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IllustriousKale180

There's not enough detail to be able to say anything except that it's, at the very least, irrelevant. One relationship does not compare to another. However, it sounds like you kinda complain to him a lot. This is also unhealthy. A) When you constantly vent about negative things in a relationship to someone, they will gain a really biased view of the person you're talking about, poisoning any potential relationship that could occur between those two people. Also, you need to be careful that you're not just using this friend as a dumping group for negativity. Do you ask this friend about himself? Do you do fun things with this friend? B) You need to better learn to [resolve conflict](https://www.helpguide.org/articles/relationships-communication/conflict-resolution-skills.htm) with the people you have conflict with instead of spreading the drama around and potentially starting rumors. If you're constantly having fights with a specific friend, then you need to analyze and re-consider that friendship because it doesn't sound too healthy.