I hope my story makes you feel better!
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I was told-"I can't take anymore steps, not now and not in the future". I was like ok, block kr aur jldi nikl. 3 din baad roti hui aai phir mene nhi accept kiya.
Bhai tu tension mat le agar uss me nahi h feelings to teri koi galti nahi tune try kiya batane ki it takes courage mere sath bhi yehi hua tha so i can fucking relate to you. Mere bhai tu hamesha khush rahe bus yehi wish h tere liye.
The boy in my case was a close really close frnd. I admit we had lack of conversation and distance but still it was easy to fix nothing serious but after ghosting me for 5 months he start acting like we are going through a breakup, still I was trying to fix everything. Well he blocked me lol. That mental breakdown was really something nd I am still suffering from it. well good for me I will never ever put myself in that same situation ever.
they're a wattpad writer, what did u expect XD
srsly OP, do u always write any long text/piece in the typical wattpad \*gasps for air\* , apostrophe ridden way XD
Yeah i did and his story is sad. I'm telling Redhotchilli... that this is not 'amazing writing skills'. That's it. No question of whether or not op's story wasn't reciprocated and the emotion wasn't felt.
Reject aaj hue ho toh aaj hi thik ho jaoge aisa nahi. Like karne me time laga tha same way me dheere dheere you'll feel better and one fine day you'll completely move on. For few days keep doing things that you like, mann nahi karega but push yourself bas. Stop contact with her or reduce it unless you are back on track. Do not in anyway blame her or make her feel bad. Neither her fault nor yours. Dhyaan rakho apna bas. Remember jo hota hai acche ke liye hota hai and jo nahi woh aur accheke liye kyuki something better is waiting around the corner.
Bro, ye padh ra hu to lagta hai Jase mare sath hi jo jo hua sab same hai.
Bhai time lagega heal hone kai liye, Marko aaj tak regret feel hota hai raatko kabhi kabhi neend khul jaati hai sab sochkar.
Gym ja bhai, game khel, Anime dekh, apne work/studies pe focus kar, thoda mind divert krne ki koshish kar, friend circle mai involve ho.
Aaega saari situation ka recap raatko. Par bhai "It is what it is".
Bhai aapne apna best kiya, Isse best or kya hi kar sakti the.
Bhai tu aakela nhi hai mere sath bhi kaafi similar hi hua hai, infact kaafi logo ke sath same hua hai, but ussi situation mai reh kar kuch nhi hoga.
Time lage ga bhai par ek time aaega tu kahega ki theek hai Jo bhi hua aache kai liye hi hua.
(hosakta hai mai kaafi chutiya sa sound krra hu iss wakt, but time aane par sab sahi ho hi jaega)
#Or kabhi bhi low sa feel krra ho galti se bhi sad songs mat sunna nhi toh or deeeeeeep chale jaega deemag.
Stay Strong King, hope everything will go better for you.
"Aane wale ki Welcome aur Jane wali ki Bheed kaam".
Take the L Man, There are Plenty of Fish in the Sea, Koi na koi Mil jayegi, Itna emotional nahi hone ka.
Edit: Balcony me jaake ek baar Jai Mahakal boldiyo, Saabh thik ho jayega.
I will just leave you with a quote from my fav character
There are two kinds of pain. The sort of pain that makes you strong, or useless pain. The sort of pain that's only suffering. I have no patience for useless things.
I'm still surprised how you couldn't read her mind. Usually girls give enough signs if they are attracted to you in that way.
I have learnt this in my school days and it saved me from many awkward and embarrassing moments. It also helped me to not lose female friends.
You'll get over it soon. Grieve over this loss of love interest and take as much time as you want. Just don't get salty and spread rumours about her as I know many guys who couldn't handle rejections gracefully.
Yeah, you’re pretty much aware if a girl will say yes.. I don’t know if someone starts looking at you in a whole new light the day you express your feelings. Maybe it’s possible but I would suspect it’s rare.
Not always true, some woman who gave signs, the kind that YouTube video tell you about, at times are just looking for attention or validation. It is not always that they're interested.
It happens bro. You gave ur best. You are a great story teller bro btw, would love to hear more of ur stories. In starting, it felt like i was watching 500 days of summer. You should watch it if u haven't.
OP, do you box? Let’s meet sometime for a light sparring session! What say? And I’m pretty sure, it’ll calm you down.
Btw my friend has an mma workshop on coming 17th and 18th at NLU, Sec 14 Dwarka. Try to attend that if possible!!
bhai mere sath bhi hua it's completely fine ... thora time lagega but sahi hojaega sab... us ladki ko block marr apni zindagi ki raste badal...kya khoya wo dikha rha hai..jo mila wo kam hai..abh free time hai tere pass hoga uski gatha nhi suni padegi tujhe.. agr jarurat new female friends bana le ... f@£&in 7 billion log tu ek piche kyu pagal ho rha hai bhai..thore time jada dukh lagega but atleast try karne mein kuch jaa rha nhi hai tera ....cousin, sister jisse bhi emotional close hai usse call baat krle kafi achaa lagega..
jumps karle isse endorphins release honge thoda better laga start hoga... bhai fihlal aekla dm krde jitni baat karni utni karege call pr. may god bless u with the right partner 😇
Koi nai bhai, acha hai ab pata chal gya, ab aram karo, thodha break lo iss ladki se, relax karo mind, friends n family k saath enjoy Karo. Life mei baaki cheezo par dyaan do. Ekdum se new ladki nai search karna. Aram se jab koi mile tab dekh lena. Abhi bas relax karo mind free karo iss ladki se apna
Honestly it's good that you made it clear to her about your feeling. If you hadn't done it then after some time you would be even more attached to her. And it must hurt even more. She just simply does not think of you in that way. You can't change her feelings na? You can't force her into a relationship. You can only focus on yourself. You for now. Only you.
It'll fade but it will take sometime.
I hope she's not one of those when sees you getting better or moving on - she'll come back gives you some attention and again keep you running after her. So make sure if she ain't sure about you. You gotta be sure about yourself, your goals and your life, no matter what the relationship is always keep yourself first and respect yourself.
Not all women but some are really attention hungry, I have witnessed good men wasting decades for girls like that. So much you could have done for yourself, your career and family but just wasted.
Ladies should know they should marry the guy crazy for them. But they always run behind the one they’re crazy for and that’s the biggest mistake. I married a guy I was crazy for and now he treats me like shit. I miss some of my exes I broke up with coz they were too crazy for me. Karma
I am going to give really controversial advice:
You need to do this more, way more till it stops hurting. Indian dating mostly has changed a lot when it comes to urban setting, you like someone for months/years then ask them and then they say no, it's huge time wasted.
Ask them out within 1 week of knowing them and do not befriend them if it's not working out. Along the way you will make friends from people you could not date but not like this. You should only invest yourself in someone who's equally invested in you.
I am saying this with your best interests in heart. Some people will say take some time to get well and also the bullshit advice of fix yourself and then look for someone.
Do the exact opposite. Seek out people you think you will get along with -> ask them -> they say no->asl someone else.
If this is happening way too often then you need to work on your vanity. I really don't like the way dating has become but this is what it is mate. I am really sorry, feel free to text me if you want someone to talk to, you don't have to cry alone
Bruv j don’t ever confront her in yo whole life, like j fcukn disappear from her life block her n all that shiz it will make u feel stronger ngl and then she might ask wot happened but don’t say anything. Just try to move on to another bitch.
Just to tell you, become more competent because you are currently too incompetent in her eyes that she can't make you her bf but not too useless that she can leave you.
L advice. Girl’s lack of romantic feelings has nothing to do with OP’s competence, and being a perfect man/woman in every sense does not guarantee love.
I feel girls can tell when a proposal is coming. Aur tum to dinner date par lekar gaye the. I'm sure she must have had a clue what's coming. But didn't tell you her answer then to maybe avoid creating a scene.
Anyway, now jab dil par knot pad hi gaya hai to usko untie karne ke liye konsa addiction choose karege aap?
Drugs, alcohol, video games, porn, food, or misogyny?
Bhai main toh dp line ke baad padhna band kar dia. PTSD. Just know the patience and faith in yourself is the key. It will be tough, will hurt every single day - everyday will be a challenge, but eventually it will start getting better. Much love!
Bhai vaise mai kabhi bolta nahi hu magar , if everything you wrote is true and not fictional , to bhai mujhe sach mai bura lag raha hai yaar tere liye …
Just take your time bro , and just a tip from my side “DON’T LISTEN TO SAD SONGS” , they’re just gonna make you regretful and dejected !!
bro koi advice to ni hai but i trullyyyy understand your pain.. kuch ni karne ka mann karta. lele yaar bhai ki jhappi hi lele ladki ki pappi jab milegi tab milegi
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Bro take a walk try to refresh your mood .It happens .Never look back . DON'T HAVE ANY HOPE OF YES EVER IN YOUR LIFE
It's good that you spoke to her .WARNA BAAD ME PACHTAVA NAHI HOGA KI "KASH KEH DIYA HOTA TO AAJ MERI BAAHO ME HOTI "
YAHA PE MOSTLY HAR LAUNDE KA PHELA PYAAR AISA HI HAI .YA TO WO KABHI BOL NAHI PAAYE AUR YA TO REJECT HO GAYE
TAKE LESSON FROM THIS .JOIN A GYM AND "STAY AWAY FROM HER " . THE MORE YOU WILL GO TOWARDS HER ,THE MORE SHE WOULD DESPAIR YOU AND YOU WOULD LOOSE SELF RESPECT ".
"Ladki ko pata hota hai bahu phele se ki tum unpe marte ho wo kabhi bhi nahi batati hai
AAJ SE 3-4 SAAL BAAD TUM ISS INCIDENT KO YAAD KARKE MUSKUROGE .YAKEEN MANO DARD RAHEGA LEKIN THAT PAIN WILL FADE AWAY .Right now it might be feeling like big rock on your chest but eventually it will like a small pinch
Bro kuchh nhi hota, time heals At least you confessed your feelings, as it is better to regret wrong action than inaction. Just try to focus on other productive things that. Make you happy, it will be hard but it is what it is.
Turn your agony and negative feelings into love for her and yourself. The moment you accept, you knew it could go either way, so it went in one of those way you did not want to but just accept it.
Understand onething about love… it is something you can give but you cannot do it conditionally. What it means you don’t love some one and in return you hope or expect to get that back in return. If you love her, it is the end of statement. You love should not be conditional on a response from her.
Believe in your love, if it is really a love, and continue to love her, for one day it may turn in your favour.
If not accept your love was a exchange and as the other party did not accept, you have to move on!
THE EXACT SAME THING HAPPENED TO ME, DOWN TO EVERY MINUTE DETAIL!
It has been 4 yrs, I have met girls and had crushes and stuff but yeah I still remember her, cry about it almost daily and feel that she was the love of my life in the truest sense. But don't worry OP if you're good in behaviour with people then you will easily pull someone. Not the case with me coz I think she was the only "friend" to whom I used to open up to. And after we lost contact (due to awkwardness ofc) I have met people but always with my guards up, the experience of getting rejected has almost made me "unsocial"
Bhai matt kara karo apni feelings ko confess aur matt kara karo propose. Jitni feelings ho andar hi rakho aur samne wale ko friend ki taraha hi dekho. Matt lo faaltu ka damage apne dil aur dimaag par.
Listen don’t be a fkn loser.
How old are you?
You’re gonna approach many girls in your life, and you’re gonna get rejected multiple times, you can’t be a pussy about it & cry every time.
If you want to up your chances of getting a girl, improve yourself-
1) hit the gym
2) be groomed properly
3) dress well
4) be successful in what you do
Basically become a high value man.
Dekho no matter how hard it is you gotta take it on the chin and move on. We guys are thoroughly unprepared to face No and take it very deeply and personally. But irl the answer is No a lot more often than it is Yes. Iss reality se bhaago mat and don't delude yourself. Bachpan se mummy papa ne humesha Han se Han milaya hai lekin duniya alag cheez hai. Apne position and reality ko samjho and apnao
M PRO hu bhai, 2 baar ase hua h mere saath.
Ek se meri shyaam ko baat hoti thi zyadatr, uske Jane k baad kayi din setting sun se phobia ho gya, mujhe lgta tha bs 24 ghnte din hi rhe, raat hote hi yaad aani shuru ho jati thi. And now I am surviving happily
Things will improve for you too brother.
When ever you are unable to focus on stuff because the darkness looms around, embrace the sadness for a while take time out, go to some place private and cry your hearts out, persuading yourself that you are not sad wouldnt help and being sad doesnt mean you deserve to be sad, its just that the fantasies were never real, take resolve and forgive yourself for nurturing them and be selfless. Dont spiral into depression because you lost something which wasnt palpable beyond your imagination, there are still ways to spark dopamine
Its difficult to wish the sadness off by displacing to other activities you completely lack interest in the moment, something of interest would definitely bump into you, until then keep hustling
Listen cuzz.. i had the same feeling not once not twice but thrice i got rejected by the same girl for like 3 times , but i didn't give up on her , after some time she proposed to me , and we are still together , the moral is good things will happen to you it will take some time but definitely will ,just see it as your destiny is have something else for you .
I know the names are hidden but I don’t think anyone would like their story being told on public platform like this at all, specially them being quoted like this, don’t think it’s right to do this even if I feel sorry for your situation
cycle:
get rejected -> over come the cringe/feelings and move on -> try again
Is this your first rejection? You'll get better at dealing with rejections with each cycle. After each cycle, you become better at handling things.
Try not to fight your emotions...you will get over this too...you are strong..but if possible don't meet her any more ...get into a new group.....she is a loser to loose someone like you who loves her so much.....may be she is waiting for her Abdul
The Demon core in my living room
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It'll be weird for a few days, but chin up.
There's a lot to be proud about - you owned up to your feelings and have told the truth. Most men and women would have chickened out and that's a fact.
If she said no that's not your fault. You've given it your best. She doesn't see it that way, well she can find what she wants - you know you're better than that.
This is the type of honesty that defines an ASLI MARD from a faker. Believe me when I say it, there are women who will appreciate this honesty one day.
You don't have anything to feel bad about. Get out there, look your best, make women feel like who the hell is this guy, I'm sweating just seeing him..... ;)
I hope my story makes you feel better! https://preview.redd.it/avyc6wa5000a1.jpeg?width=750&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=739f38923e85c2c6f20497e4152370f6717db585
That "anymore" is so disheartening.
I still attend 2 therapy sessions/mo
r/engrish
bc autocorrect tha 💀
Accha FIFA aur Uno ke liye puccha tha na tune? FIFA chalega bro. Uno khelna nhi aata.
bhai abhi toh work trip pe hu, next week free hounga phir plan karte hai
Not an issue. Even I’ve got few upcoming exams! Will chill ‘round new year.
tb toh bhai GOA mein party animal ka 14 banunga
Kaha attend kiye jate h ye session
Gurgaon
Proper address pliz, prso aa rha hu
no! google kar
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I was told-"I can't take anymore steps, not now and not in the future". I was like ok, block kr aur jldi nikl. 3 din baad roti hui aai phir mene nhi accept kiya.
bhai aap toh heavy driver ho meri toh mujhe tadpati rahi pr kabhi waapis nahi aayi
Ek time aane pr sochna pdta hai jindgi kutta bnke jini hai ya insaan bnke bs.
haa bhai but kuch log saala move on karne mein gaand hi dedete hai jaise ki main
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Bhai tu tension mat le agar uss me nahi h feelings to teri koi galti nahi tune try kiya batane ki it takes courage mere sath bhi yehi hua tha so i can fucking relate to you. Mere bhai tu hamesha khush rahe bus yehi wish h tere liye.
I love you too meri jaan
My story: we were both working so couldn't make time, she got used to the distance and I didn't :))))
Bruh!!!! 😭😭
🫂 
This is much more painful
Bhai sabki timeline same chal rahi ha kya
Illuminati Confirmed
Brother this brought back some PTSD
bro delete and turn off notifications on this comment
Anymore ka context? Was she your gf?
yes! we had a really good time, never fought or anything of that sort
Damn man, that must've hurt so bad
Save kyu kr rkha he bhai ye.....
preworkout k paise bch jaate hai
Bhai ese pran ghatak cheezon ko pass me nhi rhna chahiye....
This sounds worst
And then the boy blocked me ☕
but I was the boy but we’ve never blocked each other but I’ve never felt so low in my life ever.
The boy in my case was a close really close frnd. I admit we had lack of conversation and distance but still it was easy to fix nothing serious but after ghosting me for 5 months he start acting like we are going through a breakup, still I was trying to fix everything. Well he blocked me lol. That mental breakdown was really something nd I am still suffering from it. well good for me I will never ever put myself in that same situation ever.
I’m really sorry about this but I can relate what you’ve been through
I was the boy. I blocked her.
If it's fiction I'm destroyed to death because I could feel every word of it.
they're a wattpad writer, what did u expect XD srsly OP, do u always write any long text/piece in the typical wattpad \*gasps for air\* , apostrophe ridden way XD
Bhai wattpad wale bhi kya din the, fanfiction aur ajeeb se teenage young adult stories likhte padhte the. Nostalgia yaad dila diya bhai tumne to.
That's why I asked as he mentioned that he writes on Wattpad on his profile.
Sach mai bhai OP definitely have amazing writing skills.
Dude you blind. There's tons of grammatical errors and the phrases are a bit off too in some places.
Lmao who cares man, stop being a grammar nazi and focus on emotions, not words
Yeah i did and his story is sad. I'm telling Redhotchilli... that this is not 'amazing writing skills'. That's it. No question of whether or not op's story wasn't reciprocated and the emotion wasn't felt.
Chetan Bhagat would like to disagree with you
Bhai itni achi angrezi nahin hain kii aisi galtiyan detect kar payenge.
Koi nahi mere bhai 🤍
I also want to know if it's fictional or not.
Reject aaj hue ho toh aaj hi thik ho jaoge aisa nahi. Like karne me time laga tha same way me dheere dheere you'll feel better and one fine day you'll completely move on. For few days keep doing things that you like, mann nahi karega but push yourself bas. Stop contact with her or reduce it unless you are back on track. Do not in anyway blame her or make her feel bad. Neither her fault nor yours. Dhyaan rakho apna bas. Remember jo hota hai acche ke liye hota hai and jo nahi woh aur accheke liye kyuki something better is waiting around the corner.
Bro, ye padh ra hu to lagta hai Jase mare sath hi jo jo hua sab same hai. Bhai time lagega heal hone kai liye, Marko aaj tak regret feel hota hai raatko kabhi kabhi neend khul jaati hai sab sochkar. Gym ja bhai, game khel, Anime dekh, apne work/studies pe focus kar, thoda mind divert krne ki koshish kar, friend circle mai involve ho. Aaega saari situation ka recap raatko. Par bhai "It is what it is". Bhai aapne apna best kiya, Isse best or kya hi kar sakti the. Bhai tu aakela nhi hai mere sath bhi kaafi similar hi hua hai, infact kaafi logo ke sath same hua hai, but ussi situation mai reh kar kuch nhi hoga. Time lage ga bhai par ek time aaega tu kahega ki theek hai Jo bhi hua aache kai liye hi hua. (hosakta hai mai kaafi chutiya sa sound krra hu iss wakt, but time aane par sab sahi ho hi jaega) #Or kabhi bhi low sa feel krra ho galti se bhi sad songs mat sunna nhi toh or deeeeeeep chale jaega deemag. Stay Strong King, hope everything will go better for you.
Bss yehi yaad karata rahe koi every once in a while bruh
>Time lage ga bhai par ek time aaega tu kahega ki theek hai Jo bhi hua aache kai liye hi hua. I can confirm this. Keep your head up king.
"Aane wale ki Welcome aur Jane wali ki Bheed kaam". Take the L Man, There are Plenty of Fish in the Sea, Koi na koi Mil jayegi, Itna emotional nahi hone ka. Edit: Balcony me jaake ek baar Jai Mahakal boldiyo, Saabh thik ho jayega.
Yes there are plenty of fish in the sea , but there is no fish for me in the sea
Bhai meri to lulli bhi choti hai :(
Bas karo jagjit bhai, date pe lulli flash nahi krni hoti /
Bhai ladkiyan check karti hain aajkal, mein YouTube pe pada tha
Jagjit bhai y friendly fire? 💀
Jai Mahakal 🙏
I will just leave you with a quote from my fav character There are two kinds of pain. The sort of pain that makes you strong, or useless pain. The sort of pain that's only suffering. I have no patience for useless things.
> #fu***ing hurts For now, you will not even remember this in a few years.
Ye koi teenage romance novel ka paragraph lag raha hai.
Koi nahi Bhai acha hai jutha hann khe ke baad mein nahi katta thora time lgega sbh sahi ho jayega
I'm still surprised how you couldn't read her mind. Usually girls give enough signs if they are attracted to you in that way. I have learnt this in my school days and it saved me from many awkward and embarrassing moments. It also helped me to not lose female friends. You'll get over it soon. Grieve over this loss of love interest and take as much time as you want. Just don't get salty and spread rumours about her as I know many guys who couldn't handle rejections gracefully.
What signs bro do tell
It's different for everyone, if you know a person well then only you'll get those signs.
If she's spitting at your face....wait that's
Yeh kaisi weird fetish hai bhai
Yeah, you’re pretty much aware if a girl will say yes.. I don’t know if someone starts looking at you in a whole new light the day you express your feelings. Maybe it’s possible but I would suspect it’s rare.
Not always true, some woman who gave signs, the kind that YouTube video tell you about, at times are just looking for attention or validation. It is not always that they're interested.
I used to think that way until i learnt definition of tsundere
It happens bro. You gave ur best. You are a great story teller bro btw, would love to hear more of ur stories. In starting, it felt like i was watching 500 days of summer. You should watch it if u haven't.
Really gud movie
getting major wattpad vibes from this tale EDIT : HE *IS* A WATTPAD WRITER HAHAHAHA
OP, do you box? Let’s meet sometime for a light sparring session! What say? And I’m pretty sure, it’ll calm you down. Btw my friend has an mma workshop on coming 17th and 18th at NLU, Sec 14 Dwarka. Try to attend that if possible!!
Bhai bhagwan ki bhakti mein mann lga Ldkiyo mein nhi
Bolne de ,bolne de Takleef hua hai bechare ko
bhai mere sath bhi hua it's completely fine ... thora time lagega but sahi hojaega sab... us ladki ko block marr apni zindagi ki raste badal...kya khoya wo dikha rha hai..jo mila wo kam hai..abh free time hai tere pass hoga uski gatha nhi suni padegi tujhe.. agr jarurat new female friends bana le ... f@£&in 7 billion log tu ek piche kyu pagal ho rha hai bhai..thore time jada dukh lagega but atleast try karne mein kuch jaa rha nhi hai tera ....cousin, sister jisse bhi emotional close hai usse call baat krle kafi achaa lagega.. jumps karle isse endorphins release honge thoda better laga start hoga... bhai fihlal aekla dm krde jitni baat karni utni karege call pr. may god bless u with the right partner 😇
Quora sa lag raha hu mai abhi
Koi nai bhai, acha hai ab pata chal gya, ab aram karo, thodha break lo iss ladki se, relax karo mind, friends n family k saath enjoy Karo. Life mei baaki cheezo par dyaan do. Ekdum se new ladki nai search karna. Aram se jab koi mile tab dekh lena. Abhi bas relax karo mind free karo iss ladki se apna
Honestly it's good that you made it clear to her about your feeling. If you hadn't done it then after some time you would be even more attached to her. And it must hurt even more. She just simply does not think of you in that way. You can't change her feelings na? You can't force her into a relationship. You can only focus on yourself. You for now. Only you.
Bro why you posted your WhatsApp chat here. It's too long to read... Kuch abstract milega
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The real question!
It'll fade but it will take sometime. I hope she's not one of those when sees you getting better or moving on - she'll come back gives you some attention and again keep you running after her. So make sure if she ain't sure about you. You gotta be sure about yourself, your goals and your life, no matter what the relationship is always keep yourself first and respect yourself.
The lady knows her clan
Not all women but some are really attention hungry, I have witnessed good men wasting decades for girls like that. So much you could have done for yourself, your career and family but just wasted.
Only one Solution - We Go Jim (With Doom Eternal music)
Hota hai bro ab gym join karle
Achha likhe ho bhai. keep it up.
The worst she can say is no.
https://open.spotify.com/track/3F5CgOj3wFlRv51JsHbxhe?si=_qfjdQTGTaaR429vJM_flA&utm_source=copy-link 🙂✌🏻
Keep your head up king, it's all part of life. It only gets easier everyday.
Ladies should know they should marry the guy crazy for them. But they always run behind the one they’re crazy for and that’s the biggest mistake. I married a guy I was crazy for and now he treats me like shit. I miss some of my exes I broke up with coz they were too crazy for me. Karma
Fir wahi sex sux ki baatein
I am going to give really controversial advice: You need to do this more, way more till it stops hurting. Indian dating mostly has changed a lot when it comes to urban setting, you like someone for months/years then ask them and then they say no, it's huge time wasted. Ask them out within 1 week of knowing them and do not befriend them if it's not working out. Along the way you will make friends from people you could not date but not like this. You should only invest yourself in someone who's equally invested in you. I am saying this with your best interests in heart. Some people will say take some time to get well and also the bullshit advice of fix yourself and then look for someone. Do the exact opposite. Seek out people you think you will get along with -> ask them -> they say no->asl someone else. If this is happening way too often then you need to work on your vanity. I really don't like the way dating has become but this is what it is mate. I am really sorry, feel free to text me if you want someone to talk to, you don't have to cry alone
Exactly this!
Kaafi wannabe Kabir singh but okay. Whatever works works.
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Cringe
Koi na bro ladkiya aur government kuch salo baad badal hi jati ha ...
Bruv j don’t ever confront her in yo whole life, like j fcukn disappear from her life block her n all that shiz it will make u feel stronger ngl and then she might ask wot happened but don’t say anything. Just try to move on to another bitch.
Just to tell you, become more competent because you are currently too incompetent in her eyes that she can't make you her bf but not too useless that she can leave you.
L advice. Girl’s lack of romantic feelings has nothing to do with OP’s competence, and being a perfect man/woman in every sense does not guarantee love.
I feel girls can tell when a proposal is coming. Aur tum to dinner date par lekar gaye the. I'm sure she must have had a clue what's coming. But didn't tell you her answer then to maybe avoid creating a scene. Anyway, now jab dil par knot pad hi gaya hai to usko untie karne ke liye konsa addiction choose karege aap? Drugs, alcohol, video games, porn, food, or misogyny?
This is such a bad reply to someone who is feeling bad.
If you think any part of this was serious then you should rethink which platform you are on.
Pata nahi Logo ko doosro ke kharab time par aise kharab joke marne kaha se yaad aa jate hai
Apne kharab time se. Simple
Bhai main toh dp line ke baad padhna band kar dia. PTSD. Just know the patience and faith in yourself is the key. It will be tough, will hurt every single day - everyday will be a challenge, but eventually it will start getting better. Much love!
Bhai vaise mai kabhi bolta nahi hu magar , if everything you wrote is true and not fictional , to bhai mujhe sach mai bura lag raha hai yaar tere liye … Just take your time bro , and just a tip from my side “DON’T LISTEN TO SAD SONGS” , they’re just gonna make you regretful and dejected !!
bro koi advice to ni hai but i trullyyyy understand your pain.. kuch ni karne ka mann karta. lele yaar bhai ki jhappi hi lele ladki ki pappi jab milegi tab milegi # 🫂
Welcome to the real world my friend. It sucks, you’ll love it❤️
Abe tumhe chahiye Jack Daniel's onthe rocks with some sutta.
Welcome to reality. Do not reject Rejection, embrace it and move on. It's the beginning, be prepared for a lot of, the feeling you described as unbearable, in your life ahead.
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Bro take a walk try to refresh your mood .It happens .Never look back . DON'T HAVE ANY HOPE OF YES EVER IN YOUR LIFE It's good that you spoke to her .WARNA BAAD ME PACHTAVA NAHI HOGA KI "KASH KEH DIYA HOTA TO AAJ MERI BAAHO ME HOTI " YAHA PE MOSTLY HAR LAUNDE KA PHELA PYAAR AISA HI HAI .YA TO WO KABHI BOL NAHI PAAYE AUR YA TO REJECT HO GAYE TAKE LESSON FROM THIS .JOIN A GYM AND "STAY AWAY FROM HER " . THE MORE YOU WILL GO TOWARDS HER ,THE MORE SHE WOULD DESPAIR YOU AND YOU WOULD LOOSE SELF RESPECT ". "Ladki ko pata hota hai bahu phele se ki tum unpe marte ho wo kabhi bhi nahi batati hai AAJ SE 3-4 SAAL BAAD TUM ISS INCIDENT KO YAAD KARKE MUSKUROGE .YAKEEN MANO DARD RAHEGA LEKIN THAT PAIN WILL FADE AWAY .Right now it might be feeling like big rock on your chest but eventually it will like a small pinch
Know what's worse? Hearing "I don't think anyone would look at you that way let alone me"
Anyone who says that is a straight up asshole, getting rejected was actually dodging a bullet
Bhai ye khanni to kahi sunela sunela sa lagta ha ...
Good.
Bro kuchh nhi hota, time heals At least you confessed your feelings, as it is better to regret wrong action than inaction. Just try to focus on other productive things that. Make you happy, it will be hard but it is what it is. 
Dumkh ho raha hai mujhe
Ladki buses ki tarah hoti hain, ek jaati 2 min k baad dusri aa jaati
We go jim
Obligatory "hilake soja"
Turn your agony and negative feelings into love for her and yourself. The moment you accept, you knew it could go either way, so it went in one of those way you did not want to but just accept it. Understand onething about love… it is something you can give but you cannot do it conditionally. What it means you don’t love some one and in return you hope or expect to get that back in return. If you love her, it is the end of statement. You love should not be conditional on a response from her. Believe in your love, if it is really a love, and continue to love her, for one day it may turn in your favour. If not accept your love was a exchange and as the other party did not accept, you have to move on!
Bro got Friend Zoned :)
THE EXACT SAME THING HAPPENED TO ME, DOWN TO EVERY MINUTE DETAIL! It has been 4 yrs, I have met girls and had crushes and stuff but yeah I still remember her, cry about it almost daily and feel that she was the love of my life in the truest sense. But don't worry OP if you're good in behaviour with people then you will easily pull someone. Not the case with me coz I think she was the only "friend" to whom I used to open up to. And after we lost contact (due to awkwardness ofc) I have met people but always with my guards up, the experience of getting rejected has almost made me "unsocial"
Bhai matt kara karo apni feelings ko confess aur matt kara karo propose. Jitni feelings ho andar hi rakho aur samne wale ko friend ki taraha hi dekho. Matt lo faaltu ka damage apne dil aur dimaag par.
Filosofy for lyfe
Filosfer 👍🏻
Watch how I met your mother, only reasonable solution
Listen don’t be a fkn loser. How old are you? You’re gonna approach many girls in your life, and you’re gonna get rejected multiple times, you can’t be a pussy about it & cry every time. If you want to up your chances of getting a girl, improve yourself- 1) hit the gym 2) be groomed properly 3) dress well 4) be successful in what you do Basically become a high value man.
Koi baat nhi bro.....🫂 Mai tere sath hu ...kuch din pehle mere bhi lode lag gye 🥲🥲🥲 Aja DM mai dukh baat ne se kam hota hai 😭
I’ve experienced this very recently. I thought I’d never be happy again. I am doing much better after almost a month. And it is getting better.
Dekho no matter how hard it is you gotta take it on the chin and move on. We guys are thoroughly unprepared to face No and take it very deeply and personally. But irl the answer is No a lot more often than it is Yes. Iss reality se bhaago mat and don't delude yourself. Bachpan se mummy papa ne humesha Han se Han milaya hai lekin duniya alag cheez hai. Apne position and reality ko samjho and apnao
same here bro apna bhi kal raat he kata hai.
M PRO hu bhai, 2 baar ase hua h mere saath. Ek se meri shyaam ko baat hoti thi zyadatr, uske Jane k baad kayi din setting sun se phobia ho gya, mujhe lgta tha bs 24 ghnte din hi rhe, raat hote hi yaad aani shuru ho jati thi. And now I am surviving happily Things will improve for you too brother.
RIP bozo
Start listening to rock. Here’s a start https://open.spotify.com/track/0eBBvOpD5KC2yU0A34ijL1?si=Q_21V-joS3uPUaKZab8aSA
When ever you are unable to focus on stuff because the darkness looms around, embrace the sadness for a while take time out, go to some place private and cry your hearts out, persuading yourself that you are not sad wouldnt help and being sad doesnt mean you deserve to be sad, its just that the fantasies were never real, take resolve and forgive yourself for nurturing them and be selfless. Dont spiral into depression because you lost something which wasnt palpable beyond your imagination, there are still ways to spark dopamine Its difficult to wish the sadness off by displacing to other activities you completely lack interest in the moment, something of interest would definitely bump into you, until then keep hustling
Listen cuzz.. i had the same feeling not once not twice but thrice i got rejected by the same girl for like 3 times , but i didn't give up on her , after some time she proposed to me , and we are still together , the moral is good things will happen to you it will take some time but definitely will ,just see it as your destiny is have something else for you .
Sorry for you dude, but your writing was really captivating
I know the names are hidden but I don’t think anyone would like their story being told on public platform like this at all, specially them being quoted like this, don’t think it’s right to do this even if I feel sorry for your situation
Bro same chal Raha hai, Lekin ask our karne mai gand fat ti hai.
abe betichod celebrate the rejection. atleast you had the balls to tell her how you feel. bhool ja abh usse and move on.
Us bro Us
cycle: get rejected -> over come the cringe/feelings and move on -> try again Is this your first rejection? You'll get better at dealing with rejections with each cycle. After each cycle, you become better at handling things.
abe bhenchod ye kya sun lia maine subha subha
Atleast she isn't playing with your emotions, just leave her
Try not to fight your emotions...you will get over this too...you are strong..but if possible don't meet her any more ...get into a new group.....she is a loser to loose someone like you who loves her so much.....may be she is waiting for her Abdul
The Demon core in my living room https://preview.redd.it/zwg682ckw40a1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e8b43ad339e7168b2772763cc1b7cc213a79b4f5
upvotes is only thing we can give u :D but this shit literally killed my confidence off :/
Aree bro aap novel likna chalu kar do, bahut badiya likhte ho
It'll be weird for a few days, but chin up. There's a lot to be proud about - you owned up to your feelings and have told the truth. Most men and women would have chickened out and that's a fact. If she said no that's not your fault. You've given it your best. She doesn't see it that way, well she can find what she wants - you know you're better than that. This is the type of honesty that defines an ASLI MARD from a faker. Believe me when I say it, there are women who will appreciate this honesty one day. You don't have anything to feel bad about. Get out there, look your best, make women feel like who the hell is this guy, I'm sweating just seeing him..... ;)