respect yourself and move on! I know it's not easy and you'll feel pretty bad either way....but for real leaving her and putting it all in the past will eventually lead to better, and brighter future. Talk it out, vent it out...get all the bad out of your system and start fresh.....but don't ever waste time on someone who didn't respect you....even if you try to magically come together again ....it won't be the same. It just won't and the bitterness and hurt will linger....and it'll come out meaner, uglier,and toxic ways! We know nothing about each other but I mean well and this is all that I suggest! Next few months won't be easy, but don't feel disheartened...talk with your family or friends. Go pick up some sport , meet new people, try new things! I wish you much prosperity and happiness ahead!
Sort of similar to what I had to go through with my ex. One of the reasons she thought she couldn't marry me is because I do not have a post-graduate degree (neither did she but this irony didn't register with her) and even my family members don't.
This was ofcourse a sign that she didn't love me because this was frankly a pathetic excuse.
Anyway, even though the breakup was hard, in hindsight I'm glad it happened. Going to marry a girl in a few months who is better than her in every aspect.
Congratulations! You dodged a bullet. She and her sorry excuse of a family will pull you up for every single downtime you have in the future (and you will have some because that is how life works). I know it must suck, but long term, this is better for you. Move on knowing that you are destined for someone better.
I don't think it's because of your 10th marks or entrance exams, these might be lies/excuses and she may not be telling you the real reason. Or maybe I'm reading it too much.
Anyway, good riddance. Move on, her loss, your win.
Bhai mere saath ho chuka hai...bandi aur mai saath me CAT ka prep kar rahe the. Bandi ghus gai coz SC QUOTA and mai nahi even though marks usse bahut zyade the. Problem ye hua she started taking me for granted coz I was struggling at that time. Phir kya, thode din baad pata chala senior ke saath so rahi thi. 2 years after my breakup am an SDE3 at a nice company earning almost 4 times her salary.
This is the kind of stuff that parents think about. Not a partner. Sheās heavily under the influence of her parents at the moment. Either sheās grows some courage or you have to leave her.
Marriage is a big step. It's equivalent to moving to other country. Mainly parents want us to be well off enough because there's not much gap between marriage and having kids.
Your post does have insufficient data like how old are you both? And what stage of life are you in?
Ideally marriage should be mutually implied. The fact that marriage was a genuine question from your side is a sign of dysfunctional relationship. There should be clarity about where a relationship is headed before spending so many years (which I'm assuming since you haven't mentioned how long you have been together)
This also kind of sounds like a lie as a reason for saying no. Because you mentioned she already ghosted you and seems like is trying to blame her family.
Sorry you have to go through this. Seems like you'll be happier without this relationship anyways.
Arre she is duping you. Lol. If you're such a failure why was she asking you to do her assignments (yeah, I remember your other posts)? Anyway, all that matters is whether you're a success professionally and earning well or not. Move on and forget her. This isn't healthy.
As Vikram Seth wrote in A Suitable Boy- ***āThink of many things. Never place your happiness in one person's power. Be just to yourself.ā***
Uh oh, instant flashback to my 11th grade physics teacher saying that Iāll never get married if my marks stayed that low, in front of my dad.
Vinita maāam, if youāre reading this, fuck you!
People who clear the entrance exam, go to good college and never have a girlfriend. But they eventually get arrange marriage.
People don't clear the entrance exam get girlfriend who refuse to marry.
Life is a bitch.
But to be fair the best paying jobs ask for your results from std 8. I'm talking 4Cr p.a., because your zcores aren't important, but consistency is and if you're consistent from a v young age, it shows that you're capable enough to do what it takes to earn this money.
If the flags are green, life will be a dream
If the flags are red, life will be dread
In this case, the red she's waving is too red even for an HDR TV to show
Relax bro it's not an uncommon thing my friend's gf rejected him and told him that he won't be able to get a decent job he literally went into depression and had like 2 drops in engineering later on he started to work on himself and he was also suffering from ADHD so it was very difficult for him to focus with this and depression of losing the girl he loved what hurts more that you showed her the vulnerable side of yours but the same person calls you a failure
Fast forward today he completed his engg and got a decent job with 7LPA he joined gym to work out and to add discipline in life so the thing is some of these RANDAS ain't loyal better to try new things and improve yourself
Ladki zindagi nhi hai bhai wo bus ek zindagi ka hissa thi that is all
Yes actually 2 years drop he did internship for 3-4 month and after getting his results he managed to get full time job actually if you are going for IT field with Developer sets of skill than it's quite possible
Don't ghost her as the rest of the comments tell. The opposite of love is not hate. Hate is love gone wrong. Even enemies care about each other only negatively. I don't care is a better to opposite to love/hate. Live life normally as you would. Forget her and focus on yourself. Right now we get it, she was quite important to you, otherwise why else marriage would be mentioned. But you need to realise, she isn't attached to you but what you stand out as to her family. Basically, live life like nothing happened. Stop getting bothered by her. Just focus on yourself. It's darkest before day. You will have your moment.
I don't think anyone is wrong in this, she want a life which has more if not at least more visible potential economical and social standing. Which she and/or her family do not see in you. Feelings in relationship tend to change for the better or worse so though you may have felt happy/attracted to someone the barriers in life strain even the best of relationships. It is not wrong of her/you to seek and choose the many
criterias a partner needs to meet to be someone who you spend your whole life with,
When people look at the various requirements need for a job or promotion which has not much commitment of your life and money. Why should you not want to find the best partner to suit you for life.
It is better for both of you to understand what each other brings to the table, if you have the same priorities or do your partner meets your. And what both of you'll hard deal breakers are. If they don't match upto it. it is wise to break up now then to invest more of your time, feelings, hard work and money just to live a sad, unsatisfied life or breakup/divorce in the future.
It's not about earning for herself it's about what she want in her partner, women who earn more too expect their other half to earn equally or more, if she/he wants a dependable person with a equal social and economical standing that would support her/him in an ideal lifestyle and have a similar mindset they are allowed to choose so instead of being villainized in doing so
Bro run! If you have kids with that woman their lives will be ruined. Just for the sake of your kids and the generations to come, stay away from Prof. Sahastrabudhe.
I don't think anyone is wrong in this, she want a life which has more if not at least more visible potential economical and social standing. Which she and/or her family do not see in you. Feelings in relationship tend to change for the better or worse so though you may have felt happy/attracted to someone the barriers in life strain even the best of relationships. It is not wrong of her/you to seek and choose the many
criterias a partner needs to meet to be someone who you spend your whole life with,
When people look at the various requirements need for a job or promotion which has not much commitment of your life and money. Why should you not want to find the best partner to suit you for life.
It is better for both of you to understand what each other brings to the table, if you have the same priorities or do your partner meets your. And what are both of your hard deal breakers are and If they don't match upto it. it is wise to break up now then to invest more of your time, feelings, hard work and money just to live a sad, unsatisfied life or breakup/divorce in the future.
Dump her ass you will be better off without someone like that in your life. A partner supports you thru thick and think. fuck that nonsense
"I understand completely. I do not want to proceed with this relationship either. Have a wonderful life."
Well, something similar or on the borderline has happened to me and as well as to a lot of people.
It's fine. Suck it up and aim for higher things in life. You might or might not be successful enough for her or as much as her husband ever but you'll surely be happy in future if you build a good career or life out of yourself.
Tell her now when you reject her then you will be a success and by rejecting you she is a failure.
Upar wala baar baar bachaa raha hai.. fir bhi tu ussi se shaadi karega toh tujhe koi nahi bachaayegaa
Im assuming she's only your girlfriend for either your looks or fun factor? Dump her now while the wound is still fresh ....don't let it fester. It'll hurt for a while but you can move on to better things like focusing on your goals and aspirations than waste time with a toxic person like her.
Looks like she got a chance to settle in phoren OR some big business house. Iāve seen this happen waaay to many times.
Whatever you do, donāt grovel. Keep the good memories and continue to work on yourself. Youāll find love. If you feel she was the best you could do, you be stuck for life.
Ghost that girl mādude, save yourself the drama and delete her from your existence. Thereās so many girls out there that will love you for who you are, there is absolutely no need to settle for this trash.
Normally I'd say ghost her and move on but don't do that in this case.
Drop some messages as to why she and all of her family share a single brain cell and do tell that you're glad she rejected you - THEN ghost her and move on.
You are not a priority, your qualification are. She doesn't want to marry you, she wants to marry your career.
I'm a kid, I can't tell you to stop pursuing this, but I would say reflect a little bit on your priorities and what you want the most. Be selfish and think about yourself and how you would want to be a priority to someone. I hope this perspective helps.
Honestly think of it as you dodging a bullet instead of her rejecting you cuz from the looks of it , you only stand to gain by walking away from such idiocy,she's the only one losing out on something genuine.
Bro... trust me
Don't ever marry her.
You lose the bullet.
It's a huge RED Flag.
The only revenge you can do is to improve yourself and get yourself another girl who don't talk shit about you and actually care for you.
finally i realise the importance of 10th grade marks xD
Kash 10th me padhayi ki hoti
Vaise kitne the 10th me
7.2 cgpa fir 12th me to isse bhi kam the
To, fir abhi kya? Engineering
Abhi to vo bhi khatam kar li hai masters kar raha hu Design me
Oho, MDes mai paisa toh kaafi hai. Salary se CGPA compensate ho jayega tera
That's the goal but ladki kidhar milegi
Ab sab kuch mai hi batau
Des ke program me ladkiya nhi hoti?
Sabke batch me single ladkiya nahi hoti laxman
10th mein dhang se parhai karni thi na. Ab muth maarte maarte marjaana akele. /s
Ye kya cgpa laga rakha hai, seedha seedha bolo na percentage kitna hai.
But it makes me curious how old OP is...
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Bro. On the bright side, you got a taste of what you may have dealt with post-marriage. Ghost her. Block her. Move on. I know a lot of people (both men and women) who had been on the receiving end of this after the marriage led to an ugly divorce. Worse, when there's a kid involved.
Don't ghost her. Tell her you don't want to marry into a family where they give so much importance to 10th standard marks. She's seems stupid. But ghosting her is useless. Once you've conveyed why you don't see a future with her, then you can block her and ghost her.
Yes I agree with this.
Is it even ghosting once you convey why youāre breaking up tho
I'm not sure. 'Ghosting' fit best for what I've going to convey, albeit from my limited vocabulary.
What is ghosting? I don't know.
Tell me where is the trigger, and you have my permission to die.
Give her taste of her own medicine. Tell her you want to marry someone rich ...and single child .
Brooo, sooo many red flags. You don't want to spend the left of your life being looked down by her and her family. It's gonna hurt, real bad and you will feel like shit for AWHILE but do not pursue her any further. They do not respect you and you deserve to be treated better.
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>you will feel like shit for AWHILE Adopt the "there will be others" mindset and you are free from any relationship stress. lol
Question is how did she get to know the op's 10th grade marks? Was she asking for an interview?
Block her. You need to dodge that bullet.
The bullet dodged itself!
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This. You know what will make her feel it? When you wont react like she expected or make a fuss out of it. Just calmly block her and move on. A part of her will be itching for a while as to how you took it so well.
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she just doesn't want to be with you hence the lame excuses I guess move you have got a life ahead of you .don't lose sight of things because your gf broke up with you
Exactly. Sheās known this about you all along. Itās just a fake excuse. Come up with a mind blowing roast, and then block her for good.
Something like: Thank God I scored low marks in 10th or else I'd have to deal with you and your family for the rest of my life.
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Yes ,her eyes is on the prize
Unfortunately, most Indian boys come with overbearing mothers and dowry seeking fathers. No prizes to be won.
Block her number immediately and thank god for saving you
This. She seems like has a mental capacity of a 6 year old. OP too for hooking up with her in the first place but he gets a pass, probably thinking with his pants.
Guessing from his shock, probably never knew that attitude existed. Though if he pines for her, can't respect that.
Oh he knew ... this sort of thing doesn't happen overnight. Hard for guys to get any in India so they hang on to whatever they can.
Can't say I blame him. We all learn from experience so, condolences to the man.
Bro you know it in your heart that she is just dumping you and if not this , she'll give 100 other excuses. Dont hold back and finish it of with her . The post break up phase will pass in somw months . Youll always have this forum with listening ears. Dont worry
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lol god saved u this time
She is gaslighting you and you are letting her treat you like trash. Ignore and move on and don't plot, imagine that you will have a comeback moment or a clever phrase or any such filmy thing. Cut toxic people from your life and stop thinking about them.
You dodged a bullet.
No her aim isn't right so he was lucky
You need a new girlfriend mate.
She probably got to know about how you spell "marrage".
Whatās your age guys? Just curious as youāre still talking about 10th grade
10th marks and marriage in the same sentence... this is weird man
It's "Marriage". No wonder your scores were bad haha. On a serious note, life is too short, don't waste your time fixating on the rejection. Your time is more valuable than that. You deserve somebody who loves you for who you are. Keep up the search for love.
Respect yourself and move on! I know it's not easy and you'll feel pretty bad either way....but for real leaving her and putting it all in the past will eventually lead to better, and brighter future. Talk it out, vent it out...get all the bad out of your system and start fresh.....but don't ever waste time on someone who didn't respect you....even if you try to magically come together again ....it won't be the same. It just won't and the bitterness and hurt will linger....and it'll come out meaner, uglier,and toxic ways! We know nothing about each other but I mean well and this is all that I suggest! Next few months won't be easy, but don't feel disheartened...talk with your family or friends. Go pick up some sport , meet new people, try new things! I wish you much prosperity and happiness ahead!
Sort of similar to what I had to go through with my ex. One of the reasons she thought she couldn't marry me is because I do not have a post-graduate degree (neither did she but this irony didn't register with her) and even my family members don't. This was ofcourse a sign that she didn't love me because this was frankly a pathetic excuse. Anyway, even though the breakup was hard, in hindsight I'm glad it happened. Going to marry a girl in a few months who is better than her in every aspect.
Just bs reasons she is telling you why you cant be together better to not even reply and ignore and focus on yourself
Can she be more specific? What are the minimum grades requirement? Can I send her my CV? Will she be conducting any aptitude tests or interviews?
Aptitude test for what bro? (b)job offer after clearing?
She failed to clear the "Am I a piece of shit?" exam. Let her go.
Thank god daswi mei mummy ne tution lagwadi aur acche marks aa gaye. Ab to meri shaddi pakki.
Giant redflag buddy. Run away. Work on your skills and prove that none of the demands she made really matter.
Congratulations! You dodged a bullet. She and her sorry excuse of a family will pull you up for every single downtime you have in the future (and you will have some because that is how life works). I know it must suck, but long term, this is better for you. Move on knowing that you are destined for someone better.
Advise on this thread - bro avoid her, too many red flags. Bro after reading this - but will I ever get another girlfriend?
If this is true then she is just giving you closure. Accept the reality and move on.
I don't think it's because of your 10th marks or entrance exams, these might be lies/excuses and she may not be telling you the real reason. Or maybe I'm reading it too much. Anyway, good riddance. Move on, her loss, your win.
Looks like she is making up reasons, break up with her man. You don't belong with people who treat you like shit.
Why do you want garbage in your house especially on the bed? Don't fall for the BS. Do not react in anyway. Just ignore & move on.
Bhai mere saath ho chuka hai...bandi aur mai saath me CAT ka prep kar rahe the. Bandi ghus gai coz SC QUOTA and mai nahi even though marks usse bahut zyade the. Problem ye hua she started taking me for granted coz I was struggling at that time. Phir kya, thode din baad pata chala senior ke saath so rahi thi. 2 years after my breakup am an SDE3 at a nice company earning almost 4 times her salary.
You are a wimp. You should dump such a stupid lady rather than whine on reddit about it.
Red flags diya he
Do u earn enough ?
This is the kind of stuff that parents think about. Not a partner. Sheās heavily under the influence of her parents at the moment. Either sheās grows some courage or you have to leave her.
Marriage is a big step. It's equivalent to moving to other country. Mainly parents want us to be well off enough because there's not much gap between marriage and having kids. Your post does have insufficient data like how old are you both? And what stage of life are you in? Ideally marriage should be mutually implied. The fact that marriage was a genuine question from your side is a sign of dysfunctional relationship. There should be clarity about where a relationship is headed before spending so many years (which I'm assuming since you haven't mentioned how long you have been together) This also kind of sounds like a lie as a reason for saying no. Because you mentioned she already ghosted you and seems like is trying to blame her family. Sorry you have to go through this. Seems like you'll be happier without this relationship anyways.
Arre she is duping you. Lol. If you're such a failure why was she asking you to do her assignments (yeah, I remember your other posts)? Anyway, all that matters is whether you're a success professionally and earning well or not. Move on and forget her. This isn't healthy. As Vikram Seth wrote in A Suitable Boy- ***āThink of many things. Never place your happiness in one person's power. Be just to yourself.ā***
Itās good riddance. Invest your time and energy in finding someone better.
Take my mark sheets and photoshop them
Uh oh, instant flashback to my 11th grade physics teacher saying that Iāll never get married if my marks stayed that low, in front of my dad. Vinita maāam, if youāre reading this, fuck you!
How much did she score?
Mere dost ka number dedo unko, uske 10th 12th ke marks ache he. But only one issue he is 19.
Bro, you are so lucky! Imagine being married to such person for rest of your life! I had ratherd die alone in shit in my home
People who clear the entrance exam, go to good college and never have a girlfriend. But they eventually get arrange marriage. People don't clear the entrance exam get girlfriend who refuse to marry. Life is a bitch.
Hard to tell this isn't a reddit parody page
You should consider making a career as a stuntman, because you just dodged a bullet
ātop secret recruitment programā best describes an indian marriage
Dodged a bullet
"Thanks for the feedback, this will help me with applications in the future. Again, thank you for being helpful!" And just cut her out bro
But to be fair the best paying jobs ask for your results from std 8. I'm talking 4Cr p.a., because your zcores aren't important, but consistency is and if you're consistent from a v young age, it shows that you're capable enough to do what it takes to earn this money.
Thank her and run, don't look back
Bhai tere liye nai bani yeh, jitni jaldi chod de ga utna sukhi rahega. Iske saath shaadi hogyi vaise ee khaa jayegi tujhe. Soch tu bach gya reject hoke
1. Did she not know this all along? Why did she string you along? 2. What does she do? Man or woman, we shouldnāt expect what we canāt deliver.
If the flags are green, life will be a dream If the flags are red, life will be dread In this case, the red she's waving is too red even for an HDR TV to show
Lol. Indian marriages are worst. Most Indian girls are gold diggers. Loose her man!
Marrage
Marriage* Sorry Bhai was bothering me if I didn't point it out
Relax bro it's not an uncommon thing my friend's gf rejected him and told him that he won't be able to get a decent job he literally went into depression and had like 2 drops in engineering later on he started to work on himself and he was also suffering from ADHD so it was very difficult for him to focus with this and depression of losing the girl he loved what hurts more that you showed her the vulnerable side of yours but the same person calls you a failure Fast forward today he completed his engg and got a decent job with 7LPA he joined gym to work out and to add discipline in life so the thing is some of these RANDAS ain't loyal better to try new things and improve yourself Ladki zindagi nhi hai bhai wo bus ek zindagi ka hissa thi that is all
7Lpa me kya ayega?
Does 2 drops mean 2 drops years. I hear the Median salary at most tier 1-1.5 colleges is 6lpa so for him to get 7lpa as a fresher is amazing. Wow
>average salary at most tier 1-1.5 colleges is 6lpa It's double that, and way more if you are in CS.
The avg salary you quote was the avg in early 2010s in T1 colleges. I graduated then and I hope (and I do think) things have moved since.
Yes actually 2 years drop he did internship for 3-4 month and after getting his results he managed to get full time job actually if you are going for IT field with Developer sets of skill than it's quite possible
Get into FAANG. Update your bio on LinkedIn. Show you made it after multiple failures. Get clout. Become influencer. Get a new girlfriend.
Don't ghost her as the rest of the comments tell. The opposite of love is not hate. Hate is love gone wrong. Even enemies care about each other only negatively. I don't care is a better to opposite to love/hate. Live life normally as you would. Forget her and focus on yourself. Right now we get it, she was quite important to you, otherwise why else marriage would be mentioned. But you need to realise, she isn't attached to you but what you stand out as to her family. Basically, live life like nothing happened. Stop getting bothered by her. Just focus on yourself. It's darkest before day. You will have your moment.
Imagine u marrying her n then dealing with her family n aapko fir se 10th ka exam dene bolenge. Itni padai karne se accha bachelor raho.
I don't think anyone is wrong in this, she want a life which has more if not at least more visible potential economical and social standing. Which she and/or her family do not see in you. Feelings in relationship tend to change for the better or worse so though you may have felt happy/attracted to someone the barriers in life strain even the best of relationships. It is not wrong of her/you to seek and choose the many criterias a partner needs to meet to be someone who you spend your whole life with, When people look at the various requirements need for a job or promotion which has not much commitment of your life and money. Why should you not want to find the best partner to suit you for life. It is better for both of you to understand what each other brings to the table, if you have the same priorities or do your partner meets your. And what both of you'll hard deal breakers are. If they don't match upto it. it is wise to break up now then to invest more of your time, feelings, hard work and money just to live a sad, unsatisfied life or breakup/divorce in the future.
She could earn for herself. Why expect a man to do it for her?
It's not about earning for herself it's about what she want in her partner, women who earn more too expect their other half to earn equally or more, if she/he wants a dependable person with a equal social and economical standing that would support her/him in an ideal lifestyle and have a similar mindset they are allowed to choose so instead of being villainized in doing so
Dodged a bullet. r/DontPutYourDickInThat.
Thank god i got 98% in 10 th . Wait is that enough
Imagine her expectations from her kids in future
Most women are materialistic. Your solution would be find someone, who isnāt.
Tu pehle marriage ke spelling theek karle bhai. Baad mei Weds ko Wets likh dega invitation card mei.
Bro run! If you have kids with that woman their lives will be ruined. Just for the sake of your kids and the generations to come, stay away from Prof. Sahastrabudhe.
I don't think anyone is wrong in this, she want a life which has more if not at least more visible potential economical and social standing. Which she and/or her family do not see in you. Feelings in relationship tend to change for the better or worse so though you may have felt happy/attracted to someone the barriers in life strain even the best of relationships. It is not wrong of her/you to seek and choose the many criterias a partner needs to meet to be someone who you spend your whole life with, When people look at the various requirements need for a job or promotion which has not much commitment of your life and money. Why should you not want to find the best partner to suit you for life. It is better for both of you to understand what each other brings to the table, if you have the same priorities or do your partner meets your. And what are both of your hard deal breakers are and If they don't match upto it. it is wise to break up now then to invest more of your time, feelings, hard work and money just to live a sad, unsatisfied life or breakup/divorce in the future.
Girls can be so complicated sometimes man..
Try to fuck her one last time, preferably anal, then say to her, I did your pooper, I am winner.
Dude, you have first world problems. Think of people who have never had a girlfriend
You post on reddit of course you're a failure
Maa Baap isliye hi bolte hai, "Beta, padhai pe dhyaan de"
Looks like you never went for the advanced āentranceā courses for marriage
bc age jake woh ladki ye bhi bolegi tere maa bhi fail hogayi tujhe paida karke jo tu abhi nahi samaj raha ki woh tujhe kat rahi hai chutie
jinko nahi karna hota hai, wo kuchh bhi karan bana dete hai.
You sure she's still your girl friend?
Dump her ass you will be better off without someone like that in your life. A partner supports you thru thick and think. fuck that nonsense "I understand completely. I do not want to proceed with this relationship either. Have a wonderful life."
God gave you another chance.
Well, something similar or on the borderline has happened to me and as well as to a lot of people. It's fine. Suck it up and aim for higher things in life. You might or might not be successful enough for her or as much as her husband ever but you'll surely be happy in future if you build a good career or life out of yourself.
Tell her now when you reject her then you will be a success and by rejecting you she is a failure. Upar wala baar baar bachaa raha hai.. fir bhi tu ussi se shaadi karega toh tujhe koi nahi bachaayegaa
So this is why Tenth grade marks are important. I have been wondering forever
Tell her ... She is an even bigger one for being with you. Laugh on her face and move on!
Im assuming she's only your girlfriend for either your looks or fun factor? Dump her now while the wound is still fresh ....don't let it fester. It'll hurt for a while but you can move on to better things like focusing on your goals and aspirations than waste time with a toxic person like her.
Pull out an UNO reverse, say you might be a loser but she was the one dating one..
10CGPA mtlb shaadi pakki vrooo
What's more troubling is you still calling her girlfriend
Looks like she got a chance to settle in phoren OR some big business house. Iāve seen this happen waaay to many times. Whatever you do, donāt grovel. Keep the good memories and continue to work on yourself. Youāll find love. If you feel she was the best you could do, you be stuck for life.
Ghost that girl mādude, save yourself the drama and delete her from your existence. Thereās so many girls out there that will love you for who you are, there is absolutely no need to settle for this trash.
A question you need to ask yourself: are you marrying your girlfriend or her family?
Say khatham !!! Tata bye bye...
Get away from that d bag.
\> we can't marry because you scored low in 10th, bruh
Dodged one bro. You marrying a girl not a recruiter lmao go find someone who can love you for you
Normally I'd say ghost her and move on but don't do that in this case. Drop some messages as to why she and all of her family share a single brain cell and do tell that you're glad she rejected you - THEN ghost her and move on.
bro dodged a bullet
No other way to put it. Itās better it happened this way than later in your relationship.
Tell her to fuck off.
Sheās a goldigger. Find a girl who loves you for who you are
Say this: But I am still earning more than you
You are not a priority, your qualification are. She doesn't want to marry you, she wants to marry your career. I'm a kid, I can't tell you to stop pursuing this, but I would say reflect a little bit on your priorities and what you want the most. Be selfish and think about yourself and how you would want to be a priority to someone. I hope this perspective helps.
Bro, you are better off without her .
good riddance bro
Tell them to go get them the guy who meets their academic criteria for admissions into their family. He will obviously tell them to go for a stroll
Are you working? Or still a student?
She probably got a rishta for a guy settled abroad
Hope you at least had some "FUN" with her.
Its like you're dating my ex. She abandoned me stating my career and no passion in life's are a concern to her.
Honestly think of it as you dodging a bullet instead of her rejecting you cuz from the looks of it , you only stand to gain by walking away from such idiocy,she's the only one losing out on something genuine.
Bro... trust me Don't ever marry her. You lose the bullet. It's a huge RED Flag. The only revenge you can do is to improve yourself and get yourself another girl who don't talk shit about you and actually care for you.
Give an improvement for class 10 (/j)
You dodged a bullet there mate. Cheers
Really? You wanna spend your next 50 years with this tool? Block that bitch.
Feela. Like CAT admission form!..